WHY IN THE SAME FAMILY, CHILDREN ARE BORN WITH DIFFERENT BEHAVIOURS BESIDES COLOUR, SHAPE, VOICE ETC. I THINK IT GOES WITH MOTHER’S POSTURE AT THE TIME OF PREGNANCY. IF THE COUPLE CONTINUES FIGHTING, POSSIBLY THE CHILD WILL HAVE AGITATIONAL BEHAVIOUR. IF THE MOTHER IS LIVING IN HAPPIER ENVIRONMENTS AND WORRILESS, THE CHILD WILL POSSIBLY BE OF BETTER IMPROVED COLOUR AND WILL ALSO BE A HAPPY AND JOLLY ONE. IF THIS IS A FACT, THEN WE MAY BELIEVE THAT IT DEPENDS ON MAN’S CREATION, THINKING, BEHAVIOUR ETC. HOW AND WHAT TYPE OF CHILD THEY WISH TO GET BORN. THEN THE QUESTION ARISES, WILL THE COUPLE HAVE PATIENCE TO KEEP UPTO THEIR WISH AND NOT/NEVER GET ENRAGED IN THEIR USUAL HABITS AND MODE OF LIVING. HUMAN BEINGS AS WE ARE, WE DIFFERE IN MANY WAYS IN OUR THINKING, BEHAVIOUR, ACTIONS ETC. AND TO EXPECT THAT NO ONE OF THE COUPLE WILL NOT ENGAGE IN FOR 9 MONTHS OF PREGNANCY, LESS OR MORE BY A FEW DAYS, WILL THE MOTHER BE ABLE TO ADJUST TO THE NEW SITUATION AND ENVIRONMENTS IN THE HOPE THAT SHE MUST HAVE A CHILD OF HER LIKING. I THINK TO PRIVY ONESELF IN SUCH A HOPE IS NOT AT ALL POSSIBLE DESPITE THAT BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE WISH, THINK AND ACT IN THE SAME MANNER NEVER TO GET INTO CONFLICT, RAGE, ACCUSATIONS ETC. FURTHER I THINK IT WILL BE VERY DIFFICULT FOR THE WIFE TO BEAR THE ORDEALS OF PREGNANCY AND FOR THE HUSBAND AS WELL TO OWN ADDITIONAL BURDEN AND RESPONSIBILITIES. NEVERTHELESS WE FIND THAT GENERATION AFTER GENERATION IS GETTING MORE INTELLIGENT AND IS GETTING USED TO OR ADAPT TO THE EXISTING AND NEW INVENTIONS OF THEIR PRESENT AGE, MUCH SWIFTER AND THEIR MOBILITY IS MUCH MORE CONVENIENT THAN THAT OF THE EARLIER GENERATION. THUS I COME TO BELIEVE THAT WHAT PARENTS DO IN THEIR VOCATIONS AND IN THE ENVIRONMENTS THEY LIVE IN, DO NECESSARILY INFLUENCE THE CHILDREN TO ATTAIN CAPABILITY AND CAPACITY TO ADAPT TO THE NEW SITUATIONS. IN CONCLUSION, I THINK, VOCATION, BEHAVIOUR OF PARENTS, ENVIRONMENTS ETC. DO PLAY THE MAJOR ROLE TO MANIFEST DIFFERENT BEHAVIOURS OF THE CHILDREN. I THINK IT IS A COMBINATION OF VOCATIONS, ATTITUDES, BEHAVIOUR, ENVIRONMENTS, ORGANS AND THEIR DEVELOPMENT AT DIFFERENT TIMES, SHAPE THE BEHAVIOUR OF THE NEW BORN CHILD AND THEREAFTER HIS/HER UPBRINGING, ENVIRONMENTS, FRIENDS, COMPANIONS AND SOCIETY AT LARGE CERTAINLY MOULD ONE’S ATTITUDES, BEHAVIOUR AND PERSONALITY ADDED WITH RESPONSIBILITIES AND CIRCUMSTANCES IN WHICH HE/SHE LIVES AND OPERATES. ………………………………………………………………………………………….. by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept cost free marriage bureau, founded in 2015. Contacts: vasdevloond at 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com CHAPTER-II WHY IN THE SAME FAMILY, CHILDREN ARE BORN WITH
DIFFERENT BEHAVIOURS BESIDES COLOUR, SHAPE, VOICE
ETC.
2ND CHAPTER
-WE FIND POPULATIONS IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES WITH
VARIABLE FEATURES IN COLOUR, HEIGHT, BODY STRUCTURE,
DIFFERENT HABITS, DIFFERENT CULTURES, FIGHTERS,
BELLIGERENT AND PEACEFUL/QUIET RTC,
-WHEN IT IS A REALITY, THEN WHAT ARE THE
FACTORS WHICH
INFLUENCE OR FORM SUCH DIFFERENCES?
-LET ME REPLY ON ALL OR MOST OF THE QUESTIONS ONE
BY ONE:
1. COLOUR: IS DUE TO GENETIC AND CLIMATIC EFFECT. THOSE
WHO LIVE IN EXTREME HOT SUN, THEY TURN BLACK AND
THOSE WHO KIVE IN COLD CLIMATES LIKE AS ON MOUNTAINS
AND/OR HILLY AREAS, ARE GENERALLY WHITE.
- MIGRATION; HAS THEN GIVEN A MIX
- INTERCASTE MARRIAGE HAVE ALSO RESULTED IN BROWNISH
OR KEEPING ALMOST THE SAME COLOUR OF FATHER OR MOTHER
OR A MIXED ONE.
2. HEIGHT; HAS TO DO WITH HARD WORK AND STRUGGLE ONE PUTS
IN, PRESENTLY ALSO BY INHABITANTS IN CITIES GET TO GYM,
TAKE YOGA, SWIM, FAST WALK, RUNS ETC. ETC.
-NUTRITION: WHAT ONE EATS AND OF WHAT QUALITY ONE EATS ETC.
-GENETIC OF COURSE IS THE PRIMARY FACTOR.
-GENERALLY IN COLD COUNTRIES, PEOPLE ARE HIGHER WHILE IN
WARM COUNTRIES PEOPLE ARE SHORT STATURED. BUT AGAIN
WE FIND VARIATION, AFRICANS ARE TALLER, THOSE LIVING IN
USA IT IS SAID THAT THEIR HEIGHT INCREASES EVERY YEAR BY 1 CM
ANSWER TO ALL THESE ONE CAN DUDUCE IS MOSTLY THE EFFECT
OF CLIMATE, STRENOUS WORKING, NUTRITION ETC.
3. STURDY AND STRONG; GENERALLY THOSE WHO LIVE IN COLD CLIMATE
AS ALSO THE VILLAGERS ARE GENERALLY STRONG AND STURDY DUE TO
CLIMATE AND HARDER WORK THEY HAVE TO DO.
4. INTELLIGENCE; WHICH IS SAID TO BE INBORN AND DEVELOPED BY EDUCATION,
SKILLS, ENVIRONMENTS, ASSOCIATION ETC. ETC.
IT IS ALSO NOT DUE TO BIRTH ONLY, BUT IS ALSO DUE TO EDUCATION, SKILLS,
EVIRONMENTS, ASSOCATIONS ETC. BUT ALSO IN A COUNTRY WHICH IS MORE
DEVELOPED THAN OTHERS WHERE THERE HAVE AND ARE TAKING PLACE RAPIDLY
TECHNICAL DEVELOPMENTS AND INVENTIONS
IT ALSO HAS TO DO WITH THE QUAITY EDUCATION, SKILL DEVELOPMENTS
ETC. WHICH ARE AVAILABLE AT HIGHER LEVEL A COUNTRY THAN IN OT
COUNTRIES.
5. LOGIC; IS INBORN AND IT CAN BE USED IN ALL SPHERES OF LIFE IRRESPCTIVE
OF WHERE ONE IS, IN WHICH ENVIRONMENTS ONE IS LIVING ETC. LOGIC INDUCE ARE
DOING DAILY AT PRESENT ETC. ETC.
SUCH AND MUCH MORE ARE THE VARIANTS, NO NEED TO CITE THOSE, BUT THE FACT REMAINS
THAT DESPITE ALL THESE OBSERVATIONS, STILL THERE REMAIN SOME CURIOUS AND UNKNOWN
FACTS FOR WHICH IT IS DIFFICULT TO ANSWER, DESPITE THE FACT THAT TO CHANGE COLOUR
ETC. WE HUMAN BEINGS HAVE DEVELOPED ALTERNATIVES:
1. INTER BREED MATING
2. NOURSIHING OF SPURMS OF MALE IN FEMALE
3. EXERCISE, FOOD, CLIMATE, TYPE OF WORK, ETC. DO HELP TO MAKE ON STRONGER,
BIGGER IN HEIGHT ETC.
HOWEVRER LOT OF SECRETS REMAIN WHICH GO UNANSWERED:
-HOW VOICE OF DIFFERENT CHILDREN FROM THE SAME FAMILY DIFFERS
-WHY THERE SHAPES DIFFER
-WHY INTELLIGENCE DIFFERS
-WHY TRAITS DIFFER, SOME FIGHT, SOME LOVE, SOME ARE TALKATIVE, SOME SING,
SOME ARE INVENTIVE, SOME ARE LOGICAL ETC. ETC.
-WHY IN ANIMALS WHO GIVE BIRTH TO 4-5 KIDS, COLOURS ARE DIFFERENT, SOME ARE
SPOTTED ALL OVER WITH DIFFERENT COLOURS. WHILE ALL ARE BRED IN THE WOMB TOGETHER
AND ARE BORN TOGETHER, ALSO WE FIND IN SOME MOTHERS WHO GIVE BIRTH TO TWINS
OR MORE. EACH ONE THOUGH BORN TOGETHER ARE ALL ALTOGETHER DIFFERENT FROM EACH
OTHER.
-PERHAPS THE ONLY PLAUSIBLE AND LOGICAL ANSWER SEEMS TO BE THAT
-EMVIRONMENTS
-CONDITION OF THE MOTHER, HAPPY, ANGRY, ANNOYED, CONFLICTING
ACCUSING. VINDICTIVE ETC.
-VOCATION OF PARENTS
-INTAKE OF DIFFERENT FOODS AT DIFFERENT TIMES
-CLIMATIC CHANGE
-EFFORTS AND ASPIRATIONS OF MOTHER IN PREGNANCY
AND PERHAPS MUCH MORE UNKNOWN TO US, DO INFLUENCE THE SHAPE, COLOUR, TRAITS.
VOICE ETC. OF THE CHILDREN FROM THE SAME FAMILY.,THAT ALL THESE ARE THE CREATION
OF GOD, NO NEED TO EXPLOR AND/QUESTION ALL SUCH HAPPENINGS USELESSLY..
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vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau.
Founded in 2015: contacts: vasdevloond at 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com