BOSS; to start with husband remains the boss, but after a few years both compete to hold the power as boss, and after some struggle it is the intelligence, advice given which brings good results, whether it is the husband or the wife, is accepted to move on smoothly and mostly in this case, if the wife is well educated and comes up from a well to do family like business or bureaucratic one, then it is the wife who rules, and in old age it is the wife who rules as a boss whosoever intelligent and powerful husband may be, of course, with few exceptions.