TO TAKE UP A NEW JOB, TO PERFORM IN COMPLETE EFFICIENCY AND TO MEET THE EXPECTATIONS OF HIGHER-UPS AND SHOW RESULTS IN THE QUICKEST AND SHORTEST TIME POSSIBLE, ARE ESSENTIAL ONES TO PROVE ONE’S WORTH, RELIABILITY AND DEPENDANCE. 1. FIRST AND FOREMOST IMPORTANT WILL BE TO KNOW FULLY WELL WHAT IS THE MEMORANDUM/ CONSTITUTION OF THE ORGANISATION AND WHAT ARE THE RULES AND REGULATIONS SPECIFIED BOTH FOR RUNNING/ PROGRESS OF THE O .....Read more

CAN AMBITIONS AND LUST BE EVER ELIMINATED? -THE QUESTION ARISES SHOULD THESE BE ELIMINATED AND WHY; -IF THESE SO-CALLED WEAKNESSES ARE ELIMINATED THEN THERE WILL BE NO MINE AND THINE, NO GREED, NO TEMPTATIONS FOR BEAUTY, ATTRACTIONS, CUMULATION FOR COMFORTS ETC.ETC. -TO SOME EXTENT IT HAPPENS IF ONE DOES NOT MARRY OR GETS REMOVED THE FOETUS -IT ALSO HAPPENS WITH SAINTS -IT CAN ALSO HAPPEN WHEN ONE DOES NOT LIVE WITH ALL LIVING .....Read more

SHOULD ONE HAVE CHILDREN OR NOT? -IT IS AN EMOTIONAL URGE WITH BOY AND THE GIRL TO HAVE CHILDREN, IF NOT MORE AT LEAST ONE -THOUGH CHILD/CHILDREN GIVE RESPONSIBILITY BUT THE CHILD/CHILDREN DO NECESSITATE TO WORK HARD AND HARD TO DISCHARGE THESE ADDITIONAL RESPONSIBIITIES -AS ALSO TO FULFIL THE AMBITIONS AND GOAL WHICH THE PARENTS WERE NOT ABLE TO ACHIEVE -ALSO HARLDLY ONE WANTS TO GIVE AWAY WHAT ONE HAS EARNED DURING LIFE TIME .....Read more

IS POVERTY A CURSE OR A BOON, HOW TO DEFINE IT AND AMPLIFY IT -ESSENTIAL IT IS TO ANALYSE AND PROVIDE SOLUTIONS AND ANSWERS TO WORST AND MISERABLE CONDITIONS WHEREBY ONE IS BORN. -THERE IS NO DOUBT, IN THE CONTEXT OF PRESENT ENVIRONMENTS AND PRESENT SITUATIONS TO BE BORN IN A POOR FAMILY IS TAKEN AND ACCEPTED AS A CURSE, WITH NO RECOURSE LEFT EXCEPT TO ACCEPT IT AS A DESTINY HOWSOEVER MISERABLE IT IS AND HOW IT SH .....Read more

LIFE HAS BECOME A ROUTINE -DO NOT KNOW HOW TO BOOST IT UP -WHAT FOR AND WHY -WHOLE LIFE WE HAVE STRUGGLED AND REACHED A SITUATION AS EACH ONE HAS -EACH ONE WOULD HAVE PERHAPS GOT A HOUSE OF HIS OWN, CUMULATED SOME ASSETS IN CASH, STOCKS ETC, ETC, -WOULD HAVE DONE ALL THAT HIS CHILDREN REACH A GOOD RATHER COVETED GOALS WHICH SOMEHOW ONE COULD NOT ACHIEVE IN ONE’S LIFE -ALL ARE SETTLED IN THEIR LIFE WITH THEIR FAMILIES AND AL .....Read more

KYA THAI VOH DIN JAB MEIN BAN THAN KAR PROCESSION KAI SAATH -TUMHARAI GHAR TUMAIN MILNAI AUR TUMHAIN APNAI GHAR LANAI KAI LIYAI AAYA -KYA THEEN KHUSHYAN AUR KAISSAI BAJ RAHEE THEEN SHAIHNAYA SURILLE AVAZ MAIN BHEE -BAS PHIR THEE INTENZAR TUMHAIN SIRF MILMAIN AUR DEKHNAI KEE -BHARPOOR THA UMANGON SAI MEIN AUR INTEZAR BHEE THEE BAIHAD -TUMHAIN MILNAIN AUR GHUNGAT UTARNAI KAI LIYAI -AUR TU BHEE KAR RAHEE THEE INTEZAR MEREE BAHUT KHUSHEE MA .....Read more

ISHWAR’S BIRTHDAY CELEBRATIONS AND GREETINGS ON 31ST MARCH 2024 -I HAVE COME HERE WELL DRESSED ALONGWITH RELATIONS AND FRIENDS TO CELEBRATE YOUR 84TH BIRTHDAY TODAY. -HOLDING I AM IN ONE HAND BOUQUET OF FLOWERS AND IN ANOTHER WELL DECORATED GARLAND AS WELL -WHAT A WONDERFUL SCENE I SEE AROUND -MELODIOUS VOICE OF FLUTES/SHEHNAYEES -SCENT OF FLOWERS SO BEAUTIFUL AND SHINING ALL OVER -ALONGSIDE THERE IS RIVULET WHEREIN WATER .....Read more

-ZINDGEEE KHUSHEE KEE HAI -KHUSHEE SAI JEENA HAI HUMAIN -MUSHKLAIN TO AANEE HAIN -KARNA HAI HUMAIN HUL UNKO ZAROOR -AUR AGAR NAN HO PAYAIN TO BHOOL JANA HAI UNAIN -YAD RAKHNA YEH ZAROOR -KOYEE CHEEZ HAMESHA KAI LIYAI REHTEE NAHEEN -GAMEE AND KHUSHIYAN AATEE JATEE HAIN ZAROOR -DIN AUR RAAT KEE TARAH HEE -ZANDGEE HAI TO YEH DAUR CHALTA RAHAI GA ZAROOR -PHIKAR HUMAIN KARNA NAHIN -NIBHANA HAR AVSAR AUR HAR VAKAT KHUSHEE MAIN .....Read more

HARD TIMES SHOULD NEVER REPEAT. SO PATHETIC AND UNCONTROLLABLE THESE ARE, MOST DIFFICULT ARE THESE TO EXPRESS EXCEPT TO GET MOVED WITH AND WEAP BITTERLY AND UNCONTROLLABLY. -I AM FOND OF OLD SONGS -INCIDENTLY OPENED IDOL AND HEARD A VERY PATHETIC AND TOUCHING SONG FROM A MISERABLE BOY WHO SANG ‘MUJHAI MAUT SAI GILA NAHIN MUJHAI KISSMAT NAI MARE’ -HE NARRATED THE STORY OF HIS LIFE AND THE HARDEST TIMES OF LIFE HE HAD T .....Read more

ADJUSTMENT IS KEY TO LIVE A LIFE BETTER. -ONE MAY ASK WHY NOT HAPPIER -IT IS NECESSARY, AS TO REMAIN HAPPY IS BASED ON MANY FACTORS: - THINKING - ACTION - CONSCIOUSNESS - ATTITUDE - NEVER TO GET ANGRY - NEVER FEEL JEALOUS - BEAR NO EGO - CRITICISE NONE, LOVE ALL - FIGHT NEVER- BELIEVE THAT FAILURES ARE EXPERIENCE, NO REGRET, NO DESPAIR BELIEVE THAT MAN IS A SOCIAL BEING, HENCE TO LIVE IN TOGETHERNESS AND RELATIONSHIP .....Read more

BIRTH DAY GREETINGS TO MRS ISHWAR BY VASDEVLOOND ON 24TH MARCH 2024 -I HAVE SEEN MANY OTHERS BUT NEVER FOUND ANYONE LIKE YOU -HOW BUEAUTIFUL YOU ARE AND HOW GLOWING IS YOUR FACE -WHAT TO TALK OF YOU. EVEN MOON AND STARTS ARE SHY OF YOU -AND THE SUN HIDES ITSELF BEHIND THE CLOUDS TO SHY AWAY -BEWARE WHEREVER YOU GO, LET NOT OTHERS ALLOW TO INTERFERE WITH YOU AND WITH YOUR BEAUTY AS WELL -WHENEVER I SEE I WONDER THE MOST -IN AST .....Read more

NEVER BE AFRAID OF DIFFICUTIES, NEVER BE PREMEDITATED, DASH INTO THESE AND ENJOY THE RESULTS MOSTLY IN WONDERS. --CHALAI HUM DELHI SAI PARIS KEE TARAF -GARMEE KEE CHHUTIAN BEETANAI KAI LIYAI -PAUHCH KAR PATA CHALA -KEH PARIS MAIN TO ZABARDAST SARDEE HAI, WINTER SAI BHEE ZYADA -DIL UDAS HUA, CHALAI HUM DEAUVILLE KEE TARAF -JAB PAUHNCHAI HUM BEACH PAR -DEKHA LOGON KO HAJOOM MAIN BAITHAI HUAI -YOGGING PEHNAI HUAI, COFFE MAIN BAITHAI HUAI .....Read more

LOVE -IT IS MOSTLY RELATED TO SEX -AS SUCH FIND THIS NATURAL URGE IN ALL HUMAN BEINGS -BUT IN FACT IT IS NOT ALL -LOVE DEVELOPS WHEN EYES ATTRACT, HEART GETS THRILLED EMOTIONS BECOME UNCONTROLLABLE AND ONE FEELS THE URGE TO HAVE IT BY ALL MEANS.. -BESIDES ONE ENJOYS LOVE IN VARIOUS WASYS AND MEANS LIKE -CREATIONS WHICH HAPPEN IN THE FORM OF CHILDREN, -CREATION OF ARTISTIC ITEMS LIKE STATU .....Read more

IS LIFE A COMPULSION OR A PLEASURE? -AT VARIOUS STAGES IT IS A PLEASURE AND -AT DIFFERENT STAGES IT IS A COPMPULSION -WHEN ONE FACES SETBACKS. LOSSES, SHOCKS OF LIFE. UNBEARABLE RESPONSIBILITIES ETC. TO LIVE LIFE BECOMES A COMPULSION -WHILE -WHEN ONE PROGRESSES, ACHIEVES SUCCSS, PROMINENCE, APPRECIATION, ACCEPTANCE ORGANISES OR PARTICIPATES IN VARIOUS FUNCTIONS, ONE TAKES AND ACCEPTS LIFE AS A PLEASURE -MORESO, PASSING E .....Read more

-IN GENERAL IT IS TRUE, BUT NOT ALWAYS -FIRST IT IS ESSENTIAL TO ANAYSE AND ANSWER AS TO WHY POWER IS CORRUPT -WHEN RUNNING ANY BUSINESS OR IN A HIGHER POSITION WHERE ONE HAS POWER OF HIRING AND FIRING -AND THE PRIMEMOST AIM REMAINS HOW TO MAKE PROGRESS AND PROFIT FOR THE COMPANY AND/OR SHOW RESULTS OF PERFORMANCE. -ONE LOOKS TO DISCIPLINE, RULES AND REGULATIONS ETC. -HUMAN TOUCH AND HUMAN FEELINGS ARE LOST -FOR ANY MISTAKE .....Read more

WOMEN’S DAY IT IS A GOOD DAY OF CELEBRATIONS AND WOMEN EMPOWERMENT -WOMEN ARE MOVING FAST TO GET THE BEST EDUCATIN AND EXCEL THE MALES -IT IS TRUE AS WHEN ONE HAS SOMETHING. ONE IS LESS BOTHERED TO MAKE MUCH EFFORT, THINKS OF ENJOYMENT MORE THAN CONCENRATION ON WORK AND PROGRESS FROM WHAT ONE’S STATUS IS. -BUT NO DOUBT WOMEN EMPLOWERMENT HAS GIVEN THE FEELING AND TRAINING IN COLLEGES TO DISCUSS AND FIGHT FOR THEIR RIGHTS -TRU .....Read more

-SOME IMPORTANT SUGGESTIONS TALK LESS, LISTEN MORE -TAKE A PAUSE TO REFLECT AND REPLY -NEVER REMAIN PRE-MEDITATED AGAINST ANYONE NOT EVEN AGAINST THE FOE -CRITICISE THE LEAST, APPRECIAE MORE -REMAIN PRO TO LOVE ALWAYS AND TO INDULGE IN HATRED NEVER -BE A GIVER ALWAYS, EXPECT NOTHING IN RETURN -TALK ILL OF ANYONE NEVER, REMAIN A HELPING HAND IF NEEDED EVER -UNITY IS CONSTRUCTION AND PROGRESS WHILE DISUNITY AND CONFLICTS ARE .....Read more

BOY AND GIRL’S DISCUSSION ABOUT MARRIAGE -BOY ASKS HER GIRL FRIEND THAT IT IS TIME FOR US TO GET MARRIED -THE GIRL IN REPLY SAYS WHAT IS THE NEED FOR MARRIAGE WE ARE ENJOYING OUR LIFE AS WE ARE -BOY SAYS NEEDLESS TO SAY THAT WE ALL AT SOME STAGE OR OTHER WANT TO GET MARRIED AND SETTLE DOWN IN LIFE -GIRL ASKS THE BOY WHAT FOR, HAVE YOU EVER THOUGH OVER IT -MARRIAGE CREATES ALL TYPES OF PROBLEMS, BETWEEN FAMILIES, MOTHER IN-LAW IS .....Read more

HORRIBLE RECALL OF LIFE, PARENTS ARE UNFORGETTABLE SO LONG AS ONE IS ALIVE -FOR GETTING PUBLISHED MY BOOK ON FIGHTERS NEVER STOP, I CAME ACROSS TO THE PHOTO OF MY PARENTS TO BE INCLUDED IN THE BOOK -THE VERY SIGHT OF THEM CREATED HICCUPS IN ME IMMEDIATELY AND THE MORE MORE AND MORE I LOOKED AT THE PHOTOS, RECALL CAME UP OF THEIR LIFE AS TO HOW MUCH THEY STRUGGLED TO DO OUR UPBRINING, ENCOURAGE US TO GET EDUCATED NOT ONLY TO GET EDUCATE .....Read more

-MOST DISTURBING AND EXTREKELY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOLUTION 1. MISUNDERSTANDING BY THE CHILD ABOUT DECISION TAKEN BY PARENTS FOR HIS/HER EDUCATION, ACTIVITY/VOCATION, MARRIAGE ETC. Answer: 1. let it not be forgotten that parents take decision as they think will be in the best interest of their son/daughter, not to forget emotional love and blood relationship dictate this and it is not questionable at all, neither .....Read more

-MOST DISTURBING AND EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOLUTION 1. MISUNDERSTANDING BY THE CHILD ABOUT DECISION TAKEN BY PARENTS FOR HIS/HER EDUCATION, ACTIVITY/VOCATION, MARRIAGE ETC. Answer: 1. let it not be forgotten that parents take decision as they think will be in the best interest of their son/daughter, not to forget emotional love and blood relationship dictate this and it is not questionable at .....Read more

MOST DISTURBING AND EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO FIND SOLUTION -such a situation mostly happens between parents, their children and inlaws, boy or daughter. -firstly let me go into as to what are the reasons for not only estrangement of relations and in extreme many a time it so happens that they want to thrash and even to resort to killing. -the reasons seem to be -1. Misunderstanding by the child that parents have destroyed his/her l .....Read more

-PET PARROT FLIES AWAY, COMES BACK NEVER- -HOW SURPRISING IT IS, OWNER WAITS AND WAITS INVAIN -IT SO HAPPENED THAT THE OWNER WAS FEEDING THE PARROT -THE DOOR WAS OPEN -IN THE MEANTIME PHONE CALL CAME IN -THE OWNER GOT BUSY WITH THE CALL -PARROT STOLE THE OPPORTUNITY AND FLEW AWAY -PERHAPS THINKING THAT THE OWNER DID NOT CARE FOR HIM, MAYBE HE DOES NOT LOVE ME ANY MORE -TRUE TO SOME EXTENT, AS THE OWNER AS USUAL WAS NOT ATTEN .....Read more

-PEECHHAI MUR KAR DEKHNA NAN KABHEE -AUR AGAR GIR GAYAI KAHIN, NAN SIRF CHOT LAGAI GEE BALKEH KUCHLAI BHEE JA SAKTAI HO TUM -SOCHO ZARA TUM, GOD NAIN HAMAREE ANKHAIN AGAI KAI ILAVA PEECHHA KIYON NAHIN DAI DEEN -GOD BAHUT BALVAN HAI AUR HAI BAHUT DOOR DESHI BHEE -GOD NAIN SOCHA HO GA, AGAR MEIN NAIN DONO TARAF ANKHAIN DAI DEEN -TO IN DONO MAIN KHICHAO PAIDA HO JAYAIGA ZAROOR -KIDHAR JANA HAI YEH HO JAYAI GA MUSHKIL AGAI JA .....Read more

-YEH DUNIYAN, YEH MAHFIL -MERAI KISSI KAAM KEE NAHIN -NAN TU RAHAIGEE AUR NAN RAHOONGA MEIN BHEE -NAN RAHAIGA YEH HUSSAN -AUR NAN RAHAIGA YEH GHAMAND BHEE -HUM EK NAN EK DIN CHALTAI BANAINGAI -YADAINAI CHHOR JAYAIGAI HUM -SHAYAD KUCHH DIN AAPNOON MAIN YAAD RAKHNAI KAI LIYAI -YAAD KARAIN YA NAN KARAIN -HUMAIN HAI USS SAI MATLAB HAI KYA -JAB MIT GAYAINGAI HUM RAAKH MAIN BADAL KAR HEE -TO KYA HUM AINGAI YEH DEKHNAI KAI LIYAI -K .....Read more

PRESHAAN HUA -AUR HAIRAN HUA -KIYON, KISS LIYAI -AUR KISS VAJA SAI -YEH TO PATA HEE NAHIN -BUHRAI HO GAYAI HUM -YADAST KUCHH KHATAM HO GAYEE HAI AB -AUR JALDEE SAI KHATAM HOTEE JA RAHEE HAI YEH -JO BACHEE KUCHEE HAI BHEE -PATA NAHIN YEH BHEE KAB CHALEE JAYAI -AANKHOON SAI AANSOO TAPAKNAI LAGAI -DIL DHARKNAI LAGA -SAANS PHOOLNA LAGA -AISSAI MEHSOOS HO RAHA THA JAISSAI AB AKHREE VAKAT AA HEE GAYA HAI -NAN MERAI MAIN HOSH .....Read more

-WHY INLAWS REMAN INLAWS -NEVER THEY TURN OUT PARENTS -ANSWER -MAIN REASON SEEMS TO BE THE BLOOD RELATIONSHIP -AS IT IS SAID BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER -DAUGHTER IN-LAW AND SON INLAW GENERALLY REMAIN IN RELTIONSHIP LIKE WATER THICKER PERHAPS BUT NEVER TURN THICKER LIKE BLOOD -HOWEVER CONGENIAL RELATIONSHIP IS CREATED AND MAINTAINED, STILL IN RELATIONSHIP FEAR REMAINS NOT TO UTTER ANY WORD AND/OR GET TO SOME ACTS, BEH .....Read more

PRESHAAN HUA -AUR HAIRAN HUA -KIYON, KISS LIYAI -AUR KISS VAJA SAI -YEH TO PATA HEE NAHIN -BUHRAI HO GAYAI HUM -YADAST KUCHH KHATAM HO GAYEE HAI AB -AUR JALDEE SAI KHATAM HOTEE JA RAHEE HAI YEH -JO BACHEE KUCHEE HAI BHEE -PATA NAHIN YEH BHEE KAB CHALEE JAYAI -AANKHOON SAI AANSOO TAPAKNAI LAGAI -DIL DHARKNAI LAGA -SAANS PHOOLNA LAGA -AISSAI MEHSOOS HO RAHA THA JAISSAI AB AKHREE VAKAT AA HEE GAYA HAI -NAN MERAI MAIN HOSH .....Read more

-ZINDGEE CHALTEE HAI -AUR CHALAYEE BHEE JATEE HAI -AUR JO ISSAI SAMAJH LAITAI HAIN -VOH KATAI HAIN ZINDGEE APNEE -KHUSHYON MAIN HAR PARKAR SAI HEE -LEKIN JO ISS ZINDGEE KO SAMAJHTAI HEE NAHIN -AUR NAN HEE KARTAI HAIN KOSHISH -ISS KAI BARAI MAIN JANNAI KAI LIYAI HEE -VOH CHIKNA CHOOR HO JATAI HAIN -AUR ZINDGEE HO JATEEE HAI BARBAD UNKEE -BACHPAN NIKAL JATA HAI KHEL KOOD MAIN AUR PARAHEE MAIN BHEE -JAVANEE BEETEE JATEE HAI PRESH .....Read more

BEFORE LEAVING THE HOUSE HUSBAND TELLS HIS WIFE IN LAST WORDS -HOW PATHETIC AND TERRIBLE IT IS TO ME -YOU HAVE BECOME SO CALLOUS, CRUEL AND PITILESS -AS I AM LEFT HEART BROKEN AT THE MOMENT -LET ME TELL YOU FRANKLY THAT I HAVE DONE ALL, HAVE BEEN VERY KIND AND GENTLE TO YOU ALWAYS -IF YOU DID NOT LIKE ME, THEN WHAT WAS THE COMPULSION TO MARRY ME -NEITHER I KNEW YOU NOR DID YOU -THEN WH .....Read more

-MEIN KYA KAHOON TUMHAIN -THAK GAYA HOON MEIN -BAR BAR KEH KAR AUR -SAMJHA KAR BHEE -SOCH LAI ZARA -YEH GHAMAND BAHUT DER TAK REHNA NAHIN -YEH HAI CHAR DIN KEE JAWANEE AUR JOBAN BHEE -JAB TU ISS GHAMAND MAIN AUR HUSSAN KAI FAKHAR KO KHO BAITHAI GEE ZAROOR -PACHHTAYAI GEE TAB ZAROOR -KOYEE POOCHHNA VALA BHEE NAN HO GA KOYEE -AB BHEE SOCH LAI TU ZARA -NAN ISS KAI BAAD -MEIN RAHOONGA YAHAN -KOSHISH KAROONGA MEIN ZAR .....Read more

LIFE DURING ALL ITS SPAN PASSES OFF IN CONFLICTS WHY SO, IS THE QUSTION TO PONDER OVER: -WHEN EVERYONE KNOWS THAT ONE DAY HE/SHE WILL BE NO MORE -AND WHATEVER HE/SHE HAS AMSSED OR ACCUMULATED WILL BE LEFT HERE -THEN WHAT IS THE NEED TO GO INTO CONFLICTS, FIGHT BE AGGRESSIVE, DISPLEASE ANOTHER PERSON -ALSO TO INFLICT AS MUCH HARM AS ONE CAN WITHOUT ANY CONSINDERATION AS TO HOW MUCH PAIN THE OTHER WILL BE SUFFERING FROM -POLI .....Read more

REVENGE REVENGE MEANS THAT ONE DESTROYS ONE’S ADVERSARY TO SUCH AN EXTENT THAT HE/SHE NEVER DARES TO REPEAT SUCH AN ACT HEREAFTER. NOW QUESTION ARISES WHETHER IT IS CORRECT TO TAKE REVENGE OR TO LEAVE IT AS IT IS WITHOUT QUESTIONING ABOUT WHY IT HAPPENENED AND HOW IT HAPPENED, JUST IGNORES IT AND MANAGES TO FORGET IT. IF THE HARM IS INSIGNIFICANT. IT IS BETTER TO FORGET AS REVENGE WILL BRING IN RETALIATION .....Read more

-TU BHEE CHOR, MEIN BHEE CHOR -HUM SAB HAIN CHOR -KOYEE CHHOTA CHOR -AUR KOYEE BARA CHOR -KARTA HAI CHOREE HAR EK -JO PAKRA JATA HAI -HOTA HAI VO CHOR -JO BACH JATA HAI -VO TO CHOR HAI HEE NAHIN -VO HONEST GINA JATA HAI HAR JAGA AND HAR TARAF BHEE -CHOREE TO CHOREE HAI -LEKIN JO KANOON KAI DARAI MAIN KARTA HAI VO TO CHOR HAI HEE NAHIN -LEKIN AGAR PAKRA GAYA HAI TO VO HAI CHOR VARNA KUCCH BHEE NAHIN -CHOREE HOTEE H .....Read more

CHILDREN ARE STRENGTH OF THE FAMILY IS IT TRUE? -IT IS TRUE ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY ARE IN THE UNIVERSITY STAGES -BUT WHEN THEY GET GROWN UP, GET ADULT -TAKE UP TO JOBS -AND THEREAFTER AS THEY GROW IN AGE -MORE AND MORE PROBLEMS CROP UP -THUS TILL UNIVERSITY AGE OF THE CHILDREN -THERE IS UNITY AND THE FAMILY PROGRSSES -ON THE CONTRARY WHEN THEY BECOME ADULT AND GET TO JOBS, GENERALLY DESTRUCTION STARTS -NEVERTHELESS IN DEPENDS .....Read more

AN INCIDENT –HAPPY BUT PATHETIC worth narration, an imagination - I WAS COMING BACK HOME FROM OFFICE -ON THE WAY I FOUND A BAG LYING ON THE ROAD -THE BAG SEEMED TO BE A BIG AND COSTLY ONE -I STARTED THINKNG WHETHER TO PICK IT UP -AND IF I DARE, MAYBE SOMEONE HAS LEFT IT INTENTIONALLY TO TRAP ME -MAYBE SOMEONE MIGHT BE SEEING THAT I AM PICKING THE BACK -JUMP ON ME, THRASH ME AND TAKE AWAY NOT ONLY THE LEFT OVER BA .....Read more

REAL LIFE AND BEHAVIOUR AROUND HOW TO MANAGE. -IN REAL LIFE, ONE NEEDS TO LISTEN TO OTHERS -ADJUST AS MUCH AS ONE CAN -COOPERATE ETC.ETC. -THE QUESTION ARISES, -SHOULD ONE BEHAVE IN THE MANNER -WHICH PLEASES OTHERS OR ONE SHOULD -KEEP UP ONE’S OWN PERSONALITY AND -ONE’S OWN VIEWS, ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR -I FEEL ONE MUST ACCOMMODATE OTHERS -IN ORDER NOT TO ANNOY OR GET INTO CONFLICT AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, RATHER TO THE .....Read more

MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, .....Read more

-CHALTAI CHALTAI SUMANDAR KAI KINARAI PAUNHCH GAYA MEIN -SARAI FIKIR BHULANAI KAI LIYAI -SUMANDAR KEE LEHRAIN UBHARTAI AUR DOOBTAI DEKH KAR -AUR DEKH KAR BHEE -MACHHERAI APNEE APNEE KISHTIYON PAR TOURISTS TO LAI JANAI AUR LAI ANAI MAIN -DOOR SAI PAR JATEE HAI NAZAR JAHAZON PAR BHEE BAHUT DOOR -BAS ISS TARAH DIN BEET JATA HAI ZINDGEE KA MAZA LAITAI HUAI -JAB RAAT HOTEE HAI, SO JATA HOON GEHREE NEEND MAIN MEIN -SUBHA HOTAI HE .....Read more

-WHAT IS LIFE AFTER ALL -ONLY PUFFED WITH OXYGEN -HAIL OXIGEN WE EVERY DAY AND EVERY MOMENT -WHEN THE LAST PUFF OF OXYGEN WE WILL EXHAIL AND WILL IT EVER FIND ITS WAY/ ROUTE HOW TO GET BACK -ALL ROADS AND ALL CHANNELS GET BLOCKED AND STOPPED FOR EVER -AND LIFE WHICH EXISTED ON OXIGEN -GETTING AND RECUPERATING IT EXISTS NO MORE -IT BRINGSTHE EXISTANCE TO AN END -SHOCKS ARE LEFT BEHIND -REMEMBERANCE CONTINUES WITH DEAREST, .....Read more

NEW YEAR GREETINGS FOR 2024 2024 IS THE HARBINGER FOR ALL OF US TO GENERATE LOVE FOR HUMANITY. REMAIN IN PEACE, AND ENJOY LIFE IN TOGETHERNESS, THE MISSION FOR WHICH GOD HAS SENT US TO THIS EARTH. HOPE EVERYONE WILL MAKE EARNEST EFFORT TO FULFILL GOD’S DESIRE. BESIDES ALSO TO ENDEAVOUR AS OUTLINED BELOW: -LIFE IS A DREAM -NEW YEAR IS A HOPE -PAST IS A STORY -PRESENT IS A REALITY -FUTURE IS LONGING -THINKING IS INSPIRATION .....Read more

SOME TIME WE FEEL FULLY SHATTERED, FULLY FRUSTRATED GET INTO BAD MOOD AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO. -TRUE IT HAPEENS ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE DOES GET THE RESULT AFTER WHOLE DAY TOIL AND STRUGGLE. -IN SUCH A SITUATION, THE ANSWER REMAINS TO DIVERT ONE’S ATTENTION TO SOME THING ELSE -STILL BETTER TO GET AWAY FROM THAT SITUATION AND GET TO SOME RESTAURANT, COFFEE HOUSE, CINEMA OR TO A MALL JUST TO STROLL AROUND, DIVERT ATTENTION, R .....Read more

HUSBAND AT THE END TELLS HIS WIFE -IF YOU WANT TO GO, THEN GO -I HAD DONE ALL TO MOULD MYSELF AND ADJUST -BUT NOTHING HAS WORKED -YOU ARE ADAMANT IN YOUR THINKING -NEITHER I WANT TO QUESTION NOR NOR UTTER ANY WORD AGAINST YOU -YOU HAVE GOT THE EXPERIENCE OF LIVING TOGETHER -NOW LET YOU GET AN EXPERIENCE OF LIVING ALONE -WHENEVER YOU THINK AND DECIDE TO COME BACK -MY DOORS ARE ALWAYS OPEN FOR YOU -THIS IS YOUR HOUSE AND WI .....Read more

-RISHTA BANAYA VAFA KARNAI KAI LIYAI -AUR SAREE ZINDGEE KHUSHEE MAIN NIBHAI KAI LIYA -FAMILY BANANAI KAI LIYAI -TARAKEE KARNAI KAI LIYAI -APNEE AUR BACHON KEE BHEE -JEEVAN SAATHI KIYA HAI HUM DONO NAI EKHATHA PANDIT, MAN BAAP AUR RISHTAIDARON KAI SAMNAI HEE -NAN SIRF ITNA HEE, BALKEH EK EK ISSUE KO DISCUSS KIYA HUM DONO NAIN MILKAR HEE -PHIR YEH KYA VAJA HAI, HAR VAKAT NARAZ HONAI KEE AUR GUSSAI KARTAI REHNA HEE -MEIN TO SMA .....Read more

LIFE OVERALL IS FULL OF DECEPTIONS, WE MAKE ONE, BREAK ANOTHER, LIFE GOES ON, PROBLEMS NEVER END, TILL THE END WE CONTINUE THINKING AND DISTRESSED IF THAT DAY HAPPENS, WHATEVER I HAVE ACHIEVED WILL CRUMBLE DOWN AND/OR WILL BE WASTED, PERHAPS TO NON-EXISTENCE. -THESE ARE FACTS OF LIFE AND HARDLY FEW AND AT THE MOST 1% LIVE CONTENTED AND GET TO END FULLY CONTENTED, BELIEVE THAT THEY HAVE DONE WHATEVER THEY COULD DO TO .....Read more

PARENTS BEHAVIOUR REMAINS PARTIAL AND IT VARIES FROM TIME TO TIME -IT IS NATURAL THAT OPPOSITE SEX ARE PREFERRED AND LOVED MORE -FOR EXAMPLE MOTHER LOVES SON MORE -AND LESS FOR THE DAUGHTER -ON THE CONTRARY, FATHER LOVES MORE HIS DAUGHTER -IN SOCIETY ESPECIALLY IN ASIANS, BOY IS PREFERRED DUE TO BEING EARNING MEMBER AS ALSO WHATEVER INHERITANCE IS GIVEN REMAINS IN THE FAMILY -FURTHER THE SURNAME OF THE FAMILY CONTINUES F .....Read more

ADVICE WHETHER TO GIVE, WHOM TO GIVE AND WHEN TO GIVE. -MOST IMPORTANT, ADVICE NEEDS TO BE GIVEN IF ONE KNOWS THE SUBJECT CLEARLY. -THAT IS WHY PROFESSIONALS EXIST -AND DEPENDING ON OUR PROBLEM WE ASK THE CONCERNED PROFESSIONALS FOR EXAMPLE. LAWYERS FOR LEGAL MATTERS AND IN THAT, THE MATTER CONCERNS WHICH IS THE SPECIFIC TOPIC, SAME IS THE CASE FOR DOCTORS ETC. ETC. -ADVICE NEEDS TO BE GIVEN TO THOSE WHO NEED IT .....Read more

WHT A WONDERFUL SIMILARITY BETWEEN THE TREE FRULL OF FRUITS AND THE MAN HAVING CHILDREN. -TO DESIRE, THE GARDNER TAKES CARE OF THE TREE FROM SEED, TO FERTILIZATION, DAILY CARE AGAINST DEEMAK/TERMITE, AND WHEN FRUIT APPEARS, COVERS IT TO AVOID BEING EATEN BY BIRDS ETC. -LIKEWISE MAN GETS MARRIED, GETS THE CHILDREN BORN, TAKES ALL CARE FROM EDUCATION TO BEING WELL SETTLED. -AS THE CHILDREN SEE THAT THE GARDNER IS AWAY, .....Read more

DIVORCE IF IT HAPPENS, SHOULD THE CHILDREN BE INFORMED OR LET THE CHILDREN KNOW IN THE COURSE OF LIFE AFTER DIVORCE. -BEFORE DIVORCE TAKES PLACE, UNDOUBTELY THERE WILL BE INTOLERANCE, SHOUTING, MISBHAVIOUR OF ALL TYPES. -AS SUCH THE CHILDREN WHATEVER THEIR AGE WILL DEFINITELY SEE ALL THIS DRAMA AND WILL SURELY FEEL DISTURBED WHETHER INFORMED OR NOT. -NOW THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER THE SHOULD BE INFORMED OR NOT. -MY ANS .....Read more

FEMALES HAVE ALWAYS BEEN DOMINATED BY MALES, WHY SO ? -BUT WE IN REAL LIFE WE FIND THAT MALES DO ALL EFFORTS TO ENTICE AND ATTRACT FEMALES -WE SEE IN MOST OF THE TEMPLES -READ IN HISTORY, SEE WITH DIETIES ETC. -FEMALES ARE MAGNETIC -HOWSOEVER HARD MALE MAY BE. -MALE MAY LIKE IT OR NOT, EVEN BOAST IN NEGATIVE, MALE IS DEFINITELY ATTRACTED TOWARDS FEMALE -IT IS POSSIBLE THAT SO LONG AS MALE HAS NOT SEEN OR COME ACROSS A FEMALE T .....Read more

CAN ONE SHINE FOR EVER AND THROUGHOUT ONE’S LIFE? --NOT AT ALL -RARE AND NEVER -IT IS NOT IN MY KNOWLEDGE ALSO -WHEN ONE SHINES ONCE AND AT ONE TIME -HIS ADVERSARIES DO MAKE ALL EFFORTS TO WIN OVER HIM/HER -AND THIS RACE CONTINUES THROUGHOUT ONE’S LIFE -BUT DESPITE ALL THESE SITUATIONS -SHINING AND WINNING RACE ALSO CONTINUE BY MAKING ALL EFFOTS TO LET NOT AND IN NO WAY ALLOW ANYONE TO SURPASS HIM/HER - -THIS RACE CAN B .....Read more

-KYA kAHAIN HUM LUt GAI -AURr BARBAD BHEE HOGAI HUM -KUCHH RHA NAHIN BAKEE -NAN JEENAI KAI LIYAI AUR -NAN SANS LAINAI KAI LIYAI HEE -SOCHTA HUN KYA HAI YEH ZINDGEE -JEENA ZAROOREE HAI YA MUR JANA HAI ACHHA -MUR PAATA NAHIN AUR NAN JEE SAKTA HOON MEIN CHAIN SAI KABHEE -KHYAL AATAI HAIN MUJHAI DUNYA BHAR KAI HEE -RO PEET KR DIN KISSI NAN KISS TARAH NIKAL LETA HOON MEIN -MAGAR RAAT TO BEETNAI MAIN AATEE HEE NAHIN -KARVATAIN BAD .....Read more

-SADNESS IS JUST LIKE CANCER IN LIFE -IT DOES HAPPEN TO ANYONE AND EVERYONE ANY TIME AND ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE HAS LOST SOMEONE OR SOMETHING AND/OR IS LEFT ALONE -IT TAKES AWAY ALL ENERGY AND PERHAPS FORCES ONE TO THINK WHAT IS THE USE OF THIS LIFE AND FOR WHAT PURPOSE ONE WAS BORN -JUST TO LIVE FROM BABYHOOD TO OLD AGE -EAT, GROW, AMASS WEALTH, ENJOY COMFORTS BY HOOKS OR CROOKS AND THEN ONE DAY SAY SAY GOOD BYE TO THIS WORLD .....Read more

- CHALAI JAO AGAR JAANA HEE HAI -AGA YEH SOCH LIYA HAI TU NAIN YEH ZAROOR -ZINDGEE PEHLAI BHEE CHALTEE THEE -TO CHALA DOONGA MEIN ISSAI AB BHEE -FARK SIRF ITNA HAI, TUB REHTA THA MEIN INTEZAR MAIN AUR JEETA THAI INHEEN VICHORON MAIN BHEE -AUR ABD RO RO KAR PACHHTATAI HUAI JEENAINGAI HUM -YAADAIN AYAINGEE ZAROOR JAB HOYEE SHAADI HAMAREE -KYA THA VOH JOBAN AUR KYA THEEN VOH UMANGAIN -NAN VO RAHEEN AUR NAN REHAIGA YEH VAKT BHEE .....Read more

-JEALOUSY UNDOUBTEDLY IS VICE, THEN WHY DOES IT EXIST BETWEEN BROTHERS AND SISTERS IS A BIG QUESTION, TO ANALYSE AND SEARCH ANSWER IS THE PRESENT EXERCISE. -EVERYONE KNOWS THAT IT IS A VICE STILL IT CONTINUES BETWEEN GENERALLY FEMALES, BROTHERS AND SISTERS, BUSINESSES AND WHAT NOT -IT IS AN INHERENT VICE WHICH IS ALMOST IN ALLL HUMAN BEINGS WHICH HAPPENS IN COMPARISON, COMPETITION, USURPING POWER, ASSETS ETC. ETC. -WHEN BRO .....Read more

JUDICIARY TO APPOINT JUDGES TO GO THROUGH COLLEGIUM AND/OR CHOICE LEFT TO CENTRAL GOVERNMENT. I MOSTLY AVOID WRITING ON POLITICAL SUBJECTS BUT WHEN I FEEL THAT IT HAS BEEN LONG DEBATED, THEN I TRY TO PUT IN MY VIEWS TO CONTRIBUTE TO REACH A DECISION. -EARLIER I HAVE IN THIS DIRECTION GOT A BOOK PUBLISHED ON “DEMOCRARY IS A FARCE”, IT NEEDS TO BE CORRECTED ALL THE DEMOCRATIC COUNTRIES. -I BELIEVE THAT SUPREME COURT MUST CONTINUE T .....Read more

ENEMY HOW IT HAPPENS, HOW IT CAN BE AVOIDED AND HOW IT CAN BE RECONCILED TO WORKING RELATIONS; -ENEMITY HAPPENS DUE TO 1. SOME LOSS 2. JEALOUSIES 3. CONTINUATION OF PREVIOUS PARENTAL OR OTHER CONFLICTS 3. VENGENCE 4. DIFFERENT BEIEFS AND DIFFERENT VIEWPOINTS 5. COMPETITIVE, RESIDENTIAL, NEIGHBOURHOOD, 6. FIANCIE 7. BETRAYAL OF LOVE, FRIENDSHIP ETC. 8. THERE CAN SO MANY REASONS, JUSTIFIED OR UNJUSTIFIED. -TO BE .....Read more

SHOULD ONE NEED TO BE IN THE SAME COMPANY OF FRIENDS WHO HAVE SAME OR SIMILAR VIEWS OR ON THE CONTRARY WITH THOSE WHO HAVE VIEWS IN CONTRAST AND IN TOTAL DISAGREEMENT. -WHEN IT IS THE COMPAY OF FRIENDS WITH THE SAME VIEWPOINTS MAYBE POLITICAL, ECONOMIC, SOCIAL, RELIGIOUS ETC. -IT IS EASIER TO EXPRESS AND CONVERSE THAN OTHERWISE -THERE WILL BE OPENNESS OF ALL KINDS AND THERE WILL BE NO RESERVATION AT ALL ABOUT LIKING OR DI .....Read more

LOYALTY WHAT DOES IT MEAN, HOW IT SHOULD BE EXERCISED -LOYALTY MEANS COMPLETE HONESTY, COMPLETE SINCERITY AND TO SAFEGUARD THE INTEREST OF THE HIGHER UP, BOSS, OWNER ETC. -SHOULD SOME CIRCUMSTANCES AFFECT YOU AND/OR YOU ARE TO DO SOMETHING, WHERE YOUR INTEREST WILL BE JEAPORDISED OR YOU MAY GET AFFECTED FOR ALL ACTIONS TAKEN AS INSTRUCTED/ADVISED. -IT IS A VERY TICKLISH SITUATION, BUT IN ALL RESPECTS IT BECOMES ESSENTIA .....Read more

ARE ALL INVENTIONS THE RESULT OF COPYING THE EXISTING ONE? -TO A GREATE EXTENT IT IS TRUE, ALL FASHION EXISTS ON COPYING AND MAKING CHANGES HERE AND THERE AND ALSO DO SOME IMPROVEMENTS TO AVOID LITIGATION AGAINST COPY RIGHTS. -INVENTIONS ARE THOSE WHERE NEW IDEAS COME IN, EXPERIEMENTS ARE DONE AND THEN SOMETHING NEW IS CREATED. -IN LIFE COPYING IS MORE AND REAL INVENTIONS ARE LESS. -OBSERVATIONS, IMPROVEMENTS ARE MORE THAN TH .....Read more

WE CHERISH LOVE AND HATE WORRIES, BUT IT REALITY, IT HAPPENS THE CONTRAST, WHY SO AND WHAT ARE THE REASONS, IS A QUESTION TO BE ANSWERED AND SOLUTIONS GIVEN. -UNDOUBTELY WE ALL CHERISH LOVE, WANT NOT ONLY TO MAINTAIN BUT WANT ALSO NOT ONLY TO DEVELOP IT BUT TO STRENGTHEN RATHER CEMENT IT FOR ALL TIMES GOOD OR BAD. -UNFORTUNATELY IT HAPPENS THE CONTRAST, THE MORE WE GO IN NUMBER, THE MORE WE ENGAGE ON MISUNDERSTANDINGS, CONFLICTS .....Read more

SETBACKS OF LIFE -WHAT I WANTED TO SAY. UNORTUNATELY I COULD NOT -WHAT I WANTED TO EXPRESS, I COULD NOT -WHAT I HOPED, I COULD NOT REALISE -JINKO AAPNA SAMJHA, VOH AAPNAI BUN NAN PAYAI -BAREE MUSHAKTAIN KAR LEEN, PHAL KABHEE MILA NAHIN -BARBAD HO GAYA HOON. KUCHH MERA RAHA HEE NAHIN -SOCHTA HOON MEIN BAR BAR, KYA YAHEE THA MERA MUKADAR -AUR AGAR AISSA THA, TO KIYON, KAUNSEE KEE HAI MEIN .....Read more

COMPARISON OF SHCOKS THROUGH WIND AND PROBLEMS -WIND WHEN IT IS SMOOTH AND SLOW, WE ENJOY TO STROLL TO INHALE AND PUMP IN OXYGEN -WHEN IT BECOMES SHARPER AND WINDY. WE TAKE TO SOME SHELTER -WHEN IT BLOWS FAST AND HARSH, WE FALL DOWN OR GET BLOWN UP BY IT -SIMILAR ARE SHOCKS OF LIFE -WHEN THESE ARE SMALL AND NOT WORRISOME WE GET TO SOLVE THESE OR LEAVE THESE TO PASS OFF -WHEN THESE PICK UP SOME SORT OF MAGNITUDE, WE FEEL WORRIED .....Read more

LIFE IS RESERVOIR OF MEMORIES -THE MORE TIME ONE LIVES -THE MORE MEMORIES ONE ACCUMULATES -IF ONE MANAGES TO FORGET ONE, -THEN ANOTHER CROPS UP -DESPITE THAT THE ONE WHICH WAS MANAGED TO BE FORGOTTEN -LET IT BE REMEMBERED CLEARLY -THE FORGOTTEN ONE NEVER DIES -IT IS JUST SUPPRESSED AND/OR GETS INTO RESERVE/INACTIVE PART OF THE BRAIN -AND WHEN CIRCUMSTANCES HAPPEN/REPEAT -WHEREBY ONE IS LIVING ALONE OR IS IN DIFFICUL .....Read more

INTUTION AND LOGIC -WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE -WHICH IS BETTER OF THE TWO FOR PRACTICAL PURPOSES -IS IT NECESSARY TO USE BOTH ALTERNATIVELY OR TOGETHER IF SO WHY? -INTUTION IS EMOTIONAL, SIGHT ATTRACTION, FEELINGS, MEETING ONE’S THINKING AND DESIRES -WHILE LOGIC IS BASED ON TO STUDY, ANALYSE, ANALYSE VARIOUS OPTIONS, EXPLORING OBJECTIONS IF ANY, AND FINALLY TO REACH A DECISION, NEVER IT IS EMOTIONAL, I .....Read more

APPRECIATION OR DEPRECIATION, -WHICH IS BETTER AND WHY? ANSWER -THERE IS NO DOUBT EACH ONE WOULD LIKE TO BE APPRECIATED THAN DEPRECIATED. -IT IS HUMAN NATURE AND IS WEAKNESS AS WELL THAT EACH ONE WOULD LIKE TO BE APPRECIATED -IN LIFE IN GENERAL WE FIND THAT MANY OF US FIGHT NOT ONLY TO BE APPRECIATED BUT DO ALL GOOD OR BAD TO GET TO PROMINENCE -IT CAN BE DUE TO EXCEPTIONAL BEHAVIOUR. EXCEPTIONAL SUCCESS -WHICH COULD BE CAL .....Read more

-DIL CHANCHAL HAI -KABHEE LATA HAI KHUSHIYAN -AUR KABHEE LATA HAI MUSEEBTAIN -BHARPOOR -KABHEE MILATA HAI DOOSRON SAI -AAPNA BANANAI KAI LIYAI -AUR KABHEE BANA DETA HAI HUMAIN -UNSAI DUSHMAN BHEE -KABHEE HIMAT DILATA HAI YEH -AUR KABHEE TORE DETA HAI YEH -DUM HAMARA AUR REHTEE HAI HIMAT ZARA BHEE NAHIN -KABHEE BHARTA HAI HAR PARKAR KEE UMEEDAIN HUM MAIN -AUR KABHEE KAR DETA HAI HUMAIN NIRAASH HAR PARKA SAI HEE -HAI YEH CHANCH .....Read more

-MEIN SHAYAR TO NAHIN -LEKIN DEKH KAR TUMAIN -SHYAREE AA HEE GAYEE -BAS AB ISS MAHOL KO DEKH KAR -MERA DIL KAR GAYA HAI KUCHH LIKHNAI KAI LIYAI HEE -KYA THEE VO KHUSHEE JAB NAUKREE MILEE -KYA THA VO KHUSHEE KA DIN -JAB SHADEE HOYEE MEREE -KYA THA VO DIN JAB MERA BETA HUA -KAMIYON KO POORA KARNAI KAI LIYAI -AUR PYAR KO BANTNAI KAI LIYAI -HO GAYEE BETEE BHEE -BAS ISSI TARAHA ZINDGEE BARHTEE GAYEE -BACHAI BHEE BARAI HONAI LAGAI .....Read more

-HEY PANKHI UR JAA TU KAHIN DOOR -AB HUA HAI YEH TERA GHAR BEGANA -JO THAI TERAI AAPNAI, VO HO GAYAIN HAIN DUSHMAN TUMHARAI -JHAGRA MOOL LENA NAHIN -AUR NAN DEKHNA KABHI PALAT KAR BHEE -YEH HAI DUNIYAN BAYEEMAN -INKO KOYEE TARS YA HAMDARDADEE HAI HEE NAHIN -YEH HAIN SAB MATLAB KAI DOST -YAB TAK TU GAANA SUNA KAR BEHLATA THA INKA DIL -YEH KARTAI THAI PYAR TUMHAIN -AB JAB TEHREE VO SUREELEE AWAZ RAHEE NAHIN -AUR UNKO FAIDA MILTA .....Read more

HAPPINESS WHAT DOES IT MEAN AND HOW IT HELPS IN LIFE? -IT IS HAPPINESS WHICH GIVES CONFIDENCE TO AN INDIVIDUAL -TO REMAIN MOTIVATED -TO MEET, PARTICIPATE AND ENJOY WHEREVER ONE IS TO WORK AS BEST AS POSSIBLE -TO REMAIN WORRILESS -TO REMAIN WINNER AND SUCCESSFUL -ENCOURAGE TO BUILD AND KEEP RELATIONS WITH EACH AND EVERYONE -PROBLEMS AND NEGETIVITY HAVE NO .....Read more

-JAB TEHNIYAN SOOKHNAI LAGTEE HAIN -TO TRUNK BHEE SOOKHNAI LAGTA HAI -KYA YEH BHEE SACH HAI JAB BACHAI PRESHAN HOTAI HAIN OR PRESHAN REHNAI LAGTAI HAIN -TO KYA MAAN BAAP BHEE PRESHAN REHTAI HAI USSI TARAH JAISAI DRUKHT SOOKHNA SHURU KARTA HAI AUR USSKEE TEHNIYAN BHEE SOOKHNAI LAGTEE HAIN -YEH ZAROOREE TO HAI NAHIN -AAJ KAL TEHNIAN TRIM KAR DEE JATEE HAIN -DRAKHT PHALNA PHOOLNA SHUROO HO JAATA HAI AND NAYEE NAYEE TEHNIYAN BHEE .....Read more

-BACHPAN GAYA, JAWANI AYEE, AUR CHALEE GAYEE, AB TO AA GAYA HAI BURAHAPA BHEE -YEH ZINDGEE HAI, ISSKA SAFAR KAB KHATAM HOGA ISSKA PATA HEE NAHIN -LEKIN ITNA TO ZAROOR PATA HAI, AGAR TANDRUST RAHAINGAI AUR RAHAIGEE KHUSH BHEE, -TO ZINDGEE BAHR JAYAIGEE ZAROOR -LEKIN SOCH MAIN AATA HAI YEH ZAROOR -AGAR ITNEE ZINDGEE BARH BHEE GAYEE, TO KYA ISSKAI BAAD, -VO KAAM AUR UMANGAIN JO ADHUREE REH GAYEEN THEEN AUR VO POOREE KARNEEN THEEN AB .....Read more

CHANGE WE ALL LOVE, BUT WHAT ABOUT COUPLES? -TRUE, THERE IS NO DOUBT, WE ALL LOVE CHANGE AND CONTINUE DOING IN THE FOLLOWING MANNER; -FASHION WEAR -SEASON WEAR - -DECORATIONS - -BEAUTY PRODUCTS - EATING AND EDIBLES - TO RELAX AND ENJOY, GET TO RESORTS, HOTELS ETC. - TAKE TO TRAVEL ETC. - DO SOCIAL GATHERINGS TO CHANGE MONOTONY AND ROUTINE. -EVEN WHEN WE .....Read more

ARE THE CHILDREIN A LIABILITY OR AN ASSET, EACH ONE HAS HIS/HER OWN EXPERIENCE, WHICH NEEDS TO BE ANALYSED WHY FOR SOME IT IS GOOD AND FOR OTHERS IT IS WORST. BEFORE GETTING INTO ANALYSI, IS IT ESSENTIAL TO HAVE CHILDREN, VIEWS DIFFER AND EACH ONE HAS HIS/HER DEEP ROOTED VIEWS FOR AND AGAINST. THOSE WHO DO NOT WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN, THEY BELIEVE THAT THEY DO NOT KNOW HOW LONG THEY ARE GOING TO LIVE, BETTER TO LIVE ALONE AND EVEN IN L .....Read more

-JO KARNA THA VOH KAR NAN PAYAI -AUR JO NAN KARNA THA VOH HO GAYA -KYA HAI YEH ZINDGEE -YEH SAMAJH MAIN AATA HEE NAHIN -JO DOST BANAI, VOH DOST NAN RAHAI -JO RISHTAI BANAI, VOH RISHTAI NAN RAHAI, -BAS TOOT GAYAI HAIN VOH RISHTAI -JINAIN APNA BANAYA THA HUM NAIN -ZINDGEE BEETANAI KAI LIYAI -JO BANAYEE THEE BEEVEE -VOH BHEE BAN GAYEE DUSHMAN MEREE -PHIR BANAI VAKEEL SAHARA HAM DONO KA HEE -BAS PHIR ZINDGEE HO GAYEE HAI BARBAD .....Read more

SELF IDENTITY WHAT DOES IT MEAN, WHAT IT IS CONSTITUTED OF, WHETHER TO BELIEVE, PUT TO PRACTICE AND ACTION IS GOOD OR BAD, AND IF BAD, WHY SO AND WHAT IS THE ANSWER AND WHAT ARE THE SUGGESTIONS AND IF GOOD, WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES WHETHER ONE MUST UNPKEEP IT AT ALL COST, IS IT A RIGHT THINKING OR NOT.. WHAT DOES SELF IDENTITY MEAN AND WHAT IT IS CONSTITUTED OF? 1- SELF ESTEEM 2. SELF PERSONALITY 3. SELF VIEWS 4. SELF WAYS OF LIVING, B .....Read more

KHUSH REHTA HOON MEIN kAAM MAIN MASROOF NAN KABHEE VAKAT MILTA HAI KUCHH AUR SOCHNAI KA AUR NAN DIL KARTA HAI KUCHH AUR KARNAI KA LIKH LETA HOON FACEBOOK MAIN KUCHH NAN KUCHH HAR ROZ MAIN PARH KAR AND LOGON KAI NAAM DEKH KAR JINON NAIN MERI LIKHAYEE KO PASSAND KIYA HAI AUR KUCHH LOGON KAI VICHAR BHEE AA JATAI HAIN ZAROOR ISSI MAIN DIL HO JATA KUSH ROZ MARA EK VICHAR KHATAM HOTO HAI, TO KARTA HOON VICHAR KUCHH AUR KA DOOSRAI DIN KAI LIYAI .....Read more

CHILDREN ARE NOW ADAMANT, STAND BY THEIR OWN, LISTEN LESS IMPOSE THEIR VIEWS MUCH, WHY SO? 1. IT IS CHANGE OF ENVIRONMENTS, EDUCATION, MEDIA ETC. 2. THEY HARDLY HAVE THE TIME NOR HAVE THE PATIENCE. CONTRARY TO THIS, PATENTS HAVE THEIR EXPERIENCE, PHILOSOPHY. RESPECT AND MORAL VALUES ETC. PRESENT WORLD IS MOVING SO FAST THAT ONE HAS TO REMAIN AWARE AND ADAPT TO THOSE CONDITIONS. ALL SUCH CHANGES ARE THE RESULT OF EDUCATION, WHERE .....Read more

CHILDREN GENERALLY BLAMCE THEIR PARENTS, WHO SO -IN YOUNG AGE, BLAME IS MORE THAN AT A LATER AGE -WHY IN THE LATER AGE, AS BY THAT TIME CHILD GETS HIS/HER OWN EXPERIENCE IN HIS/HER LIFE BY HIS/HER CHILDREN -IF CHILDREN FAIL TO PROGRESS, THEY BLAME THE PARENTS ALL THE REASONS FOR THEIR FAILURE, FOR EXAMPLE -THEY HAVE BEEN BUSY IN THEIR WORK AND NEVER BOTHERED FOR US AS TO WHAT WE WERE DOING IN STUDIES, HOW WE WERE BULLIED AND FRIGHT .....Read more

IF CONFLICT DEVEOPS BETWEEN WIFE AND HUSBAND, WHAT SHOULD THE PARENTS DO, HOW SHOULD THEY TACKLE IT, IS THE QUESTION? -FIRST AND FOREMOST, PARENTS NEED TO PERSUADE THEIR CHILD -BE SURE NEVER TO ACCUSE THE CHILD OF THE OTHER FAMILY FIRSTLY PARENTS DO NOT KNOW THE EXACT FACTS NOR THE REASONS THEREFOR -FURTHER ANY SORT OF ACCUSATION AND/OR ILLWILL EXPRESSED WILL ADD TO THE ISSUE AND PERHAPS IGNITE TO NON-RETURNABLE SITUATION. -IF TH .....Read more

STATUS AND COMFORTS ARE MOST IMPORTANT IN LIFE, BUT NOT AS IMPORTANT AS FAMILY LIFE, IS IT TRUE, IS THE REAL QUESTION TO BE ANSWERED. -IT IS GENERALLY SAID AND TRUE ALSO THAT TO ACHIEVE A SUCCESS, IT IS ESSENTIAL TO HAVE A HAPPY RATHER THE HAPPIEST FAMILY LIFE. -THESE ARE RELATIONS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE, THE THE BEST AND HAPPIER THESE ARE, THE MORE ONE GETS WORRILESS AND MOTIVATED TO REACH SUCCESS AND ON THE CONRARY WHEN .....Read more

IF RELATIONS GET SOAR WITH SOMEONE, HOW TO BEHAVE -THERE IS NO DOUBT RELATIONS, FRIENDS ETC. WILL RUSH UP TO SYMPATHISE AND CHECK ABOUT THE REASONS. -TRUE, IT IS UNAVOIDABLE AND IT IS A FACT AS WELL. ALL ARE TO BE WELL RECEIVED, HOW TO REPLY IS THE QUESTION TO BE ANSWERED. -NEVER TALK ILL, MAYBE SOME MAY AGREE AND SOME MAY NOT BUT SURELY DISCUSSION IF NOT WITH YOU AS A SUFFERER, BUT OUTSIDE DISCUSSIONS WILL GO ON FOR AND AGA .....Read more

HOW TO DEAL IF PRESENT AND PAST SHOW THAT THE PERSON, GROUP/SECT/COUNTRY IS NOT HALTING/CORRECTING ITS BEHAVIOUR AND IS OVERTLY OR SECRETLY ADVANCING HIS/HER/ THEIR THINKING/BELIEF, THEN WHAT TYPE OF ACTION IS TO BE TAKEN, IS THE QUESTION WHICH NEEDS TO BE ANSWERED. ANSWER; 1. IT IS ESSENTIAL TO TAKE PERSUASIVE AND PREVENTIVE ACTION(S) 2. NEVER LEAVE MUCH TIME IN THINKING AND/TRUSTING 3. MUST KEEP A WATCH BY ALL MEANS 4. IF ALL INFOR .....Read more

HOW TO FORESEE INTENTIONS OF A PERSON? THOUGH IT IS A VERY DIFFICULT SUBJECT, BUT IT IS ESSENTIAL TO FORESEE AND VISUALISE AS TO WHAT RETALIATORY/PRECAUTIONARY/ PREVENTIVE MEASURES COULD BE TAKEN TO AVOID CONSEQUESES MINOR OR MAJOR ONES. IF SO, THEN WHAT COULD BE THE PARAMETERS TO JUDGE ABOUT THE INTENTIONS OF A PERSON: 1. BACKGROUND; HIS/HER AND HIS/HER FAMILY 2. HIS/HER CONDUCT: SINCE ADULTHOOD, WHETHER HE/SHE HAS WORKED SOMEWH .....Read more

WE DECEIVE OURSELVES AND PRACTICALLY ALL THE TIME REMAIN IN DECEPTION JUST TO CARE FOR THE SOCIETY TO BE ADMIRED ALWAYS, WITH LEAST CONSIDERATION FOR OURSELVES. NO DOUBT, BUEAUTY IN EACH AND EVERYTHING INCLUDING IN SELECTION OF ONE’S WIFE AND VICE VERSA, IS LIKED AND APPRECIATED. BUT SUCH AN APPRECIATION LASTS FOR A SHORTER TIME AND THEREAFTER ONE TAKES IT AS A ROUTINE AND FORGETS ABOUT IT. FURTHER TO GET BEAUTY AND MAINTAIN IT IS A .....Read more

VICES ARE THE WORST, THESE MUST BE ELEMINATED AT ALL COSTS -TO START WITH, LET ME EXPLAIN THAT HABITS AND VICES ARE NOT THE SAME. -HABITS RELATE TO GOOD OR BAD AS PER SOCIETY, FREIENDS RELATIONS, FAMILY ETC. WHILE VICES ARE INDIVIDUAL AND HARM THE PERSON CONCERNED WHO IS ADDICTED TO THESE. -HABITS COULD BE SUMMED UP IN RELATION TO DAILY USE IN ACTION FOR EXAMPLE REACHING OFFICE, APPOINMENTS, OFFICE ETC. IN SCHEDULED TIME, NEVER TO GET IN .....Read more

BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE WHO IS STRONGER? -IT IS A MOST COMPLEX AND TICKLISH QUESTION. HOWEVER IT NEEDS TO BE ANALYSED AND CONCLUSION DRAWN. -SOON AFTER MARRIAGE, MOSTLY IT IS HUSBAND WHO IS COMPARATIVELY STRONGER AS THE WIFE ENTERS A NEW HOUSE, UNKNOWN TO REST OF THE MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY, EXCEPT HER HUSBAND. ……………………………………………………HUSBAND AS SUCH IS STRONGER .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT TURNING POINT OF LIFE. ONE MAY ACCEPT IT OR NOT, IT IS A FACT, MARRIAGE DOES TRACE IN LIFE AN UNEFFACEABLE MARK AND ROLLS ONE TO GOOD OR BAD SHAPE OF LIFE -A LARGER NUMBER OF MARRIAGE IS TENDING TO FAIL, MORE THAN HALF MANAGE TO LIVE WITH IT, UNHAPPILY AND DO NOT TEND TO BREAK FOR THE SAKE OF CHILDREN. FEAR OF PARENTS, AND SOCIETY ETC., WHILE THERE IS A MINIMAL PERCENTAGE WHO LIVES A HAPPY LIFE, .....Read more

WHY IN THE SAME FAMILY, CHILDREN ARE BORN WITH DIFFERENT BEHAVIOURS BESIDES COLOUR, SHAPE, VOICE ETC. I THINK IT GOES WITH MOTHER’S POSTURE AT THE TIME OF PREGNANCY. IF THE COUPLE CONTINUES FIGHTING, POSSIBLY THE CHILD WILL HAVE AGITATIONAL BEHAVIOUR. IF THE MOTHER IS LIVING IN HAPPIER ENVIRONMENTS AND WORRILESS, THE CHILD WILL POSSIBLY BE OF BETTER IMPROVED COLOUR AND WILL ALSO BE A HAPPY AND JOLLY ONE. IF THIS IS A FACT, THEN WE MAY BE .....Read more

AJ BAITHAI BHATAI KHYAL AYA HAI MUJAI KAHAN HO TUM AUR KAHAN HOON MEIN TARAP RAHA HOON YAHAN MEIN AKELA SHAYAD HOGA TERA HAAL AISSA HEE SOCHTA HOON MEIN KABHEE KYA AISSI THEE KISMAT HAMAREE KYA REHAINGAI HUM KISMAT KAI MARAI KYA KOSSAINGAI HUM AAPNEE KISMIAT KO YA KOSAINGAI HUM AAPNEE AAPNEE KARNEE KO ULJHAN MAIN PAR GAYA HOON MEIN SAMAJ MAIN KUCHH AATA NAHIN KYA THA KASOOR MERA TUMHAIN AAPNA BANANAI MEIN SOCHTA HOON MEIN KA .....Read more

NEVER BLAME GOD EVER Just a fiction -I WAS SITTING IN MY VILLAGE AT A COT (CHARPAYEE) -ALL OF A SUDDEN, EARTHQUAKE HAPPENEND -CAUSING FEAR ALL AROUND IN THE VILLAGE -I SAW EVERYONE RUNNING OUT OF HIS/HER HOUSE -I ALSO JUMPED FROM THE COT TO GET OUTSIDE -AS I PUT MY FEET ON THE GROUND -ASTONISHINGLY AND ALARMINGLY I FOUND WATER GUSHING OUT OF THE LAND WHERE I WAS STANDING -I NEVER BELIEVED AN .....Read more

PYAAR (LOVE) -PYAAR HAI EK JANOON -JISKO LAG JAATA HAI -YA TO BANA DETA HAI -YA MITA DETA HAI YAI -PYAAR HAI NATURAL -PAIDA HOTA HAI YEH SAB MAIN ZAROOR -BACHPAN SAI LAI KAR BURHAPAI TAK HEE -JO PYAAR KO SAMAJHTAI HAIN THEEK TARAH SAI -VOH ZINDGEE BEETATAI HAIN MAZAI KEE HAR PARKAR SAI HEE ZAROOR -YAN TAK BHEE, KAHIN AGAR ZAROORAT PARAI TO JAAN DENAI KAI LIYAI TYAR REHTAIN HAIN HAR VAKAT -BAS FARK SIRF ITNA .....Read more

DAUGHTER IN-LAW AND MOTHER IN-LAW’S FUED ESPECIALLY FOR A WORKING GIRL IN MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY AND SOLUTIONS THEREOF -WORKING GIRL IN MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY AFTER MARRIAGE REMAINS OBLIGED TO LIVE IN A JOINT FAMILY MAINLY DUE TO FINANCIAL COMPULSIONS -AS SUCH THE DIFFICULTY FOR THE WORKING GIRL STARTS BESIDES OTHER FACTORS LIKE DOWRY, GIFTS, MARRIAGE CELEBRATION SHORTCOMINGS ETC. ETC. BECAUSE SHE IS TO WORK WHOLE DAY IN WORKPLACE .....Read more

POSSESSIVENESS -POSSESSIVENESS IS GOOD AS IT HELPS -CREATES MINE AND THINE AS SUCH ONE, ALL THE TIME CONCENTRATES AND BUILDS RELATIONSHIPS AND ASPIRATIONS AS BEST AS ONE CAN, AS DEFINED HEREUNDER: -RELATIONS WITH WIFE -BRING UP THE CHILDREN AS BEST AS POS .....Read more

-SUCCESS WHAT DOES IT MEAN ? 1. FIRST AND FOREMOST IMPORTANT IS THAT WHAT ONE AIMS AT, STRUGGLES FOR. AND WHAT IS ACHIEVED AS PER ONE’S GOAL/AIMS, IS CALLED SUCCESS. 2. SUCCESS AS SUCH IS INTERPRETED AND IS MANIFESTED IN MANY MANNERS LIKE; A. IN COMPETITION B. IN COMPARISON C. IN SATISFACTION AND HAPPINESS D. PROGRESS IN CAREER, STATUS AND .....Read more

-KATEE PATANG – TORN OUT KITE -WHAT A PATHETIC EXPERIENCE WHICH I CAN NEVER FORGET -ONE DAY COLD BUT GENTLE WIND WAS BLOWING -SOMEHOW I WAS FREE ALSO, NOTHING MUCH TO DO -IT CAME TO MY MIND LET ME PLAY WITH THE KITE TODAY -I RUSHED TO THE SHOP NEARBY, BOUGHT A BEAUTIFUL AND COLOURFUL KITE AND A ROLLER WITH STRONG STRING AS WELL -I MOVED TO A PLANE GROUND AND STARTED FLYING THE THE KITE, THE HIGHER IT WAS MOVING ON, THE MORE .....Read more

-WHAT A WONDERFUL LOVE OF THORNS(KANTAI) FOR THE FLOWER, IMMENSE, UNIMAGINEABLE -TO ENABLE THE FLOWER TO FLOURISH AND EMIT MAXIMUM SCENT TO ENABLE PERSONS LIKE US TO ENJOY, KEEP IN TEMPLES, USE AS GARLANDS FOR MARRIAGE FOR LADIES TO PUT IN THEIR HAIRS ETC. -THORNS DO NOT BOTHER WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THEM -THEY ALL THEIR ENERGY TO THE FLOWER -DESPITE THE FACT THAT THESE THEMSELVES GET DRIED UP -THESE THORNS DO UNIMAGINABLE .....Read more

-IMPOSSIBLES SOME TIME TURN INTO REALITY -THIS IS A STORY OF TWO LOVERS -USUALLY LOVERS LOOK FOR AN OCCASION WHEREIN PARENTS FALL FAST IN SLEEP OR GO AWAY SO FAR FROM SIGHT OF THE PARENTS TO HIDE AND NOT LET KNOWN TO THEIR PARENTS NEITHER BY ACTION NOR BY TALK NOR BY MOVEMENTS -ON THE CONTRARY IF PARENTS ARE A BIT FREE NOT TO0 TIRED IN RESPONSIBILITIES AT HOUSE OR IN OFFICE AND/OR IN SO MANY RELATIONS AND PROBLEMS SOLVING ETC. .....Read more

-JAB JAVAN THAI HUM KYA THEE CHAH PYAR KEE HUMAIN -AUR THEE UMANGAIN TARAH TARAH KEE HUMAIN -DEKHATAI THAI CINEMA MAIN LOVE STORIES KHOOB -AUR DEKHTAI THAI KHOOBSOORAT PICTURES ACTRESSES KEE BHEE -DIL KAR THA KEH HUMAIN BHEE AISSEE BEEVEE MIL JAYAI AGAR, TO HO GAR ZINDGEE KA MAZA HEE MAZA -KISMAT NAIN AISA HEE KIYA, MILGAYEE HUMAIN KHUBSOORAT BEEVEE LAJAWAB HEE -NAKHRAI USKAI ITNAI THAI KEH MEIN SAHIN NAN PAYA -AUR NAN SAHEN PAYA .....Read more

-HEALTH IS WEALTH IT IS TRUE ALSO -HEALTH IS MOST IMPORTANT AT ALL STAGES OF LIFE -MANY NEGLECT IT FOR ACHIIEVIENG SUCCESS IN STUDIES, IN BUILDING CAREER ETC.- -HENCE THEY CONCENCENTRATE MOST OF THEIR TIME TO REACH THESE GOALS. -IT IS GENERALLY SAID THAT IF YOU WANT TO GAIN SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO LOSE SOMETHING -AS SUCH IF ONE WANTS TO EXCEL IN STUDIES OR IN CAREER, ONE IS SUPPOSED TO NEGLECT ONE’S HEALTH -IT IS NOT TRUE I .....Read more

IN OLD AGE, CAN EVER ONE BECOME YOUNG, ONE WILL WONDER HOW IT IS POSSIBLE, RATHER IT IS IMPOSSIOBLE, BUT IT ISA FACT AND IS ACHIEVEABLE. QUESTION ARISES HOW IT IS POSSIBLE? REPLY 1. SOME GET MARRIED TO GIRLS OF THEIR CHOICE 2. WHILE SOME MAINTAIN THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR WIVES BY KEEPING THEM HAPPY BY ALL MEANS BY ALL SACRIFICES EVER NEEDED, AS SUCH THEY TAKE CARE OF THEIR WIVES AND THEIR WIVES ALSO DO ALL .....Read more

TO FILL CONFIDENTIAL REPORT BY BOSS FOR THE EMPLOYEES WORKING UNDER HIM/HER IS A VERY DIFFICULT JOB QUESTION ARISES WHAT ARE HIS/HER DIFFIFULTIES? THESE CONSIST IN 1. ANY EMPLOYEE IS STAFF COUNSIL MEMBER OR SECRETARY 2. ONE IS AFFILIATED WITH UNION OR IS A UNION LEADER 3.INEFFICIENT WORKER BUT VERY RESPECTFUL AND OBEDIENT 4. DOES NOT BOTHER FOR HISHER BOSS BUT IS VERY LIKED BY HIGHER UP BOSS/BOSSES ETC. ETC. 1ST AND FOREMOST ANSWERS LIES IN T .....Read more

G-20 ORGANISATION IS GOOD TO MEET , ESTABLISH CONTACTS AND TO SORT OUT DIFFERENCES WHENEVER, WHEREVER AND WITH EACH AND EVERY COUNTRY CONCERNED. NO DOUBT, TO PLEASE THEIR OWN PEOPLE, EACH COUNTRY LOOKS TO ITS OWN INTEREST, WITH NO CARE AS TO HOW IT WILL AFFECT THE OTHER COUNTRY CONCERNED. -TODAY NO COUNTRY LIVES IN ISOLATION, EACH COUNTRY NEEDS TO KEEP GLOBAL RELATIONS FOR TRADE, COMMON ISSUES LIKE CLIMATE, CRYTO CURRENCIES, TERROR .....Read more

-JAB SAI DEKHA HAI MEIN NAIN TUMHAIN -TO AAIGAYEE HAI KHUDAYEE MUJHAI -KHUSHYON KEE BHUCHHAR HONAI LAGEE -YEH MURJHAYA HUA DIL -DAG MAGANAI LAGA -IDHAR MOR AUR MORNEE BHEE NACHNAI LAGAI -AUR PRINDAI BHEE APNEE APNEE SUREELEE AWAZ MAIN GEET GAANAI LAGAI -BAS PHIR DIL HO GAYA BAAG BAAG HAR PARKAR SAI HEE -KHUSHYAN HEE KHUSHYAN MIL RAHIN THEE CHARON TARAF SAI HEE -PHIR KYA HUA ACHANAK -ROOTH GAYEE YEH MEHBOOBA MERAI SAI -K .....Read more

TO LIVE ALONE, IS NOT AN EASY ONE -AKELAI REHNA KOYEE AIHSAN HAI NAHIN -AKELA JEEVAN TO BEETAYA JATA HAI -JAB TAK JAVANEE AATEE NAHIN -TAB TAK TO INSSAN AKELA REH LETA HAI ZAROOR -AUR JAB JAVANEE AATEE HAI -TO PYAAR KEE UMANGAI JAAG JATEE HAIN ZAROOR -AUR AGAR KOYEE AKELA REHNA CHAHAI BHEE, TO AKELA REH SAKTA NAHIN -SIVAYAI ISKAI KEH PYAAR KAHIN TOOT NAN JAYAI -ZIMAVARIA .....Read more

SUCCESS MEANS WHAT? 1. FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT IS THAT WHAT ONE AIMS AT, TO STRUGGLE FOR AND TO ACHIEVE IS CALLED SUCCESS. IN GENERAL. 2. AS SUCH SUCCESS IN INTERPRETTED AND MANIFESTED IN SO MANY MANNERS IN VARIOUS WAYS AND IN VARIOUS MANNERS LIKE: -IN COMPETITION -IN COMPARISON -IN SATISFACTION AND HAPPINESS -PROGRESS IN CAREER, STATUS .....Read more

SELF ESTEEM AND SELF IDENTITY -NO DOUBT, BOTH ARE IMPORTANT AS A SOCIAL BEING AND ALSO ESSNTIAL TO LIVE IN SOCIETY AND AMONGST ALL SORT OF PEOPLE AROUND -HOWEVER THERE IS DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIVING ALONE AND LIVING IN A MAARRIED LIFE -MARRIED LIFE DOES MAKE IT ESSENTIAL THAT HUSBAND AND WIFE WILL LIVE TOGETHER AND ENJOY THEIR LIFE IN TOGETHERNESS WHICH IN TURN COMPELS BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE TO DILUTE THEIR FREEDOM AND .....Read more

SELF ESTEEM AND SELF IDENTITY -WHAT WERE THOSE WONDERFUL DAYS -WHEN I WAS STUDYING IN CO-EDUCATION COLLEGE -NEVER COULD ANY BOY DARE TO CASTE ANY CASUTIC REMARKS NOR EVEN DARE TO COME NEAR ME -I COULD VERY WELL BATTLE THEM IN DISCUSSIONS -AND COULD ESTABLISH THAT GIRLS ARE IN NO WAY LESS THAN THE BOYS -GIRLS NEED TO BE TREATED AS EQAUALS AND RESPECTED AS SUCH -WHAT A SURPISE, THIS PERCEPTION AND THINKING COULD NOT BE MAI .....Read more

NIGHTMARES WHEN WE SLEEP, OUR BODY GETS FRESH AND REJUVINATES ITSELF FOR THE FOLLOWING DAY BUT IT IS OUR MIND THAT REMAINS ACTIVE. IT REMAINS BUSY IN SORTING OUT AND FILLING IN INFORMATION THAT IT GATHERS THROUGHOUT THE DAY. CAUSES 1. A FEW MEDICINES AND DRUGS WHICH POUR CHEMICALS IN THE BRAIN 2. SOME ARE NON-PSYHOLOGICAL MEDICAL INDICATIONS LIKE.. B .....Read more

ROUTINE CREATES MONOTONY THEN WHAT ARE THE SOLUTIONS? -ROUTINE CREATES MONOTONY WHILE BREAK CREATES RISK -MOST OF THE PEOPLE REMAIN BUSY WITH ROUTINE -WHILE FEW IN EXCEPTION BREAK FROM IT -WHY SO, WITH THE ROUTINE, WHETHER THEY FEEL SATISFIED OR NOT, THEY REMAIN BUSY WITH THOSE SITUATIONS -NEITHER DO THEY FIND TIME -NOR DO THEY FEEL THE URGE TO CHANGE -AND MOST OF THEM FEEL AFRAID TO EMBARK ON CHANGE WHICH THEY THINK WI .....Read more

MONEY IS TURNING SUPER POWER THAN THE RLATIONSHIPS, WHY IT IS SO? ESPECIALLY WITH REGARD TO ONE’S CHILDREN -MONEY IS THE NEED FOR ALL PURPOSES -WHILE RELATIONSHIPS ARE NEEDED FROM TIME TO TIME -REST CAN BE SUBSTITUTED OR ONE CAN LIVE WITHOUT -AS THE CHILDREN GROW, SET UP THEIR OWN UNITS, COMPETITION AND JEALOUSIES DEVELOP MOSTLY INSTIGATED BY RESPECTIVE WIVES -ASSETS, BUSINESS AND DISTRIBUTION OF THESE TURN OUT TO .....Read more

ACTION AND DESTINY -ZINDGEE CHALTEE HAI -AUR CHALAEE BHEE JATEE HAI -KUCHH TO GURBAT MAIN TOOT JATAI HAIN -AUR KUCHH SHAUHRAT PAATAI HAIN -KUCHH FAMILY BANATAI HAIN -AUR KUCHH AKELAI REH JATAI HAIN -KAYEE TO FAMILY BANA KAR BHEE BIKHAR JATAI HAIN -AUR KUCHH ISS DUNIYAN MAIN JEEVAN KHUSHEE SAI BETATAI HAIN -AUR KUCHH ISS DAUR MAIN DOOB JATAI HAIN -KUCHH ISS ZINDGEE KO KARMON KAI SATH JOR LETAI HAIN -KUCHH ISSKO MANTAI .....Read more

-HEY ZINDGEE BEWAFAA HAI TU -KAL KA PATA NAHIN -DIN HOGA YA NAHIN -BHAROSSA TUM PAR ZARA HEE NAHIN -KAB TU HUMAINI DABOCH LAIGEE -KAHAN LAI JAYAIGEE TU HUMAIN -YEH BHEE PATA NAHIN -LEKIN HAI ITNA PATA ZAROOR -BEDARD HAI TU -TARS TO TERAI MAIN HAI HEE NAHIN -HAI TU KAFIR SAI BHEE BADTAR -JITNA SOCHTAI HAIN HUM -TERAI KARNAMON KAI BARAI MAIN -UTNA DOOR HOTAI JATAI HAIN HUM TERAI SAI DOOR -LEKIN KARAIN TO KYA -BEBAS HAIN HUM -NAN .....Read more

LAST APPROACH BY HUSBAND TO HIS WIFE -HUSBAND KEHTA HAI BEEVEE KO -TU MAAN YA NAN MAAN -MEIN KEH DETA HOON APNAI DIL KEE PUKAR ZAROOR, -AKHREE BAR TUMHAIN -SOCH LAI ZARA -KYA THEEE CHAMAK TEHRAI CHEHRAI PAI -JAB HOYEE HAMAREE SHADEE EK DOOSRAI SAI -CHAND SITARAI SHARMATAI THAI TUMHAIN DEKH KAR -SURAJ BHEE CHHAON KAR DETA THA KAHIN TERA CHEHRA -SURAJ KEE GARMEE SAI -MURJHA NAN PAYAI -AUR NAN PAR JAYAIN KALI JHURIAN BHE .....Read more

-KABHEE KHUSHEE KABHEE GAM -JAANTEE HOON MEIN YEH ACHHI TARAH -HAIN YEH DONO ZINDGEE KAI DO PEHLOO ZAROOR -DIN AUR RAAT KEE TARAH HEE -DIN KAI BAAD RAAT TO AYAIGEE ZAROOR -AUR RAAT KAI BAAD AANA BHEE HAI DIN KO ZAROOR -FARQ SIRF ITNA HEE HAI -KHUSHEE ZYADA DER REHTEE HAI YA GAMEE BHEE -HALAAT BADLTAI HAIN -KUCHH GAMIYAN TO HOTEE HAIN APNEE KARNEE SAI -LEKIN BAHUT SAI GAM PAIDA HOTAI HAIN BAHR SAI BHEE -AGAR HUM SOCH LAIN, HAIN TO YEH D .....Read more

-KINDNESS IS REWARDED ALWAYS -SOONER OR LATER, NEVER GOES -WASTE, DEFINITELY AND SURELY -BRINGS PEACE TO THE GIVER AS A MINIMUM REWARD. -IT SO HAPPENED THAT BUSINESSMAN (A) LOST ALL IN HIS BUSINESS -HE WENT TO BUSINESSMAN (B) TO ASK FOR HELP -THIS BUSINESSMAN (B) SHOUTED ON HIM, ABSUSED HIM AND TOLD HIM NEVER TO GET BACK HERE AGAIN -PROBABLY (A) AND (B) WERE COMPETITORS IT IS UNKNOWN -THE BUSINESSMAN (A) GOT VERY MUCH DI .....Read more

-HORRIBLE SCENE, NEVER TO REPEAT AGAIN -ONE DAY WE AND MOST OF US WERE TAKING MORNING WALK -IN GROUPS, SOME WERE WALKING ALONE AND SOME WERE SITTING CALMLY AND QUIETLY ON THE BENCHES WHILE SOME WERE READING NEWSPAPER ETC, AS ALSO SOME WERE STROLLING IN COUPLES CHATTING AND RECOUNTING HOUSEHOLD AND RELATIONSHIP HAPPENINGS, SO ON AND SO FORTH -WE AND MANY OTHERS WERE ENJOYING TO SEE YOGA PERFORMERS, TUNING SONGS, ETC. AND EN .....Read more

-JUST A FICTION, HOW MAN WILL SUCCEED TO OVERPOWER GOD. -INSSAN POOCHHTA HAI BHAGWAN SAI -TU NAI BANAYA HAI HUMAIN KIS LIYAI -BATA DAI TU ZARA HAMARAI JANNAI KAI LIYAI -AUR AGAR BANANA HEE THA -TO HUMAIN APNAI PASS RAKHA KIYON NAHIN -PHAINK DIYA HAI TU NAIN HUMAIN -ISS ZAMEEN PAR KIYON -JAHAN MEIN DEKHTA HOON MERAI CHARON TARAF -KHOONKHAR JANVAR SHER KI TARAH -AUR GHOOM RAHAI HAIN CHARON TARAF ZEHREELAI SANP BHEE -KYA THA .....Read more

IS IT ESSENTIAL TO GET ANGRY AND USE HARSH WORDS FOR THOSE WHO REPEATEDLY DO NOT PERFORM IN THE MANNER WE TELL THEM. IN REPLY, I WILL SAY THAT BY USING HARSH WORDS, ONE WILL BE SPOILING ONE'S HABITS AND ATTITUDES AND BY GETTING ANGRY, ONE WILL SPOIL ONE'S HEALTH. THEN WHAT IS THE ANSWER. ANSWER LIES IN EXPLANATION AND REMAIN PRESENT TO SEE HOW THE CONCERNED PERSON IS EXECUTING, AND IF NOT, THEN EXPLAIN AND GUIDE WHERE HE/SHE IS DOING MIST .....Read more

HASBAND BEEVEE KO KEHTA HAI -JAB YEH PATA HAI -EK NAN EK DIN CHALAI JANA HAI -YEH TO PATA NAHIN KAUN JAYAIGA PEHLAI -TO YEH SAMAJH MAIN AATA NAHIN -TU HAR VAKAT JHAGRA KARTEE REHTEE HAI KIYON -MERAI VICHAR MAIN, MEIN NAN TO TUMHAIN GUSSA DILATA HOON AUR NAN JHAGRA KOYEEE KARTA HOON TUMSAI -PHIR KIYON NARAZ REHTEE HAI TU HAR VAKAT -BEEVEE KEHTA HAI GHUSSAI MAIN -TUMHAIN KYA NAZAR NAHIN AATA -BACHAI MEREE SUNTAI HEE NAHIN .....Read more

-BAAP BETEE SAI POOCHHTA HAI -AAJ TU UDASS KIYAON HAI ITNEE -BEETEE KEHTEE HAI MUJHAI AAP SAI KEHNAI MAIN DAR LAG RAHA HAI BAHUT -BAAP KEHTA HAI BEETEE KO -KYA TU MERAI SAI BHEE CHHUPAI GEE -BEETEE TAB SAB KUCHH BAAP KO BATA DETEE HAI, BAAP KEE SALAH AUR VICHAR SUNNAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -BEETEE DARTAI DARTAI KEH DETEE HAI BAAP KO -KEH MUJHAI EK LARAKAI KAI SAATH PYAR HO GAYA HAI -HUM KAFEE ARSSAI SAI MIL RAHAIN EK DOOSRAI KO .....Read more

LIFE PASSES MOSTLY IN WORRIES AND CONFLICTS, SHORTEST ARE FEW DAYS COMPARIED TO HARD AND WORRIED LIFE. QUESTION ARISES WHY SO, LIFE IS MEANT TO LIVE IN ENJOYMENT AND HAPPINESS. MANY INVENTIONS HAVE BEEN DONE TO COMFORT AND LET THE MEN/WOMEN ENJOY AND BENEFIT FROM THESE. ALAS, IT DOES NOT HAPPEN. PERHAPS IT IS THE NATURE OF MEN/WOMEN TO REMAIN IN GREED, JEALOUSIES AND PREHAPS TO TAKE PLEASURE IN DESTRUCTION OF OTHERS, EGO DOMINATES, WISDOM BOWS D .....Read more

HUSBAND CALLS HIS WIFE A DISLOYAL FRIEND =HAI DOST YEH TO BATA DAI -NAN KEE HAI TU NAI BEFAYEE -BULKE GHADAREE KAR DEE HAI TU NAI MUJH SAI -SUNA THA MEIN NAIN -DOST DOST HOTAIN AUR REHTAI HAIN JEEVAN KA SAATHEE BAN KAR -TU NAIN TO SACH KAR DIYA HAI YEH BEDARDEE MAIN -DOST DOST NAN RAH -PYAR PYAR NAN RAHA -BADAL GAYEE HAI YEH ZINDGEE RONAI MAIN AUR PACHHTANAI MAIN HEE -KYA KAHOON MEIN TUJHAI -DIN KATA NAHIN -RAT KHATA .....Read more

-SUNATA HOON MEIN AAJ AAP SUB KO -DASTAN EK GHAR KEE -BAAP JAB APNEE JAIDAD BANTNAI LAGA -TO USSNAI JOR DIYA AAPNEE SHADI SHUDA BETEE KA HISSA BHEE -YAHAN PAR HO GAYEE LARAYEE MAN BAAP KAI SAATH AUR BEHN BHAI MAIN BHEE -BEHN ROTI ROTI APNAI GHAR VAPAS AA GAYEE -JAB USKA PAEE GHAR MAIN AYA -HAIRAN HUA BEEVEE KO ROTAI HUAI -POOCHHA BAR BAR, LEKIN BEEVEE NAI DIYA JAWAB NAHIN AUR KEH DYA YEH MERAI GHAR KA MAMLA HAI -TO HUSBAND NAIN Z .....Read more

-MUHABAT KEE HAI TO NAFRAT KIYON -PATA NAHIN MUJHAI KIYON AUR KISS LIYAI -ZARA BATA KAI TU DEKH, HOON MEIN KITNA REHM DIL AUR KITNA KARTA HOON PYAR TUM SAI -BUS AGAR TU BATATEE HEE NAHIN -AUR KAR LIYA HAI NAFRAT KA FAISLA -TU NAIN SOCH SAMAJH KAR HEE -TO KYA HAI RONA KA FAIDA AB -AB BHEE KUCHH VAKAT HAI BAKEE -SOCH LAI ZARA KYA RONAI SAI -AA JAYAIGA VAPAS PYAR TUMAHARA -SAMAJHTEE HAI NAHIN YEH TU -NAFRAT JAB AATEE HAI -TO TOOFAN KEE TA .....Read more

-NIGAH SAI NIGA MILI -DIL SAI DIL MILA -AANKH MACHOLI SHURU HUEE -PYAR BARHANAI LAGA -BAS PHIR AISAI LAGNAI LAGA -KEH HAI YEH DUNIYA HAMARI -GHOOMAIN PHIRAIN -AUR KARAIN PYAR HUM DONO -HAR VAKAT AND HAR JAGAH -KYA HUA ACHANAK -MAN BAAP KO SHAK HUA -POOCHNAI LAGAI MUJH SAI -KYA TUM ISS LARKAI KO JAANTEE HO -KYA KARTA HAI YEH -AUR KAISAI HAI FAMILY ISSKI -LARKI NAI KAHA MAN BAAP SAI -PYAR MAIN YEH CHEEZAIN DEKHI NAHIN JATEEN .....Read more

DRAMATIC, DISTRESSING I FEEL WHEN I FIND THE BRIGHTEST COLLEAGUES, FRIENDS ETC. DID NOT SUCCEED IN LIFE. Maybe they succeeded in one and failed in other spheres of life. I am of the view that the brightest person has some supper intelligence, super capacity etc. to compete and excel. Then why it is so that such brightest persons remain mediocre in life. I think reasons could be many, for instance, 1. misfit in job 2. joining an organisation which .....Read more

LIFE... I WONDER WHAT IS LIFE AFTER ALL -IS IT STRUGGLE -IS IT DESTINY -IS IT DESTINY -IS IT OPPORTUNITY -IS IT WIFE -IS IT CHILDREN -IS IT PROGRESS AND SUCCESS -IS IT FULL OF RESPONSIBILITIES -IS IT FULL OF REBUKES AND CRITICISM -IT IS FULL OF UNHAPPINESS -IS IT FULL OF REGRETS AND REPENTANCES -IS IT FULL OF JEALOUSIES HATRED, CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS -IS IT TO RULE OVER OTHERS BY HOOKS OR CROOKS -IS IT TO LIVE AND PASS LI .....Read more

-PYAR EK AISSI BEMAREE HAI -JO EK DAFA LAG JAYAI -TO KHATAM KABHEE HOTEE NAHIN -PHAILTEE JATEE HAI YEH CANCER KEE TERAH -JO SAMAJH LAITAI HAIN ISS BEEMARI PYAR KEE CANCER KEE TERAH -VOH ILLAJ KAR LETAI HAIN ISSKA JALDEE SAI HEE -AUR JO GHAFLAT KARTAI HAIN YA DETAI NAHIN TWAJO -UNKEE BEEMARI EK NAN EK DIN KAR DETEE HAI KHATAM UNHAIN -CANCER KAI ILLAJ KAI LIYAI JATA HAI MAREEZ DOCTOR KAI PASS -AGAR PYAR KEE BEEMAREE KO .....Read more

GIRLS ARE MOVING FAST TO CATCH UP WITH BOYS LET THE BOYS NOT REMAIN IN SLUMBER OR REMAIN UNCONSCIOUS ABOUT THIS CHANGE. -GIRLS USED TO STUDY IN SEPARATE GIRLS SCHOOLS ARE NOW ARE STUDYING IN CO-EDUCATION SCHOOLS WHICH ENABLES THE GIRLS TO LEARN AS TO HOW TO BEHAVE WITH BOYS AND MAKE THE BOYS TREAT THEM AS EQUALS. -GIRLS HAVE STARTED TAKING UP JOBS AND ARE JOINING ALMOST ALL VOCATIONS WHICH WERE SOMETIME BACK THOUGHT TO BE .....Read more

62 YEARS MARRIAGE CELEBRATIONS -WHAT A WONDERFUL DAY WAS ON JULY 23 1961 -WHEN I CAME TO KARNAL IN FULL PROCESSION AND FULL OF IMMENSE EXPECTATIONS -TO TIE THE WED KNOT OF LOVE AND TO OWN RESPONSIBILITIES OF FAMILY BUILDING AND TO MAKE PROGRESS IN LIFE, ALL IN LOVE AND IN TOGETHERNESS. -HOW AMAZING AND EXCITING IT LOOKS THAT WE HAVE PASSED THESE 61 YEARS TOGETHER TO MAKE PROGRESS AND TO HAVE FAMILY OF OUR OW .....Read more

WIFE COMMANDS MORE THAN THE HUSBAND, THEN WHY DOES SHE GRUMBLE, IS THE QUESTION -PERHAPS SHE IS NOT CONSCIOUS OF THAT -PERHAPS SHE GETS BURDENED WITH WORK ESPECIALLY WHEN WORKING AND TAKING CARE OF HOUSEHOLD -PERHAPS RESPONSIBILITIES ARE NOT BEINGSHARED BY THE HUSBAND IN REPLY: -IF HUSBAND MAKES AN EFFORT TO EXPLAIN THAT HIS JOB IS EARNING, MAKE PROGRESS IN CAREER, AND BRING IN MORE MONEY FOR WELFARE OF THE FAMILY AND IN PARTI .....Read more

IN COUPLE WHO IS IMPORTANT, HUSBAND OR WIFE MY ANSWER WILL BE THAT SOON AFTER MARRIAGE, HUSBAND REMAINS IMPORTANT AS THE CHILD(ren) IS/ARE BORN, WIFE STARTS BECOMING IMPORTANT, EVEN IF THERE IS NOT A CHILD, EVEN A FEW YEARS AFTER MARRIAGE, NONE IS IMPORTANT, BOTH GET TO CONSULTATION, CARE FOR EACH OTHER AND TAKE GENERALLY COLLECTIVE DECISIONS THERE DO ARISE SOME TIME CONFICTS AS WELLL, SOME ARE ABLE TO SORT OUT WHILE OTHER GET SEPARATE .....Read more

WHAT IS LIFE, WHAT IS ITS PURPOSE, HOW IT IS SPENT HOW IT ENDS AND HOW IT IS REMEMBERED PERHAPS FOR A SHORT PERIOD. WE COME WEAPING AND GO WEAPING I DO NOT KNOW WHY TO COME WEAPING, PERHAPS TO REMAIN IN MOTHER’S WOMB WAS BETTER THAN COMING OUT THEN QUESTION ARISES WHY WEAPING AT THE END OF LIFE, IT IS PERHAPS ONE DOES NOT WANT TO REACH AN END OF HIS/HER LIFE, PERHAPS THINKS THERE ARE MANY JOBS LEFT UNDONE,WHICH NEED HIM/HER TO .....Read more

IN PATHETIC ONDITION, HUSBAND TELLS THE WIFE -KYA VAJA HAI TU NAIN MUJHAI PEHCHANA HEE NAHIN -MORE LIYA HAI MOON AISAI JAISAI HUM EK DOOSRAI KO JAANTAI HEE NAHIN -KYA HAI KASOOR MERA AUR HAI AGAR KOYEE CHIKWA BHEE AGAR -BATA TO DAI TU VO ZAROOR MUJHAI -HAI MERI TUJH SAI YEH ILTEJAH ZAROOR -AANKHAIN MORE KAR CHALAI JAANA NAHIN -HAI NAHIN MUJAI YEH MANZOOR -SUN LAI YEH TU ZAROOR -PARVARDEGAR NAIN AHSTA AHSTA BATA DEYA HAI MUJHAI -ZI .....Read more

UCC- UNIFRM CIVIL CODE TO GOVERN ALL PEOPLE IN THE COUNTRY UNDER COMMON LAW IN DEMOCRATIC COUNTRIES, GOVERNANCE COMES ABOUT BY THEIR CONSTITUTION. AS SUCH, WHATEVER LAWS AND BELIEFS EXIST IN VARIOUS RELIGIONS NEED TO BE BROUGHT IN THE AMBIT OF LAW OF THE COUNTRY, CALLED CIVIL LAW. AS SUCH CIVIL LAW IS SUPREME AND THE RELIGIOUS LAWS AND BELIEFS ARE SUBORDINATE AND IF THERE IS CONTRADICTION BETWEEN THE TWO, THE CIVIL LAW AS PASSED BY P .....Read more

HOW TO MAKE LIFE BETTER? -ALMOST EVERYONE ASPIRES TO ACHIEVE -PROGRESS -PROMINENCE -APPRECIATION -GOOD HEALTH -HAPPY FAMILY LIFE -CHILDREN ARE PROMISING AND ARE WELL SETTLED -STRUGGLE GOES ON PRATICALLY BY EVERYONE WHOLE OF ONE’S LIFE TO ACHIEVE THESE. -HOWEVER TO ACHIEVE THESE GOALS AND ASPIRATIONS FOLLOWING PARAMETERS ARE ESSENTIAL - INTELLIG .....Read more

HOW IS MY BAD LUCK AND HOW UNLUCKY I AM -KNOW NOT I WHETHER IT IS BECAUSE OF MY -ACTIONS - PAST KARMA -DESTINY -MY WRONG PLANNING -BEINGTOO MUCH AMBITIOUS AND GREED -I HAD BELIEVED THAT LUCK AND DESTINY ARE NOTHING BUT FALSE ASSUMPTIONS -WHAT COUNTS ARE THE EFFORTS AND ACTION AND NOTHING ELSE -ALAS EXPERIENCE HAS PROVED THE WORST -KNOW I NOT, SHOULD I CURSE MY LUCK OR MY ACTIONS ETC. .....Read more

WHAT WERE THOSE DAYS OF CHILDHOOD I USED TO WANDER, STROLL ABOUT, TO MEET FRIENDS, PLAY, FIGHT AND ENJOY I HAD HEARD IT IS ESSENTIAL TO WORK HARD, MAKE YOUR CAREER TO BECOME RICH AND AS SUCH YOU WILL LIVE TO ENJOY A HAPP LIFE ALAS, LIFE HAS PASSED ON, THERE IS NO DEARTH OF MONEY, THERE IS CONTINUOUS SEARCH FOR HAPPINESS, IT REMAINS A DISTANT DREAM, GOD KNOWS WHEN THIS HAPPINESS WILL COME ABOUT GOT MARRIED, HAVE CHILDREN, ALL H .....Read more

LIFE IS A JOURNEY -IT CAN BE ROUGH -IT CAN BE SOFT -IT CAN BE STRAIGHT -IT CAN BE ROUNDABOUT -IT CAN BE A PUZZLE -HOW LIFE WILL TURN UP -MOSTLY IT IS SHARPENED BY EDUCATION, -ALSODEPENDS ON HOW MUCH BRIGHT ONE IS ALREADY -IN WHAT STANDARD AND IN HOW MANY MARKS ONE PASSES OUT IN VARIOUS EXAMS -ALL SUCH PARAMETERS GENERALLY DETERMINE THE FUTURE COURSE OF LIFE -BASED ON THIS, SOME SHAPE UP LIFE IN GETTING INTO CAREER .....Read more

SHOULD THE WORKERS BE COMPELLED TO WORK FROM OFFICE OR FROM HOME OR BYBRID -WORKING FROM HOME GIVES COMPANIES FINANCIAL ADVANTAGES AS ALSO TO CUT OFF SOME SOCIAL AID FACILITIES -BUT THERE ARE DISADVANTAGES TOO DUE TO -LACK OF CONCENTRATION -NO DISCUSSION AND NO GUIDANCE HOW TO SOLVE CERTAIN UNRESOLVED QUERIES -NO GROWTH AND ELEVATION OF KNOWLEDGE -NO MOTIVATION BY BEING ALWAYS IN THE SAME ENVIRONMENT -ALLOWS TO WORK SHABILY P .....Read more

HUSBAND TELLS HIS WIFE ALEHDA HONA NAN KABHEE AUR NAN MUJHAI RULANA KABHEE HEH HAI ILTEJA MERI TUJH SAI AUR SIRF TUJH SAI HEE. -JAANA TO HAI SAB NAIN EK NAN EK DIN ZAROOR -LEKIN USS SAI PEHLAI ALEHDA HO JANA HAI DUKHIT ZAROOR -ROK TO MEIN SAKTA NAHIN -LEKIN KEH SAKTA HOON ITNA HEE -PRESENT KO TOR KAR FUTURE KA HOPE KARNA -SHAYAD THEEK NO HO ZARA BHEE -LEKIN FAISLA TO TERA HAI -MEIN TO KEH SAKTA HOON KUCCH BHEE NAHIN -LEKIN SU .....Read more

THE LIFE LONG LASTING FRIEND FINALLY REMAINS THE WIFE AND NONE ELSE -IT IS SAID DOST DOST NAN RAHA, PYAR PYAR NAN RAHA ZINDGEE HAMAIN TERA ITEBAR NAN RAHA -DOSTON KEE DOSTEE MAIN KAHA GAYA HAI KEH VOH DOST JO SCHOOL AUR COLLEGE MAIN BANTAI HAIN -YA USS SAI BHEE PEHLAI KHEL KOOD MAIN BANTAI HAIN -VOH GENERALLY EVERLASTING DOST HOTAI HAIN -AUR ISS LIYAI UNHAI CHUM KEHTAI HAIN -LEKIN BAAD MAIN JO DOST BANTAI HAIN -AAM TAUR PAR .....Read more

HUSBAND’S APOLOGETIC REQUEST TO HIS WIFE- -DEAR DARLING, WHY YOU REMAIN ANGRY ALL THE TIME -DO YOU KNOW THAT IF YOU REMAIN ANGRY ALL THE TIME, YOU WILL SPOIL YOUR HEALTH WHICH WILL NEITHER BE GOOD FOR YOU NOR FOR ME AS WELL -IF I HAVE DONE SOME MISTAKE UNKNOWINGLY AND EVEN KNOWINGLY, PLEASE DO TALK TO ME AND TELL ME WHERE AND HOW I HAVE DONE THAT MISTAKE -IN LIFE MANY A TIME CERTAIN ISSUES DO COME UP WHICH CREATE DIFFEREN .....Read more

LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE AND UNRELIABLE -LIFE IS A JOURNEY AND WE ALL ARE IN TRANSIT -SOME FALL, SOME ARE CRUSHED WHILE SOME MOVE ON AND MAKE PROGRESS - SOME FIGHT AND SOME LIVE IN LOVE - SOME REMAIN IN JEALOUSIES AND EGO - SOME LIVE IN THEIR SELF ESTEEM, SELF PROMINENCE AND TO CONTROL THE WORLD OVER - SOME WAGE INTO WAR, DESTROY ALL WORNDERS WHICH HUMAN BEINGS HAVE DEVELOPED SO FAR, WHAT FOR AND WHY - SIMPLY TO BE REMEMBERED .....Read more

WHAT A PATHETIC STORY OF HUSBAND AND WIFE AFTER SEPARATION -KYA HUA, ACHANAK KISSI BAAT PER HUSBAND AND WIFE KA JHAGRA HUA -ITNA ZIADA HUA KEH BEEVI HUSBAND KA GHAR CHHOR KAR APNAI MAN BAAP KAI GHAR MAIN CHALEE GAYEE -KAYEE MAHEENAI SHAYAD SAAL BHEE BEET GAI VO PHIR VAPAS NAHIN AYEE KABHEE -EK DIN KYA KHYAL AYA USSAI, KYON, KAISAI YEH PATA NAHIN -LEKIN ITNA PATA HAI ZAROOR KEH VOH APNAI PATEE KAI GHAR AA PAHUNCHEE -JAB DEK .....Read more

WORRIES OF MAN NEVER END, WHY IT IS SO AND WHAT ARE THE CAUSES? -THE BIGGEST CAUSES FOR WORRIES SEEM TO BE -HOPES, DREAMS, ILL-HEALTH, HANDICAPS, POVERTY, SECURING JOB AND SECURITY, PROMOTIONS AND AND PROGRESS THEREOF, MARRIAGE BUT NO CONFLICTS, TO HAVE CHILDREN OBEDIENT, RESPECTFUL AND TO EARN NAME AND GET WELL SETTLED, ENJOY THE LIFE IN TOGETHERNESS AND IN HAPPINESS TILL THE END, AND IF THE END COMES EVER, BETTER TO .....Read more

BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE SITTING APART IN THE BOAT IN THE SEA, WHAT A PATHETIC SITUATION? -HUSBAND TELLS THE DISTANCED WIFE -DO YOU REMEMBER THOSE LOVE DAYS WHEN WE GOT MARRIED -AND CAME HERE TO SPEND HONEYMOON AT THIS PLACE -INCIDENTLY IT IS THE SAME BOAT WHERE WE SAILED TOGETHER -TALKING INNUMERABLE STORIES OF OUR EXPERIENCES ABOUT LOVE -AS ALSO HOW WE WILL BE MANAGING OUR AFFAIRS AFTER RETURN TO THE HOUSE -BESIEDES ALL THIS DO YOU .....Read more

BRIDE TURNS OUT JEWEL IN IN IN-LAWS HOUSE -WHAT A WONDER, HOW IT HAPPENED, IT IS SURPRISING -WE HAVE NEVER HEARD ABOUT SUCH A SUCCESSFUL SITUATION -WHILE ON THE CONTRARY HAVE HEARD A LOT OF STORIES ABOUT THE CONFLICTS BETWEEN MOTHER IN-LAW AND THE DAUGHTER IN-LAW -HOW THIS GIRL SUCCEEDED, LET ME NARRATE A FEW INSTANCES AS TO HOW IT IS POSSIBLE AND HOW THIS GIRL NOT ONLY SUCCEEDED IN CREATING AMICABLE RELATIONSHIP BUT WORDERFUL .....Read more

MOTHER’S DIALOGUE AND ADVICE TO HER DAUGHTER BEFORE HER DAUGHTER’S MARRIAGE -IT IS NATURAL, EVERY GIRL PASSES THIS PHASE OF FEAR AND HAPPINESS -HAPPINESS IN THE SENSE THAT SHE IS GETTING MARRIED -WORRIED BECAUSE SHE WILL BE STEPPING INTO UNKNOWN AS TO HOW HER HUSBAND WOULD BEHAVE AFTER MARRIAGE HOW HER MOTHER IN-LAW AND REST OF THE MEMBERS -WHAT WILL BE THEIR WAY OF LIFE AND WHAT WILL BE THEIR ATTITUDES ETC. ETC. -BESIDES .....Read more

SEARCH FOR SOULMATE BY THE GIRL AND THE PARENTS -THE GIRL SOON FOUND HER SOULMATE -BOTH CAME TOGETHER TO GIRL’S HOUSE -PARENTS GOT INTO PLEASANTRY AND DISCUSSION TO KNOW ABOUT AND FAMILIARISE THEMSELVES ABOUT THE BOY’S BACKGROUND, SO ALSO OF HIS FAMILY AS WELL -AFTER SATISFYING HIS INITIAL CURIOSITY ABOUT THE BOY -FATHER DROVE TO BOY’S HOUSE ACCOMPANIED BY HIS DAUGHTER AND THE BOY -BESIDES ON WAY TO DROP, THE FATHER ENGAG .....Read more

PHOOL AUR KAANTAI -kYA HAI RITSTA INKA -ITNAI PYAR KA AUR HAI -ITNEE GAHRAEE MAIN BHEE -JAHAN AUR KOYEE MISAL AISI MILTEE HEE NAHIN -CHAHTA HAI AUR KARTA HAR PARKAR KEE KOSHISH PHOOL KO BARA HONAI MAIN USKEE SUGANDEE KO DIN BADIN BARHANAI MAIN HEE -KHYAL APNA KARTAI NAHEEN YEH KANTAI KABHEE -DAI DETAI HAIN SAAREE TAKAT PHOOL KO HEE -NAN SOCHTAI HAIN KABHEE -AUR NAN SOCH MAIN AATA HAI KABHEE -SOOKH JATAI HAIN YEH KANTAI .....Read more

PARENTS HOULD NEVER INSIST ON THEIR CHILDREN TO GO ABOUT WHAT THE PARENTS WANT, RATHER INSTEAD DISCUSS AND CHECK UP WITH THEIR CHILDREN WHAT THEY WANT AND WHAT ARE THEIR AMBITIONS AND GOAL IN LIFE, AND THE PARENTS MUST DO ALL TO AID, FACILITATE AND ENCOURAGE THEIR CHILDREN BY ALL MEANS. -PARENTS WANTED THAT THEIR SON MUST BECOME IAS, IPS ETC. -BUT THE SON WAS NO .....Read more

FICTION – HORRIBLE HAPPENING -MEIN GEHREE NEEND MAIN SO RAH THA -ACHANAK HORRIBLE AWAZAIN SUNAYEE DENAI LAGEEN MUJHAI -AISAI JAISAI CHAND SITARAI TAKRA REHAI HOON -BADAL GARAG REHAI HOON IN THUNDER -BIJLI KARAK RAHEE THUEE ASAI YEH KAHIN NAN KAHIN -GIR JAYAI AUR JALA DAI SAB KUCHH -BARISH HONAI LAGEE EK TOOFAN KEE TARAH -JAISAI SURNAMEE AA GAYEE HAI DUBARA -GHAR KEE DEWARAIN HILNAI LAGEEN -AUR TAKRANAI LANGEE .....Read more

HUSBAND KEHTA HAI BEEVEE KO -JO KEHNA CHAHTA THA MEIN -VOH KEH NAN PAYA MEIN KABHEE -JO BOLNA CHAHTA, VOH BOL NAN SAKA MEIN -BAS PHIR KAYA HUA ACHANAK TUMAIN DEKH KAR -HAKA BAKA HUA MEIN , SAB HOSH AU HAVAS UR GAYAI, NAN KUCHH SOCH SAKA AUR NAN KUCHH KEH PAYA MEIN -BEEVEE KARTEE HAI GUSSA AUR KEHTEE POORAI ZORE SAI HEE -KYA HAI VOH JO TUM MUJH SAI CHHUPA RAHAI HO -MEIN NAIN KAHA BEEVEE KO, NAN MEIN NAIN KABHEE TUM SAI KUCHH .....Read more

HAI DOSTO, SUNATA HOON MEIN AAJ TUMHAIN APNEE BEETEE HUYEE DASTAN MEIN -AAPKO BATANAIN MAIN, APNAI DIL KA GUBAAR NIKALNAI AND DIL TO KUCHH DHANDAK PAUHCHANAI KAI LIYAI -KAYA THEE VOH SUNHEREE JAVANEE -AUR KYA THAI VOH KHUSHEE KAI DIN -BAITH JATAI THAI HUM DOST SARAI -GUP LAGANAI AUR PEENAI PILANAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -CHAH AYEE AUR UBHREE UMANGAIN SHADEE KANAI KAI LIYAI HEE -SHADEE HO GAYEE, KUSHEE KAI DIN BEETNAI LAGAI -ISS PARKAR .....Read more

WHAT A PATHETIC SITUATION OF THE COUPLE IN CONFLICT? -HUSBAND beevee to kehta hai, kya hua, kyon hua, pata nahin -pata hai to sirf itna hai, keh tu aye thee mujh sai pyar karnai kai liyai -kya kahoon mein tujhai, pyar to nan raha, bulke nafrat hai phailee hai har taraf -zara bata to dai, bigara hai mein nain kya tumhara -pyar hee pyar deea khushee kee zindgee betanai kai liyai -jo meri samajh main aata hai, hai bahut aihsani kee bat -tu .....Read more

WHETHEER TO HAVE CHILD(REN) OR NOT, IF NOT, WHY NOT: IF TO HAVE, WHY AND WHAT FOR: IF TO HAVE, HOW MANY? THESE ARE THE QUESTIONS TO BE ANSWERED ONE BY ONE: 1. WHETHER TO HAVE CHILDREN, IF YES, WHY AND HOW MANY? Reasons: 1. TO SATISFY MINE AND THINE 2. TO SHARE LOVE, RELATIONSHIP AND WELL BEING 3 TO ASSIST IN PROGRESS AND DEVELOPMENT THE MORE THE HANDS, IF UNITED, PROGRESS GETS QUICKER, SHOWS STRENGTH IN SOCIETY AND IN THE NEIGHBOURH .....Read more

-EVERYONE WANTS TO LIVE A HAPPY AND COMFORTABLE LIFE -ALAS MANY WISH, BUT HARDLY A FEW SUCCEED TO ACHIEVE IT -WHY IT IS SO, IS THE QUESTION -IN GENERAL, THE MORE ONE HAS THE MORE ONE WANTS, GREED MULTIPLIES -ON THE CONTRARY THOSE WHO ARE POOR -LIVE TOGETHER UNITED, IN LOVE AND MOSTLY IN PEACE. -THE FACT THEREFORE REMAINS, THE MORE CREATES CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS WHILE MEAGRE RESOURCES CREATE LOVE AND TOGETHERNESS -WHY SO, IT IS S .....Read more

-HUSBAND APNEE BEEVEE KO KEHTA HAI -PRAMTA KAI VASTEY MUJHAI AUR DUKHEE NAN KAR -PEHLAI MEIN KISMAT KA MARA HUA HOON -AGAR TU AISA BARTAO KARTEE RAHEE -TO VO DIN DOOR NAHIN -JAB MEIN BEEMAR PAR JAONGA -PHIR TU KARAIGEE MAJBOORI MAIN SEVA MERI -AGAR TU NAIN FAISLA LIYA MADAD NAN KARNAI KA -TO VOH DIN DOOR NAHIN JAB MEIN MUR JAONGA -PACHHTAIGAI AUR ROAIGEEE PHIR TU -NAN PAYAGEEE TU MUJHAI KAHIN -PACHHTATEE REHAIGEEE AUR ROTI .....Read more

-KAHA JAATA JISKA KOYEE NAHIN -MUSEEBAT MAIN KOYEE NAN KOYEE SAHARA MILL JAATA HAI ZAROOR -NARRATION OF SUCH A HAPPENING WHEN A MAN IN DESPARATION WANTED TO COMMIT SUIDE BUT HE COULD DARE NOT, STARTED WEAPING BITTERLY, UNCONTROLLABLY, NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO WHAT IT HAPPENED ALL OF SUDDEN, CLOUDS CAME TO TELL HIM, WHY ARE YOU WEEPING SO BITTERLY IN HELPLESSNESS THE CLOUD SAID SEE AT MY FATE, I AM THROWN AWAY BY SUN, WHIRLWI .....Read more

TRUTH -TRUTH, IT IS SAID, ALWAYS REMAINS THE TRUTH -IRRESPECTIVE WHATEVER HORRIBLE ODDS MAY HAPPEN -DESPITE WHATEVER THRASHINGS ARE DONE AND WHATSOEVER AND HOWSOEVER HARDSHIPS ONE IS PUT TO -IT IS TRUE AND IT HAPPENS SO, AS WHATEVER HAS HAPPENED OR WHATEVER IS SAID, IS A REALITY, IT DOES NOT NEED ANY THINKING, ITS NARRATION SHALL ALWAYS REMAIN THE SAME. -TRUE, BUT MANY A TIME, LIES AND UNTRU .....Read more

CHILDHOOD -WHAT A WONDERFUL LIFE IF WAS AT CHILDHOOM -THERE WAS NO WORRY, ENJOYMENT AND PLAY WERE EXCURSIONS WITH FRIENDS AROUND -STRICT DISCIPLINE OF PARENTS AND FEAR OF PARENTS WERE IMMENSE -OBEDIENCE WAS SPONTNEOUS AND EXPRESSION OF ANGER AT TIMES WENT BY SITTING IN A CORNER, WEAPING AND CRYING ALONE -FATHER WAS NEVER BOTHERED, MOTHER WAS ALWAYS THERE TO CONSOLE AND ADVISE THAT IT IS BETTER .....Read more

-SHOCKS OF LIFE ARE TERRIBE -SOME TIME THESE ARE SO BRUTTAL AND UNBEARABLE -THAT ONE STARTS THINKING AS TO -WHAT IS THE USE OF LIVING IN SUCH A HORRIBLE SITUATION -SOME CONTENT WITH THE FATE TO CONSOLE THEMSELVES -WHILE QUITE MANY GET TO ASTROLOGERS TO CHECK THEIR FATE AND ALSO TO FIND AS TO WHAT REMEDIAL MEASURES BE ADOPTED IN ORDER TO GET RID OF UNBEARABLE SHOCKS - SHOCKS IN LIFE MANY A TIME ARE CAUSED -BY LOSS IN BUSINE .....Read more

ALL IS UNKNOWN EXCEPT PERHAPS ABOUT OUR PRESENT LIFE IT IS ACCORDINGLY SAID – - AGAR MEIN NEHIN HOTA -TO TU BHEE NAHIN HOTI, PATAA NAHIN -AGAR MEIN NEHIN HOTA -TO YEH JAHAAN BHEE NEHIN HOTA -YEH BHEE PATAA NAHIN - KYA PARVARDIGAR RAKHTA HUMAIN APNAI PAAS -YEH BHEE PATA NAHIN -KYA RAKHATA HUMAIN DOOR -AAP KHUSH REHNAI KAI LIYAI -AUR NAN HEE DISTURB HONAI KAI LIYAI KABHEE -YEH BHEE PATAA NAHIN -KYA PARDIGAR HUMAIN HAR VAKATA VAPA .....Read more

WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED, HAD THERE BEEN NO SUFFERINGS AND ALL PROBLEMS WERE GETTING SETTLED BY THEMSELVES -WONDERFULLY IT WOULD HAVE BEEN A MIRACLE -IT IS TOTALLY IMPOSSIBLE TO IMAGINE, GIVEN OUR WEAKNESSES WHICH ARE BORN AND ACQUIRED ONES, LIKE EGO, JEALOUSIES, ENMITY, COMPARISON, COMPETITION, PICKING UP AND KEEPING TO ONESELF THE BEST, WHICH MEANS NOT ONLY AVOIDING OTHERS BUT KILLING THEM AS WELL SO THAT NONE DARES AFTERWARD .....Read more

PREDICTION IS MY HOBBY WHICH HELPS ME TO JUDGE MYSELF IN FORESEEING THE FUTURE ABOUT MY VISION AND OUTLING THE FUTURE COURSE OF CURRENT EVENTS AS TO HOW THESE WILL UNVEIL IN RESULTS IN THIS CONTEXT, THERE SEEM TO BE 3 FOLLOWING QUESTIONS WHICH .....Read more

THOUGH MICRO UNIT HELPS BETTER THE HAUSAND AND WIFE TO ADJUST THAN BEING IN THE JOINT FAMILY, STILL WE FIND THAT CONFLICTS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE ON THE RISE AND SO ARE THE DIVORCES. HENCE THE QUESTION ARISES AS TO WHAT ARE THE REASONS AND WHOW THIS TREND COULD NOT ONLY BE HALTED BUT INSTEAD HELPS IN STRENGTHENING THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE TO LAST FOR LIFE LONG IN HAPPY AND LOVING TOGETHERNESS. MAIN RE .....Read more

IF RELATIONS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE GO SOAR BITTER AND BROKEN TO SUCH AN EXTENT, THAT THERE DOESN’T SEEM RETURN IN ANY MANNER WHATSOEVER EFFORTS ARE MADE, THEN WHAT IS THE ANSWER, IS THE BIGGEST QUESTION, WHICH NEEDS AN ANSWER. ANSWERS; 1. first and foremost is to analyse what went wrong and and what are those causes which have created wounds so hard and deep, that there doesn’t seem any return. 2. once the causes are ana .....Read more

IF RELATIONS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE GO SOAR BITTER AND BROKEN TO SUCH AN EXTENT, THAT THERE DOESN’T SEEM RETURN IN ANY MANNER WHATSOEVER EFFORTS ARE MADE, THEN WHAT IS THE ANSWER, IS THE BIGGEST QUESTION, WHICH NEEDS AN ANSWER. ANSWERS; 1. first and foremost is to analyse what went wrong and and what are those causes which have created wounds so hard and deep, that there doesn’t seem any return. 2. once the causes are a .....Read more

HOW THE WIFE SHOULD DEAL WITH A RUDY HUSBAND, IS THE QUESTION - HAVING BROUGHT BACK HER HUSBAND TO NORMAL COMPOSURE, SHE SHE FEELS THAT IT IS NOW THE MOMENT TO INSPIRE AND MOTIVATE HIM SO THAT HE PICKS UP COURAGE AND GET BACK TO WORK ETC. - IN THAT VAIN, SHE TELLS HER HUSBAND IF YOU TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED, AND IF YOU DON’T IT DOESN’T MATTER AS I HAVE HEARD THAT SOME TIME CERTAIN MISTAKES KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY HAPPEN, WHICH .....Read more

SHOULD THE HUSBAND BE RUDY, WHAT THE WIFE SHOULD DO? 1. IF IT HAD BEEN THE HABIT OF THE HUSBAND AND THE WIFE HAS BEEN TOLERATING, THEN WHY NOT NOW, HAS THE BEHAVIOUR OF HUSBAND AGGRAVATED, IF SO, WHY, THEN THE WIFE NEEDS TO DISCERN ON HER PART AS TO WHETHER SOMETHING IS WRONG ON HER SIDE OR THERE ARE SOME OTHER CIRCUMSTANCES WHICH HAVE CONTRTRIBUTED TO SUCH A HORRIBLE SITUATION. 2. WIFE BY NATURAL QUALITY EASILY .....Read more

HOW SHOULD THE WIFE DEAL WITH A RUDY HUSBAND, WHICH IS QUITE COMMON AND IT NEEDS AN ANSWER: -BEFORE I GET TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION, LET ME CITE AN EXAMPLE TO UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION BETTER. -FOR INSTANCE, THERE ARE TWO WRESTLERS AND OUT OF BOTH, ONE IS ROBUST AND THE OTHER IS OF NORMAL BUILT UP. WHEN THEY GET TO WRESTLE IN ‘KABADI’, WE WILL GENERALLY FEEL THAT THERE IS NO COMPARISON BETWEEN THE TWO AND CERTAINLY, THE R .....Read more

IF SOMEONE IS ADMANANT AND DOESN'T LISTEN TO REASONING, THEN WHAT TO DO IS THE QUESTION; I THINK IN SUCH A SITUATION 1. NOT TO INSIST AND AS SUCJH NOT TO AGGRAVATE THE SITUATION 2. BETTER NOT TO ARGUE AND JUSTIFY YOUSELF, BETTER TO IGNORE, KEEP QUIET OR TAKE TO SOME OTHER TOPIC, DEPENDING ON THE MOOD OF THE PERSON WHO IS ADAMANT 3. REMAIN IN THE COMPANY AS OTHERWISE THE SITUATION WILL .....Read more

HANDBAND AND WIFE WHEN ONE PASSES AWAY WHAT A PATHETIC AND HORRIBLE SITUATION ARISES WHEN ONE OF THE TWO WHO HAVE BEEN LIVING WHOLE OF THEIR LIFE IN TOGETHERNESS AND ENJOYMENT, ONE OF THE TWO DISAPPEARS. IT IS SAID THAT LIFE AND DEATH ARE IN GOD� .....Read more

HOLI FESTIVAL AND VALENTINE DAY THERE IS A BIG CONTRAST BETWEEN THE TWO: 1. valentine day is a festival of youngsters while holi is the festival of all, young, old and by everyone 2. valentine is the night festival while holi is the day festival. 3. holi is colourful to greet each and everyone known and unknow while valentine is celebrated by youngers, mostly by lovers and singals. 4. hooliganism .....Read more

SELF IDENTITY 4-3-23 -WHAT DOES IT MEAN -WHETHER IT IS WHEREBY ONE ASSUMES THAT ONE IS RIGHT, COMPLETELY RIGHT -AS SUCH WHAT ONE THINKS ABOUT, WHAT ONE SAYS, ACTS AND BEHAVES ETC. ONE IS RIGHT ALWAYS AND IN EVERY RESPECT -RESULTANTLY NO ONE CAN MATCH HIM/HER NOR CHALLENGE HIM/HER. AND BY CONTINUING AND INSISTING THAT ONE IS RIGHT, -AFTER SOME TIME HE .....Read more

PRIDE AND ANGER HAVE A FALL SOONER OR LATER, BUT THERE IS NO ESCAPE AT ALL. PRIDE BRINGS AROUND ALL FLATTERS AND SABOTAGERS, WHO IN THEIR GRIEVANCE BRING FALL OF THEIR MENTOR, WHILE ANGER BRINGS FALL OF THE CONCERNED PERSON BY HIMSELF/HERSELF AS IT AFFECTS ONE'S OWN HEALTH, ISOLATES ONE RESULTING IN DEPRESSION, NO FRIENDS AROUND, SOON AS IT TURNS ABOUT TO BE A HABIT, HENCE THEREAFTER AS THE ANGER GROWS AND REACHES ITS EXTREME, THE QUICKER FALL .....Read more

-LIFE IS PAINFUL -ALMOST EVERYONE LIVES WORRIED AND PAINFUL LIFE WHILE 10% MAYBE LIVE IN HAPPINESS OR CELEBRATING ON HAPPY OCCASIONS -EVERYONE FACES WORRIES TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE, GET MARRIED TO A LOVING AND BEAUTIFUL WIFE VICE VERSA GET TO A COVETED JOB AND/OR GETTING INTO BUSINESS OF HIS/HER LIKING - HAVE CHIDREN TO BRING PROMINENCE TO HIS/HER FAMILY AND TO LIVE A HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL LIFE - .....Read more

VALENTINE was a restrictive day for Indian parents but it is not so now, now parents accept this valentine day as a natural day of freedom and rather feel happy to let their children move out and enjoy the valentine day. What a wonderful change ,love and freedom are overtaking the restrictive social relationship. tks ........................................................................ vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com .....Read more

HUSBAND FINDS TIME NEXT DAY TO TALK TO WIFE -MY DEAR I UNDERSTAND YOUR POSITION AND YOUR ANGER, YOU ARE RIGHT BUT I AM ALSO COMPELLED TO DO THE JOB WHICH I HAVE TAKEN UP AND I AM FULLY ENGAGED -ANYWAY I HAVE WORKED ON YOUR SUGGESTION IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT WE DO FIND SOME TIME TO RELAX, TRAVEL, SEE THE WORLD AROUND AND ENJOY IN TOGETHERNESS. -BUT PLEASE BEAR WITH ME AND GIVE ME ONE OR TWO MONTHS TO LET ME SEE HOW HOW MUCH I CAN DELEGATE, .....Read more

WIFE’S ANGER AND HUSBAND’S THREAT TO LEAVE THE HOUSE -BEEVI KEHTI HAI PATI KO, UMAR BEET GAYEE HAI -NAN TUM SAMJHAI AUR NAN SAMAJH PAYOOGAI TUM KABHEE -NAN TO TUMHAIN HAI FIKIR GHAR KA, NAN BACHON KA AND NAN HEE MERA BHEE -HAR VAKAT KAAM HEE KAAM HAI AUR ISSEE MAIN REHTAI HO MASROOF HAR VAKAT TUM -NAN TO TUMHAIN MERA MOOD DEKHAEE DETA HAI -AUR NAN HEE KARTAI HO KABHEE POOCHHNAII KEE KOSHISH TUM -KYA VAJA HAI ,AAJ TUM UDAS .....Read more

HUSBAND SAYS TO HIS WIFE NEVER FLARE UP IN ANGER EVER, THINK OVER THE CONSEQUENCES, LEST IT GOES WORST AND THERE IS LEFT NO ANSWER TO GET BACK EXCEPT TO SEPARATE FROM EACH OTHER. HENCE HE UTTERS THE FOLLOWING FEELINGS; =NARAZ HONA NAHIN -AUR GUSSA KARNA NAN KABHEE -DIL KA MEIN KOMAL HON -KEH NAN PAYONGA KUCHH -RO PAROONGA ITNA ZORE SAI MEIN -KEH CHUP KARNAI KEE NOBAT NAN AAYAIGEE KABHEE -JAB RO RO KAR THAK JAONGA MEIN -KHA .....Read more

-RONA NAN KAHBEE -HANSTEY REHNA ZAROOR -HANSNA BHEE KABHI KABHEE ZAROORAT JAB PARAI -VERNA LOG SAMJAINGAI -KEHIN YEH PAGAL TO NAHIN HO GAYA -KHUSH REHNA HAI ZAROOR -LEKIN KHUSH TO KOYEE BHEE NHAIN RAHAI SAKTA HAI HAR VAKAT -ZINDGEE MAIN AATEE HAIN ZAROOR MUSEEBTAIN AUR PRESHANIYAN BHEE ZAROOR -NAN SIRF KHUSHEE TO CHHEENAI KAI LIYAI -BALKEH PRESHANIYAN BARAHNAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -KUSH REHNA HAI NAHIN ZAROOREE HAR VAKAT -S .....Read more

SEPARATION OF POWER OF EACH PILLAR OF DEMOCRACY -BY CONSTITUTION EACH OF THE FOLLOWINGS HAVE BEEN PROVIDED SEPARATION OF POWERS AND AS SUCH NO INTERFERENCE BY ANY OF THESE PILLARS IN INTERFERENCE OR OVERLAPPING OF FUNCTIONS AND INTERPRETATIONS IN ANY FORM HAS BEEN RULED OUT. 1. PRESIDENT is sole commander of the country 2. PARLIAMENT: to enact laws and execution thereof concerning Nation as a whole .....Read more

ESSENTIAL COURSE OF ACTION IN LIFE 10-1-23 -SHOULD ONE LEAVE TO GO BY AS IT HAPPENS OR MAKE EFFORTS TO GET OVER WHATEVER UPS AND DOWNS HAPPEN IN LIFE -IT IS ESSENTIAL TO THINK ABOUT THAT LIFE IS TO GO ON AND ONE IS TO LIVE WITH, WHETHER AS IT COMES ABOUT OR TO STRUGGLE TO GET OVER NOT ONLY ON DOWNS BUT TO WORK HARD AS TO HOW TO IMPROVE UPON UPS. -EXPERIENCE SHOWS WHEN ONE STOPS TO STRUGGLE ONE LEAVES TO DESTINY, LIVES IN CO .....Read more

HOW RAHUL IS GOING ABOUT IN BHARAT JODO YATRA IN T-SHIRT, LOT OF DOUBTS ARE BEING CREATED AS THOSE WHO ARE CRITICISING ESPECIALL THE MEDIA THAT IN BITTER COLD AS IT IS, HOW IT IS POSSIBLE TO MOVE ABOUT IN SIMPLE T-SHIRT. I WILL SAY THAT ALL SUCH CRITICS HAVE NOT FACED HORRIBLLE SITUATIONS IN LIFE, HENCE THEY CANNOT IMAGINE THAT ONE CAN MOVE ABOUT IN SIMPLE T-SHIRT. IT MUST BE UNDERSTOOD THAT WHEN ONE HAS HORRIBLE AND PRACTICALLY UNSURMOUNTA .....Read more

ACHHEY DIN AANAIGAI, IT IS GENERALLY SAID WHEN ONE IS DISTRESSED THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER 1. IT IS TO CONSOLE THE PERSON CONCERNED 2. TO PUT HIM/HER ON POSITIVE THINKING 3. PUTTING HIM/HER TO BELIEVE IN DESTINY 4. OR TO EXPLAIN AND CONVINCE THAT NOTHING IS STATIC, CHANGE IS ESSENTIAL ANYTHING WHICH GETS TO WORST, GETS BACK TO THE BRIGHTER SIDE SOONER OF LATER, IT IS THE LAW OF NATURE. THEN QUESTION ARISES WH .....Read more

2023 NEW YEAR 2023 SHALL REQUIRE TO WORK ON HOPES, PROJECTS AND BE DETERMINED TO ACHIEVE THESE AND BE SUCCESSFUL. AS THE YEAR ENDS AND NEW ONE STARTS ALMOST EVERYONE ALSO WISHES TO BUILD UP NEW HOPES AND NEW PROJECTS FOR THE NEW YEAR HOWEVER THE FACT REMANS THAT TO HOPE IS ONE THING, AND TO ACHIEVE IT IS TOTALLY ANOTHER MY SUGGESTION WILL BE THAT ALL THOSE WHO WANT TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING DURING T .....Read more

MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT SITUATED AT 238 OKHLA INDUSTRIAL ESTATE PHASE III ND 10020 -IS SELFLESS SOCIAL COST FREE ORGANISATION -FUNCTIONING SINCE 2015 SOLELY ON PERSONAL COST -WHICH AIMS SPECIFICALLY ON -NOT ONLY TO HALT DIVORCES -BUT HOW TO CONSOLIDATE MARRIAGE INSTITUTION AS THE BEST INSTITUTION, PIOUS AND PROGRESSIVE, TO BUILD FAMILY AND LIVE HARMONIOUSLY AND HAPPILY IN MARRIED LIFE THEREAFTER -HOW AND IN WHAT MA .....Read more

CARE TO LISTEN TO -IMMEDIATELY -NO NOT AT ALL PREMIDITATED -NOT TO SAY LATER ON -BE PATIENT AND KEEN TO LISTEN WHAT ONE WANTS TO SAY AND WHAT IS THE URGENCY, IT IS ESSENTIAL ONE MUST BE CAREFUL ALWAYS. IF BY ALL PERCEPTION. ONE WHO WANTS TO TALK IS NOT CARED FOR AND IS NOT LISTENED, IN ALL PREBABILITY SUCH AN ACTION WILL CREATE ILLWILL, DISRESPECT IF NOT ANTAGONISM, POSSIBLY COULD SPOIL RELATIONSHIP HEREAFTER. MUST ALSO BEAR IN MIND .....Read more

HAPPINESS IS THE GOAL BUT TROUBLES AND WORRIES ARE THE OBSTACLES, THEN HOW TO SETTLE THIS ISSUE, REMAINS A BIG QUESTION, TO BE EXPLORED AND ANSWERED. -WORRIES ARE MOSTLY CREATED ONES WHICH HAPPEN AS THE PERSON CONCERNED LOSES ALL EFFORTS AND INSTEAD SEES DARKNESS ALL AROUND, LOSES ONE’S COURAGE, LOOKS BACK WHY IT HAPPENED, IT SHOULD NOT HAVE HAPPENED, HAD SUCH AND SUCH ACTION BEEN TAKEN, CONTINUES LOOKING BACK ON THE CAUSES AND REGRET .....Read more

WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF LIFE, IT IS DIFFICULT TO DEFINE -WE ARE BORN AND NECESSARILY HAVE TO LIVE -AND FOR LIVING , NEED TO STRUGGLRE TO MAKE OUR LIVING BETTER AND COMFORTABLE -THIS IS HOW THE LIFE GOES ON OF EVERYONE -TO MAKE LIFE BETTER AND COMFORTABLE EACH -OF US AND IF NOT ALL, MOST OF US IN CHILDHOOD TAKE TO STUDIES, SOON AS STUDIES ARE FINISHED STRUGGLE TO CARVE OUT OUR CARRIER IN THE BEST POSSIBLE MANNER -MAKE ALL EFFORTS TO .....Read more

DEAR FRIENDS, FOR GOD’S SAKE DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONAL, IT IS A NARRATION BASED ON THE SONG’ MERA KHAT PAR KAR NARAZ NAN HONA’ …………………………………………………………………………………. -WHAT A SURPRISE AFTER SO MANY YEARS OF FIGHT AND NO TALK AT ALL -HOW IT IS THAT I AM GETTING A LETTER FROM THE ONE WHOM WE CONSIDERED AS MY ENEMY AND DECIDED NEVER TO SEE HIM EVER, NEITHER HIS SHADOW EVEN .....Read more

PROMINENCE WHAT FOR AND WHY WHEN WE ALL KNOW ONCE WE DIE, WHATEVER PROMINENCE WE HAVE GAINED, JUST REMAINS ON PAPER FOR HISTORY, ON PHOTOS TO LOOK BACK, TO BE CELEBRATED IN THE FORM OF ANNIVERSARIES. IN ANSWER I THINK IT IS THE LUST TO PLEASE THE EYES, MIND AND EVEN THE BRAIN TO BE IDENTIFIED AND RECOGNISED FOR SOMETHING EXCEPTIONAL GAINED AND/OR ACHIEVED. OUR EYES, EMOTIONS, MIND AND BRAIN PLAY A GREAT ROLE TO ENJOY AND BE SATISFI .....Read more

CREMATION 30-11-22 ALAS IT IS THE MOST DIFFICULT AND PATHETIC MOMENT ALL THE NEAREST ONES WEAP BITTERLY, CALL RELATIONS AND FRIENDS TO ASSEMBLE AND ASSIST IN THE CREMATION CEREMONY -ASTONISHING IT IS, THAT IN FEW MINUTES, THE ONE WHO WAS LOVED THE MOST, BECOMES A STRANGER WITHIN FEW MINUTES AND THE ENTIRE FAMILY WANTS TO BE AWAY FROM HIM/HER LEST GHOSTS, DISEASE GERMS ETC. NOT CATCH THE REST OF THE MEMBE .....Read more

GHUSSA KARNA NAHIN -NAHIN TO BAAD MAIN PACHHTAO GAI TUM -JAB KUCCH HOTI HAi PASS MAIN -TO USKI AHMEEHAT SAMAJTAI NAHIN HUM -AUR JAB KHO JAATEE HAI TO ROTAI HAIN HUM SAB -PHIIR KUUCH HO SAKTA NAHIN -PACHHTAI REHTAI HAIN AUR GHAMAND HUMAIN CHHORTA NAHIN -AGAR MAANG LAIN HUM MAFEE -TO KYA BIGGAR JAYAIGA HAMARA -LEKIN YEH KARAINGAI HUM NAHIN -APNEE SHAAN AUR SHOWKAT TO KAYAM RAKHTAI HUA -AUR SOCHTAI HUAI KEH VOH AAYGEE MUJHAI MANAN .....Read more

NEVER BE AFRAID OF PROBLEMS THESE ARE THE PROBLEMS WHICH GENERATE EXPERIENCE AND ENTHUSE ONE TO SEARCH FOR ANSWERS THE MORE THE PROBLEMS ONE COMES ACROSS THE MORE EXPERIENCE ONE GAINS AND CONFIDENCE ONE BUILDS -FINALLY A STAGE COMES WHEN ONE DOES NOT GET AFRAID OF PROBLEMS, RATHER INVITES THESE TO TEST ONE'S EXPERIENCEM RESULTS EMANATED THEREFROM, AND TO CHECK HOW MUCH ONE HAS SUCCEEDED NOT ONLY IN TACKLING THESE BUT ALSO .....Read more

STRUGGLE BETWEEN HEART AND BRAIN ACCUSING EACH OTHER AND ENGAGING IN FIGHT -IT WAS NOT A BIG ISSUE EXCEPT THAT BOTH HAD THEIR OWN EGO -SOMEONE WAS TOO MUCH DEPRESSED AND WANTED TO WEAP -HEART SAID BETTER WEAP A BIT TO RELIEVE YOURSELF -BRAIN SAID DO NOT BECOME COWARD AND IF YOU WILL WEAP YOU WILL SPOIL YOUR HEALTH AND GET NOTHING -HEART SAID DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS DIRTY BRAIN HIS ADVICE IS ALWAYS BRUTAL AND MANY A TIME DESTROYS THE LI .....Read more

slow and study wins the race, it is often said, why so, because one gets cautious at each stop, reflects on what has been achieved and what efforts or means are required to move forward. There are many those who want to make strides, move faster and faster, which in other words are said to be flying. Those who fly, make rapid progress but there is risk of fall and failure as well, which at time ruins one's life. Those who believe in steady go, ma .....Read more

AAPNEE BEET KAHANEE 8-11-22 DIL AISA KATHOR HAI KEH YEH PIGHALTA HEE NEHIN AAZMA LIYAI HAR PARKAR KAI TAREEKAI HUM NAIN MAGAR KUCCH ASSAR HUA HEE NAHIN BAS CHHOR DIYA HUM NAIN ISSKO ISSKAI SAHARAI CHALTAI BANAI HUM SKOOL KEE TARAF HEE LEKIN YEH KHYAL AAYA HUMAIN KAISAI HAI HEH INSSAN YOU PIGHLTA HEE NAHIN JABKEH PATHAR JO HAI ISSA SAI BHEE HABUT SAKHT GHISSA GHISSA KAR HUM BANA DETAI HAIN HUM ISSAI SALET APNEE JAB LIKHNAI LAGAI HUM .....Read more

90 YEARS BIRTHTHDAY CELEBRATIONS OF VASDEV LOOND TODAY, 4TH NOVERMBER 2022. WHAT A WONDER AND IMMENSE PLEASURE THAT I HAVE COMPLETED 90 YEARS OF MY AGE AND AM ENTERING INTO 91. EACH YEAR BIRTHDAY BRINGS IN HOPES AND COMMITMENTS TO ACCOMPLISH WHAT HAS BEEN LEFT UNDONE AND/OR TO BE TAKEN UP DURING THE YEAR NEXT. AS ONE GROWS OLD, HIS/HER MAIN PRIORITY REMAINS TO KEEP AND MAINTAIN HIM/HER HEALTHY FOLLOWED .....Read more

LIFE PASSES MOSTLY IN REGRETS, UNHAPPINESS, STRUGGLES, FAILURES, HARDLY IN HAPPINESS PERHAPS ON FEW OCCASIONS AND THAT TOO TEMPORARILY AND FOR A SHORTER TIME. WHY SO IS THE QUESTION TO TACKLE, ANSWER AND FIND SOLUTIONS TO REVERSE, HAPPINESS MORE, PROBLEMS AND REGRETS FEW, FEW ONLY, NONE, PERHAPS IMPOSSIBLE. LET ME 1STLY NARRATE THE MAJOR OCCASIONS OF HAPPINESS WHICH HAPPEN AS UNDER 1. STANDING 1ST IN EXAMS, RACES ETC. 2. GETTING TO ST .....Read more

SHOULD WE BOTHER ABOUT OTHERS ANSWERS COULD BE IN YES AND NO -NOW QUESTION ARISES WHY NO -ESPECIALLY WHEN WE LIVE IN FAMILY, FRIENDSHIP, SOCIETY, NATION AND IN THIS WORLD WHERE INTER-DEPENDENCE HAS BEEN CREATED AND THUS TRADE FLOURISED AND ALL PEOPLE ENJOYED AND BENEFITTED FROM. -WHEN SOMEONE IS INJURED ON THE ROAD, SHOULD ONE GO IN FOR HELP, MOSTLY THESE DAYS NO, AS THERE ARE MANY FRAUDS AND IS ALSO THE FEAR OF THE PO .....Read more

HOW TO BETTER ONE’S LOT AND NOT TO REPEAT MISTAKES/ACTIONS WHICH CAUSED LOSS,PAIN, SETBACK ETC. -FIRST OF ALL IT IS ESSENTIAL TO ANALYSE AS TO WHAT WENT WRONG -CERTAINLY GET INTO DEPTH OF THE LOSS, PAIN SETBACK, AS TO HOW IT HAPPENED, WHY IT HAPPENED, WHAT WERE THE CAUSES -BE SURE NOT AND NEVER TO HURLE BLAME ON OTHERS AS IT WILL NOT BRING YOU THE SOLUTION, EXCEPT STRESS, STRAIN AND PERHAPS TAKING WRONG DECISION AND AS .....Read more

ANGER IS WORST OF ALL, ENEMY NO 1 HOW AND WHY IT DEVELOPS; 1. IRRITATION 2. ALREADY DISTURBED 3. UNEXPECTED ACTIONS ARE REPEATED 4. TALKS IRRELEVANT AND ANNOYING 5. IS NEGATIVE ALL THE TIME 6. IS NEVER AFRAID 7. THREATENS 8. MISBEHAVIOUR AND FIGHTING ALWAYS 9. NOT APOLOGETIC FOR MISTAKES COMMITTED 10.CAUSES DISTURBANCE TO EVERYONE AND EVERYWHERE. 11.NEVER FINISHES WORK GIVEN IN TIME AND IF DONE, IT IS NOT AS REQUIRED .....Read more

-GHUSA NAN KARNA KABHEE -NAN HEE NARAZ HOONA KABHEE -HOON MEIN KOMAL DIL WALA -JALDEE SAI GHABRA JAATA HOON MEIN -KEH KUCCH SAKTA NAHIN -AUR NAN KUCHH KEHNA CHAHTA HOON MEIN -SOCH KAY REH JAATA HOON MEIN -KYA MERAI KEHNAI SAI KAHEEN -DIL DUKHEE TO NAN HO JAYAIGA KABHEE -HO SAKATA HAI KEH NARAZ BHEE HO JAYAIN -PHIR SOCH MAIN AATA HAI YEH -JO KEH DIYA AUR BOL DIYA -USS SAI KYA FARQ PARA HAI MUJHAI -BEHTAR BHOOL JAON .....Read more

SKILL DEVELOPMENT SCHEMES THOUGH LAUDABLE 13-1022 ARE TURNING FARCE, UNRELAIBLE AND DISCOURAGING. -I AM AN EDUCATED, WELL EXPERIENCED AND SOCIAL WORKER, WHEN I FEEL DISTRESSED FOR NOT ABLE TO FIND COOPERATION, GUIDANCE AND DECISION AT THE HAND OF CALLOUS BEHAVIOUR OF BUREACRATS, I WONDER WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THE POOR AND ILLITERATE FOLK. -TO ELABORATE MY CASE, I HAVE INVENTED WALKING STICK DULY APPROVED WITH COPY RIGHTS, FOR MONTHS T .....Read more

ILLS ARE EASY TO CATCH, QUALITIES ARE DIFFICULT TO ACHIEVE. 12-10-22 -EASY TO THINK BUT DIFFICULT TO ACT -EASY TO ANNOY, DIFFICULT TO APOLOGISE -EASY TO GET ANGRY, DIFFICULT TO EXPLAIN -EASY TO LOVE, DIFFICULT TO CONTINUE -EASY TO BREAK, DIFFICULT TO MEND -EASY TO GET IRRITATED, DIFFICULT TO RECONCILE -EASY TO RIDE IN THE BEGINNING -DIFFICULT TO MOVE ON FURTHER -EASY TO REMAIN UNHAPPY, DIFFICULT IT .....Read more

MARRIAGE .. CHAPTER XIV 7-10-22 -BOY, GIRL AND FAMILIES MEETINGS CONDUCTTED IN MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT-MGNC-AT OKHLA ON 6-10-22. -FOLLOWING HEREUNDER ARE THE PHOTOS OF TWO MEETINGS WHEREIN PHOTOS BOTH FAMILIES OF BOY AND GIRL DISCUSSING WITH WITH EACH OTHER -MEETINGS ARE BEING CONDUCTED BY VASDEVLOOND REGARDING BIODATAS DESIRES DIFFERENCES CLARIFICATIONS AND EXPLAINING AS TO HOW MGNC PROGRAMME FUNCTIONS. -AL .....Read more

DUNIYAN HO CHUKEE HAI BAYEEMAN 5-1022 -YARO CHALTE JAANA, RUKNA NA KABHEE -THOKAR LAGAI GEE KABHEE, TO UTHANAI VALA BHEE NAN HOGA KOYEE -DUNIYA BUN GAYEE HAI BAHUT GUD PRASAT -KOYEE KISSI TO POOCHHTA HEE NAHIN -AUR AGAR KOYEE SARAK PAR GIRA HUA HO AGAR DIKHAYEE BHEE DAI, TO KOYEE RUKTA NAHIN -IS DUR MAIN, KAHIN YEH FARAIBEE BHEE NAN HO KAHIN -KAHIN POLICE APNAI SAATH NAN LAI JAYAI MUJHAI -POOCHH TAAK KARNAI KAI LIYAI AND HA .....Read more

DO BHAIYON KEE GUFTGOO 4-10-22 -MERA HAI SAB KUCHH AUR TERA KUCHH BHEE NAHIN -SOCHA HAI TU NAIN KABHEE AISA HAI KIYON AUR AISA HUA HAI KIYON -YEH HAI ISS LIYAI AUR YEH SUCH BHEE HAI -KIOYONKAI TU MEHNAT KARTA HEE NAHIN -AUR MEIN KARTA HOON MEHNAT HAR PARKAR KEE -TUM SAB SAI BEEGARTAI HO -AUR NAFRAT BHEE KARTAI HO TUM SAB SAI ZAROOR -MEIN RAKHTA HOON SAB KO MILA KAR -APNAI KARO BAR MAIN AUR RISHTAI DAREE MA .....Read more

CHAPTER : 1      TODAY I SHALL TALK  ABOUT WHY MARRIAGE IS ESSENTIAL;1. to meet biological needs2. each and every opposite gender is attracted to each other3. it is said, man is a social being, he/she needs necessarily some company4. each and everyone has a wish to build up his/her own family, to meet social needs    to get associated in love.5. mine and thine, is human nature and this instrict/thinking exists i .....Read more

SHOULD RAHUL GANDHI ACCEPT TO BE PRESIDENT OF CONGRESS? -IN ANSWER I WILL SAY NO, NOT AT ALL =REASONS 1. REASONS FOR ACCUSATION OF DYNANSTY WILL GO AWAY 2. HE WILL BE FREE TO PROPAGATE FOR HIS PARTY AS BEST AS HE CAN AS SO FAR, NONE FROM HIS NOR FROM OPPOSITION HAVE MATCHED HIM TO BRING ABOUT ISSUES IN PARLIAMENT, IN ELECTIONS AND WHATEVER FUNCTIONS OR GATHERINGS TA .....Read more

SHOULD ONE WHEN LEAVING A PARTY. FAMILY, BUSINESS, FRIENDS, GIVE REASONS AND THOSE IN PUBLIC, I WILL SAY NO, NOT AT ALL. -QUESTION ARISES WHY I SHOULD SAY NO AS IT IS THE RIGHT OF EACH AND EVERY INDIVIDUAL TO VENT HIS/HER GRIEVANCES AND GIVE REASONS OF HIS/HER UNHAPPINESS. -TRUE IT IS THE RIGHT OF EVERYONE BUT WHEN ONE DECIDES TO LEAVE, IS IT ESSENTIAL TO CLARIFY AND ELABORATE HIS/HER GRIEVANES OF ALL SORTS. -IN REPLY I WILL SAY AND FIRMLY .....Read more

Privacy · Terms · Advertising · Ad Choices · Cookies · · Meta © 2022 Your story Vasdev Loond Text MONOTONY -MONOTONY IS THE RESULT OF ONE'S UNHAPPINESS AND FATIGUE WITH THE JOB/ACTIVITY ONE IS DOING DAILY IN ROUTINE IN THE SAME ENVIRONMENTS AND WITH THE SAME PEOPLE. -MONOTONY HENCE RESULTS IN HATE, HATRED OF THE PRESENT ENGAGEMENT, RESULTING IN NEGLECT, LOSS OF ZEAL, LOSS OF .....Read more

FREEBIES ARE GOOD OR BAD, DO THESE MEAN CORRUPTION AND BRIBERY TO EXPLOIT THE VOTERS THEIR RIGHT TO VOTE FRANKLY AND CLEARY AS THEY LIKE, BELIEVE IN AND ARE NOT INFLUENCED IN ANY MANNER BY PROMISES OF ALL SORTS. FREEBIES PROMISED AT THE TIME OF ELECTION, I AM VERY CLEAR IN MY THINKING AND VOCAL A WELL THAT SURELY IT IS IN ALL MANNERS A MEANS OF CORRUPTION AND BRIBING THE VOTER .....Read more

SHOULD WE ACCEPT OUR MISTAKES UNDER COMPULSION OR WILLINGLY 1. FIRSTLY IT SHALL DEPEND ON THE CONSEQUENCES TO BE WEIGHED IN ALL PERSPECTIVES 2. IT SHALL DEPEND ON THE MISTATES, OF WHAT TYPE, AND AND OF WHAT CONSEQUENCES AND TO EXTENT 3. WHETHER ACCEPTANCE OF MISTAKE WILL AFFECT ME IN ANY MANNER. 4. SHOULD I APOLOGISE OR EXPLAIN OR APOLOGISE AND EXPLAIN 5. AM I READY TO COMPENSATE FOR THE MISTAKE IF SOME LOSS HAS .....Read more

SHOULD WE ACCEPT OUR MISTAKES UNDER COMPULSION OR WILLINGLY 1. FIRSTLY IT SHALL DEPEND ON THE CONSEQUENCES TO BE WEIGHED IN ALL PERSPECTIVES 2. IT SHALL DEPEND ON THE MISTATES, OF WHAT TYPE, AND AND OF WHAT CONSEQUENCES AND TO EXTENT 3. WHETHER ACCEPTANCE OF MISTAKE WILL AFFECT ME IN ANY MANNER. 4. SHOULD I APOLOGISE OR EXPLAIN OR APOLOGISE AND EXPLAIN 5. AM I READY TO COMPENSATE FOR THE MISTAKE IF SOME LOSS HAS .....Read more

INDEPENDDAY DAY, THE HAP[PIEST OCCASTION TO CELEBRATE AND BE PROUD BUT THEIRE IS AN IMPORTANT MESSAGE WHICH MUST BE READ, CARED FOR AND MADE USE IN THE BEST MANNER POSSIBLE. INDEPENDENBCE EVERYONE WANTS, WHICH INVOLVES NO INTERFERENCE, NO HINDRANCE, FREE EXPRESSION BUT THEY FORGET THAT WHEN WE LIVE IN SOCIETY AND AS A NATION, WE NEED TO RESTRICT OUR FREEDOM TO LARGER INTERESTS. HENCE FREEDOM MUST BE DIRECTED IN FREE AND FRANK VIEWS IN THE LARG .....Read more

WHAT REALLY DRIVES US TO LIVE, LIVE BETTER, KNOWN IN THE COUNTRY AND WORLD OVER. IN ANSWER TO ABOVE IT SEEMS TO BE THE FOLLOWING FACTORS 1. AMBITION 2. ZEAL 3. COMPARISON 4. RESPONSIBILITIES 5. SUCCESS AND PROGRESS 6. PROMINENCE 7. GREED 8. DO SOMETHING EXCEPTIONAL AND MEMORABLE 9. TO RECOVER THE LOSS BY FAMILY AND ALSO OF ONE’S OWN 10. REVENGE 11. HOPE 12.DESIRES NOT ACHIEVED OR STILL REMAIN INCOMPLETE 13. WIFE AND FAM .....Read more

NEVER BE AFRAID EVER -LIFE GIVES MNY MANY SETBACKS WORRIES, FRICTIONS AND WHAT NOT -BE AND REMAIN STRONG ALWAYS -NEVER BE AFRAID, FACE THESE BOLDLY -GIVE IN NEVER AND -NEVER ACCEPT THESE AS YOUR DESTINY -BELIEVE ME, IF YOU EVER BELIEVE IN DESTINY AND GIVEN IN, - YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO PROGRESS -HEREAFTER FUTURE LIFE WILL GO ON IN MISERIES AND DECEPTIONS -AND IF YOU EVER AND NEVER ACCEPT THESE FAILURES, SETBACKS, ETC. AS YOUR .....Read more

FRIENDSHIP DAY FRIENDS ARE ESSENTIAL IN LIFE WHOM I HAVE CATEGORISED AS 4TH PILLAR OF LIFE. FRIENDS ARE NEEDED TO RELAX, CUT JOKES, TALK OVER WHAT CANNOT BE TALKED EVEN IN FAMILY, EXCHANGE IDEAS TO TAKE ADVICE, TO GIVE A SYMPATHING AND HELPING HAND IF EVER NEED ARISES. THEN QUESTION ARISES WHO ARE THE BEST FRINEDS, MOSTLY FRIENDS CALLED CHUMS, COMES FROM ASSOCIATING AND PLAYING TOGETHER IN CHILDHOOD AND FROM SCHOOLS AND COLLEGES AN .....Read more

BETTER SEE YOUR OWN WAY, TAKE TO FIGHT NEVER, AVOID IT TO BE MAXIMUM. -YOU WILL COME ACROSS MANY TPES OF PEOPLE WHO WILL DO ALL TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU, PROFIT BY ALL MEANS TO DECEIVE YOU AND/OR CHEAT YOU. -MANY A TIME IT IS OBSERVED, IT IS NOT THAT THEY HAVE TO GAIN ANYTHING -BUT IT AMUSES THEM AND MAKES THEM HAPPY TO SEE YOUR DOWNFALL AND/OR SEE THAT YOU ARE RUINED. -NEVER FORGET WORLD IS LIKE THAT THERE ARE COUNTLESS PER .....Read more

PRAYER TO GOD TO SAVE WE ALL HUMAN BEINGS FROM THE BARBARIC AND CRUEL PEOPLE ON THIS EARTH, EVEN THOUGH FEW THESE ARE. -O’GOD WHERE ARE YOU? -ALL YOUR HUMAN BEINGS -WHOM YOU CREATED FOR LOVE AND TO LIVE IN PEACE -HAVE BECOME CRUEL AND MERCILESS -THEY ARE BOMBARDING EVERYONE AND ARE KILLING US ALL JUST TO GRAB SOME PIECE OF LAND, TO GAIN PROMINENCE FROM THEIR COUNTRYMEN AND FROM THE WORLD ALL OVER, TO REMAIN ALIVE IN HI .....Read more

CAN EVER ONE FORGET THE PAST/ GUZREE KO KABHEE KOYEE BHOOL SAKTA HAI -GUZAREE DASTAAN -GUZRAI HUAI TAJARJBAI -GUZREE HUI MUSEEBTAIN -GUZREE HUYEE UCHAYAN JO CHOOTEE THEEN KABHEE ASMAN KO BHEE -KYA HO GAYA AUR YEH KAISAI HUAI -SMAJHAMAIN AATA HEE NIHAN -LEKIN BHULANAI SAI BHEE -YEH YADAIN BHULAYEE JATEE NAHIN -JAB AKALAI HOTAI HAIN HUM -YEH YADAIN UBHAR UBHAR KAR -AATEE HAIN BAR BAR -BHULANAI SAI BHEE BHULAYEE J .....Read more

-MAKHEE-FLY SAI DARNA HAI BAHUT ZAROORI -MAKHEE MOVES AROUND AND EATS -RUBBISH OF ALL TYPES -SUCKS BLOOD GOOD OR BAD WHATEVER TYPE IT IS AND DEVELOPS DISEASES OF ALL TYPES, THIS FLY(MAKHEE) IN US ALL KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY AS WELL. -FLY IS VERY NASTY AS WELL -KYA KAHOON MEIN AAP SAB KO -HUA EK MAKHEE SAI EK DIN MEIN PRESHAAN ITNA -KAR LIYAI MEIN NAIN HAR PARKAR KAI UPAYAI BHEE -LEKIN BAAZ PHIR BHEE VOH NAN AYEE .....Read more

WIFE IS LIKE A FLOWER, HENCE ONE NEEDS TO BE A GARDNER, TO TAKE CARE OF HER ALL THE TIME AND ENSURE THAT SHE FLOURISHES LIKE A FLOWER PERHAPS MORE BUT NEVER LESS. tks .....Read more

NOT TO GET DISTUBED BY SOME ACCIDENTAL/INCIDENTAL HAPPENINGS IN LIFE -ONE DAY AFTER READING NEWSPAPER AND TAKING TEA, JUST A NAME APPEARED ADDRESSED TO ME IN APPRECIATION OF WHAT I AM WRITING AND DOING IN SOCIAL SERVICE -I BECAME CURIOUS TO KNOW AS TO WHO THAT PERSON WAS -ESPECIALLY IT IS THE WEAKNESS OF ALMOST EVERYONE THAT WE LOVE TO BE APPRECIATED, LAUDED AND BE LOVED -AS SUCH I AM NOT AN EXCEPTION I GOT SWAYED BY THE MESSA .....Read more

WHAT A PARADOX, WHAT WE HAVE WE DO NOT APPRECIATE MUCH AND WHEN IT IS LOST OR HAS DISAPPEARED, WE RESPECT AND APPRECIATE. -HARDLY ONE IS SATISFIED WITH THE PRESENT -ONE GENERALLY BROODS ON THE PAST OR ASPIRS FOR THE FUTURE. -ON THE CONTRARY, THOSE WHO LIVE THE PRESENT, AND ENJOY IT LIVE THE REALLY COMPARATIVELY HAPPILY AND AS SUCH ENJOY THE WHAT IT IS MEANT FOR. -LIFE IS FULL OF PROBLEMS AND RESPONSIBILITIES, THESE CEASE ONLY W .....Read more

DON’T INTERFERE IN ANYONE’S ISSUE, POSSIBLY IT MAY BACKFIRE -IT MOSTLY HAPPENS WHEN THERE IS AN ACCIDENT BY A CAR OWNER WITH A BIKE OR CYCLE DRIVER -IT IS NATURAL IN SYMPATHY FOR THE POOR ONE STOPS AND GENERALLY TAKES SIDE OF THE POOR ONE WITHOUT GETTING INTO REASONS WHATSOEVER, AS TO WHO IS AT FAULT, ESSENTIALY ONE IS SYMPATHISING AND ARGUING SIMPLY BECAUSE ONE FINDS THE BIKE OR CYCLE DRIVER IS A POOR PERSON, WHO SHALL BE HA .....Read more

NEVER FORGET FRIENDS, REPENT YOU WILL OTHERWISE ALWAYS. -KYA HUA AUR KAISAI HUA -NAN DOST RAHAI -AUR NAN HAI UNKA PATA BHEE -YEH PATA NAHIN KYA VOH ZINDA BHEE HAIN AB TAK -KAHIN AAISA TO NAHIN -VOH ULJHAI HUAIN HAIN -APNEE APNEE MUSHKLON AUR MUSHBEETON MAINHEE -BAHUT KOSHISH KAR LEE -LAGA PATA NAN PHIR BHEE -SAMAJH AATA HAI YEH -JAB JAVANEE THEE -TO UNKO YAAD KIYA NAHIN MEIN NAIN KABHEE -AUR JAB AB BURAHAPA AYA HAI -AUR .....Read more

MAN IS BECOMING SELFISH MORE AND MORE, DAY BY DAY -THERE WAS A TIME WHEN IT WAS SAID JAAN JAYAI LEKIN VACHAN NAN JAYAI -PAGREE HAi TO VACHAN HAI VARNA PAGREE BHEE NAHIN -TODAY NEITHER THERE IS PAGREE NOR THERE IS VACHAN -AND JAAN JAYAI IS GONE BYE, TODAY LIES ARE MADE RIGHT AND RIGHTS ARE MADE WRONG -IT IS SAID THAT IN USA THERE ARE MORE ADVOCATES THAN THE POPULATION -HERE IN INDIA IS ALSO MOSTLY THE SAME -COURTS COUNT ON EVIDENCE .....Read more

WEEP NEVER, IT IS NO GOOD FOR HEALTH -IF ONE SHALL WEEP, ONE WILL SPOIL ONE’S HEALTH -WILL ALSO REMAIN FRUSTRATED -QUESTION ARISES WHY TO WEEP AT ALL? -IT IS SAID WHEN ONE IS TOO MUCH DISTRESSED, WORRIED, AND IS FED UP WITH ONE’S LIFE, ONE DOES WEEP TO RELIEVE ONESELF OF THE PAIN AND AND BURDEN OF PROBLEMS TO WHICH ONE DOES’NT FIND SOLUTIONS. -THEN QUESTION ARISES HOW IT IS POSSIBLE TO SAY WEEP NEVER, WHILE OCCASIONS AND I .....Read more

FARKIR KEE SALAH AUR DUA SAI DUKHIT HUA MEIN -CHALTAI CHALTAI MILGAYA EK FAKIR -ROK DIYA USSNAI MUJHAI -AUR KEHNAI LAGA MUJH SAI VOH -AGAR MERI DUA LOGAI NAHIN AUR POOCHUGAI NAHIN -KAHIN AAISA NAN HO -ZINDGEE KHATAM HO JAYAI -AUR SAB KUCHH MIT JAYAI PHIR -SUNA THA MEIN NAIN BHEE -KABHI KABHI BARI MUSHKLON KAI BEECH MAIN KOYEE FAKHIR MIL JATA HAI ZAROOR -KARTA HAI VOH BHAVISH VANI -AUR AGAR KOYEE MUSHKLAIN -AUR MUSHBEETAIN AAN .....Read more

LIFE CONSISTS OF 4 PILLARS 1. WIFE 2. CHILDREN 3. RELATIONS 4. FRIENDS -HOW TO MAKE A SELECTION OF A LIFE PARTNER IT IS ESSENTIAL TO FIND A PARTNER WHO SHALL COMPLEMENT ONE’S WEAKNESSES, HENCE TO ANALYSE ONE’S WEAKNESSES IS A VERY IMPORTANT STEP -IF EVEN THEN IT DOES NOT HAPPEN WHAT ONE HAD EXPECTED. IT IS SAID, IF YOU CAN’T MOULD OTHERS, BETTER MOULD YOURSELF WHICH IS THE BEST ANSWER AND THE PRACTICAL COURSE OF ACTI .....Read more

BADKISMAT INSSAN AUR MOMBATEE KEE KAHANEE -KEHTA HAI EK BADKISMAT CANDLE (MOMBATEE) KO YEH -SAB KUCHH MIT GAYA HAI MERA -SIRF AB AASS REHGAYEE HAI MERI -JAANTA HOON MEIN, TARAF RAHA HOON MEIN -AUR TU BHEE MERI TARAH HEE -KABHEE TU BHUJNAI LAGTEE HAI -AUR KABHEE BAN JATEE HAI AAG KAI SHOLEY KEE TARAH HEE -BAS AB DAM GHUT RAHA HAI MERA -TEREE TARAH HEE -AANHAIN BHARTA JA RAHA HOON MEIN -AAPNAI DIL KO -BEHLANAI KAI LIYAI HEE .....Read more

HAPPINESS EVERYONE WANTS, BEEVEE SAI JHAGARNA NA KABHEE -KHUSH REHNA TO SAB CHAHTAI HAIN -AUR PYAR KARNA CHAHTAI HAIN SAB -LEKHIN NAFRAT AUR JHAGRAI -JALDEE SAI HEE SEEKH JATAI HAIN HUM SAB -CHAHTAI HAIN BEEVEE HONEE CHAHIYAI ZAROOR -KATUMBA(FAMILY) BANANAI KAI LIYAI HEE -AUR PYAR MAIN REHNAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -LEKIN KARTAI HAIN KYA YEH INSAAN SAB -JHAGARTAI REHTAI HANI HAR VAKAT -AURON SAI NAN SAHEE -LEKIN AAPNEE BEEVEE SAI ZAROOR .....Read more

DIFFICULTIES TEST THE CHANGING MITE OF A MAN AND DICTATE DO OR DIE. -YEH SOCHTAI HUAI AUR YAAD KARTAI HUAI BHEE - MUSHKLAIN AATEE HAIN HAMARI HIMAT TO AZMANAI KAI LIYAI - JO HIMAT CHHOR AUR TORE DETAIN HAIN, VOH KHATAM HO JATAI HAIN AUR KAYEE DAFA ZINDGEEE BHEE CHHOR JATAI HAIN - AUR JO MUSHKLON SAI TAKRATAIN HAIN AUR HIMAT KO CHHORTAIN NAHIN - V .....Read more

SUNTAI HAIN HUM YEH BHEE -KUCHH LOG APNI PRECHHAYEE SAI BE DARTAI HAIN -DARTAI HAIN HUM ZAROOR KHATARNAK JANVAROON SAI BHEE -DESHHAT AATI HAI ZAROOR HUMAIN JANVAROON KO DEKHTAI HUAI BHEE -AUR MAUT SAI BACHNAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -KABHEE AA JATA HAI KHAB BHEE -AIYAI HAIN YEH BHOOT HUMAIN LAINAI KAI LIYA -BAS, ISS KISSIM KEE BATAIN BAHUT SEE HUMAIN PRESHAAB JARTEE REHTEE HAIN -AUR DARAATEE REHTEE HAIN HAR VAKAT HUMAIN -BAS, HEY BANDAI .....Read more

GHALTEE KRNA NAHIN -KIYON KEH KABHEE NAN KABHEE -TO PACHHTANA HEE PARAIGA -SOCH HEY BANDAI USS PACHHTAVA SAI HAI AB KYA MILA AUR KYA MILAGA BHEE -AB TO LUT GAYA HAI SAB KUCHH MILNA BHEE HAI KYA - AKALMANDI TO ISS MAIN HAI - GHALTEE AGAR KEE HAI YA HO GAYEE HAI - TO KEH DO SAMJHA KAR - KEH YEH GHALTEE JO HO GAYEE UNJANI MAIN YA NAN SAMAJH MAIN BHEE - PHIR KABHEE HOGEE NAHIN - AUR PHIR BHEE AGAR SAMJHAI NAHIN - AUR MAAF KARAI .....Read more

CONGRESS IS ON THE DOWNTURN, WHAT TO DO 22-5-22 Congress has held chintan in Udaipur to analyse and search reasons for their downfall in one state and the other and that many leaders are leaving the organization. It is essential for Congress to understand that when workers and leaders do not see any future in the organization, likewise in any business etc. many of them who feel that they are capable to find job and position anywhere outside, .....Read more

HOW TO DEAL WITH CRITICS, NOT AGREEING TO ONE’S VIEWS 19-5-22 Those who criticise, at time are being tried under sedition law, whether it is justified or not, tussles go on by all means between the affected person, police and the courts, amendment of law is pending wit courts to take final decision. Critics have the right constitutionally and otherwise, as one wants to express his/her views good or bad, for betterment or prejudicial or ev .....Read more

ABORTION I do not know why unnecessary fuss has been created. Females/girls/women must have their SOLE RIGHT TO GO INTO ABORTION OR NOT, in no way and in no manner, the courts, social media etc. try to deal with it. It is she who knows her compulsions to get to abortion and in what circumstances. Let us not forget that each woman and society wants that to let the family grow, it is essential that children a .....Read more

DUKHBHARI BEDARD DASTAAN -merai hum rahi, hum safar aur mehboob merai -ho gayai hain kayee din aur maheenai bhee -pataa nahin kahan ho tum -aur lapatta ho bhee -khoj liya hai mein nain tumhain har jagah aur har parkaar sai -aur beinteha intezar main bhee -kar lee hai mein nain bahut koshish -lekin samajh main aata nahin - kya hua, kaisai hua, aur kyon hua -meri samajh main aata hee nahin -bataa tu zara mujhai -tum khafa ho, to kiyon .....Read more

MOTHER'S DAY -NOTHING IS COMPARABLE TO MOTHER -SHE IS FULL OF TREMENDOUS AND UNIMAGINABLE LOVE -DESPITE ALL OUR RESISTANCES, DISOBEDIENCES AND AT TIMES TO ANNOY AND MAKE HER ANGRY. SHE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO BELIEVES AND PRACTICES IN ACTION THE SPIRIT TO FORGET, PARDON RATHER INSTEAD ALLOWS THE LOVE TO FLOW AND LOVES TO ENJOY OUR COMPANY LL THE TIME AND AT EVERY MOMENT. -IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT FATHER DOES NOT LOVE .....Read more

DIALOGUE OF HUSBAND AND WIFE 6-5-22 -AURAT KEHTI APNAI AADMI KO -ABHI BHEE HAI KUCHH VAKAT BAKEE -SUDHAR JA AUR SUDHAAR LAI TU APNAI KO ABHEE THORA SA VAKAT HAI BAKEE -YAAD RAKH LAI TU, BHOOLNA NAN KABHEE -TU NAAN MUJHAI BANA KAR RAKHA THA -BAANI KEE TARAH HEE -BAKAI KAIDEE BANA RAKHA THA MUJHAI -TUM MARTAI THAI AUR PEETAI THAI BHEE HUMAIN -AUR GALIAN BHEE DETAI THAI HAR PARKAR KEE HEE -YAHAN TAK TUU NAI MUJHAI .....Read more

NEVER BE AFRAID OF DEALTH NOR COVID ETC. THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT ONE WHO IS BRON, HAS ONE DAY TO REACH ONE’S FINAL DESTINATION.. DEATH. THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT THOSE WHO ARE AFRAID OF DEALTH, IT IS SAID, THEY ARE DEAD ALREADY, WHY SO: 1. SUCH PERSONS LOSE THE ZEAL 2. GET FRUSTRATED AND TURN AMBITIONLESS 3. REMAIN ALL THE TIME IN FEAR OF DEATH ANY SMALL HAPPENING MAKES THEM THINK AND FEAR THAT DEATH IS JUST AT HAND AND THERE IS NO HOP .....Read more

LIFE HAS GONE A DRASTIC CHANGE, FOR GOOD OR BAD I DO NOT KNOW. HOWEVER I LIVED IN A GENERATION WHEN THESE SAYINGS WERE IMPORTANT, WHY SO,I DO NOTKNOW EXACTLY BUT I DO FEEL, HONESTY AND PROMISES WERE MOST IMPORTANT AND HARDLY ONE DARED TO BREAK THESE AS THE ENTIRE SOCIETY/VILLAGE COULD GO AGAINST THE DEFAULTER/LIAR AND ALSO OUTCAST HIM/HER SOCIALLY. WHATEVER I REMEMBER I WOULD LIKE TO NARRATE TO YOU ALL; 1. COMMITMENT WAS ATTACHED TO PAGRI(TURBA .....Read more

LIFE IS A PROBLEM OR LIFE IS HAPPINESS, EACH ONE WILL HAVE HIS/HER VERSION BUT MANY WILL SAY IT IS DESTINY OF PAST KARMA AND THEY HAVE TO BEAR WITH IT. BUT IN REALLY SAYING AND ACCEPTING THE REALITY ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. SOME WILL CALL IT A DESTINY, SOME WILL CURSE THEIR BIRTH BEING BORN IN WORST CONDITIONS IN POOR PARENTS, SOME WILL COMPLAIN ABOUT EXPLOITATION, SOME WILL SHELTER THEMSELVES IN WEAK HEALTH, MISERIES, FAMILY PROBLEMS, CONSEQU .....Read more

LOUDSPEAKERS; WHEN THERE WAS AGRERAIAN SOCIETY AND PEOPLE WERE LIVING MOSTLY IN VILLAGES, LOUDSPEAKERS WERE A NECESSITY TO CALL THE INHABITANTS FOR PRAYERS AND FOR THOSE WHO COULD NOT COME, TO LISTEN AT THEIR HOUSES AND DO THE PRAPYERS. IN THIS INDUSTRIAL AGE, WHERE RESIDENCES GET BUILT UP HOUSES ALL AROUND THE MOSQUES. TEMPLES AND GURDWARAS. AS ANY NOISE CREATED FOR THE SAKE OF PRAYERS, TO KNOW THE PRESENCE OF THE PRIESTS AND THEIR PERFORMANC .....Read more

QUITE A FEW IN LIFE SLIP AWAY, FALL DOWN, LOOSE THEIR WILL TO STRUGGLE ANY MORE, MAYBE END UP BY CURSING THEIR DESTINY. IF SO WHAT COULD BE THE REASON, GENERALLY IT MAY HAPPEN THAT THEY WOULD HAVE LOST IN GAMBLING, BUSINESS, FAILED IN EFFORTS, ACCUSATIONS AND CANNOT BEAR ANY LONGER, HEALTH HAS GIVEN AWAY AND ALL HOPES OF MEDICATION AND RECOVERY ARE LOST, SHOCKS OF LIFE HAVE BEEN SO HEAVY THAT THERE IS NO MORE STRENGTH TO BEAR THESE ANY MORE, SO .....Read more

THIRD FRONT=ALL PARTIES UNITED FRONT IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT ALL OPPOSITION PARTIES IF THEY WANT TO WIN BALANCE ASSEMBLIES ELECTIONS AND PARLIAMENT ELECTION IN 2024, HAVE TO COME TOGETHER. QUESTION ARISES HOW AND WHY SO FAR THEY HAVE NOT COME TOGETHER DESPITE THEIR THINKING FOR A LONG TIME. WHY ALL OPPOSING PARTIES HAVE NOT COME TOGETHER SO LONG? PRACTIALLY ALL PARTIES WANTED TO EXPAND THEIR AREA OF INFLUENCE AND AS SUCH BECOME IMPORTANT AND/OR .....Read more

IT IS IMPOSSIBLE, TEMPORARILY IT MAY BE POSSIBLE BUT FOR ALL THE TIME AS CIRCUMSTNCES AND PERHAPS OTHERS OVERTAKE, IT IS PROGRESSIVE APPROACH BUT DEPRESSIVE AS WELL AS ALL THE TIME ONE REMAINS BUSY TO REMAIN PERFECT HOW AND IN WHAT MANNER AFTER HAVING REACHED THE SO-CALLED PERFECTION, TO GET OVER FURTHER ON PERFECTION LADDER BECOMES TERRIBLY HARDER IF NOT IMPOSSIBLE AND AS SUCH ONE GETS CUT OFF FROM SOCIAL LIFE AND ITS ENJOYMENT. THE QUESTION ARI .....Read more

            DEMOCRACIES AND AUTOCRACIES ARE IN TUG OF WAR, IS A QUESTION WHICH NEEDS AN ANSWER.

THE FACT IS THAT DEMOCRACIES BELIEVE AND ACT IN CONSULTATIONS WHILE AUTOCRACIES

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FAMILY FEUDS; I THINK ONE OF THE MAIN CAUSES IS THE BLAME GAME. Children generally find faults with parents and at times accuse them of their mistakes, perhaps keeping appreciation of good work done by parents hidden to themselves. I THINK IT IS A WRONG PERCEPTION as all parents love their children and do the best as they think right. It is possible that circumstances get changed in the meantime or possibly it is the result of their miscalculatio .....Read more

FATHER’S BLESSING MESSAGE TO HIS TEENKU ON HIS BIRTHDAY ON 18TH FEBRURY 2022 -KAISSA HAI YEH KHOOBSURAT DIN AUR KHOOBSARAT MAUKA BHEE -APNEE KHUSHEE AND APNAI PYAR KEE FEELINGS KA IZHAAR KARNAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -LIKHNA CHAHTA HOON BAHUT KUCCH LEKIN LIKA PATTA NAHIN -SOCH HEE SOCH MAIN AYA MUJHAI ACTOR AMITAB KA GANA ZAROOR -MEIN SHAYAR TO NAHIN LEKIN DEK KAR TUJHAI SHAYREE AA HEE GAYEE MUJHAI -ISSI TARAH MEIN LEKHAK TO NAHIN, LEKIN KUCCH .....Read more

KYA HAI YEH ZINDGEE -AATAI HAIN HUM ISS DUNIYAN MAIN -APNAI APNAI ROLE BEETANAI KAI LIYAI -BANATAI HAIN HUM APNEE APNEE FAMILIES -CHHOR JATAI HAIN HUM -SUB KUCCH CCHOR KAR YAHAN -APNEE APNEE FAMILIES KAI LIYAI HEE -MAGAR KARTAI HUM KOYEE KAAM AISAI -JINSAI KHUSH HOTEE YEH JANTA SAREE -SHAYAD APNAI ART SAI, APNEE SUREELEE AWAZ SAI, -KARTAI HUM JANTA KEE SEVA ISS PRAKAR KEE -TO HOTEE AUR REHTEE YEH DUNIYAN -KHUSHIYON SAI BHARPOOR -BU .....Read more

ZINGEE HAI TO SAB KUCHH HAI, VARNA KUCHH BHEE NAHIN -HAI ZINDGEE, KAISAI KARAIN HUM SHUKRIYA TERA -ISS JEEVAN MAIN, HAI KUCHH KUCHH KHOYA -LEKIN BAHUT KUCCH PAYA HAI ZAROOR -ZINDGEE MAIN TARAKEE PAYEE -BAHUT KUCCH BANAYA KHUSHEE LANAI KAI LIYAI -SHUKAR GUZAR HAIN HUM TERAI -BAHUT BARHIYA GUZAR RAHI HAI ZINDGEE HAMARI -HAR PARKAR SAI KHUSHEE MAIN ZAROOR -LEKIN SHIKVA HAI YEH PHIR BHEE -JAVANI KHO BAITHAI HAIN HUM -BURAHAPAI MAIN DAKHI .....Read more

VASDEV'S ALONG WITH ISHWAR(HIS WIFE) LIFE STRUGGLE IN TOGETHERNESS. LIFE JOURNEY. life has been of extreme struggles and sufferings, life took a turn after marriage, my maturity, appreciation of qualities of my wife, listening, understanding and willing reconciliation gave us strength of unity and union.my wife contributed in no less way in my struggle in life. despite differences of opinion in certain matters in the past and present, have nev .....Read more

HOW TO AVOID STRAINS IN OLD AGE: (1) most important is to keep busy (2) how, many will pose this question (3) answer lies in WHAT YOU HAVE ACQUIRED IN LIFE (a) experience (b) writings (c) communication skills (4) vocation (5) human relationships etc. etc. (6) action: WORK ON WHAT INTERESTS YOU, if you had been a teacher, go in for sometime to give free coaching to the needy and/or neighbourhood students, if writing interests, you start writing on .....Read more

       -          ZINDGEE BEETATEE JATEE HAI

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PINCH OF LIFE: How much astonishing it is that when we inflict sufferings to others we feel satisfied if not happy, that we have punished him/her due to his/her guilt. We not realise how much suffering and pain the other party is going through. It is in fact a daily routine when somone is beating someone, we on the road stand by to see how the fight is going on just as spectators, maybe if not enjoying the fight, same is also true when we see s .....Read more

SHOULD PARENTS/FATHER DISTRIBUTE THEIR ASSETS TO CHILDREN WHEN ALIVE OR LEAVE THE CHILDREN TO DECIDE AFTER THEIR DEMISE, LEAVE A WILL ETC. I still hold the same view as reiterated earlier that PARENTS ESPECIALLY FATHER MUST TAKE THE INITIATIVE AND DISTRIBUTE HIS?THEIR ASSETS WHEN HE/THEY FEEL THAT THEIR CHILDREN ARE ADULT AND MATURE ENOUGH TO ASSUME RESPONSIBILITIES AND MAKE THE BEST USE OF THE BUSINESS/ASSETS THEY ARE GIVEN BY PARENTS. Suppleme .....Read more

STRUGGLE BETWEEN SON/DAUGHTER AND FATHER, WHO IS SUPPOSED TO CONCEDE. ANSWER TO MY MIND APPEARS TO BE THAT FATHER MUST CONCEDE. WHY, BECOMES THE QUESTION; (1) father sooner of later has to leave or give all his earnings to his siblings. Then why to go to conflict. (2) as one gets old, one's capacity to control and run the business and responsibilities gets weakened as he does not possess the same energy in old age. (3) all those around take a .....Read more

WORDS MUST BE SUPPORTED BY ACTION, OTHERWISE THESE ARE LIES....Since lies have become more gainful, most of us employ all means to TURN LIES INTO TRUTH. We consciously and unconsciously bother about lies, what ultimate harm these will inflict to us as also to others, we do not feel ashamed or afraid of telling lies and advancing all sorts of arguments to prove that we are talking truth. As such we continue in our behaviour, belief and do all to .....Read more

ONE CAN SOLVE ALMOST ALL PROBLEMS if one is determined to find answer and solve these. The process is very simple to realise that we are the problem creator and ultimately it is we who are solve the problems. If one understands this fact, then why to create problems. However it is true some time problems crop up unexpected and in circumstances unknown as also by some known and unknown persons. In order to get over such situations and find answer, .....Read more

DOST DOST NAN RAHA AUR NAN RAHA VOH PYAR BHEE WHAT IS THIS, HOW FAR IT IS TRUE, THE FACT IS THAT LIFE IS FULL OF CONTRASTS . WE WANT HAPPINESS BUT WE GET SUBMERGED AND ENGROSSED WITH PROBLEMS AND PROBLEMS. MANY A TIME WE CREATE THESE PROBLEMS WHILE SOME PROBLEMS HAPPEN SUBCONSCIOUSLY. HENCE ALL THINKING AND GOAL FOR HAPPINES GET VANISHED. FRIENDS FROM SCHOOL, COLLEGE ETC. CALLED TO BE CHUMS WHOM WE USED TO MEET, GOSSIP A .....Read more

PARENTS FACE LOT OF PROBLEMS WITH CHILDREN WHICH THEY DO NOT LIKE, QUESTION ARISES HOW PARENTS SHOULD BEHAVE. I feel parent must not get into conflict with children despite the causes like dictating their own terms, fighting with each other, disapproving parents actions, accusing of favouritsm and partiality etc. etc. i have firm views and belief that conflict with children will not bring in any benefit and instead will destroy relationship what .....Read more

DEMOCRARY IS AN ILLUSION MOSTLY IN OUR COUNTRY I HEARD EARLIER WRITTEN THAT DEMORACY IS A FARCE. SINCE THEN IT HAS RATHER DETERIORATED THAN HAVING BEEN IMPROVED. IT IS SAID THAT DEMOCRACRY IS THE BEST SYSTEM WHICH GIVES POWER TO THE PEOPLE OF ALL TYPES RICH OR POOR, UPPPER CASTES OR LOWER CASTES, IRRESPECTIVE OF RELIGION THEY BELONG TO AND PRACTICE ETC. AND THAT IS WHY IT HAS BEEN CALLED AND PRONOUNCED AS UNDER; DEM .....Read more

MOTIVATION WHAT DOES IT MEAN IT CONSISTS OF ZEAL, DEDICATION, FIRE IN BELLY, KEENNESS TO BE SOMETHING AND MUST BE SUCCESSFUL ETC. HOW MOTIVATION DEVELOPS OR IS CREATED; 1. FIRST SUCCESS MOTIVATES FOR FUTURE ALWAYS 2. INBORN QUALITIES 3. OPPORTUNITIES 4. DEPRECIATING CERTAIN HABITS OF PARENTS AND IN RETALIATION TO GET MOTIVATED TO DO BETTER 5. ENVIRONMENTS 6. ASSOCIATION OF FRIENDS, COLLEAGUES ETC. 7. ENCOURAGEMENT BY SOULMATE 8. ACCEPT .....Read more

SHOULD GIRL’S AGE BE INCEASED TO 21 AT PAR WITH THE BOYS IN ANSSWER, I WILL SAY YES, GIRLS MUST HAVE 1. EQUALITY WITH BOYS 2. LATER AGE WILL HELP THEM TO TAKE HIGHER STUDIES AND AS SUCH STRIVE FOR BETTER CAREER 3. WILL GET MORE MATURE AND ENLISHTENED ABOUT THE PROS AND CONS OF MARRIAGE 4. WILL ENCOURAGE THEM TO COMPETE WITH BOYS IN ALMOST ALL SPHERES OF LIFE 5. ZEX BIAS WILL GET REDUCED. 6. BEING WELL EDUCATED, GETTING CONSCIOUS OF WOMEN EMP .....Read more

DIL KARTA HAI MILNAI KO MIL SAKTAI NAHIN DIL KARTA HAI BAAT KARNAI KO SUN SAKTAI NAHIN SOCHATAI REHTAI HAIN YEH KAYA HUA KARAIN TO KAYA KARAIN AB COVID AND OMICORN NAIN KAR DIAYA HAI SAB KUCHH KHATAM NAHAN KAHIN AA SAKTAI OR NAN JAA SAKTAI HAIN KAHIN DOOR HO GAI HAIN HUM DOSTON SAI AUR RISHTAI DARON SAI BHEE DIL CHAHTA HAI BAHAR JAYAIN KUCHH CHALAIN PHIRAIN KHAYAIN PIYAIN KARAIN SHOPPING AUR DIL BEHLAHAYAIN THAK GAYAI HAIN HUM .....Read more

WHAT ARE ANSWERS TO COVID19, DELTA, OMCRON ETC. BESIDES THAT SUCH VIRUS DISEASES ARE CAUSING DEATHS, THESE ARE CAUSING ALSO MULTIPLE PROBLEMS FOR US ALL WHICH CONSIST IN 1. SECLUSION AND ISOLATION 2. FAMILY CONFLICTS 3. DEPLETION OF RESOURCES 4. LESS OR NO INCOME, INCREASE IN EXPENSES 5. MONOTONY, DEPRESSION 6. FEAR OF GOING TO HOSPITALISATION AND NO RETURN 7. DESPITE ALL PRECAUTIONS, STILL REMAINING IN CONTINUOUS FEAR 8. READING, KNOW .....Read more

TRADE UNIONISM IN COLLEGES AND UNIVERSITIES MUST BE BANNED. I am of this firm view as unionism creates groups, encourage conflicts and leadS them to indulge in fights and hooliganism. Besides political parties indulge in to support one union or the other as per their respective ideology. The union leaders get more and more to gain influence against the other group and also get in touch with influential leaders to enter into politics after studie .....Read more

MISUNDERSTANDING IS A BIG ISSUE, IT HAS MADE NOT INDIVIDUALS FIGHT AGAINST EACH OTHER, BUT DESTROYED FAMILIES, BUSINESSES, KINGDOMS, FINISHED CAREER OF MANY, MANY INNOCENT PERSONS GOT DECLARED CULPRITS, GOT THEM PUNISHED AND EVEN HANGED. WHAT MISUNDERSTANDING HAS NOT DONE, ENTIRE HISTORY SHOWNS IT HAS BROGUHT IN DESTRUCTION TO HELP FULFILL ENEMITY, HATRED, GRUDGE, REVENGE AND INTOLERANCE TOWARDS THE SUCCESS OF THE OTHERS, AND ABOVE ALL TO ENJOY A .....Read more

WHEN AN ORGANISATION TAKES A DECISION TO ENABLE THEIR WORKFORCE TO WORK FROM HOME, SHOULD THEY THINK OF BOY AND GIRLS ALIKE. I THINK NO, GIRLS MUST BE GIVEN PREFERENCE TO WORK FROM HOME/HOUSE FOR REASONS AS UNDER: 1. UNCERTAINTY THAT GIRL AFTER MATERNITY, MIGHT LEAVE THE JOB, WORKING FROM HOME/HOUSE WILL ENSURE CONTINUITY OF JOB. 2. BY WORKING AT HOME WILL COST LESS TO THE ORGANISATION AT LEAST 1/3 OF THE SALARIES ETC. 3. GIRL WILL BE AB .....Read more

LIFE IS FULL OF UPS AND DOWNS, THEN WHAT TO DO 1. MANY ACCEPT UPS AND DOWNS AS PART OF LIFE AND LET THESE PASS AS THESE HAPPEN WITHOUT REGRETS, IN HOPE THAT NEXT WILL BE BRIGHTER, SO ON AND SO FORTH. 2. THERE ARE OTHERS WHO REGRET THE DOWNS, GET DEPRESSED AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO NEXT, DO NOT LIVE IN HOPE OR EFFORT, CONTINUE REGRETTING AND RECALLING THE PAST AND REPEATING IT ALL THE TIME. 3. THERE ARE OTHERS WHO TRY TO ANALYSE AS TO .....Read more

-JO DIL NAI CHAH -MEIN NAI KAR DIYA -LEKHIN TASALI PHIR BE NAHIN HUEE -KYA HAI VAJA -MEIN SOCHNAI LAGA -JAWAB MAIN AYA -HAR JEEZ DIL SAI NAHIN -DIMAG SAI BHEE SOCHEE JATEE HAI -ILAWAHA ISKAI YEH BHEE SAMAJHNA PARTA HAI ZAROOR -KYA JO MEIN SOCH RAHA HOON -KYA MEIN KAR BHEE PAYON GA ZAROOR -KYA MEIN NAIN APNAI IRADAI KARNAI SAI PEHLAI -SOCH LIYA HAS SAB MUSHKLON KAI BARAI MAIN BHEE -KYA MEIN NAIN YEH BHEE DEKH LIYA HAI .....Read more

LIFE IS WHAT WE WISH TO MAKE IT AND TO MAKE IT IS VERY SIMPLE, DREAM, CHOOSE THE BEST, SEARCH YOUR INNER FEELINGS, TAKE A GLANCE AT YOUR INBORN APTITUDES, TRACE OUT VARIOUS OPTIONS, CHOOSE THE BEST AS PER YOUR INNER FEELINGS AND APTITUDE, LOOK AROUND RESOURCES, PLAN, ARM YOURSELF WITH RELENTLESS ENERGY AND DETERMINATION, SURVEY OUTSIDE AND SEE THE FEASIBILITY OF YOUR PLAN IN RESPECT OF COMPETITION AND WHAT AS PER YOUR THINKING IS MISSING AND NEED .....Read more

LIFE IS CALLER, HOPES FILL IN, STRUGGLES AND ACTIONS FOLLOW, UPS AND DOWNS FLOW, TO BRING IN HAPPINESS AND DESPAIR. WHATEVER HAPPENS, LIFE GOES ON, THOSE WHO FIGHT FOR IT, GENERALLY TURN OUT WINNERS AND THOSE WHO GIVE IN, CONTINUE BLAMING THEIR FATE AND DESTINY, PASSING MOST OF THEIR LIFE IN MISERIES, EXCEPT A FEW WHO CONTENT WITH DESTINY AND FACE THE LIFE AS IT OPENS UP. LIFE IS HOPE, STRUGGLE IS REWARD, INACTION IS PASSAGE, NEVERTHELESS LIFE .....Read more

INTELLECTUAL AND INTELLEGENT BY INTELLECTUAL, IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT HE/SHE WILL NEVER MAKE MISTAKES. THERE ARE MANY EXAMPLES WHERE INTELLECTUALS HAVE MADE GROSS MISTAKES. MANY INTELLECTUALS BECOME PROMINENT IN GIVEN CIRCUMSTANCES AND WHEN THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES CHANGE/VANISH, THEIR ITELLECT FAILS TO FORESEE AND REACT. WHEN INTELLECTUALS TAKE TO WRITINGS, THEIR THOUGHTS AND PHILOSOPHIES BECOME WELL PRONOUNCED AND ARE MOSTLY ACTED UPON TO .....Read more

LISTENING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN REPLYING; why so, answer: 1. listening relieves the other person as to how much he/she feels burdened with the idea and is keen to convey at the earliest 2. until properly and fully listened, one can't give a proper reply 3. howsoever one may be busy, it is essential to take time to listen lest it turns into drastic behaviour and action 4. listening needs one to forget his/her problems temporarily and concentrate .....Read more

-GAON SAI SHEHR MAIN ANAI KA KAYA MAZA HAI -HAAR KA SOCH KAR JANA AUR SUCCESS PANA KYA MAZA HAI -FAIL HONAI KA FIKAR KARNA MAGAR FIRST A JANA KYA MAZA HAI -AISAI HEE LOTERIE MAIN KUCHH PAISA LAGA DIYAI, CRORE KAMA LIYAI KYA MAZA HAI -BEEVEE KO DEKHA TAK NAHIN MAGAR PAREE SAI BARHIA PAYA USSAI, KYA MAZA HAI -KHELTAI KOODTAI THAI, PARAHI MAIN DILL LAGTA THA NAHIN, MAGAR KABADI MAIN GOLD MEDAL PAYA, KYA MAZA HAI -KAM KAR KUCHH KIYA NAHIN, .....Read more

HAI DOSTO -EK DOST SUNAI AAPNEE BEETEE DASTAN -KAHNAI LAGA HICHKIYAN BHAR BHAR -KAR -RONA FUKA NAHIN -DIL PAR SADMA HAUNCHA ITNAI -ZOOR SAI -JHEEL NAN PAYA VO ISSAI KISSI TARAH SAI HEE --BULAYA DOCTOR KO -TO VO KEHNAI LAGA -HEART ATTACK HO SAKTA HAI -BAS AB BECHAIN NA HO TUM SAB -KIYA KAHOON MAUT SAI DAR LAGNAI LAGA -JEENAI KEE AAS BARHNAI LAGEE -SOCHNAI LAGA JO BEETNI THEE VO BEET GAYEE -JO HONA THA VO HO HEE GAYA -JO .....Read more

ZINDGI RAAG HAI YA RONA -MILTAI HAIN HUM UMEEDAIN BAHUT SAREE LAI KAR HEE -KYA HOTA HAI BAAD MAIN PATA NAHIN -SOCHTAI HAIN AUR SAMJATAI HAIN -MAGAR PHIR HEE HUL KUCHH NIKLTA NAHIN -SOCHTAI HAIN AGAR AKELAI REHTAI HUM -KIYA ACHHHA HOTA YEH NAHIN -KHYA AYA PHIR -YEH KABHEE HOTA NAHIN -DO PRUSHON KA IKHATAI REHNA HOTA HAI ZAROOREE -KYA KARAIN -IKHATHAI REH KAR BHEE HAIR DIN RAAT RONA HEE -AKELAI REHAIN TO ZINDGEE BEE .....Read more

SHOULD A PERSON WHO ACCUSES, ABSUSES, BEARS JEALOUSIES ETC. SHOULD BE RETALIATED IN THE SAME MANNER OR IS THERE SOME OTHER COURSE POSSIBLE. ANSWER: I believe when we are young, we believe and act in retaliation and while we get old and gain experience of life, we become more tolerant and reflect before taking any course of action. 2. experience, prudence, reflexion also help a lot as to what course of action needs to be taken to punish and correc .....Read more

ROLE OF WIFE AND HUSBAND HAS GONE A DRASTIC CHANGE. IN EARLIER TIMES, WAS THE WIFE COERCED TO SEEK OBEDIENCE OR WAS THERE A WELL CHALKED OUT DIVISION OF WORK, IS THE POINT OF DISCUSSION. IN MY VIEW, IT WAS MOSTLY DIVISION OF WORK THAN USING COERCION BY HUSBAND HERE AND THERE. COERCISION WAS RESORTED TO DUE TO CONFLICT WITH MEMBERS OF HER HUSBAND, MOSTLY WITH MOTHER IN-LAW AND MANY A TIME NOT RESPECTING THE VIEWS AND/OR DECISIONS OF HER HU .....Read more

WHAT MAKES MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT OUTSMART MOST OF MATRIMONIALS AND IN PARTICULAR TRADITIONAL ONES: 1. exhaustive biodata in particular DESIRES 2. assemble interested unknown families to familiarise with each other 3. analyses divergence of desires between the intending spouses 4. highlights and discusses on crucial issues. 7 encourages boy and girl to discuss with each other and make up their mind as such 8. discusses .....Read more

HAPPINESS IS THE GOAL WHICH IS RARELY ACHIEVED AS LUST FOR POWER, EGO, MINE-THINE, SUPERIORITY COMPLEX ETC. STAND AS FORMIDABLE ROADBLOCS. LIFE NEEDS TO CREATE MOTTO IN LIFE WHAT ONE WANTS AND THEN TO MOVE ON WITH FULL CONVICTION. MOST OF THE TIME ONE FORGETS THE MOTTO AND QUITE OFTEN IS WAYLAID BY EGO, NON-FULFILMENT, WRONG DECISION ETC. MOTTO NEEDS TO BE WELL THOUGHT OVER, ONCE DECISION IS TAKEN, ONE NEEDS TO FOLLOW IT TO ACHIEVE BY ALL M .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS A GAMBLE IT IS SAID SO. I do not think it is true. It is the best institution to live a happy married life and make progress. Rest of the systems are just the offshoots but not the reality. The QUESTION ARISES HOW TO GET TO IT AND MAKE IT HAPPIER ONE. ANSWER; it is said each problem has a solution provided one is determined to find it out and cipher out which is the best solution out of various options. Thus marriage also needs to get .....Read more

SHOULD THERE BE COURT MARRIAGE WITH A FEW FRIENDS OR CELEBRATION WITH POMP AND SHOW. In India we celebrate marriage in great pomp and show wherein besides relations, we invite all friends, known and unknown personalities and also the neighbours. I think it is a GOOD CUSTOM. One celebrate marriage as best as one can afford and shouldn't indulge in debts to show off to others. MARRIAGE IS A ONE TIME OCCASION TO BE REMEMBERED THROUGHOUT ONE'S LIFE A .....Read more

LIFE IS CONTINUOUS PROCESS OF HOPES, PROGRESS AND WORRIES. EVEN TILL LAST MOMENT ONE CONTINUES WITH HOPES AND REGRETS FOR MISTAKES AND FOR UNFINISHED WORK ETC. TO SAY THAT ONE HAS LEFT IN PEACE, TRUE IF ACCIDENTAL, HEART ATTACKED, BEING KILLED BY SOMEONE ETC. ETC. OTHERWISE ONE CONTINUES HARBOURING HOPES, REGRETS AND WORRIES FOR UNDONE ALL THE TIME , THEN WHAT COULD BE THE ANSWER? 1. ONE MUST DIVEST ONESELF OF THE MAXIMUM RESPONSIBILITIES AS ONE .....Read more

WHY WIFE CARES FOR HER HUSBAND TO LOOK HANDSOME AND NOT VICE VERSA: By nature God has made woman folk nimble, and attractive. That is in all human beings even upto animals, insects etc.that female is attracted by male. She has a natural charm from birth itself. This natural instinct gives her the opportunity and advantage to get more and more attractive and beautiful. That is why all fashion is oriented towards female and as female makes all effo .....Read more

ON WOMEN: what a wonderful narration which is reproduced hereunder: "women need to be romanced. Women are like electric ovens, they take a long time and then a lot time to cool down. Men are like gas stoves, phoom they are on fire and phoom they are off. Women need love to get sex, men go from sex to love"written by ALLAN PEASE 1. There is no doubt woman needs to be loved, loved alone and none else 2. she needs to be appreciated in toto as she i .....Read more

WHY WIFE CARES FOR HER HUSBAND TO LOOK HANDSOME AND NOT VICE VERSA: By nature God has made woman folk nimble, and attractive. That is in all human beings even upto animals, insects etc.that female is attracted by male. She has a natural charm from birth itself. This natural instinct gives her the opportunity and advantage to get more and more attractive and beautiful. That is why all fashion is oriented towards female and as female makes all effo .....Read more

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CYCLE OF LIFE: one comes crying and ends up crying. New born cries to fill up his/her belly while the departing parson weeps that he/she is losing and leaving everything he/she had struggled by all means to amass and also leaving the family which he/she created and had been looking for and after them, how they will manage by themselves. BESIDES I BELIEVE THERE IS MORE REPENTANCE AND THERE ARE MORE REGRETS FOR THE INJUSTICES, VICES, CRIMES, MALL-P .....Read more

DOES PUNISHING SOMEONE, CORRECTS HIM/HER. I will say rarely and seldom. If someone is convinced of the punishment, he/she will not comply and repeat it again and again. We are seeing the cases of rape, thefts etc. such cases are on the increase despite rigorous laws.We are finding law breakers are on the increase despite that challans are made, penalties are paid directly or through court. I believe such punitive measures perhaps have some correc .....Read more

MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT HAS BEEN CONCEIVED ALTOGETHER AS A NEW VENTURE KEEPING IN VIEW THE DIFFICULTIES YOUNGERS ALIKE ARE FACING, TO FIND THEIR COVETED SOULMATES AND HOW TO LEAD THE HAPPIEST MARRIED LIFE. HENCE EFFORTS HAVE BEEN DIRECTED IN THE FOLLOWING MANNER: 1. TO FORMULATE BIODATA FORM AS EXHAUSTIVE AS POSSIBLE TO PROVIDE ALMOST ALL INFORMATION TO MAKE A DECISION AS TO WHICH BIODATA WAS WORTH TO APPROVE AND MOVE FORWARD TO GET INTO .....Read more

THE RECIPE FOR SUCCESS, I THINK, IS FIRST AND FOREMOST IMPORTANT... BELIEVE IN YOUR SELF. METHOD; see and observe in yourself what are your inherent qualities, judge them well, take some time to experience these, discern and sort out which ones are most prominent, try and experience these for some time more, then single out one or two which you think are your asset (which we may call an aptitude), build up your conviction and believe that these .....Read more

TO CREATE AND DEVELOP HARMONY AND LOVE AMONGST CHILDREN IS THE 2ND MOST IMPORTANT RESPONSIBILITY OF PARENTS THOUGH ALL THE TIME BUT IT IS MOST IMPORTANT IN OLD AGE WHICH HELPS THE OLD PARENTS TO LIVE HAPPY AND ENJOY WITH THE FEELING THAT THEY HAVE FULFILLED THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES AND ARE HAPPY TO SEE THEIR CHILDREN LIVING IN HARMONY AND HELPFUL TO EACH OTHER. Let one not forget that distribution of assets is the 1st and most important responsibi .....Read more

OLD AGE IS THE RECALL AND REMINDER TO ALL THOSE GETTING OLD (1) to put an end to embitions (2) resolve all issues before these get too late (3) ensure that all the children remain emotionally attached, love each other and extend a helping hand if ever need arises by any of them (4) leave an autobiography of one's experience, narrating explicitly and plainly one's achievements, mistakes and failures of life without defending oneself why, how, got .....Read more

HOW TO REMAIN HAPPY AND HEALTHY? we keep in front the image of GOD, our parents or Guru(s) we believe in. I think the easiest way is to KEEP YOUR SOUL IN FRONT OF YOU, SEE AND CHECK IT EVERY DAY AS TO HOW IT IS SHAPING. If you feel your soul seems to be in good shape and seems to be flourishing, BE SURE THAT YOUR THINKING AND ACTIONS ARE GOOD, CONTINUE WITH THOSE and if you feel that YOUR SOUL IS STRESSED AND IS SQUEEZING, become conscious of thi .....Read more

POLLUTION IT IS A GREAT HEADACHE, IT DEVELOPS MANY DISCEASES, EVERY YEAR IT IS BLAMED THAT IT IS MOSTLY DUE TO FARM FIRES IN PUNJAB AND HARYANA. MANY GOVERNMENTS HAVE CHANGED, POLLUTION IS ON INCREASE THAN DECREASE. BLAMES ARE HURLED FOR EXAMPLE DURING DIWALI ON FIRE-WORKS, CHANGE IN CLIMATE ETC. ETC. IT IS SAID INDUSTRIALISATION HAS BROUGHT IN POLLUTION DUE TO EMISSION OF SMOKE, COAL WAS CONSIDERED TO BE THE MOST POLLUTING FOSSIL, THEN PET .....Read more

FRIENDS; THERE CAN BE CONFLICTS IN FAMILY, RELATIONS ETC. BUT NEVER IN FRIENDS, IF EVER IT HAPPENS, PROBLEM IS SORTED OUT BY FRIENDS BY EXPLAINING AND CLEARING MISUNDERSTANDING. 2. FRIENDSHIP GIVES OPENING SPACE TO FRIENDS TO TALK FREELY IN THE MANNER EACH ONE WANTS, THERE IS NO RESERVATION AT ALL,IT IS VERY GOOD RELATIONSHIP TO ALLOW RELAXATION, ENJOYMENT, UNDERSTANDING AND ACCOMMODATION OF EACH OTHER. FRIENDS; FRIENDS; It is essential to h .....Read more

DIWALI GREETINGS Diwali is the most celebrated and most awaited functions. It is celebrated by full of commotions and emotions. Houses inner belongs are cleaned, walls are white washed, all celebrations are done to do prayers in the form of Deepavali prayers. To enjoy happiness with relations, friends, acquaintance and at workplaces sweats are given/exchanged mostly by personal visits. Everyone does his/her best to be in family and with family m .....Read more

BETWEEN FAMILY AND FRIENDSHIP WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT AND WHY? AT THE VERY OUTSET, I WILL SAY BOTH ARE IMPORTANT. FAMILY IS THE FOUNDATION WHILE FRIENDSHIP IS THE BONDAGE OF TOGETHERNESS TO CHAT FREELY WHATEVER ONE WISHES TO TALK, IT IS A PLATFORM OF RELAXATION , IT IS THE PLATFORM FOR DISCUSSION AND REACHING A DECISION AND CONCESUS OF VARIANT VIEWS. IT IS BOOSTER OF LIFE AND HAPPINESS. IT GENERATES FAITH OF SECRECY TO TALK OVER AND CONSULT ON .....Read more

WHAT A WONDER GIRLS ARE SURPASSING AND EXCELLING BOYS ALMOST IN ALL FIELDS, WHY SO? 1. soon after they finish their studies in schools, colleges, universities etc. the girls rush back to their houses without wasting much time here and there. Thus compared to boy, girls find more time to study. 2. parents remain more conscious and worried to know and ensure that their daughter soon returns to home soon a .....Read more

ZERO IT IS SAID ZERO HAS NO SIGNIFICANCE AND ITS EXISTENCE IS GOOD FOR NOTHING. IT HAS ALL NEGATIVE TENDENCIES THAN POSITIVE ONES. AT THE MOST IT IS STATIC WITHOUT ANY ZEAL FOR PROGRESS.' THIS ALL IS TRUE SO LONG AS IT REMAINS IN THE COMPANY OF ZEROS, HOW MANY ZEROS ONE CONTINUES PUTTING ALONG WITH THE OTHERS, IT WILL REMAIN ZERO AND WILL THUS ALL REMAIN ZERO, NOTHING ELSE.. BUT IF YOU PUT ZERO WITH ANY DIGIT BIG OR SMALL, IT DEVELOPS .....Read more

ROLE OF HUSBAND AND WIFE; NEGATIVE AND POSSITIVE GO TOGATHER LIKEWISE PROFIT AND LOSS GO TOGETHER SUCCESS AND FALL ALSO HAPPEN TOGETHER NEVER TO FORGET THAT LEFT HAND AND RIGHT HAND GO TOGETHER WHEN RIGHT IS STRONG, LEFT IS NOT THAT STRONG BUT IS SUPPORTIVE FOR ALL TIMES AND FOR ALL PURPOSES AND IF LEFT GETS STRONGER, THE RIGHT BECOMES SUPPORTIVE IT ALL DEPENDS WHAT ONE IS USED TO ADOPT AND PRACTICE IT IS SAID LEFT HANDEVERS ARE COM .....Read more

Divorce in most cases could be avoided by pre_education and pre_guidance thr literature and discussion with father mother _,boy with father and girl with mother. Essential to read literature on divorce and how life will be spent after divorce and hardships emerged and how to face those. ONCE DIVORCE happens one must do best to settle down and find partner soon forgetting fights for maintenance and revenge.TO settle life is more important than get .....Read more

WHY GIRLS ARE PAID LESS THAN BOYS WITH ALMOST SAME QUALIFICATIONS AND IN GENERAL ALMOST 1/2 OF WHAT IS PAID TO THE BOYS. IT LOOKS PARADOXICAL, A BIT ANALYSIS AND PLAUSIBLE SOLUTION THEREFOR: reasons. seem to be: 1. multifarious and not much concentration on work, remain busy for households, children, husband etc. 2. no certainty when she will be leaving the job and as such all experience and investment in promotions and progress by the organisa .....Read more

CAN ONE REMAIN MOTIVATED ALL THE TIME. I will admit and say NO. It depends on (1) daily environments (2) attitude towards life (3) success or failures (4) company and the family one is surrounded with (5) economically well off (6) believer and actor of positive thinking and problems solver (7) believe that problems come and go, life is to live, enjoy and to remain committed and motivated to FULFILL AND ACHIEVE WHAT ONE AIMS AT (😎 learn to rema .....Read more

RECIPICE FOR ALL PROBLEMS, WHAT A WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE AND CITATION FOR ALL FRIENDS TO BENEFIT FROM MY EXPERIENCE BE PATIENT AND QUITELY REFLECT AS TO HOW AND WHAT PROMPTED TO CREATE THIS PROBLEM, IT IS FOREMOST ESSENTIAL TO GET TO THE ANSWER, SUPPOSE SOMEONE GETS EXTREMELY ANGREE WITH YOU AND CALLS NAMES OF ALL SORTS. 1. ONE AND QUICK ANSWER REMAINS TO RETALIATE 2. THE OTHER COMES TO ONE'S MIND WHY IT IS THAT I HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING WRONG, WH .....Read more

LIFE IS LIKE THAT, many feel jealous, many wish to destroy to enjoy irrespective of whether they gain or not, hardly few in life care, love and are ready to do everything for one's benevolent behaviour, attitude and observing one in helping others without any demand or reward in return. WHEN ONE IS GENTLE AND KIND, ONE GETS EMOTIONAL, GETS LOST IN SENTIMENTS, FORGETS THE GENUINENESS, BELIEVES THAT EVERYONE IS HONEST, BUT UNFORTUNATELY WORLD .....Read more

LOVE ATTRACTS WHILE ANGER DISTRACTS. Emotions create love while disliking takes away. Love attracts while anger distracts. Love at times is visual which covers face and body structure of a person, it is TEMPORARY IN NATURE, while PERMANENT LOVE consists in same thought, same understanding, appreciation of each other, bear patience and tolerance and listen each and decide together, sexual satisfaction too plays primary role in creating, developing .....Read more

EVERYONE WANTS TO GET TO HAVEN, HOW AND WHEN REMAINS A BIG PROBLEM, CENTURIES ARE GONE BY, NO ONE CAN CLAIM WITH CONFIDENCE THAT HE/SHE HAS SEEN HAVEN, ENJOYED IT, PERHAPS SEEN GOD AND CAME BACK ON EARTH, WHY DID HE/SHE RETURN, PERHAPS DUE TO BAD DEEDS AND AS SUCH ONE IS PUNISHED OR HAS BEEN SENT BACK TO PREACH AND GET THIS WORLD RID OF ALL VICES.IT IS A QUESTION VERY DIFFICULT TO ANSWER BUT ONE THING IS SURE, HOPE AND BELIEF WHICH HAVE ALWAYS BE .....Read more

MARRIAGE TO DO, WHY -IS IT FICTION -IS IT DREAM -IS IT PHYSICAL NECESSITY -IS IT SOCIAL COMPULSION -IS IT RELIGION OR VARIOUS SECTS NECESSITY -IS IT COMPULSION OF PARENTS -IS IT SELF DESIRE -IS IT FOR CREATING MINE AND THINE -IS IT FOR HANDING OVER AND/OR ALLOCATING ACCUMULATION OF ASSETS ETC. TO ONE'S OWN CHILDREN ETC. -IS IT DESTINY -IS IT A CHANCE -IS IT A GAMBLE -IS IT NECESSARY FOR DIVISION OF WORK AND SHARING RESPONSIBILITIES - .....Read more

IS IT ESSENTIAL THAT DAUGHTER-IN-LAW AND MOTHER-IN-LAW QUITE OFTEN ENGAGE IN WAR LIKE FIGHTS The reasons seem to be: (1) mother-in-law who had been taking care of his son from taking in lap to the stage of marriage, finds it very difficult and annoying that in a day, her beloved son is being taken away by her daughter-in-law (2) is the behaviour of daughter-in-law essential to take away her husband from his mother:(a) to a great extent it is co .....Read more

To live alone is a temporary phase, mostly pretended, man is a social animal, cannot remain alone and enjoy the charm of life. HENCE MARRIAGE IS THE BEST INSTITUTION AND AS SUCH IS CATEGORISED THE PIOUS ONE as it strengthens the relationship between two opposite genders is a social acceptance, develops urge to have children to accomplish pride and unfulfilled dreams of the parents themselves to live with, enjoy their company, own responsibilitie .....Read more

4TH. MOTHER-IN-LAW, DAUGHTER IN-LAW AND HUSBAND; EXTREME; WIFE GETS BACK TO HER PARENTS HOUSE, ALAS ALL LOST, ALL DREAMS AND ASPIRATIONS HAVE GOT SHATTER AND ARE GONE CRUMBLING. What a shocking and unbearable situation is for the girl and her parents as if sky has fallen and all has gone flat into gloom, regrets, repentance, fault finding etc. etc. least to think of answers except REVENGE. This departure from the house which was hers, exists .....Read more

TO REALISE DESIRED LOVE, ONE NEEDS TO MAKE CEASELESS SACRIFICES. - MERA DIL DOLAI, MERA MAN DOLAI -HAI MERAI PIYA A JA RAI, APNA SUNDAR MUKHRA DEKHA JA RAI -JO PYAR KARAIGAI VOH GANA GAYAI GA AUR SAINKRON MAIN PEHCHANA JAYAI GA -FIDA HOON MEIN TUM PAR ITNAIN -NAN HAI HOSH AUR NAN HAI ILTJA AUR KUYEE -BAS TU HEE, TU HAI, BAS KAR RAHA HOON MEIN INTEZAR TEREE -DIN GUZARTA NAHIN AUR -RAT KHATAM HOTEE NAHIN -SOTA HOON MEIN MAG .....Read more

WHAT A WONDER THOSE WHO REMAIN AWAY FROMCLAN MAKE BETTER PROGRESS THAN THOSE WHO REMAIN OR TAKE SHELTER IN THE CLAN. -WHY IT IS SO, MOST OF THE PERSONS WHO GO TO FOREIGN OR LIVE IN THE COUNTRY PREFER TO LIVE IN CLAN AS AS THEY GET EASY SHELTER FRIENDS AND ASSOCIATES TO LIVE TALK ABOUT AND DO SOME GOOD OR TERTIARY JOBS VERY QUICKLY. -WHY SO, BECAUSE ALL SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE, OBSERVE SAME RITUALS AND MAYBE .....Read more

TALIBAN, INDIA, KASHMIR AND PAKISTAN. Note: please I am expressing my views as I think that India is going to face lot of problems by Pakistan ,which is being supported by China and despite the fact that Pakistan is sunni while Taliban is shia, I think both will combine to fight against India the question of Kashmir. Both these will be aided by Russia by all its resources and military mite. We know mostly Nepal has twilted toward China, in Bhu .....Read more

DIALOGUE BETWEEN BOY AND GIRL ........................................................................... -LARKI LARKAI SAI POOCHHTI HAD -TUM MUJH SAI PYAR KYON KARTAI HO -LARKA KEHTA HAI -YEH DIL AUR AANKHOON KE BAAT HAI -YE DIL AUR AANKHAIN SAB KO PASAND KARTEE HE NAHIN -YEH DIL AND AANKHAIN DEKHTEE HAIN KAYON SEE ACHHAYAN ISS ISS LARKI MAIN HAIN -JIS SAI YEH JEEVAN KHUSHEE MAIN BEETAI AUR HUM TARAKEE PAYAIN AUR ANGREZI MAI .....Read more

EACH AND EVERYTHING IN EXCESS BREEDS CORRUPTION: it can relate to character, power, prominence, cruelty, makes one sole centred, dogmatic and arrogant. WHY SO? 1st it is due lust for power which means to enjoy, rule, dictate and leave none to disobey or challenge, In such a situation one assumes the powers knowingly or unknowingly of GOD and the moment this happens, downfall does happen. History is full of citations, Asa Ram, Ram Rahim are toda .....Read more

LIFE IS LONG OR SHORT , is a question which many answer in different ways. The poor and the believers are convinced that one's life is predetermined and that everyone will die on a particular day and in the circumstances determined by GOD, the educated and in modern society, many believe that life has nothing to do with predetermination and destiny, it all depends on its MAINTENANCE AND MEDICATION, which contains in exercise, taking care of foo .....Read more

GOOD AND BAD: VARY FROM PERSON TO PERSON. It depends on the perception, attitude,conscience and personal interests of an individual. 1. Government makes laws and rules to regulate the society in their benefit at large. Generally these are good for the society which I think need compliance. However those who are law abiding accept these as good and comply with while those who intend not to obey, think that these are bad. College goers in general .....Read more

LET ME BE FRANK TO MY ASSOCIATES FRIENDS, READERS AND THOSE INTERESTED that whatever I write are just the guidelines of my experience, thought and vision and are necessarily fool proof for implementation. Circumstances in each family are different and as such views need to be referred and related to action in toto, modified, rectified or as a guiding force to take a decision. THE SUBJECT IN QUESTION AND ANSWER RELATES TO THE CHILDREN WHO WHEN GRO .....Read more

CORRUPTION IS LIKE CANCER IT NOT ONLY CONTINUES BUT ALSO GROWS AS THE TIME PASSES SIMILAR TO CANCER WHICH CONTINUES INCREASING UNTIL COMES AN END TO LIFE. SAME IS THE CASE WITH CORRUPTION IT NEVER STOPS UNTIL LIFE COMES TO AN END. AS IN CANCER MEDICATION IS DONE TO HEAL AND RECOVER BUT MOSTLY IT CONTINUES GROWING, LIKEWISE CORRUPTION MAY ALSO GIVE SOME JOLTS TO INITIATE APOLOGIES, BUT HABIT NEVER STOPS, TEMPORARILY PERHAPS, BUT IT SHOWS UP AGAIN .....Read more

SHINE LIKE THE SUN AND REMAIN COOL LIKE THE MOON. TO BALANCE BOTH SHOULD BE THE MOTTO. I think TO REMAIN COOL IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN SHINING as when one remains cool, one can take well deliberated and seasoned decisions and live an enjoyable and reasonably comfortable life. I feel the very purpose and essence of life is to live happy, healthy and comfortable life and this one can achieve by coolness and not necessarily by shining. SHINING CAN GI .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS A PIOUS INSTITUTION, ANY DEVIATION OR BREAKING IT, I BELIEVE, IS BOUND TO CREATE MANY PROBLEMS, THE WORST THAT IT WILL NEVER BRING IN LIFE LONG HAPPINESS, TEMPORARILY PERHAPS. tks   MARRIAGE IS A PIOUS INSTITUTION, IT NEEDS TO BE RESPECTED AND RETAINED BUT CERT .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS ALSO SETTING ANOTHER TREND, which contains in the belief that when everything changes as one feels fed up with the same in routine, whether it is in eating, wear, living in palaces still one likes to go to resorts, see the world around etc. then why to STICK TO ONE MAN OR ONE WOMAN. It is not that this trend is predominant in developed countries, it is so so in developing countries as well. I think primarily status, position and power .....Read more

TO DOLE OUT ASSETS AND BUSINESS TO CHILDREN WHILE THE CHILDREN ARE ABOUT 40S AND THE PARENTS ARE ABOUT 70S, WILL ALLOW THE CHILDREN TO ENJOY AND MAKE THESE BEST USE OF WHATEVER IS GIVEN TO THEM BY PARENTS IN ADDITION TO WHAT THEY ARE EARNING IN THEIR DAILY, MAYBE THEY WASTE AS PER THE JUDGEMENT OF PARENTS, LET THEM DO THAT, AS PARENTS PART IS TO LEAVE TO CHILDREN ONE DAY OR THE OTHER, THEN WHY THE PARENTS SHOULD BOTHER HOW THE CHILDREN WILL USE .....Read more

SHOULD PARENTS CONTINUE THEIR PREFERENCE FOR A SON OVER A DAUGHTER? Firstly, let me look to the reasons and spell these out (1) to keep the family heritage/continuity (2) can leave earnings like business to the son as he belongs to the same house and family while the daughter takes to different roots and builds up her own family with her husband, which is altogether different from parents family, maybe links remain till the time daughter is alive .....Read more

TIME HAS CHANGED PARENTS SHOULD NEVER FORCE THEIR CHILDRENT TO JOIN THEIR BUSINESS, OR LET THEIR CHILDREN TO DO WHAT WHAT THEY DESIRE AFTER STUDIES. IN SELF EFFORT EVEN MINOR GAIN WILL CREATE ENCOURAGEMENT AND PRIDE BELIEVING THAT ITIS ME WHO HAS EARNED THIS AND NOT BECAUSE WHAT MY PARENTS HAVE GIVEN TO ME , WHERE POSSIBLY THERE COULD FAMILY CONFLICTS, STAFF AND MANAGEMENT HINDRANCES, NEVERTHELESS IF THE CHILDREN WANT TO JOIN THE BUSINESS OF TH .....Read more

INDEPENDENCE DAY CELARATIONS. IT IS THE PROUDEST DAY FOR ALL OF US TO SALUTE ALL THOSE BRAVE SOLDIERS AND LEADERS WHO SACRIFICED THEIR LIFE TO GET US FREED, ENJOY AND KEEP UP THE FLAG OF FREEDOM HIGH AND LET THE NATION GROW IN ALL HUMILITY, ONENESS, IN LOVE AND GRATITUDE TO ALL THOSE WITH WHOM WE GET IN CONTACT AND ALSO THOSE WHOM WE DO NOT KNOW, BELIEVING AND APPRECIATING THAT THEY ARE ALSO CONTRIBUTING THEIR BEST FOR THE NATION AND WE ALL HUM .....Read more

LAUDABLE IS THE DAY WE ARE BORN AND REMORSEFUL IS THE DAY WHEN WE DIE. Life is the same for everyone except that our likes and dislikes, aims and ways of living, beliefs and religions, behaviour and relationships etc differ. We all aim and struggle to have a family of our own, though the trend is changing now and is in the processing of growing WHAT IS THE USE TO HAVE FAMILY AND CHILDREN, LIFE IS TO LIVE, PROGRESS, ENJOY AND BE HAPPY, WHY TO H .....Read more

CHAAND SURAJ DOST HAIN YA DUSHMAN -YEH SAMAJH MAIN AYA NAHIN -KOSHISH KARTA HOON MEIN -YEH SAMAJHNAI KAI LIYAI -AUR AAP LOGON KO BATANAI KAI LIYAI -YEH CHAAND HEE HAI -JO HUMAIN AADESH DETA HAI -SONAI KAI LIYAI -AUR AARAM KARNAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -SOORAJ KO YEH ACCHA LAGTA HEE NAHIN -BHAGA DETA HAI CHHAND KO -AUR UTHA DETA HAI HUM SAB KO BHEE -KEHTAI HUAI BHEE, UTH JAO -SAVERA HO GAYA HAI -AUR AGAR TUM UTHAI NAHIN -TO GHUSA KAROONGA MEIN -AU .....Read more

DIFFERENCE OF LIFE BETWEEN THE RICH AND THE POOR. THE RICH MOSTLY REMAINS WORRIED AND ENGAGES IN CONFLICTS MANY A TIME, HAS NO TIME TO BE WITH FAMILY, RELATIONS ETC EXCEPT ON ESSENTIAL OCCASIONS. SLEEP TURNS INTO SLEEPLESSNESS, MANY THOUGHTS TURN INTO DREAMS AND MOSTLY RELATED TO BUSINESS/WORK. STATUS, PRESTIGE, GROWTH OF BUSINESS AND/OCCUPATIONS, THUS IN SHORT, TO HAVE MORE AND MORE MONEY TURNS INTO GREED AND REAL PEACE OF LIFE IS LOST, EXCEPT M .....Read more

LIFE IS A CHALLENGE, THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES, ARE ALWAYS READY TO TAKE CHALLENGE IN ANY AND EVERY SITUATION IN WHATEVER SHAPE AND RIGOUR IT TAKES WHILE THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN FATE AND ACCEPT WHATEVER HAPPENS IN LIFE MOSTLY REMAIN SATISIFIED WITH THAT, DO MAKE SOME EFFORTS, BUT NOT LIKE THE ONE WHO CREATES AND ACCEPTS CHALLENGES. CHALLENGER REMAINS SATISFIED AND DISSATIFIED DEPENDING ON SUCCESSS OR FAILURE, WHILE ONE WHO IS BELIEVER I .....Read more

WHAT IS THE BEST MOMENT OF LIFE, IS IT CHILDHOOD OR COURTSHIP. MANY WILL SAY THAT CHILDHOOD IS THE BEST AGE TO ENJOY WITHOUT ANY RESPONSIBILITIES. I WILL SAY YES IT IS TRUE BUT IT IS BUNDLED WITH FEAR FROM PARENTS AT ANY AND EVERY TIME OF THEIR DISLIKING. ON THE CONTRARY I WILL SAY THAT COURTSHIP IS THE BEST PERIOD WHEN EVERYTHING LOOKS BRIGHT, THERE IS NO FEAR, NO ANGER, LOVE IS EVERYWHERE AND AT EVERY MOMENT, IT IS FULL OF DREAMS, PLANNING A .....Read more

GOD HAS GIVEN US BRAIN AND MIND IT DEPENDS ON EACH INDIVIDUAL HOW HE/SHE USES THESE.Any of these in excess is no good perhaps for a few but not in general. Excess dependence on brain will direct one to more and more excesses , bad, unruly and indulge one in cruel actions like dacoities, thefts, killings and what not, while excess of mind and conscience will force a person to leave this material life and get more and more involved in religious pre .....Read more

LIFE... I WONDER WHAT IS LIFE AFTER ALL -IS IT STRUGGLE -IS IT DESTINY -IS IT DESTINY -IS IT OPPORTUNITY -IS IT WIFE -IS IT CHILDREN -IS IT PROGRESS AND SUCCESS -IS IT FULL OF RESPONSIBILITIES -IS IT FULL OF REBUKES AND CRITICISM -IT IS FULL OF UNHAPPINESS -IS IT FULL OF REGRETS AND REPENTANCES -IS IT FULL OF JEALOUSIES HATRED, CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS -IS IT TO RULE OVER OTHERS BY HOOKS OR CROOKS -IS IT TO LIVE AND PASS LI .....Read more

60 YEARS MARRIAGE CEREMONY OF ISHWAR AND VASDEV LOOND. -FANTASTIC HAS BEEN AND IS MARVELOUS JOURNEY OF LIFE NOT ONLY IN TOGETHERNESS BUT ALSO IN EXEMPLARY LOVE, UNDERSTANDING AND ADJUSTMENT WITH EACH OTHER, GLADLY AND LOVINGLY. -LONG WAS THE WAIT AND ABANDANT WERE THE HOPES TO SEE AND ENJOY THIS DAY OF MARRIAGE, TO OWN AND SHARE RESPONSIBILITIES OF MARRIAGES OF BROTHERS, SISTERS, CREATE AND AND BUILD OUR OWN FAMIL .....Read more

MAGAR MIL NAN PAHEE VOH KABHEE -SAMAJH AATA NAHIN -KYA YEH SAPNA THA -YA THEE AANKHOON KEE BHOOL -BHULA NA PAYA MEIN USSAI KABHEE -PHIR KYA HUA -YAD KARTAI KARTAI AUR HAR TARAF DHOOnDTAI HUAI -AANKHOON SAI GUZARTAI GUZARTAI -YEH TASVEER MERAI DIL MAIN -APNA GHAR BANA KAR BASS BAITHEE -BAS PHIR SAVAYAI ISS TASVEER KAI KUCHH DIKHTA THA HEE NAHIN -KHANA PEENA SAB BHOOL GAYA MEIN -SAMAJH MAIN AATA NAHIN KUCHH BHEE -B .....Read more

LIFE IS WIFE HUSBAND AND WIFE COMPATABILITY IS VERY IMPORTANT, BOTH NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHEN BOTH WED TOGETHER, THEY NEED TO BECOME ONE IN ALL MANNERS AND IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES AND WHATEVER HURDLES COME, THEY TOGETHER NEED TO FACE AND SOLVE THOSE. BOTH NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT PATIENT LISTENTENING, UNDERSTANDING, GIVING SPACE TO EACH OTHER, CARING AND SHARING ARE MOST ESSENTIAL PART OF LIFE AS A .....Read more

WEAP NEVER, OTHERWISE YOU SPOIL YOUR HEALTH AND WILL BE UNABLE TO DO ANY WORK NOR WILL BEHAVE PROPERLY. AS WEAPING IS AN EXPRESSION OF FEELINGS AS TO HOW WE THINK, WHAT WE THINK, AS SUCH WEAPING BECOMES ESSENTIAL TO VENTILATE OUR FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS AND THOSE WHO SOMEHOW CONTROL IT OR HIDE IT, SURELY AFFECT THEIR BODY SLOWLY SLOWLY. ... THEN QUESTION ARISES SHOULD WE LET SOMEONE WEAPING OR TRY TO CONSOLE HIM/HER. IN SUCH A SITUAATION, OUR BEHA .....Read more

WORRY NEVER WORRY NEVER, SEARCH FOR THE ANSWER, OF COURSE, BY ANALSING VARIOUS OPTIONS, NEVER DELAY DECISION AS OTHERWISE MANY A TIME THINGS GET WORST, UNCONTROLLABLE AND RESULT IN PILING UP WORRIES WITHOUT MANY A TIME WITH NO ANSWER. IF SUCH A SITUATON CONTINUES FOR A LONGER PERIOD, THE ISSUE WILL BECOME BIGGER AND BIGGER AND GRADUALLY POSSIBLY WILL COST THE HEALTH AND PERHAPS EVENTUALLY BRING LIFE TO AN END. .. QUESTION ARISES IF ALL THIS HAP .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS SOOTHING AND COOLING FACTOR AGAINST ANGER which is also subjected to 1. self consciousness that anger does no good, rather instead harms self 2. why not to substitute again by other means of listening, understanding etc. which cause anger 3. change environments which seem to provoke one to anger 4. non-tolerance to opposition 5. finding no answer to the problem except to get into anger etc. etc. MARRIAGE BECOMES THE COOLING FACTOR al .....Read more

LIFE IS FULL OF WORRIES AND COMPLICATIONS WITH EXCEPTION OF COURSE THAT MOMENTARY JOY AND HAPPINESS DO HAPPEN. ALAS AND UNFORTUNATELY, AS THE LIFE ADVANCES, THESE WORRIES AND COMPLICATIONS MULTIPLY AND DO RESULT IN TO BECOME SO POWERFUL THAT FEW OCCASIONS WHICH EXISTED FOR JOY AND HAPPINESS DO START VANASHIPING AND FINALLY DIE OUT. ALSO DESPITE THE FACT THAT WE ENGAGE IN PRAYERS, GET TO RELIGIOUS PLACES, TEMPLES, MOSQUES, CHURCHES ETC. RELIGI .....Read more

MAN IS AFRAID OF THE END AND BEGS ALMIGHTY ALWAYS FOR A BIT WAIT WHICH NEVER ENDS. --------------------------------------- -A MAN WAS WEAPING AND COMPLAINING ALL THE TIME AND ALSO PRAYING TO GOD THAT HE IS TIRED OF THIS LIFE AND BEGS GOD TO END HIS LIFE AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE. GOD AS SUCH SENDS GHOSTS TO TAKE HIM. WHEN HE SEES THESE GHOSTS IN BLACK AND HORRIBLE CONDITION, HE/SHE GETS AFRAID AND PRAYS TO GOD THAT HE SHOULD BE RELIEVED OF THESE GHO .....Read more

HUSSAN DIYA AUR RONA BHEE SAATH SAATH -KIYON AUR KISS LIYA, -YEH SAMAJH MAIN AATAA HEE NAHIN -VAISSAI TO MILTAI HAIN BAHUT SAI DOST -MAGAR NIBH NA PAATEE HAI KISSI KAI SAATH PYAR MAIN KABHEE -ZINDGEE BHAR BEETANAI KAI LIYAI HEE -VAISSAI TO MILTAI HAIN BAHUT DILWALAI AUR MATWALAI BHEE -LEKIN MILA NAHIN KABHEE KOYEE PYAR SAI ZINDGEE CHALANAI AUR NIBHANAI KAI LIYAI HEE -KARTEE HOON MEIN PYAR JISS SAI -VOH YEH SAMAJHA NAHI .....Read more

HAPPY WE FEEL WHEN WE SUCCEED AND DEPRESSED WE FEEL WHEN WE FAIL . Why so, it is because we are reservoir of hopes and dreams. If we do not have these, though alive, we will be dead like robots. HOPES AND DREAMS ARE THE LIFE-LINE AND IF WE WANT TO LIVE COMFORTABLY, hopes and dreams become the foundation on which we build up our resources and action. FEW SUCCEED, MANY LIVE WITH IT AND QUITE A LOT LIVE IN MISERIES, MOSTLY I THINK IT IS they remain .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS A MUST. Many feel why to lose their freedom by living alone in the manner they want, they are not to be questioned by any one, no submission, no tolerance, no subjugation, no conflicts, threats etc. In the present age no one wants to lose one's freedom, there is no tolerance, discussion as a winner remains the aim of boy and girl, it is further aggravated as in marriage boy and girl come from different background with different attitu .....Read more

PATHETIC SCENE OF NARRATION BY HUSBAND TO HIS WIFE. .................................................................... -HEY JAAN MERI -BACHPAN KAI DIN BHOOLA NAN DENA -MERAI DIL TO DUKHA NAN DENA -KOMAL HAI YEH DIL MERA -RO PARA, TO CHUP NAN HO PAOONGA MEIN KABHEE -MANAOOGEE NAHIN TU MUJHAI -YEH SAB JAANTA HOON MEIN -ZAROOR -TARPA TARPA KAR KIYA MAARNA CHAHTEE HO TU MUJHAI -KIYON, KIS LIYAI -BATA DAI TU ZARA APNAI DIL KAI .....Read more

The owner/founder of marriage bureaus and all those interested I am running marriage bureau in the name of Marriage Guidance New Concept - as a social service totally free, no charge and no gifts at any stage. As you know, growth is law of nature. As such to expand our activities for marriage which besides offering contacts which are fully studied as per desires and only those biodatas are selected which meet the desires requirements from .....Read more

DREAM, WISH AND HOPE. WHICH TAKES PRIORITY IS A QUESTION TO BE ANSWERED. As for I am concerned I think these go in succession i.e. 1 dream 2. wish 3. hope, then of course other parameters like individual capacities, planning, resources, determination etc. etc. follow to realise all these 3 i.e. dream, wish and hope. Dream happens by seeing others, observing what others want and/or what others would like, inspiration by parents, colleagues, guides .....Read more

INTELLIGENCE IS NO GOOD IF NOT DEVELOPED INTO WISDOM which develops when one faces many problems and gives answers to those, the more the ticklish and taxing situations are tackled, the more wisdom develops and encourages to take decisions concerning small and big situations. Soon after wisdom is achieved, VISION IS IMPORTANT, which many fail to develop as it involves elaborate studies of how the situations are shaping up in the neighbourhood, in .....Read more

WHY MARRIAGE BRINGS IN DIFFERENCES AND CONFLICTS SOON AFTER MARRIAGE? 1. DECEPTION is the main cause, I think. The wife after glorious celebrations on both sides of the familIies, and glorious invitation and promises by the husband that he shall from now on and for ever remain devoted to her and her alone to provide her comforts and joy if not more, minimum equivalent to that she enjoyed with her family. ALAS the moment she steps into the in-laws .....Read more

DUKHBHARI DASTAN OF WIFE FOR HER HUSBAND. ............................................................................ -HEY HUMRAHEE, HUMSARAF AND MEHBOOBA MERAI -KYA HOOA, KIYON HOOA AUR KAISAI HOOA -MUJHAI YEH PATAA HEE NAHIN -HEY DILWALAI, HEY MERAI MATWALAI -KYA TUM BHOOL GAYAI HO VOH DIN -JAB CHHUP CHHUP KAR BAITTHAI THAI HUM -DIN BEET JATAI THAI AUR RAATAIN BHEE KHATAM HO JATEE THEEN -MAGAR NAN HOTEE THEEN KHATAM HA .....Read more

HEY MEHBOOBA -NAN DIL DUKHANA MERA KABHEE -AUR NAN RULANA MUJHAI KABHEE -RO PAROONGA MEIN AGAR -MURJHA JAOGEE TUM BHEE -MERI JAAN, MERI HAMSAFAR -.................................................... -PYAR KIYA MEIN NAIN ZAROOR -LEKIN PYAR NAN LAI PAYA MEIN KABHEE -KYA HOOA AUR KIYON HOOA -YEH MERI SAMAJH MAIN AATA NAHIN KABHEE -BACHAI BHEE KAR LIYAI -APNA JEEVAN PYAR MAIN BEETANAI KAI LIYAI HEE -AUR KHUSHIYAN MANANAIN KAI .....Read more

THE POORER ONE IS, THE HARDER HE/SHE WORKS. Why so. It is a compulsion as the one is born, needs to survive and to survive, to fill one's belly and to have a shelter get essential and as one grows, one feels the urge to get married. In contrast, the poorer one is, the more children one has, why so as he/she has no outings except to live and enjoy with each other. IN CONTRAST, THE RICHER ONE IS, THE LESSER ONE FEELS THE URGE TO WORK. Why so, as on .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS AN ESSENTIAL PART OF LIFE, HOW TO MAKE IT HAPPY AND ENJOYABLE IS A QUESTION. ...answer lies in 1. some believe in destiny, get contented and live a normal life 2. there are others and most of them these days, they did mistake and continue regretting, criticising and fighting 3. there are very few who believe that life is a gamble of win and lose, in this case of marriage they went into their choice, hence they have to accept this as a .....Read more

RELATIONSHIP OF HUSBAND AND WIFE IS VERY WELL COMPARABLE TO CRICKET MATCH. IN THE CRICKET MATCH THERE IS FRONT RUNNER WHOSE AIM IS TO MAKE THE GOAL AND WIN THE MATCH. LIKEWISE AIM OF THE HUSBAND, WIFE AND THE CHIDREN REMAINS TO ACHIEVE PROGRESS, SUGGESS AND ENJOY HAPPINESS, WHEN THE TEAM WINS THE MATCH THE ENTIRE TEAM FEELS HAPPY AND ENJOYS THE WIN LIKEWISE HUSBAND, WIFE AND CHILDREN WHEN AS A TEAM ACHIEVE SUCCESS, FAMILY PROGRESSES, EVER .....Read more

RELIGION WAS CREATED TO UNIFY THE PEOPLE TO LIVE TOGETHER IN PEACE, LOVE AND CELEBRATIONS ALIKE. Alas religion has got into many forms and names and as such CONFLICTS EMERGED AMONGST THEM TO GROW THEIR RESPECTIVE NUMBERS WITH THEIR RESPECTIVE BELIEFS, IN MANY CASES DEPRECATING AND DEMOLISHING OTHER RELIGIONS. History is full of conflicts and wars fought on the basis of religion. Despite all this Christianity and Muslim religions remain predomin .....Read more

RESERVATION SYSTEM IN INDIA IS A CURSE IT WAS CREATED AS A VOTE BANK WITHOUT THINKING AS AND WHEN CLASSIFIED IN RESERVATION AS LOW CASTES LIKE OBC SCHEDULED CASTES SCHEDULED TRIBES ETC. HOW MUCH IT WILL CREATE ADVERSE EFFECT FOR THESE CATEGORIES TO GET TO HIGHER EDUCATION AND GET ASSIMILATED FOR MARRIAGES. IN MY DEALING TO FIND MATCHES FOR SCHEDULED CASTES, SCHEDULED TRIBES, OBCS ETC. IS A VERY DIFFICULT JOB, LET THESE COMMUNITIES SAY ALL HINDUS .....Read more

LOVE AWAITED; Trees and plants await love of rain, howsoever watering we may do, rain makes a difference, it seems, with rain all trees and plants dance in joy to forget the onslaught of the heat of the sun in summer. Likewise children especially when small await mother to take them into her lap, kiss them and shower love on them. It happens with children whose mothers are working mothers, estranged mothers and at times separated by time and circ .....Read more

TO BE FATHER IS A PLEASURE BUT TO OWN RESPONSIBILTIES IS AWSOME AND FULL OF MISERIES, PERHAPS REGRETS. -WHEN ONE GETS MARRIED BOTH HUSBAND, WIFE AND FAMILIES ON BOTH SIDES WISH TO HAVE A CHILD DO PRAYERS AND ALSO GET TO MEDICAL ADVICE ETC. ETC. -WHEN THE COUPLE GETS A CHILD EVERYONE IN BOTH THE FAMILIES AS WELL HUSBAND AND WIFE FEEL PLEASED, CELEBRATE BIRTHDAYS, ENJOY WITH THE CHILD AND WIFE GETS ELATED AND HONOURE .....Read more

SHOCKING EXPERIENCE AND LESSON THEREFROM. Today when I was strolling in the garden I found a cat jumped at the bird and caught it from the wings. I wondered how the cat could imagine the carelessness of the bird, how it could calculate the distance to jump and be exactly at its prey, how it could calculate that the bird if ever flew, which will take the bird a few seconds to catch up force and speed up to fly, where and at what part to attack, it .....Read more

LOVE IS NATURAL AND EMOTIONAL: FOUNDER OF MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT’S ADVICE AND WARNING TO ADULTS AND YOUNGSTERS, TO BREFLECT BEFORE FALLING IN LOVE>. 1. Beware and be selective before you leap into love. 2 Couples are made in Heaven” is taken as an illusion. 3. Once entrapped in love, in awareness or in ignorance, it lasts till death, leading to happiness or despair and regrets Human beings” mind is like an x-ray, it .....Read more

PROGRESS WHAT DOES IT MEAN: 8th lesson: It consists of GUIDANCE AND TRAINING; in the first instance one is to make up one's mind as to what sort of guidance on needs and then accordingly to tap resources.It could be in career building, studies, health, family relationship and problems etc. If one has the means one can hire such services and if one does not, he/she has to identify such persons who have the desired knowledge and are willing to shar .....Read more

GARDENER IS THE LIFE OF THE FLOWER, LIKEWISE HUSBAND IS THE LIFE OF THE WIFE. How and in what manner? Gardner imagines which type of flower he should sow, at which soil and in which area. Likewise husband also imagines to marry, looks up for the best mate, family members and the status they all hold. This effort I have put into write-up HOW TO SELECT A PARTNER. As the gardener selects the seed, likewise the husband also looks up as to who could .....Read more

SELFISHNESS AND GREED ARE INTEGRAL PART OF HUMAN BEINGS AND ARE VICIOUS AND DESTRUCTIVE IN NATURE AND IN ACTION. mine and thine remain the guiding factors of human beings. Slowly slowly mine overpowers thine and usurps everything of thine and if not successful, applies all means and efforts to grab all that is of thine. Why mine, it is to enjoy the best and maximum comforts and enjoyment this world provides , to gain popularity and prominence, to .....Read more

NEGATIVITY: It is an attitude which needs to be corrected as otherwise it is very harmful for the person who is afflicted with. Negativity will leave the person alone as many will avoid to get associated and talk over as they believe, I think so, that talking to the one who harbours negative attitude, will not bring in any useful result and as such why to waste time with such a person. 2. When many will feel like this, moreso the friends, relatio .....Read more

LIFE HAS 3 STAGES, CHILDHOOD IS FULL OF HOPES, DREAMS AND MOTIVATION.. YOUTH TAKES ONE INTO TWO, IS GLAMOUR OF LIFE AND REALISATION OF WHAT WAS HOPED AND DREAMT OF. 3RD STAGE COMES OF THE OLD AGE, TO LIVE, RECOUNT, ENJOY OR REGRET AS ONE HAS LIVED ONE'S LIFE TOGETHER OR ALONE. 2. MAN IS THE CREATOR OR DESTINY OR DESTINY DICTATES MAN HOW AND IN WHAT MANNER TO LIVE HIS/HER LIFE. I WILL SAY, DESTINY IS UNKNOWN WHILE ACTION BRINGS IN THE RESULT. DE .....Read more

NATURE: the more I find time,I move into nature to see and enjoy, the more curious and believer I turn to imagine that surely there is some SUPER POWER - what a brain, what a perfect system, what a perfect thought not to allow anything grow eternal, must find an end one day by decay, diseases or be eaten away by stronger creatures to put an end to the weaker ones, and thus to continue circle of birth and death. MAN HAS MODIFIED THE USE OF NATURE .....Read more

GREED IS THE 2ND TOPIC I WILL BE ADDRESSING TODAY. Greed is the worst nature of man, hardly and exceptionally few escape from this temptation while all the rest do all good or bad, mostly bad, to fulfill their greed, which is unending and temps a person to indulge in all methods in self interest even if it comes to killing and destroying the intended foe. GREED IS GOOD IF IT IS DIRECTED IN MOTIVATION, STRUGGLE ETC. EVEN IF FOR SELF INTEREST FOR .....Read more

LIFE IS SHORT BUT HOPES ARE MANY HOW TO REALISE ALL THESE IS A BIG QUESTION FURTHER AS ONE GROWS IN LIFE, ONE ACCOMPLISHES ONE, ANOTHER CROPS UP WHICH MAY CONCERN PROGRESS IN JOB, PROGRESS IN BUSINESS, RELATE TO FAMILY, BRINGING UP OF CHILDREN, TO WORRY ABOUT PARENTS AND FEEL CONCERNED ABOUT BROTHERS AND SISTERS SO ON AND SO FORTH. NOT ONLY THIS, HOPES ALSO CONTINUE CHANGING WE LOVE SOME AT SOME TIME, FIGHT WITH THEM THE OTHER TIME AND .....Read more

WHAT A CONTRASTING NATURE IS OF US AS HUMAN BEING THAT WE WISH TO LOVE BUT ENJOY MORE BY RIDICULING, TEASING, CUTTING JOKES AND FINDING FAULTS ETC IN SOMEONE WITHOUT ANY FAULT OF HIS OR HER. AND THERE ARE MANY STORIES ABOUND LIKE AS WE HEAR -MOTHER IN-LAW TELLS HER DAUGHER IN-LAW, WHY ARE YOU ARE MOVING YOUR BODY WHILE MIXING AATA WITH WATER WHILE IT IS A FACT THAT WHEN ONE WILL MIX ATTA WITH WATER, SOME STRENGTH OF HANDS AND ARMS IS REQUIR .....Read more

PICS OF ALL TYPES AS PER ONE S LIKING, TASTE, COMPANY AND OCCASIONS, NATURE ETC. ARE GREAT SOURCE OF RELAXATION AND ENJOYMENT,ESSENTIAL TO KEEP AN ALBUM/GALLERY OF THESE.. ................................................................................... HARD WORK IS ONE THING, BUT AS HUMAN BEINGS WE DO WANT TO RELAX, ENJOY WITH PAST MEMORIES, IN THAT CASE ALBUM USED TO BE REPOSITORY OF ALL PICTURES AND NOW ONE CAN SEE THESE IN WHATSAPP GALLAR .....Read more

AUTHOBIOGRAPHY IS NARRATION OF THE PAST WHILE THIS SMALL NOTE IS VOW FOR FUTURE, I think, it will be interesting for my friends to have a glance at it. tks LESSONS AS DRAWN FROM MISTAKES AND ACTIONS ENVISAGED 1. Consciousness about mistakes committed has emboldened me to amend maximum possible my behaviour and attitude for my children. and society at large. 2. Listen to my children, remain tolerant, do not think of imposing rema .....Read more

SWEET FRUITS. When I was eating cheeku, it was so sweat that I wondered to think over why it was so sweat. With a thinking around, I observed that it is the seed if it is sweat we will get sweat fruits and if the seed is bitter, we will get bitter like lemons, then we find water melon full of water, coconut full of water, why so, has nature created these means to quench our thirst in summer, I feel gratified. All is the wonder and perplex quest .....Read more

WITH REGARD TO HEART AND BRAIN, AS ASKED FOR IN NAMASTE, IF BOTH GO HAND IN HAND TOGETHER, THAT WILL BE THE BEST FOR ALL OF US TO LIVE IN PEACE AND HAPPINESS. ALAS IN this materialistic age, BRAIN HAS BECOME SUPREME and HEART HAS PRACTICALLY BEEN OVERPOWERED OR HAS GIVEN AWAY TO BRAIN TO DO WHAT IT WANTS AND CLAMOURS FOR, WITH NO INTERFERENCE OR THE LEAST. (1) HEART cumulates the the sentiments, feelings, vision, AND IN SEARCH OF FULL PEACE, .....Read more

organisations and establishments are cohesive efforts of the OWNERS WHO MUST BELIEVE IN AND WORK FOR THE GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT OF EVERYONE IN THE ORGANISATION. As in the family, parents take care of their children for the progress and development of their children, likewise OWNERS MUST ASSUME THIS ROLE OF PARENTS FOR THE ORGANISATION AND OF THE PERSONS WORKING IN IT. HOW: 1st is vision and philosophy 2nd is selection and brooming 3rd is equali .....Read more

NEEDS ARE ESSENTIAL. had these not been especially to make earning meet and fill in the belly, perhaps all human beings, animals, birds, etc. would not have worked at all. 2. let us imagine that situation, then what would have happened to these living beings,how they would have spent their day and night, how could they could get sleep, even if we imagine like kumbhkaran, he also remained awake for 6 months and 6 months sleep, thus sleep and to .....Read more

NEVER HURT YOUR BODY -HEY DOSTO SUN RAKHA HOGA AAP SAB NAIN ZAROOR -KHUSH RAHO ,ABAAD RAHO -FIKHAR NAN KARO KABHI KISSI CHEEZ KA BHEE -HEY DOSTO ISKAI SAATH YEH BHEE SUNA HO GA APPNAIN ZAROOR -JAAN HAI TO JAHAN HAI -VARNA KUCHH BHEE NAHIN - -JAAN KO DHEEK AUR TANDRUST RAKHNAI KAI LIYA BHEE -KARTAIN HAIN HUM VARZISH -KHATAI PEETAI HAIN SAB KUCHH -ACHHAI SAI ACHHA BHEE -GOOMNAI JATAIN HAIN -AUR CHEHL PAHEL KARTAIN HAIN -H .....Read more

 3-6-21   HOW TO SETTLE ASSETS BY OLD PARENTS WHOSE CHILDREN ARE SETTLED ABROAD: As far as I know in India, when children get adult, it is the sole choice of the parents whom to give their assets and children have no claim till the time prents are alive while in fore .....Read more

HOW TO SETTLE ASSETS BY OLD PARENTS WHOSE CHILDREN ARE SETTLED ABROAD: As far as I know in India, when children get adult, it is the sole choice of the parents whom to give their assets and children have no claim till the time prents are alive while in foreign it is 2/3 for the children and 1/3 for the parents which could be variable in different countries.. In my earlier write-up I tried to convince the old parents, to keep good relations with t .....Read more

SADDEST IS THE DAY WHEN I LEARN THAT SUCH AND SUCH MY DEAREST FRIEND/RELATION HAS LEFT HIS/HER LIFE FOR EVER. DISSIPATING IS THE WHOLE DAY AND AT TIME MAKES ME FEEL THAT PERHAPS ONE DAY I WILL ALSO MEET THE SAME FATE. THEN COMES AN IDEA, IT IS A TRUE FACT AND IS UNAVOIDABLE AND IS TO HAPPEN ONE DAY OR THE OTHER. THEN THE IDEA COMES WHY TO DIE BEFORE DEATH AND ALSO COMES A FEELING THAT THERE ARE STILL SO MANY RESPONSIBIITIES LEFT TO BE ACCOM .....Read more

HOPE AND LIFE GO TOGETHER WHEN BORN, HOPE EMERGES,WHEN ONE DIES, HOPE VANISHES. HOPE IS CREATION OF ALL WHAT WE ARE ENJOYING IN THIS WORLD, SOME TIME HOPE VANISHES WHEN ONE IS ALIVE AND THIS HAPPENS WHEN ONE SUFFERS SO MUCH THAT ONE HOPES NOTHING AND PRAYS INSTEAD FOR END OF ONE'S LIFE. .... HENCE UNDOUBTEDLY LIFE IS HOPE AND HOPE IS LIFE. HOPE IS LIFE. ONE GETS MARRIED, BUILDS HOPE TO HAVE CHILDREN, WORKS DAY AND NIGHT, MAKE ALL SORTS OF SACRI .....Read more

IF YOU EVER ARE LOOKING UP FOR A COMPANION, AND HOW TO AVOID REGRETS AND BLUNDERS. ALWAYS LOOK TO THIS MOST RELIABLE, SERVIFE AND SYSSTEMS ORIENTED FOR MOST RELIABILITY AND QUICK RESPONSES, HERE IS MARRIAGE BUREA TITLE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT-MGNC IT NOT ONLY PROVIDES BIODATAS .....Read more

OLD PERSONS ESPECIALLY THE SERVICE AND MIDDLE CLASS ONES SEEM TO BE PUZZLED WHETHER TO LEAVE THEIR ASSETS TO THEIR CHILDREN OR NOT, IF NOT WITH WHOM AND FOR WHOM TO LEAVE, WHY SO BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT SINCE THEY SENT THEIR CHILDREN TO FOREIGN, THEY ARE ALMOST LIVING ALONE, GETTING AGED, NONE TO TAKE CARE OF AND MOST IMPORTANT FEEL INSECURE, MORESO WHEN ONE OF THE COUPLES HEAVES HIS/HER LAST. I am not what is the real answer, but what I can vis .....Read more

DAUGHTER: I have already written that DAUGHTER is natural and emotional gift for the father but that does not mean that father does not love his son(s).Love is natural for for all children. However, as parents generally feel inclined towards the son who is weaker, not ambitious, not much helpful for the family, but still parents give more attention and love for the weaker one compared to those who come up self-sufficient and/or are better off. I .....Read more

MIND AND BRAIN. Mind wants to remain in peace while brain does not allow it. It is key to mind which is governed by emotions, expectations, done and not done, what we see and feel, our relations, our thinking, vision and dreams. We know life is to live, the happier we live, the better it is but alas it does not happen generally though there may be some exceptions. Hence it is said the lesser the expectations, the lesser brain gets feedback and as .....Read more

iS IT ESSENTIAL TO LIVE TOGETHER AFTER MARRIAGE TILL THE END. I will say YES for reasons (1) our mind screens all we talk about, live together in happiness or in conflicts, how good or conflicting our journey has been (2) as we grow, our inter-dependence also grows (3) our children who have been and are our love even today, spread over to different places to set up their own abodes and to live in the manner they like, hence as an old couple we a .....Read more

ECONOMIC DEVELOPMENT; SOME SUGGESTIONS. All schemes launched by the central government, I heartily support all these, these have been well conceived and very well explained. ALL THESE SURELY AND CERTAINLY LAY FOUNDATION FOR DEVELOPMENT OF THE COUNTRY IN LONG TERM. BUT WHAT HAS BEEN MISSED, is that public has finished their resources, lost their businesses, have suffered all sorts of shocks and setbacks,THEY MORE OR LESS CAN BE COMPARED TO A PATI .....Read more

WOMAN IS THE RESERVOIR OF MOTHERHOOD, LOVE AND EMOTIONS. She likes and appreciates to be admired and loved with honesty and care and hereafter she is prepared to sacrifice all what she is born with and God has given her the capacities to live, love, care and adjust in all circumstances with happiness and love for PEACE AND PROGRESS, BE ONE FOR THE HUSBAND, FOR THE CHILDREN TO CONTRIBUTE IN DECISION MAKING, PROVIDING COMFORTS IN THE HOUSE TURN IT .....Read more

IS IT NECESSARY TO HAVE CHILDREN. Trend is changing towards NOT TO HAVE CHILDREN, why to take burden and bundle of responsibilities, when social security is the guarantee for the old age, one questions the need about a child whereby one is not sure and is doubtful whether the child when grown up will take of him/her despite his/her own engagements or will get submerged in the bringing up of their children and/or their career and prospects, the gi .....Read more

FOR ENTRANCE INTO POLITICAL LIFE, EDUCATION IS A MUST FOR OUR LEGISLATORS AND MPS AND THE HIERARCHY IN POLITICS. For this purpose if feel one must be minimum a Graduate in whatever regional or national language one wants to be. It is essential to read and discuss what is going on in the legislatures and parliament and also it is more essential to be abreast with what is going on around, in other states, in the country and in the world. Media es .....Read more

TRUST IS MOST IMPORTANT IN LIFE TO DEAL WITH IN FAMILY, RELATIONS, FRIENDS AND THOSE WORKING WITH US IN BUSINESS OR OTHERWISE. .. CAUTION.. trust building is a long process. It depends on how the other person is standing to his/her commitment and our realisation and appreciation if he/she faults sometime we need to be composed to talk gently, sympathise and get to know his/her difficulties and circumstances, and if possible I feel instead to bec .....Read more

TO REMAIN HAPPY IS NOT ONLY DIFFICULT BUT IMPOSSIBLE MANY WILL SAY SO AND WILL RATHER CONTEND THAT IT IS NOT TRUE ESPECIALLY IN THIS MATERIALIST WORLD. They may be right in their thinking, I am no one to dispute their view but I feel it is essential to convey what I feel and think that my views could be beneficial to a few if not many, especially those who are distressed, fed up with life. In such a situation, many go to the place of worship, con .....Read more

SILENCE: is it good? is good perhaps in some circumstances but not always. It is essential one expresses oneself fearless of criticism. Criticism good or bad will always be there. Criticism helps one to rectify and move in right direction if one wishes so. Silence and ignorance to criticism lead to suspicion and willfully concealing the truth rather than to face reality. Be open to criticism and to accept one's mistakes must be one's goal and eff .....Read more

SUCCESS GENERALLY MAKES A MAN SELF SATISFIED AND MAKE HIM/HER HOT-HEADED. Such persons sure of their hard work and experience generally do not listen to others nor care for their ideas, they think and dictate that what they are saying and doing are right and they need no questioning. Worst happens when their children get grown up and want to go by their own way and liking, may it concerns higher studies, marriage, getting into parents business et .....Read more

HONEST: who could in real sense be an HONEST PERSON, I think hardly someone and if so,very few. WHY TO SAY SO.I feel each person gets influenced in some manner or the other and feels compelled to breach honesty in true sense. Then what is the CRITERIA TO CLAIM THAT ONE IS HONEST IN THE REAL SENSE; ANSWER; I THINK WHEN ONE'S CONSCIENCE SPEAKS OUT THAT WHAT ONE IS DOING IS RIGHT AND IS NOT BEING INFLUENCED BY ANY INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL INTEREST, NEIT .....Read more

DREAM IS BETTER THAN NOT TO HAVE, TO BE HAPPY THOUGH FOR A FEW SECONDS. -kya hai tu lajawab hai tu -nan dekha, nan chhoo paya main tumain -kya hai voh vajah, nan main soch paya, nan samajh paiya main kabhi -kya hai tu, hai tu jadoo ya krishma -magar hai tu ajab aur hovanhar hai tu -jo nan kar paya main saloon bhar -voh kar diya tunain chand saikands main -dil kya, tumain mil loon main -koshish karnai laga, jaag khul gayii magar .....Read more

CHILDREN ARE A BLISS, PROGRESS, LOVE AND RESPONSIBILITIES AND THOSE WHO DISBELIEVE, AVOID IT , DO REGRET THEIR MISCONCEPTION AND MISTAKE AT OLD AGE. THEN WHY THE TREND FOR DISBELIEVERS AND NOT TO HAVE CHILDREN IS GAINING GROUND? I think. when anything becomes current and is accepted by the majority of the people, some negative offshoots develop. We find it in religion, beliefs, fashion, couple behaviour towards each other, so on and so forth. Cha .....Read more

DEMOCARARY; earlier had written that it has become a farce where power politics, money, positions, influences, personal gain have overpowered to aspirations of the people expressed in public and/or through voting. As such I feel compelled to express as to what could be the answer and as such hereunder are my views: SUPREME COURT has been visioned and constituted as the final authority to 1. to ensure right execution of laws. 2. to protect impa .....Read more

couplet: -yeh zindgi, kya khoob hai tu -dekhta hun har taraf, tu hi hai, sirf tu hi hai -sochta hun yeh sab banaya hai TU ne kis liye aur kuin -achanak samaj aati hai, -ne soch bahut in sab anjaniyun par -seekh le bas seekh le tu -yeh zindgi hai beetani hai kaisse -hai ye dunia insan ke chamatkar se bharpoor -seekh le hai insan -in men jeena seekh le -khushi hai to ye sab hai -agar hai nirasha, to yeh sab kucch bhi nahin -samajh ley ab bhi t .....Read more

couplet: -ye zindgi hai kya, khyal aata hai -sochta hun, soch pata nahin -sochta hun lekin, yeh kya hua, kaise hua -main jawab ne dhoond paya -koshish ki, zid kiya -jawab aya samajh mein -sabar kar lai, soch mat aur kuchh abhi -yeh hai anjam hamari karni ka -jahan pyar ne raha, aitbar ne raha -jai jai hone lagi unki, jinhun ne atyachar kiya, jam kar kiya -nirasha barhti gai, kudrat ko lalkarana shuru kiya ham ne -pramta se takkar len .....Read more

ADVERSITY UNITES WHILE PROSPERITY DISINTEGRATES. WHEN WE HINDUES CAME FROM PAKISTAN, ALL WERE UNITED AND WERE KEEN TO HELP EACH OTHER AND WITH PASSAGE OF TIME WHAT IS THE POSTION NOW , ALL ARE FIGHTING WITH EACH OTHER BY ALL SORTS OF MEANS, AND LOVE IS LOST. SIMILARLY WE FIND THAT WHEN PRESIDENT TRUMP CAME TO POWER THERE WERE TENSIONS OF WAR ALL OVER VIZ. CHINA, NORTH KOREA, USA,INDIA, PAKISTAN EVEN TO SOME EXTENT IN MIDDLE EAST AS WELL, AND SI .....Read more

TO BE SUCCESSFUL, A FEW TIPS; 1. believe in you and your inherent strengths 2. look around, be inspired for COMPETITION always 3. aim and struggle to be the 1st in the field you chose 4. be versatile to change with circumstances as these are to happen in any case and always 4. be visionary and as such get to do predictions 5. never get faltered and dissipated with failures, get to readings and literature to know about those persons who became .....Read more

ZINDGIL CHALTEE HAI AUR CHALAYEE JAATI HAI BHEE HANSTAI HUAI OR HANSATAI HUAI BHEE -JHAGARTAI HUAI AUR MANATAI HUAI BHEE -GUSSA KARTAI HUAI AUR SAMJHATAI HUAI BHEE -KABHEE KABHEE KHUSHYAN MANATAI HUAI BHEE -LEKIN ZYADA TAR ROTAI HUAI HEE -AUR KISMAT KO KOSTAI HUA BHEE -LEKIN HAIN VOH LOG BHEE -JO KARTAIN HAIN FAKHAR APNEE TARAKEE PAR BHEE -BANATAI HUAI RISHTAI DOSTON SAI AUR SAB SAI BHEE - AFSSOSS HAI MAGAR BAHUT SAI LOG KHUSH REHTAI HAI .....Read more

SUNAMI IS COMING FAST, DEAR MEN YOU NEED TO BE AWARE, VIGILANT AND TAKE PRECAUTIONS. SUNAMI IN SEA WE EXPERIENCED, THOSE WHO TOOK PRECAUTIONS, MOVED FROM THE PLACES OF ABODE AND WORK, WERE SAVED WHILE THOSE WHO DID NOT BOTHER WERE DESTROYED AND SWEPT AWAY. SUNAMI OF WOMEN'S RIGHT IS MOVING FAST, MEN NEED TO BE AWARE AND ADAPT ACCORDINGLY. NEEDLESS TO SAY THAT BECAUSE OF PHYSIQUE, ECONOMIC POWER, PARENTS UPBRINGING AND ADVICE, RITUALS, ALL TH .....Read more

DELHI NEEDS TO REMAIN CLEAN; 2nd STEP: WIDEN ROAD, ELIMINATING BLOCKS, MAKE SMOOTH AND GLASSY TO ENABLE THE TRAFFIC MOVE SMOOTHLY; QUESTION ARISES; HOW. some possible answers: 1. Parking. to provide underground parking in each residential area, parks small or big already exist, to convert these into underground parking so that ground remains and is maintained as park while underground is used for parking.(2) start a pilot unit, remove all cars, b .....Read more

FAMILY FEUDS ARE COMMON AND MOST OF THE PARENTS HEAVE THEIR LAST WITH HEAVY HEART. Reasons seem to be (1) jealousies amongst family members in behaviour of parents with their children and in most cases, the youngest and the weaker is more loved by parents (2) father's lack of open discussions with children especially sons (3) distribution of properties and handing over reins of business to one, considered by others as neglect of their contributio .....Read more

IS GENDER BIAS NATURAL OR MAN-MADE> I way say both: why natural? it is because of weak physical strength and is essential as a part of beauty and attraction. Man-made bias: because of these 2 factors, economic power and that women are just breeders and home-makers enabled man to dominate. But women took to education and became career conscious, economic power is mitigating, freedom and independence are taking their course.CAREER CONSCIOUSNESS ha .....Read more

DIVORCE IS BECOMING COMMON, HOW TO AVOID IT, I HAVE SUGGESTIONS TO MAKE. There are many causes for divorce, without going into this subject, which is a lengthy one(which I have attempted and written down in detail separately), I think before getting into marriage, one must read and take to necessary precautions, which are summed up as (1) How to select a partner (2) Syllabus on pre-marriage education and guidance (3) MUST TAKE ENOUGH TIME, befor .....Read more

ABORTION is a crime but I THINK consent and willingness of the female is essential as we do not know in what circumstances she conceived and why she opts to avoid to have a child in contrast to the wish of almost each and every mother to have a child. The circumstances could be illicit relations, unplanned and unwanted pregnancy, fear of getting married with a child when she was not married, to hide from parents, as also in belief that giving bir .....Read more

LIFE CREATES CERTAIN ESSENTIALS WHICH EVERYONE HAS TO PASS THROUGH. THESE ARE 1. health 2. responsibilities 3. ambitions 4, motivation. 5. create means enough to live comfortable life 6. to marry and have one's own family 7. to have a compatible life partner WHICH is taken to luck, I will say, mostly by understanding and making efforts to make it compatible 8. family creates responsibilities and responsibilities necessitate efforts to match with .....Read more

WHY MEN ARE GETTING AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS WOMEN: is it because of physical strength, or fear of men losing man's power/control over women as women empowerment and its enlightening are getting more and more pronounced, or do women feel oppressed and react in uncompromising behaviour, or because of life style in women, media exposure and provocations, or living in atmosphere of equality in studies and work places, or boy and friend relationship, jeal .....Read more

COURSE OF LIFE THERE WAS A TIME WHEN WE USED TO DREAM AND FLY TO TOUCH THE SKY, NOTHING EXISTED IN HURDLE OR DARED TO STOP US. WHAT A WONDERFUL YOUTH IT WAS. ALAS IT EXISTS NO MORE EXCEPT IN RECALL AND DREAMS. THAT WAS THE AGE WHEN THERE EXISTED NEITHER DAY NOR NIGHT, THERE WAS MADNESS AND THE SOLE AIM WAS HOW AND IN WHAT MANNER TO MAKE PROGRESS AND HOW TO CARVE OUT OUR CAREER THE BEST. DREAMS, AIMS AND SUCCESSES NEVER ENDED, AFTER GETTING A .....Read more

LIFE IS FULL OF SONGS AND SORROWS, AS GOOD AND BAD ALWAYS GO TOGETHER, HAPPINESS AND SORROWS ALSO GO TOGETHER, IT IS REALISATION THAT NOTHING IS STATIC, IF TODAY IS BAD, TOMOROW WILL BE BRIGHTER. IT IS DESTINY OR MAN'S PLANNING AND ACTION, IT ALL DEPENDS ON BELIEF OF EACH AND EVERYONE, BUT WE DO OBSERVE THAT THE WEAKERS BELIEVE IN DESTINY MORE AND WOMEN ARE NO EXCEPTION TO THIS FACT, THE POOR AND DOWN TRODDEN ARE THE OTHER CLASS OF PEOPLE WH .....Read more

CHANGE AND TRANSFORMATION ARE ESSENTIAL TO LIVE A NORMAL AND HAPPIER LIFE WITH PRUDENCE. OF COURSE.. I BEEN DEFEATED AND SOMEONE STRONGER HAS TAKEN OVER MY PLACE, WAS AT THAT TIME FAMILY UNITY AND NOW THERE ARE FRICTIONS AND FIGHTS, IS THAT IT WAS INITIAL LOVE IN MARRIAGE AND THAT NOW THAT LOVE HAS CHANGED INTO ARGUMENTS AND TUG OF WAR AS TO WHO IS TO RULE IN THE HOUSE AND HOW THE FAMILY IS TO BE RUN AND DECISIONS TAKEN, WHY IT IS SO, HAVE THE .....Read more

FIGHTING IS IT GOOD OR BAD, IS IT ESSENTIAL OR AVOIDABLE, IS THERE NO SUBSTITUTE OR ANSWER TO AVOID FIGHTING, DOES FIGHTING BRING RELIEF AND IF SO, FOR HOW LONG AND WITH WHAT CONSEQUENCES. I WILL SAY IT DEPENDS ON THE PURPOSE 1. GOOD FOR PROTECTION OF THE COUNTRY BY MILITARY 2. GOOD FOR GOVERNANCE 3. GOOD TO PROTECT WHOM WE LOVE DEARLY, LIKE WIFE, SISTERS, BROTHERS, , FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES ETC. 4 GOOD TO FIGHT AS WRESTLERS 5. GOOD TO FIGHT .....Read more

DOWRY: To avoid this problem I have drafted Syllabus on Pre-Marriage Education and Guidance, it is in the process of publication which I think will be worth reading, not only to clear doubts about marriage but also how dowry problems, family and assets problems, husband and wife relationship problems etc etc could be tackled in the most possible manner. I believe there lies solution to each and every problem provided one is inclined and determine .....Read more

TO DESTROY OTHER(S) GENERALLY GIVES HAPPINESS IRRESPECTIVE OF WHETHER IT IS FOR ONE'S BENEFIT OR NOT. Answer: I think ego and jealousies are the main causes. It does not matter whether one is in relationship or not but in general it happens when one can't succeed over one's competitor, perceived or in reality, one's prefers to employ all means to destroy such persons, it can be in family, with colleagues, outsiders known and unknown. At times bec .....Read more

INTELLIGENT WE ARE OR NOT, WE BOAST AND CLAIM TO BE INTELLIGENT. If not, why do we not accept it as a fact? mostly not due to (1) seniority of age and position 2. ego to keep up authority 3. the crowd, area and type of people we live and deal with 4. presume to be well read and as such are intelligent. QUESTION ARISES 1. does intelligent mean well read and well educated 2. does it mean experience 3. does it mean percentage of success 4. does it m .....Read more

VERSATILITY IS ESSENTIAL TO KEEP ONESELF FIT AND YOUNG. 1. WE GENERALLY EXERCISE ONE PROESSION AND WHEN WE RETIRE, WE FEEL JOBLESS AND BROOD UPON UTILITY OF OUR LIFE AND HOW TO LEAD SUCH A LIFE BECOMES PROBLEMATIC. 2. COULD ALL THOSE WHO RETIRE GET VERSATILE, I WILL SAY YES WHILE MANY WILL SAY NO. 3. LIFE GIVES EXPERIENCES - PROFESSIONAL, RELATIONSHIPS, FAMILIAL, SUCCESSES AND FAILURES, SHOCKS, WOES AND HAPPINESS ETC. ETC. 4. THE MO .....Read more

LOVE AND HATRED ARE TWO BITTER ENEMIES, BOTH TRY NOT ONLY TO OVERPOWER EACH OTHER BUT TO DESTROY ONE OR THE OTHER, SO AS TO REMAIN DOMINANT TO BE RECKONED WITH. Alas man has forgotten that he is a social being, he/she cannot afford to live alone, knows well that LOVE helps to make progress and allows each one to live in peace and be helpful always. SURPRISINGLY how it is that everyone knows the value of love, but GETS INDULGED IN HATRED AND PRACT .....Read more

LIFE IS IT A GAMBLE, DESTINY, OPPORTUNITY, DREAMS, ACTION, INFLUENCE, POWER, GREED, JEALOUSIES, HATRED OR LOVE. SOME MOVE UP IN LIFE WHILE SOME FALL DOWN, IS IT EFFORT, DESTINY OR ACTION, DIFFERENT PERSONS DEFINE THESE HAPPENINGS BY THEIR BELIEFS AND THINKING, TO HIDE THE REALIIES WHILE OTHER TAKE THESE HAPPENING TO THEIR CREDIT. NONETHELESS, LIFE IS FULL OF MISERIES, JOY AND HAPPINESS. IT ALL DEPENDS ON CIRCUMSTANCES AND ATTITUDE. SOME ENJO .....Read more

HOW TO BE A PERFECT MAN. 3rd step etc. GOOD, LOVED AND APPRECIABLE THOUGHTS. 4: PERCEPTION, VISION AND GUIDE: It is essential that the person who wishes and/or is keen to transform oneself to be a perfect man, must love all human beings irrespective of caste, creed, gender, belief, religion etc and is ready to make all sacrifices to pronounce and spread his/her thoughts, perception, vision and be a guide to all those who do not believe or are bew .....Read more

ADULTHOOD: what does it mean, many do not know, fail to act, hence many face problems in life especially in marriage relationship. ANSWER. adulthood means that one is grown up enough to take decisions in life by oneself and to one's liking. HOWEVER it does not mean one may not take views of family, friends, relations etc of confidence, it is better but not obligatory. consultation is a choice but not an obligation. consultation needs to be taken .....Read more

ANGER; IS IT ESSENTIAL TO REAP RESULTS? perhaps yes in rare case but in general IT IS MORE HARMFUL THAN GAIN. .... when someone is in younger age , when someone is helpless, when one is weak physically, mentally, financially etc. Thus one accepts under compulsion. in helplessness , in respect and in certain cases by realisation that by retaliation or replying back in anger will bring no good while the one who is in anger and is intending to pro .....Read more

HUSBAND AND WIFE ROLES REMAIN INTERCHANGEABLE. IN GENERAL IT IS TRUE AS WELL . WHEN ONE GETS MARRIED AND THE WIFE STEPS INTO HUSBAND'S HOUSE, SHE DOES FEEL INCLINED AND MOSTLY PREPARED TO LISTEN TO HER HUSBAND AND GENERALLY GOES BY WHAT HER HUSBAND SAYS IN A DIGNIFIFIED MANNER. HOWEVER IF HUSBAND'S ATTITUDE, MANNER, BEHAVIOUR ETC. BECOME UNBEARABLE, THEN DOES START URGE TO EXPRESS WHAT THE WIFE WISHES HOWEVER SURELY RESPECTFULLY AND IF STILL HUS .....Read more

ADOLESCENCE IS A CRITICAL AGE WHICH NEEDS LOT OF CARE IN LISTENING AND GUIDANCE. It is an age when each whether or girl get into 1. body change 2. commencement of puberty 3. personality make-up 4. relationship of boy and girl 5. neglect of studies 6. indulging in dreams and illusions 7. deception in relationship 8. fights in colleagues for and against one or the other 9. challenge more and obedience less, 8. indulging in bad company 9. being indu .....Read more

I AM THE BEST, IS IT GOOD TO BELIEVE THIS OR NOT. - TO BELIEVE I AM THE BEST CAN CREATE IN A PERSON CERTAIN TENDENCIES, GOOD OR BAD: 1. HOT HEADED 2. POSSIBLY MAKE HIM/HER COMPLACENT AND NOT TO MAKE MORE EFFORTS 3.MAYBE IT IS JUST AN ILLUSION AND SELF DECEIT 4. ONE MAY DEVELOP DICTATORIAL TRENDS AND BEHAVE LIKE THAT, IGNORING AND NOT LISTENING TO OTHERS, NEVER TO ACCEPT ANY OPPOSITION AT ALL. ADVA .....Read more

PROGRESS, HOW TO ACHIEVE IT,, small tips:To make progress, always believe in the fact that I AM THE BEST, to be the best does not mean to become complacent, take away ch the zeal as such struggle and compete. Hence I am of the view that to think and term oneself as the BEST means that I APPRECIATE MYSELF AS I AM, WITH NO COMPARISON WITH OTHERS. .. one must observe and analyse what are one's inherent and extra qualities that one has to count u .....Read more

MOOD CAN WIN OR MAR THE LIFE OF THE PERSON AND ALL THOSE AROUND. MOOD NEEDS TO BE CONTROLLED BY DISTRACTING TO SOME OTHER ACTIVITIES, CONVERSATION, TAKING A BIT MORE NAP, MEETING FRIENDS, ESSENTIAL TO AVOID WHAT WAS BEING PRIORITISED AND WAS A SERIOUS ONE NEEDING CONCENTRATION AND REFLECTION. IN SHORT, ONE MUST TAKE TO LIGHT THINGS WHEN IN BAD MOOD, ASSOCIATE WITH LIKE MINDED PEOPLE, FRIENDS ETC. ESSENTIALLY MUST CHANGE THE ENVIRONMENT AND DO ALL .....Read more

AMILY FEUDS. ANOTHER PROBLEM WHICH EMERGES AND TAKES SIGNIFICANCE IS,AS TO HOW HAND OVER ONE'S ORGANISATION TO HIS/HER SON/S AND WHOM TO GIVE CONTROLLING POWER. ....... answer. 1. give to one who is capable to own and handle 2. also the one who is willing 3. decide the transitional period to train and/or let the concerned one to acquire capabilities and confidence 4. father/parents in the transitional period need to decide what they will engage i .....Read more

OPPOSITE GENDER RELATIONSHIP. The question arises whether it is good and more enjoyable to remain in relationship of BOY+GIRL OR TO GO BY LIVE-IN ARRANGEMENT. The trend is moving towards these 2 arrangements in the boy+girl relationship, both enjoy the freedom, do not own responsibilties, feel that stress of work at workplace, importance to career building than getting married, dowry and divorce inconvenience and problems, as also when in the Liv .....Read more

HELPLESSNESS. As you all know, it comes with birth and vanishes with end of life. In between it needs to be explained as to how this HELPLESSNESS moves on in life. Soon after birth, child's helplessness is taken care mostly by mother, time to time aided and supported by father After some time, as the STRENGTH starts developing and growing, helplessness starts diminishing. In childhood, besides studies, play etc. children still remain helpless .....Read more

lLIFE IS LIKE A RIVER. ICE GRADUALLY GRADUALLY STARTS MELTING, TURNS INTO TRIBUTARIES WHICH FINALLY MAKE AND GET INTO THE RIVER. THUS A CHILD FROM HIS/HER BRITH STARTS GROWING, GETS INTO YOUTH, STARTS GLOWING AND BLOOMING, WITH IMMENSE STRENGTH, DREAMS AND MOTIVATIONS TO FULFIL AND DO THE BEST POSSIIBLE AND EVENTUALLY GETS KNOWN AND BECOMES PROMINENT TO BE REMEMBERED NOW AND ALWAYS. SAME COURSE WE FIND IN GANGES WHICH HAS GAINED PROMINENCE TO GO .....Read more

TO HAVE A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP, IT IS ESSENTIAL TO TO FIND A NICE PERSON. It is the wish of everyone, both boy and girl, but the question arises HOW. I as founder of Marriage Guidance New Concept have written down HOW TO TO SELECT A PARTNER. Besides I will suggest it is essential to read about books on marriage and on my part I have written down SYLLABUS FOR MARRIAGE GUIDANCE AND EDUCATION. Besides knowing various forms of marriage, merits and deme .....Read more

TRUTH TURNS LIE MAY LOOK SURPRISING BUT IT IS A FACT. I WAS TOLD AND I OBERSERVED ALSO IN MY YOUNG AGE THAT TRUTH REMAINS FOR EVER, IT CAN'T BE EFFACED NOR IT IS AFFECTED IN ANY MANNER I ALSO HEARD IT WAS A TRADITION AND CUSTOMARY ALSO THAT ONE HADTO UPKEEP HIS WORD AND WRITING WHICH IF NOT OBEYED OR NOT FULFILLED, WAS CALLED PAGREE UTTAR JAYAIGEE (ONE'S TURBAN WILL BE TAKEN OUT), WHILE NOW IN CITIES AND IN EDUCATED CLAS, NO ONE WEARS TUR .....Read more

VEXING PROBLEMS ARE TAXING, HEALTH BREAKERS AND VANISH ONLY WHEN LIFE ENDS UNLESS TAKEN QUICK ACTION TO FIND SOLUTION FOR THESE. Before these the extreme shapes, I think, it is necessary to analyse causes:1. we do not want to disclose keeping their confidentiality etc. etc. 2. not to annoy or displease other(s) 3. being afraid of repulsion, ridicules etc. 4. feel to be ignored 5. perhaps terming us as habitual 6. concluding that we are adamant et .....Read more

I LOVE YOU: I think is customary without any meaning or significance.Then question arises, should one say I love you or not. I am of the view it is better to say than not to say Saying does ive some feeling and perhaps after some time realisation to get into real behaviour and action, which could be by self realisation or by the wife/friend to provoke and get out the truth to appear and get into action. Further question arises, as we say good mo .....Read more

COMPETITION IS GOOD OR BAD;: It is bad in the sense that it keeps one on the toes always and one thinks of none else except to exceed and overpass the other. If it does not happen, one feels dejected and dissipated. ANSWER: do analyse your aptitude, energy, resources, can you invest the time required, are you full of zeal to achieve, are you observant to analyse where and how your competitor fails, have you chosen your well known coach/teacher/p .....Read more

LOVE. it is difficult to define but i think it is an attachment which comes about by birth, by care and company as one finds between the parents and the children, also is emotional, sentimental and instinctive. vibrations, momentary glance, finding someone to fulfill one's hidden inner feelings, appreciation of same thoughts and views, kind and selfless gestures by some, sympathy for ill-fated etc etc create love. however the extent of love depen .....Read more

SUCCESS HAS ALWAYS REASON TO SUCCEED. Most of us do not appreciate success of someone, especially the one known to us and/or related to us, why so, in general, we most of us feel jealous and invent reasons to disparage the success of a successful person, turn it into a talking point and enjoy with those who share and enjoy our ridicule. Why it is so, especially with those who fail or cannot reach that success, jealousies and to talk ill becomes c .....Read more

OLD AGE is a bliss and curse as well. Those who plan for the old age, enjoy their old age while those who do not plan, live in regrets and miseries perhaps. Then question arises how to plan and what to plan. To do this exercise it is essential to work on what types of needs and requirements shall emerge to live in old age in a comfortable manner. To my mind, these in general consist in 1. medication, as the age continues advancing, body starts .....Read more

WINNER. To become winner I feel, is the wish of almost everyone. In definition, it means excelling others in competition. It may start one to one, go to groups and finally to the public at large. Paradoxically it makes happy the winner while it leaves the loser in regrets and weeping perhaps. Further we find this struggle never ends, the winner doesnt wish to lose while the loser struggles to win over and leave his rival to put him/her in the sa .....Read more

LIFE IS FULL OF PROBLEMS, RESPONSIBILITIES AND MISERIES, THEN HOW AND WHERE LIES THE POSSIBILITY TO REMAIN HAPPY, MOST OF THE PEOPLE REPLY IN THIS MANNER. True. If it is true,then question arises should we continue accepting life as it is in general or learn to fight against and swim over it. It is better to get over and learn to reach a stage when such routines do not bother us. We need to realise that it is part of life, so long as we live, w .....Read more

OLD IS GOLD is gone bye, nothing to learn except to listen sermons about past glories, experiences, perception, religious beliefs, manners and mode or respect etc., IS THE GENERAL THINKING OF PRESENT GENERATON ABOUT THE OLD PERSONS, PARENTS ARE NO EXCEPTION. To a great extent it is true also as old persons we do not remain in touch with the present, especially now when technological developments are immense, innumerable and are on increase every .....Read more

ONE CAN SOLVE ALMOST ALL PROBLEMS if one is determined to find answer and solve these. The process is very simple to realise that we are the problem creator and ultimately it is we who are solve the problems. If one understands this fact, then why to create problems. However it is true some time problems crop up unexpected and in circumstances unknown as also by some known and unknown persons. In order to get over such situations and find answer, .....Read more

IT IS REALLY ASTONISHING AS TO WHY WE ENJOY TALKING AND RIDCULING OTHERS AND HARDLY WE ENJOY GOOD ABOUT OTHERS, EVEN IF WE DO THAT, IT IS FOR A FEW MOMENTS.HENCE ILLS WE MEMORISE WHILE GOOD WE FORGET. WHY DO WE ENJOY ILLS, FIGHTS ABOUT OTHERS, TO PASS TIME OR TAKE PLEASURE, WITHOUT REALISING HOW THE AFFECTED PERSON, GENDER, COMMUNITY, NATION ETC. SHALL FEEL ABOUT. IT IS ALSO OBSERVED THAT WE ENJOY DOING HARM TO OTHERS, FOR NO GAIN AT ALL. WE .....Read more

FREEDOM: everyone loves freedom and does all not only to preserve it, does all to protect, irrespective of age, for example,, when the child is fastened by mother by his/her legs, the child makes all efforts to unfasten and open the cloth with which he/she is tied and if not cared by mother, starts crying to beg the mother to relieve him/her from this punishment. To protect freedom, agitations and strikes tak .....Read more

WIFE IS FRAGRANCE; she needs to be preciously cared for as we keep a bottle of fragrance preciously, we do not let it evaporate, let us not in the same manner allow the smiling and loving behaviour of the wife to disappear, knowingly or unknowingly, we sprinkle fragrance preciously on the front portion of our body and on the face as well, likewise if we embrace the wife, wish and appreciate her caring attentively as we care for the fragrance in t .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS UNION AND NOT UNITY; Union means amalgamation of individuality, thoughts, differences and as such think and decide together, work together which means sharing of responsibilities, feeling of your pinch is my pinch and to take action accordingly, most important, ALLOW NOTHING AFFECTS AND EMBITERS RELATIONS AND TEARS THEM APART. ,,IN SHORT, UNION IS ONENESS WHILE..... UNITY MEANS THAT TWO ARE TOGETHER FOR SPECIFIC WORKS, MISSION ETC. A .....Read more

HUSBAND AND WIFE RELATIONSHIP -RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE IS NOT ONLY THE HARDEST BUT IS UNENDING AS WELL DESPITE GETTING TO OLD AGE. In the beginning soon after marriage or before in courtship, understanding, accommodation, sharing and adjustment become essential and as for man as husband is concerned, he keeps prior role socially, financially, to impose discipline and decision taking. Later on as the life advances, child or childr .....Read more

PARENTS FACE LOT OF PROBLEMS WITH CHILDREN WHICH THEY DO NOT LIKE, QUESTION ARISES HOW PARENTS SHOULD BEHAVE. I feel parent must not get into conflict with children despite the causes like dictating their own terms, fighting with each other, disapproving parents actions, accusing of favouritsm and partiality etc. etc. i have firm views and belief that conflict with children will not bring in any benefit and instead will destroy relationship what .....Read more

DO ABUSING, THRASHING, BEATING ETC. CORRECT THE PERSON'S BEHAVIOUR OR ARE THERE SOME OTHER MEANS POSSIBLE TO BRING IN CORRECTION. 1. beating and thrashing perhaps help when one is in childhood stage ii. in this age also it shall depend on the attitude of the child, some who have weak personality, understand and value the reasons for being thrashed, will tend to correct themselves or at least will not repeat ii. and on the contrary, those who hav .....Read more

LOVE IS RECEDING AND WHEN WE THINK GOOD IS NOT HAPPENING OR WILL NOT HAPPEN, WE NEED TO THINK AND REFLECT AS TO HOW TO HALT THIS TREND. 1. when extreme happens in anything, reversal does happen, then should we wait for that, I think not and we should do the best we can. 2. in first answer I will say that we must explain clearly as to what are the advantages of marriage and how satisfaction and happiness at house, helps to remain motivated and ach .....Read more

HOW TO DEAL WITH A PERSON WHO DOES NOT OBEY ORDERS, CRITICISES BOSSES, TRIES TO VITIATE ATMOSPHERE. Answer. I think such a person must be called, listen to his/her grievances, analyse the genuineness, guide him/her and do your best to persuade him/her to obey the boss and the orders 2. if despite this 1st action, he/she persists in his/her behaviour and action, then chargesheet becomes necessary which serves as a warning of the consequences. 3. i .....Read more

DO CHILDREN LOVE MOTHER MORE THAN THE FATHER OR EQUAL. I WAS WONDERING WHETHER THE CHILDREN LOVE MOTHER MORE OR THE FATHER OR EQUALLY. THOUGH IT IS A DIFFICULT QUESTION BUT STILL I WOULD LIKE TO PUT SOME VIEWS. 1. I THINK CHILDREN DO PICK AND CHOOSE AND AS PER THEIR REQUIREMENT THEY ADDRESS MOTHER OR THE FATHER. 2. CHILDREN HAVE EASY ACCESS TO MOTHER .....Read more

REMARKABLE I WAS WONDERING WHETHER LIFE IS TO LIVE OR DO SOMETHING REMARKABLE AND THEN QUESTION ARISES WHAT IS REMARKABLE 1. IS IT THAT ONE SHOULD BE REMEMBERED BY THE PEOPLE OR PUT TO PROMINENCE AND HUNG UP IN PHOTOS EVERYWHERE , WILL REMARKABLE REMAIN REMARKABLE FOR EVER OR WILL IT BE CRITICISED. THEN THE QUESTION ARISES CAN EVERYONE DO THINGS REMARKABLE OR ONLY THOSE BY EXCEPTION. I THINK IT GOES BY EXCE .....Read more

LIFE GOES ON -HOPES ARE BUILT ON -ONE AFTER THE OTHER -EFFORTS ARE MADE TO FULFIL THESE AND GET SUCCESS -ALAS IT DOESN'T HAPPEN ALL THE TIME -MAKES US TO RECONCILE AND CONTENT WITH FATE -OR TO STRUGGLE MORE AND MORE TO ACHIEVE WHAT WE WISHED FOR AND ARE WANTING ALWAYS -AT TIMES WE REMAIN HAPPY AND AT TIME UNHAPPY AS WELL -PRESENT SOMETIME BECOMES TERRIBLE -MANY A TIME IT HELPS US TO LIVE AS LIFE GOES ON -AND IN .....Read more

RISK taking is essential part of life, whether one wishes or not, knowingly or unknowingly one is compelled to take decision at each moment and every sphere of life whether it concerns family, business, place of work etc . Those who want to live normal life take little risk while the ambitious one's take greater risk and those who who want to be known, remembered now and after death, want to be prominent, to be defeated by none take the greatest .....Read more

LIFE IS CRUEL. Childhood passes worriless, perhaps keenness for studies etc without responsibilities, youth starts with responsibilities and miseries abound, old age is the only time wherein one divests oneself of most of the responsibilities but generally one spends in regrets and conflicts. IN FACT THIS IS THE TIME IF ONE WISHES ONE CAN LIVE BETTER AND ENJOY provided one has arranged sufficient resources to lead a comfortable life and MOST IMP .....Read more

ONE COMES CRYING AND GOES REGRETTING -RONA TO HAI PET KEE TALAB SAI HEE -ROAINGAI NAHIN TO MAAN BHEE DHOOD DAIGEE NAHIN -RONA TO HAI ZAROORI HEE -MANGNAI KAI LIYAI -AUR APNEE BHOOK KO MITANAIN KAI LIYAI BACHAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -JAISAI BARAI HOTAI HAIN HUM -PRESHAN HONAIN LAGTAI HAIN HUM -RONAIN MAIN AND PRESHANIYON MAIN ULAJHTAI HUAI BHEE -KIYA HAI VAJA AUR AISSA HOTA HAI KIYAON -BACHPAN MAIN CHAARA NAHIN -MADAD KARNAI KAI .....Read more

IS IT ESSENTIAL TO BE HAPPIER TO GET SOME SHOCKS. I will say perhaps YES as when one lives in the same situations, it becomes routine perhaps monotenous. Hence in order to get rejuvinated, motivated and to realise what and how enjoyable that moment of happiness was and when something is lost, and recovered afterwards, it gives an immense happiness. HENCE IT IS PERHAPS ESSENTIAL TO HAVE SOME SHOCKS TO GET HAPPIER. Howsoever one may avoid, internal .....Read more

OLD TEACHES, TO REMAIN QUIET IS THE BEST ANSWER. -kya vakat tha voh hee -jab hum bhagtai thai hava sai tez hee -chaltai hain hum ab laathee kai saharai hee -kaam main masroof thai itnain -keh fursat kabhee thee hee nahi -aur ab fursat hai lekin kaam hee nahin - tarastai thai tab hum aaram karnai aur sonai kai liyai hee -ab sotai rehtai hain lekin uthnain kee himat hotee hee nahin -kartai thai hum tab aankh macholian hee -ab .....Read more

PAST IS A LESSON BUT NEVER REGRETS ALONG AS OTHER ONE WILL NOT BE ABLE GAIN FROM PAST EXPERIENCES GOOD OR BAD. HENCE PAST IS AN EXPERIENCE AND LESSON, NEEDS TO BE FORGOTTEN THEREOF AND ESSENTIAL TO MOVE ON WITH THE EXPERIENCE AND LESSON, KEEPING HOPE, AIMS AND ACTIONS IN FRONT ALWAYS. tks PAST IS A LESSON WHILE DREAMS ARE THE FUTURE, ACTION LEADS TO SUCCESS IF WELL PLANNED, CONSISTENTLY FOLLOWED UP WITH SOME CORRECTIONS IF NEEDED. SUCCESS IS .....Read more

GOOD VS BAD GOOD IF NOT BENEFICIAL, I IS CERTAINLY PEACE GIVER WHILE BAD DOES CERTAINLY BRING DESTRUCTION AND UNHAPPINESS SOONER OR LATER CERTAINLY. GOOD OR BAD LIFE GOES ON. whether to spend in conflicts, jealousies, regrets and in retaliations etc. remains ONE'S CHOICE. Very few realise this fact and succeed while many get involved in all these vices, live their life and some day or other they disappear for ever. At this moment all conflict .....Read more

COERCION WILL CERTAINLY RETORT BACK SOONER OR LATER WHILE EXPLANATION AND PERSUASION ARE EVER LASTING AND POSSIBLY CAN BRING HAPPY RELATIONSHIP ALSO. COERCION VS EXPLANATION AND PERSUASION which is better. Administration, political sets and some nations resort to coercion, hardest punitive measures to make a person realise as also force others to realise as to what will be the consequences of anything wrong done against social and administrati .....Read more

SHOULD ONE WHO ACCUSES AND ABSUSES, BE REPLIED IN THE SAME COIN OR IS THERE SOME OTHER ALTERNATIVE. yes 1. to check why he/she is behaving like this and what is my fault 2. if it is my fault, to ask for the excuse and promise never to repeat it 3. it is possible that one has suffered or is suffering from problems from somehwere else and you happen to pass by or meet him/her, he/she stats hurling abuses etc. to relieve his/her vengence as a helpl .....Read more

HOW DOES THE SYSTEM OF MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT WORKS. answer: it is very simple. When the concerned customer receives biodatas of matches, he/she is to click at the biodata and thereafter the entire biodata will open. 2. this will enable to see all information like photo, family status, the boy or girl vice versa full details of academic, professional, income, experience, place of work, residence owned or rented, community, caste, manglik o .....Read more

WORRIES NEVER ALLOW THESE TO GROW THINK OF SOLUTION WHICH IS ALWAYS THERE. ..................................................................... -ZINDGI CHALTEE JATEE HAI -ISSAI CHALNAI DENA HAI ZAROOR -HAI BANDAI PRESHAN NAN HONA TU KABHI -PRESHAN HONAIN SAI -MILTA NAHIN KUCHH BHEE KABHEE -BULKAI INSSAN KUCHH KHO HEE SAKTA HAI ZAROOR -AUR IS PRAKAR SAI PAA SAKTA HAI NAHIN KUCHH BHEE -AISAI HOTA HAI KIYON MAGAR -HO SAKTA YEH BHEE .....Read more

TO LIVE ALONE AND DIVORCES ARE ON THE INCREASE. I am doing my best as much as I can but it needs awareness which could be brought in through NGOs and the Government. Simple speeches and propaganda are not enough. Literature, open offices in various cities with volunteers and especially with elder ones to bring in awareness will reverse the trend. Government pursuit to dissuade the warring ones, to explore reasons and to counsel will go a long. M .....Read more

S IT ESSENTIAL TO HAVE CHILDREN. In agrarian society, it was a must to have more and more hands to do the job and be a force against adversaries. In this industrial age, each one finds his/her vocation, employment etc. as such that need as it existed in agrarian society exists no more. It necessitate and transformed to have 2 or maximum 3 children so that parents in their busy life could not look after many and also could not afford for better ed .....Read more

CHILDREN ARE THE LIFELINE OF PARENTS, SERVE AS SAFETY CUSHION, HOPE, ACHIEVEMENTS AND TO BRING NAME AND FAME FOR THE PARENTS AND THE FAMILY. LIFE IS BUILT ON HOPE, HOPE CREATES EFFORT, EFFORT INDUCES FOR ACTION, AND ACTION BRINGS IN THE DESIRED RESULT. CHILDREN FOR THE PARENTS CAN BE COMPARED TO A PLANT IMPLANTED BY A GARDNER WHO KEEPS PATIENCE, TAKES CARE ALMOST EVERY DAY, WATCHES AND CARES AS TO HOW IT IS GROWING, ALL IN HOPE THAT SOONER IT WIL .....Read more

DIALOGUE IS THE BEST ANSWER TO MOST OF THE PROBLEMS ................................................................ -HAMAIN YAAD RAKHNA HOGA YEH ZAROOR -KYA LARAYEE JHAGRON SAI DUSHMANI BANAYAI RAKHNA HAI ZAROORIE YA NAHIN -ISS LIYA SAVAL PAIDA HOTA HAI YEH HEE -KYA HAI YEH ZAROORI JHAGARNAI AUR LARNAI SAI HEE SIRF FAISLAI HO JATAI HAIN SAB TAKLEEFON SAI NIPATNAI KAI LIYAI HEE -DEKHA GAYA YEH ZAROOR HEE -HAR EK INSAN APNAI .....Read more

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MATURITY - PARIVAKTA -YEH KAHA JATA HAI -JAISA JAISA INSAN BARA HOTA HAI -TO MATURITY(PARIVAKTA) AA HEE JAATI HAI ZAROOR -TO SAVAL AATA HAI ISS SAI HEE -KIYA PARIVAKTA (MATURITY) AATI HAI SIRF UMAR KAI BARHTAI HUAI HEE -AUR USS SAI PEHLAI AATI HEE NAHIN -MAGAR DEKHTAIN HAIN HUM -KUCHH BACHON KO BHEE -PARIVAKTA (MATURITY) BACHPAN MAIN HEE AA JATI HAI UNHAIN -AUR KOYEE AISAI BHEE HAIN TO -JINHAIN SAREE ZINDGEE MAIN PARIVAKA .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS A GAMBLE IT IS SAID SO. I do not think it is true. It is the best institution to live a happy married life and make progress. Rest of the systems are just the offshoots but not the reality. The QUESTION ARISES HOW TO GET TO IT AND MAKE IT HAPPIER ONE. ANSWER; it is said each problem has a solution provided one is determined to find it out and cipher out which is the best solution out of various options. Thus marriage also needs to get .....Read more

WHETHER ALL BROTHERS SHOULD TAKE THE SAME BUSINESS; I still hold the view that prime-most is the (1)aptitude (2) learning and acquiring knowledge of the business (3) understanding and acceptance of personality and attitude of each other (4) the one who is already involved in the business must be conciliatory to accept his brothers as associates, in all manners equal (5) each one should have choice to choose functions each one wants in the paramet .....Read more

HEALTH IS WEALTH. HEALTH PROLONGS THE LIFE AND ENERGISES ONE TO WORK AS HARD AS ONE WISHES, MIND REMAINS FRESH, MOOD REMAINS PERFECT, CONGENIAL AND PLEASANT, DEALINGS WITH ALL REMAIN PLEASANT, JUDICIOUSLY STUDIED AND ARE BUILT ON BROTHERHODD IN THE INTEREST OF ALL. THAT IS WHY IT IS SAID HEALTH IS WEALTH AND IT IS SAID ALSO T IF HEALTH IS LOST, EVERYTHING IS LOST AS IN LOST HEALTH ONE REMAINS LAZY, DOESN'T WANT TO WORK, REMAINS ALL THE TIME WORR .....Read more

FIGHTS AND FIGHTINGS ......................................................................... FIGHTING IS EXPRESSED IN VARIOUS FORMS AND MANNERS. FOR EXAMPLE, PHYSICAL, IN WORDS, IN BEHAVIOUR, IN RETALIATION, IN COMPETITION AND IN COMPARISONS ETC. ETC. IT IS AN OVERT ACTION AND /OR EXPRESSION TO HURT ANOTHER PERSON PRESUMED AND/OR REAL, ACCEPTED AS ENEMY. BUT ALL FIGHTS ARE NOT BAD. WHEN FIGHT IS APPLIED FOR -PROTECTION OF THE COUNTRY I .....Read more

ADAPTABILITY IS ESSENTIAL TO CHANGE ONESELF IN HABITS, ATTITUDES, MODES OF LIFE ETC. AS EACH EMERGING SITUATION DEMANDS. AS TIME CHANGES, AS SUCH OUR VERSION AND VISION ABOUT GOOD OR BAD ALSO CHANGES: in my childhood a drop of whisky was extremely bad, i won't categorise it criminal, but now we take one or at the most 2 pegs as a means of socialising and for relaxation. (2) we went some time to hear songs and see dances by dancers but now it i .....Read more

should there be court marriage with a few friends or celebrations with pomp and show. I think it should be left to the couple to decide and if it is decided to celebrate though t the court, then thereafter a party of relations and friends need to be organised to enjoy the party and let them know as well that these two are now married for legal and social purposes. In any case and for all purposes, one does not go in for debts to show celebration .....Read more

WEAP NEVER AS WEAPING IS HARMFUL ........................................................................... -DEAR FRIEND, WEAP NEVER -OTHERWISE YOU WILL GET CURSES FROM ALL OVER -IF YOU WILL CONTINUING WEAPING, REMEMBER, NO ONE WILL COME TO CONSOLE YOU AND WIPE OUT YOUR TEARS -YOUR HEALTH WILL CONTINUE DETERIORATING -CERTAINLY YOU WILL START GETTING WEAKER DAY BY DAY -AND FINALLY YOU WILL GET ILL UNDOUBTEDLY -AND WHEN .....Read more

COMPETITION IS LIFE, WHETHER ONE LIKES OR DISLIKES, IT WILL STAY ON AND PROGRESS EVERY MOMENT. Those who dislike competition believe in monopoly, try all means to keep away competitors, do gain perhaps for a short time, but in the end they become helpless to competitors, who emerge and neighbour around. The experience shows competition (1) keeps one on toes and on alert to search for and bring in more and more products to beat the competitors (2) .....Read more

ON WOMEN: what a wonderful narration which is reproduced hereunder: "women need to be romanced. Women are like electric ovens, they take a long time and then a lot time to cool down. Men are like gas stoves, phoom they are on fire and phoom they are off. Women need love to get sex, men go from sex to love"written by ALLAN PEASE 1. There is no doubt woman needs to be loved, loved alone and none else 2. she needs to be appreciated in toto as she i .....Read more

GOD IS FED UP WITH THIS WORLD AND IS IN THINKING WHETHER TO FINSIH IT ALL OVER OR JUST LEAVE IT WITH WARNINGS FOR CORRECTION. ................................................................ -PRABHU AKELAI BAITHAI HUAI EK DIN SOCHNAI LAGAI YEH -KAB TAK MEIN AKELAI KAISAI BETAONGA SARA VAKAT APNA -BAS PHIR BANA DIYAI PRABHU NAIN DEVI AUR DEVTA HEE -JAB DEKHA PRABHU NAIN KEH IN DEVA DETAON NAIN TO KAR DIYA HAI PRESHAN UNHAIN .....Read more

TO BE BORN IN A POOR FAMILY IS A CURSE BUT IS AN OPPORTUNITY AS WELL. Few make it while many live and die in their miseries, destiny, few remain contented while many live crying and cursing. It is a curse as we see them every day living in miserable conditions while on the other hand see afew enjoying the wealth and luxuries of life, created or usurped, at the cost and maybe at the helplessness and patience of the poor people. Alas the poor do no .....Read more

CYCLE OF LIFE: one comes crying and ends up crying. New born cries to fill up his/her belly while the departing parson weeps that he/she is losing and leaving everything he/she had struggled by all means to amass and also leaving the family which he/she created and had been looking for and after them, how they will manage by themselves. BESIDES I BELIEVE THERE IS MORE REPENTANCE AND THERE ARE MORE REGRETS FOR THE INJUSTICES, VICES, CRIMES, MALL-P .....Read more

WHAT DOES PERSONALITY MEAN; Those who are strong built, have fair colour, do impress at a first glance the persons they meet, discuss and control while on the contrary those who are thin are generally not able to influence and/or control except when they meet quite often, discuss their ideas in the manner liked by those who come in contact, listen to them and/or read their writing. It gets also possible when such persons are in put in some contro .....Read more

LIFE IS A PARADOX: Few succeed, a large section live with it, more than a quarter grumble, criticise and curse their destiny. Then the question arises what the life is meant for. I will say it is meant to live comfortably, happy, be loved and admired. Then how? Many take to one direction, they progress materially or work hard to be known and admired, very few act to be loved. TO BE LOVED needs that one is kind to everyone, does not bother about c .....Read more

JUST AN IDEA - IS BELLY ESSENTIAL. -MUJHAI YEH KHYAL AYA -HOTA NAN AGAR INSAN KA PAIT HEE -TO KIYA HOTA, SOCHTA HOON MEIN -AUR KUCHH KEH BHEE DETA HOON MEIN -NAN LALICH HOTA AUR NAN HEE JHAGRAI BHEE -AUR HOTAI BHEE KABHEE -TO NIPAT JATAI YEH CHAND SECONDS MAIN HEE -HOTEE ZAROORAT BAHUT KAM -AUR NAN HOTEE FASHION KAPROON KEE ZAROORAT -INSAN NAN KARTA ITNI MEHNAT BHEE -AUR NO HOTA PRESHAN BHEE -PYAR KARTA AUR PYAR LAITA BH .....Read more

LIFE NECESSITATES EVERYONE TO MAKE DECISION AS TO HOW TO LIVE ONE'S LIFE -HAI BANDAI CHALTA JA TU -YAHI HAI HAI ZINDGEE -AUR ISSI KO KEHTAI HAIN ZINDGEE BHEE -RUKNA KAHIN TU NA KABHI -VARNA DHOKAR LAG JAYAGEE TUMHAIN -GIR JAYAIGAI TU AGAR -UTHANAIN WALA NAN HOGA KOYEE TUJHAI -SOCH LAI AUR SAMAJH LAI YEH TU ZAROOR -HAI YEH DUNIYAN BEDARD -AUR BAYEEMAN BHEE HAI -TARS KA MADAA TO INSAN MAIN AB RAHA HEE NAHIN -GIR GAYA TU .....Read more

STRESS what does it mean: It means your faculties get strained due to (1) not achieving what you wish for (2) your views are not listened to or are not appreciated (3) you are cheated by nears and dears, best friends and maybe by the exclusive loved one (4) you fail to appreciate your faculties due to failures etc. (5) unexpected circumstances and unexpected situations (6) to curse the family, caste, tribe, religion etc. born in (7) being dragged .....Read more

RELATIONSHIP; AFTER LOVE RELATIONSHIP IS AS IMPORTANT AS THE LOVE ITSELF. UNDOUBTEDLY WE ARE SOCIAL BEINGS AND AS SUCH NEED THE COMPANY TO TALK ABOUT, DISCUSS, LIVE AND ENJOY TOGETHER. WE ALL KNOW ABOUT IT WELL AND ITS NECESSITY, BUT ALAS,OUR SELF INTERESTS AND EGO NOT ONLY DISTRUPT THESE RELATIONSHIPS BUT MANY A TIME DESTROY THESE AND TURN THESE INTO FIGHTS AND ENMITIES ETC. NEVERTHELESS RELATIONSHIP IS ESSENTIAL AS OTHERWISE ALONE WE SHALL RE .....Read more

TO CREATE AND DEVELOP HARMONY AND LOVE AMONGST CHILDREN IS THE 2ND MOST IMPORTANT RESPONSIBILITY OF PARENTS THOUGH ALL THE TIME BUT IT IS MOST IMPORTANT IN OLD AGE WHICH HELPS THE OLD PARENTS TO LIVE HAPPY AND ENJOY WITH THE FEELING THAT THEY HAVE FULFILLED THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES AND ARE HAPPY TO SEE THEIR CHILDREN LIVING IN HARMONY AND HELPFUL TO EACH OTHER. Let one not forget that distribution of assets is the 1st and most important responsibi .....Read more

ANSWERS TO MISERIES WILL DEFINITELY HAPPEN PROVIDED ONE IS KEEN TO SEARCH FOR THESE. EFFORT ALWAYS BRINGS RESULTS EVEN INSECTS, BIRDS AND ANIMALS SURVIVE WHEN COMPELLED BY HUNGER, AND THUS LIVE ON, THEN WHY NOT THE MAN IN MISERIES. IT IS SAID SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST, HENCE STRUGGLE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION IS THE SOLE ANSWER TO MISERIES SUBJECT TO WILLINGNESS. tks .....Read more

SHOULD ONE CURSE MISERIES OF LIFE which are many or make efforts to overcome these? My answer will be that howsoever rich or poor one may be, miseries and problems continue throughout life until death. Some miseries start with the birth itself like having been born in slums,some happen due to national and natural upheavals, some turn out as stigma throughout life like OBCs, castes, religions, beliefs etc. Many in low caste categories have risen .....Read more

LOVE IS NOT PERMANENT, IT DOES HIDE AND SEEK AND MANY A TIME SLIPS UNEXPECTEDLY AND IN UNAWARENESS. HENCE IT IS ESSENTIAL TO NOURISH IT ALL THE TIME, WITHOUT EXCEPTION AT ALL TIME AND EVERY MOMENT. WE ALL LIKE TO HAVE SWEATS AND ENJOY THE SWEATNESS, LEAST TO FORGET AND REMEMBER ALWAYS AS SUCH THAT LOVE IS THE SWEATEST OF ALL, ONCE GOT, HOLD IT TIGHT AND NEVER ALLOW IT TO SLIP AWAY EVER. tks .....Read more

LOVE CONTINUES CHANGING IN FORMS, KIND AND IN RELATIONSHIPS. There is no doubt love is natural and inborn emotional asset in all living beings, human beings, animals, birds, insects etc. etc. It is love which keeps us all not only associated but to remain respectful and united. Love starts as one is born, with one's mother, later on it moves to father, brothers, and sisters, and when brothers and sisters get grown up, love starts reducing a .....Read more

 3rd part OLD AGE ACTIONS; as the body starts decaying and getting old, energies also get reduced, in the same manner it is essential that one must start curtailing one's ambitions, divesting one's responsibilities, keeping one free as best as possible, but keeping busy to .....Read more

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HOW COULD FEUDS IN FAMILIES, COUPLES REGARDING DOWRY, ASSETS ETC. COULD BE AVOIDED; I think, after great deliberations, what I am suggesting hereunder will go a long way to reduce the above evils and surely help to live a happier married life. LOVE MARRIAGE IS THE BEST, MUST BE CELEBRATED IN CEREMONIOUS MANNER AS IN ARRANGED MARRIAGE(children are to persuade the parents about their decision and consent to celebrate the marriage as ceremoniously .....Read more

HOW COULD FEUDS IN FAMILIES, COUPLES REGARDING DOWRY, ASSETS ETC. COULD BE AVOIDED; I think, after great deliberations, what I am suggesting hereunder will go a long way to reduce the above evils and surely help to live a happier married life. LOVE MARRIAGE IS THE BEST, MUST BE CELEBRATED IN CEREMONIOUS MANNER AS IN ARRANGED MARRIAGE(children are to persuade the parents about their decision and consent to celebrate the marriage as ceremoniously .....Read more

TRUTH is a difficult path, it needs conviction, steadfastness, capacity to accept and bear shocks, better die but never to compromise on truth despite many promises, temptations tortures of all sorts while LIE brings quick results, one is benefitted and in many cases becomes winner, in fact all these remain material gains for sometime and soon or later one's conscience speaks out especially when downfall starts happening, all gains start cru .....Read more

SATISFACION. it is an unending process, human beings remain more unsatisfied than satisfied, why so, it is due to the lust for taste, emotions, more and better wants, greed and what not. When one gets or achieves something which one has been wanting or desiring, after having got it, one's satisfaction starts getting dissipated slowly and slowly, finally it comes to an end and one craves for the next to get satisfaction. However this dissatisfacti .....Read more

brother and sister discussion BHAI AND BEHN KEE GUFTGOOH ...................................................................... -BEHIN POOCHHTEE HAI BHAI SAI -MUJHAI SAMAJH AATA HEE NAHIN -KYA HAI VOH VAJAH -MAN BAP RAKHTAI HAIN MUJH PAR NAZAR HAR VAKAT -AUR TU BHEE KARTA HAI MERA PEECHHA JAHAN MEIN JATEE HOON AUR JIS JIS SAI MILTEE HOON MEIN -BHAI KEHTA HAI BEHIN KO -TU HAI LARKEE -ISSLIYAI HUM SAB KA KARTAVYE HAI -TERA KHYAL RAKHNAI KAI L .....Read more

NEVER OF FIGHT WITH WIFE. FIGHT IS NOT THE ANSWER WHETHER IT MAY BE WITH WIFE OR SOMEONE ELSE, ONE NEEDS TO KNOW THE CAUSE, PUT ONESELF IN HIS/HER POSITION TO ANALYSE HOW MUCH TRUTH LIES IN HIS/HER GRIEVANCE(s) AND ADVANCE HIS/HER ARGUMENTS TO EXPLAIN WITH REASONS AND PERSUADE, CLEARLY BRINGING OUT IF NOT AGREED, WHAT COULD BE THE EXPENSES AND THE CONSEQUENCES., AND WHEN ALL REASONS PUT FORWARD POLITELY AND JUSTFIABLY, STILL THE OTHER PERSON DOE .....Read more

DEAR FRIENDS DO FORGIVE ME WHEN I WRITE SOME VIEWS YOU MAY NEVER TAKE THESE AS PERSONAL, MY LIFE IS MARVELOUS IN ALL ASPECTS AND THERE ARE NO REGETS AT ALL. IN MY WRITINGS THERE ARE OBSERVATIONS,EXPERIENCE, IMAGINATION AND VISION TO ENTERTAIN MY FRIENDS AND AUDIENCE. tks -HAR PARKAR KEE KOSHISH KAR LEE MEIN NAIN -LEKIN BURAHAPA AA HEE GAYA -KARTA HOON KUCHH KAAM AB BHEE -KAR LEE HAI KOSHISH HAR PARKAR KEE MEIN NAI -APYAG (EXERCISE) HAR PARKA .....Read more

DEAR FRIENDS DUSSEHRA FESTIVAL I WISH YOU ALL HAPPY AND COLOURFUL DUSSEHRA. IT IS A FANTASTIC CELEBRATION ESPECIALLY FOR THE SMALL CHILDREN. HOWEVER LET US NOT FORGET IT CONVEYS TO US THE FOLLOWING MESSAGES: 1. OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS EVEN IF THEY ARE WRONG 2. LOVE AMONGST BROTHERS, RESPECT AND DEDICATION 3. DESPITE COMING FOR A KING FAMILY, WITHOUT ANY HESITATION NOT EVEN FOR A SECOND, SITA ACCOMPANIED LORD RAM A .....Read more

IS LIFE LUCK, DESTINY, MAN'S MAKING, DREAMS, HOPES, REGRETS, ACTIONS, ENVIRONMENTS, OPPORTUNITIES, VISION, INBORN CAPACITY, INBORN HANDICAPS, HANDICAPS DEVELOPED DURING LIFE TIME, MISMATCH MARRIED LIFE, WRONG CHOICE OF JOB, LOSSES DUE TO OVER-AMBITIONS AND/OR WRONG CALCULATIONS AND/OR MISREADING THE CHANGES LIKELY TO COME ABOUT, RITUALS, SOCIETY, POLITICAL CLIMATE IN THE COUNTRY AND OUTSIDE ETC. ETC. We observe some are born what is called with .....Read more

WAR OF WORDS BETWEEN DESTINY AND ACTION AS TO WHO IS STRONNGER ... destiny=luck and action=deliberation: these have been used interchangeable many a time , hence wheresoever action appears and thereafter it is mentioned deliberation these two must be taken as same. tks ........................................................ -KEHTAI HAIN MUKADAR HEE HAI SAB KUCHH AUR ISSKAI BINA PATA BHEE NAHIN HILTA -YEH SUNTA HOON MEIN BAHUT SAI LOGON .....Read more

HEALTH IS VERY IMPORTANT AT EVERY STAGE OF LIFE but it gets neglected at younger age for studies, work, betterment of prospects, personal ego and esteem BUT IN OLD AGE HEALTH BECOMES VERY IMPORTANT as body starts giving away, weaknesses and diseases crop in, wealth plays an essential part but it does not remain that important as the health. Further it is said HEALTH IS WEALTH. If one is healthy, one will have strength to struggle, put in longer h .....Read more

THE MORE I SEE NATURE, THE MORE I REMEMBER GOD, HOW HE IMAGINED ALL SUCH WONDERS TO MEET THE NEEDS OF EVERYONE FROM HUMANS TO ANIMALS EVEN IN PLANTS. ALL HIS CREATIONS ESPECIALLY NATURE IS THE SOURCE OF MY INSPIRATION AND LEARNING. ANYONE GREAT, WE ADMIRE HIM/HER AND GOD WHO HAS GIVEN US ALL THESE GIFTS DESERVES OUR SPONTANEOUS LOVE, RESPECT AND PRAYERS TO SEE AND KEEP ALL HIS CREATIONS TO LIVE TOGETHER IN PEACE AND HAPPINESS. THE MORE WE AIM AT .....Read more

zindgi chalti hai Life goes on ------------------------------ -ZINDGEE CHALTEE HAI -AUR CHALAYEE JATEE HAI ZAROOR -KUCHH LOG CHALNAI DETAI HAIN ISSAI -KUCHH ISS MAIN ULJHAI REHTAI HAIN HAR VAKAT -BAHUT KAM HAIN VOH LOG -JO ISS SAI LARTAI REHTAI HAIN HAR VAKAT -KUCHH HAIN VOH LOG BHEE JO KHUSHEE MAIN BEETATAI HAIN ZINDGEE APNEE -ACHHEE YA BUREE, JAISAI CHALTEE HAI YEH ZINDGEE, USSI MAIN MAST REHTAI HAIN VOH -HAIRAN .....Read more

2ND PART TO STRESS: Mostly anything not completed within time or as projected does create stress. I would like such persons to reason out whether getting into stress has or is bringing them comfort, is the incomplete job is getting completed, is it keeping them in good posture, if not at all, then why to take stress.Leave it as it is, seek some more time to complete it and if not warranted, then look to the reasons why it so happened and as such .....Read more

BOY AND GIRL'S LOVE EXPRESSIONS -AINAK LAGAI HAI TUMNAIN AISSI -KEH TU DEKH SAKTI HO MUJHAI -LEKIN MEIN TUMAIN DEKH PATA NAHIN -DIL CHAHTA HAI MEIN KEH DON TUMAIN -LEKIN LACHAAR HOON MEIN -KEH PAATA NAHIN MEIN TUMAIN -MAGAR SOCHTA REHTA HOON MEIN HAR VAKAT -PATA NAHIN MUJHAI -KYA TU BHEE SOCHTEE HAI MERAI BARAI MAIN ISS TERAH HEE -KYA HAI JOBAN TUMAHARA -AUR KYA HAIN ANDAZ TUMHARAI -AIHSAS(FEEL) KAR RAHA HOON MEIN -MAGA .....Read more

O'GOD HOW MUCH WONDERFUL YOU ARE. We feel about you, but can't touch you, want to be in your company, but can't find you, wonder I always how YOU could imagine to create this world where each human being, though coming from the source, is not the same, some time male and some time female, voices different,faces different, and what not, hardly anyone is alike in millions and millions. How is it that YOU created and also make them to die, created .....Read more

ORGANISATIONR AN INDIVIDUAL; I have discussed that in detail but still I find this subject needs to be answered with some more arguments and clarifications. IT IS POSSIBLE SOMEONE IS ADAMANAT, does not listen to reasons, keeps up jealousies and wants to show up his/her prominence, persuasions, reasons and consequences, have not changed his/her action and behaviour. It is possible that the opponents are exciting him/her, giving big hopes and prom .....Read more

OR AN INDIVIDUAL; I have discussed that in detail but still I find this subject needs to be answered with some more arguments and clarifications. IT IS POSSIBLE SOMEONE IS ADAMANAT, does not listen to reasons, keeps up jealousies and wants to show up his/her prominence, persuasions, reasons and consequences, have not changed his/her action and behaviour. It is possible that the opponents are exciting him/her, giving big hopes and promises etc. I .....Read more

What is love and whow to define it. It is a most difficult question to answer but some guess work can be done and narrated. 1. it could be first view, why,how and what for, is difficult to describe but it is a fact it happens when one forgets all principles, status, systems and falls in love just by a glimpse. 2. two unknowns meet each other at some place, come in tact, develop liking for each other, understand each in talk, communication, behavi .....Read more

BOY AND GIRL CONVERSATION 4TH PART ...............................................................................-LARKA AUR LARKEE GHOOM REHAI THAI BAGEECHAI MAIN EK DIN -PHIR KYA HUA -HERAN RAHAI JAO GAI -TUM SAB SUN KAR ISSAI -LAKRA LARKEE GHOOMTAI GHOOMATAI PYAR MAIN BAD-HOSH -CHALTAI HUAI DEKHTAI HAIN ACHANAK -RASTAI MAIN EK SANP BAITHA HUA HEE -TO PHIR KYA HUA -GHABRA GAI YEH DONO -SOCHNAI LAGAI YEH DONO -AGAR HUM JA .....Read more

LOVE, I WAS WONDERING WHAT IT IS AND WHY SO MANY SONGS OF LOVE WE ENJOY AND ALSO HEAR STORIES EMOTIONALLY AND SYMPATHETICALLY. Love is sexual, love is emotional, love is a company, love is also an expression of appreciation. I think sexual love is temporary, its bondage becomes stronger by living together and sharing almost same thinking. Thus, develops emotional love, which takes one from time to time to sexual love, as feeder to the emotional .....Read more

DIVESTING RESPONSIBILITIES AND HANDING THESE OVER TO THE WIFE. CAUTION; (1) it shall need trust (2) it shall need whether she is willing and has the capacity to accept all these, without feeling tired and without after thought (3) do not turn out to be a spectator and await reasons to criticise and ridicule (4) ensure what occupations you are assuming, how you will be spending your time and how you will be behaving in order that she does not feel .....Read more

BOSS; to start with husband remains the boss, but after a few years both compete to hold the power as boss, and after some struggle it is the intelligence, advice given which brings good results, whether it is the husband or the wife, is accepted to move on smoothly and mostly in this case, if the wife is well educated and comes up from a well to do family like business or bureaucratic one, then it is the wife who rules, and in old age it is the .....Read more

WHO TURNS OUT TO BE THE BOSS AFTER MARRIAGE. What I have written stands true. It is said that the first night of meeting determines who will be the boss and decision maker. ADVICE: let it not be determined in the spirit to turn out one as a boss, instead(1) IT IS ESSENTIAL TO ACCEPT QUALITIES OF EACH OTHER, APPRECIATE THESE, ACCOMMODATE BY DISCUSSION AND COMMUNICATION AND TURN AROUND FINALLY WHICH IS GOOD FOR THE FAMILY ETC. FINAL SAY SHOULD REM .....Read more

IT IS A GREAT PUZZLE WHO IS THE BOSS AFTER MARRIAGE/ In general, it is the husband who generally turns out to be the BOSS (i)because of physical strength (ii) he is settled in his own house associated with his family members especially mother and father (iii) while wife shifts from her house to the house of the husband as a stranger (iv) counts on none else except her husband (iv) as she counts on her husband, as a trust, guide and well-wisher, .....Read more

THE BOY AND GIRL CONVERSATION . 3rd PART. -ZINDGEE KAHAN LAI JATEE HAI -AUR KAISAI LAI JATEE HAI -PATA TO NAHIN HAMAIN -LEKIN SUNATA HOON MEIN AAJ EK ANKHOON DEKHI DASTAN TUMHAIN ZAROOR -MEIN JA RAHA THA APNI KITAB PRE-MARRIAGE EDUCATION AND GUIDANCE -SHADI SAI PEHLAI PAHRNA AUR JANANA DISHA NIDESH -KA PRACHAR KARNAI KAI LIYAI -ACHANAK DEKHA MEIN NAIN -RASTA BAND THA BEINTEHA HAJOOM KAI SATH HEE -HAIRAN HUA MEIN AUR D .....Read more

HONESTY NOT REWARDED IS THOUGH PEACE OF MIND, BUT I THINK IT DOES LEAVE LOT OF REGRETS WHEN ONE FINDS HIMSELF/HERSELF LIVING IN A POOR STATE OF AFFAIRS, ESPECIALLY IN THIS MATERIALIST WORLD. I was reading the news about CJI Mishra and CJI Gagoi who handle cases of billionaires and have the possibility to get influenced so that after retirement they can live a comfortable life as they have been living in their career, soon after retirement they f .....Read more

LIFE IS LIKE THAT, many feel jealous, many wish to destroy to enjoy irrespective of whether they gain or not, hardly few in life care, love and are ready to do everything for one's benevolent behaviour, attitude and observing one in helping others without any demand or reward in return. WHEN ONE IS GENTLE AND KIND, ONE GETS EMOTIONAL, GETS LOST IN SENTIMENTS, FORGETS THE GENUINENESS, BELIEVES THAT EVERYONE IS HONEST, BUT UNFORTUNATELY WORLD .....Read more

BOY AND GIRL CONVERSATION -2nd PART -LARKEE KO JAB MAAN NAIN BATAYA -PANDITJI KEHTAI HAIN -TUMHARI KUNDLI MILTI NAHIN -LEKHIN PANDITJI KEHNAI LAGAI -GHABRAO NAHIN AND NA HEE NIRASH HONA KABHEE -HOTA HAI UPAYAI HAR MUSHKIL KA ZAROOR -BAS YEH UPAYA JO MAIN BATA RAHA HOON TUMHAIN -KARNA PARAIGA 2 SAL ZAROOR -LARKEE HUYI BAHUT PRESHAN YEH SUNTAI HAI HEE -AUR HOYEE HAR PARKAR KEE INTEZAR AND KHOJ HAR TARAF HEE -AVSAR EK DIN AI .....Read more

SON ALMOST EACH FAMILY WANTS TO HAVE, MOSTLY THE FIRST CHOICE AND IF THEY WANT TO HAVE A 2ND CHILD, MOSTLY GIRL IS PREFERRED TO BALANCE THE FAMILY AND STRENGTHEN FAMILY BONDAGE. Many especially upper middle class, rich and elite resort to premedical check up and opt for abortion in fear of having a girl. Thus the male and female ratio will continue increasing and I think possibly is the cause of assaults, molestation, rape etc. on women. WHEN SUC .....Read more

              WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN. it is called eternal, liking all through all the time, giving no space to even iota of criticism,negativity, nor criticism, taking someone an as idol all the time, be attached in praises and emotions. W .....Read more

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KUNDLI IS LIKE SERPENT, IT KEEPS THE BELIEVERS ALWAYS IN FEAR. IN MARRIAGE PROCESS, KUNDLI IS STANDING A HURDLE LIKE A SNAKE CREATING FEAR IN MOST OF THE HINDU FAMILIES OVERRIDING THE CHOICE OF THE BOY/GIRL. All are fearful of the future and it is difficult to break this belief. All know well know that even if kundlis are matched, still there are conflicts and divorces. But matching of kundlis for many families is a PRECAUTION even if not the sol .....Read more

EVERYONE WANTS TO GET TO HAVEN, HOW AND WHEN REMAINS A BIG PROBLEM, CENTURIES ARE GONE BY, NO ONE CAN CLAIM WITH CONFIDENCE THAT HE/SHE HAS SEEN HAVEN, ENJOYED IT, PERHAPS SEEN GOD AND CAME BACK ON EARTH, WHY DID HE/SHE RETURN, PERHAPS DUE TO BAD DEEDS AND AS SUCH ONE IS PUNISHED OR HAS BEEN SENT BACK TO PREACH AND GET THIS WORLD RID OF ALL VICES.IT IS A QUESTION VERY DIFFICULT TO ANSWER BUT ONE THING IS SURE, HOPE AND BELIEF WHICH HAVE ALWAYS BE .....Read more

BOY AND GIRL CONVERSATION OF LOVE -LARKA LARKEE TO KEHTA HAI -AO PYAR KARAIN HAM DONO -LARKEE KEHTI HAI LARKAI KO -PYAR TO HOTA HAI MAAN BAP BHAI BEHNON SAI SIRF -AUR DUSRON KA SAATH REHTA HAI SIRF KAAM CHALANAI KAI LIYAI -LARKA KEHTA HAI LARKEE SAI -YEH HAI BHOOL TUMARI -DEKHO TUM AUR POOCHHO TUM PRABHU SAI -PYAR KARNA CHAYAI YA NAHIN -DEKHO TUM DEVI DEVTON KO BHEE -PYAR KARTAI HAIN YEH EK DUSRAI YA NAHIN -DEKH LAI AUR BH .....Read more

IF THERE IS HOPE, THERE IS LIFE AND IF THERE IS NO HOPE, LIFE PRACTICALLY IS OVER. -ZINDGEE KA NAM HAI GAREE -HAI BANDAI CHALTA JA TU -HAYEE HAI ZINDGEE -RUKA KAHIN TU AGAR -PEECHHAI WALA DAURTA HUA HAJOOM -DHAKA LAGA UNKA TUMAIN AGAR -KUCHLAI JAOGAI TUM -UNKAI PAIRON KAI NEECHAI ZAROOR -CHILATAI RAHOGAI TUM -MAGAR SUNNAIN WALA HOGA NAN KUYEE -TARAPTAI TARAPTAI KHATAM HO JAOGAI TUM -NAN TUM RAHOGAI -NAN REHAI GEE YEH .....Read more

MOTHER IN-LAW AND DAUGHTER IN-LAW FIGHT, to be realistic it is not the same as it used to be earlier, mother in-law is becoming more prudent and is giving sufficient importance to daughter in-law but as we get from middle to lower classes, there is not much change. I think literacy does play big role in each one's understanding the implications of fight, especially husband in general is making effort to compromise and adjust with the wife, and wh .....Read more

IS IT NECESSARY THAT THE GIRL CHANGES HER SURNAME AFTER MARRIAGE. I think no, perhaps it started with man dominated society. Now open society is shaping up and more or less husband and wife are having equal rights. Then why should the girl get her past memories, association and parental name effaced soon after marriage, I think it is total injustice to the girl. HENCE I AM OF THE VIEW THAT THE GIRL AFTER MARRIAGE MUST KEEP HER FAMILY SURNAME 1st .....Read more

LOVE IS NATURAL,, ETERNAL BUT IS BEING WON OVER BY MONEY AND STATUS. -PAYAR HAI TO HAM HAIN -VARNA DUNIYAN BHEE NAHIN -PAIDA HOTAI HAIN HAM -PYAR DENAIN AUR LENAI KAI LIYAI -BACHPAN BEETA HAI PYAR MAIN -BHAYEE BEHNON, MAN BAP, DOSTON AUR RISHTAI DARON KAI SATH -BARAI HOTAI HAIN HAM -PYAR BATNA HOTA HAI SHURU TAB -PYAR BARHNA PHIR REH JATA HAI -APNI BEEVEE AUR BACHON KAI SATH -JAB BOORHAI HO JATAI HAIN HAM -PYAR BATNA JATA H .....Read more

MEHBOOBA -HAI MEHBOOBA DIL RUBA MERI -DHOONDTA RAHA HOON MEIN TUMHAIN -DUNIYA CHHEEN MARI HAI MEIN NAIN HAR TARAF -DHOOND NA PAYA MEIN TUMHAIN KABHEE -NAN DEKH PAYA MEIN TERA DEEDAR KABHEE -KOSTA HOON MEIN APNAI DIL KO KABHEE KABHEE -KYA KIYA HAI MEIN NAIN KUYEE GUNHA AISSA -JO BHOOLA DIYA HAI TUNAI MUJHA MILNAIN SAI DOOR ITNA - DEKHTA RAHA HOON HAR RASTAI AUR HAR TARAF MAIN MEIN -INTEZAR MAIN TEREE, SIRF TEREE -BEBAS HOON LACHAAR .....Read more

DEAR FRIENDS I WOULD LIKE TO INFORM YOU THAT WHATEVER I WRITE THESE ARE BASED ON MY OBSERVATION, IMAGINATION AND VISION. PLEASE NEVER TAKE THESE FOR MY PERSONAL LIFE, I AM IN THAT RESPECT A LUCKY PERSON WITH ALL WHAT ONE CAN WISH FOR, GOOD HEALTH, MARVELOUS FAMILY, FINANCIALLY COMFORTABLE, KEEP MYSELF ALMOST BUSY WHOLE DAY IN SOCIAL WORK OF MARRIAGE BUREAU, WRITING ABOUT SOME OF MY EXPERIENCE AND VISION FOR THE BENEFIT OF ALL MY FRIENDS. TKS .....Read more

To live alone is a temporary phase, mostly pretended, man is a social animal, cannot remain alone and enjoy the charm of life. HENCE MARRIAGE IS THE BEST INSTITUTION AND AS SUCH IS CATEGORISED THE PIOUS ONE as it strengthens the relationship between two opposite genders is a social acceptance, develops urge to have children to accomplish pride and unfulfilled dreams of the parents themselves to live with, enjoy their company, own responsibilitie .....Read more

ZINDGEE CHALTEE RAHAI TO HAI YEH RAIL -RUK JAYAI AGAR HAI YEH RAIL KAI DABAI KEE TAREH -RONA DHONA AUR ZINDA REHNA HAI YEH MAUT KAI BRABAR -FAMILY HAI TO HAIN SAB KHUSYAN BAHUT YA KAM -FAMILY BINA NAN HAI YEH ZINDGEE AUR NAN HAI YEH DUNIYA -MEHBOOBA HAI TO HAI MAHBOOB BHEE -VARNA KUCHH BHEE NAHIN -ACHEE HAI KISMAT AGAR, -TO HAIN KHUSYAN AUR KHUSHYAN HAR TARAF -BENASIB HAIN HUM AGAR -NAN HAI YEH ZINDGEE AUR NAN HAI .....Read more

MOTHER-IN-LAW AND DAUGHTER IN-LAW'S FEUDS..SOLUTIONS; 1. husband has necessarily to be DECISION MAKER as otherwise problems will aggravate and get uncontrollable. 2. must PRIORITISE WIFE over his parents and family members, as those who do not believe in it and/or do not do it suffer themselves so also his parents when extremes happen. 3. must not FORGET HIS COMMITMENT TO HIS WIFE IN PUBLIC that he will remain ALWAYS loyal to her, remain her .....Read more

LIFE IS TO LIVE AND ENJOY, UPS AND DOWNS ARE PART OF LIFE, SOME ONE GETS OVER AND SOME ONE FAILS AND REGRETS, THAT IS PART OF THE GAME BUT THOSE WHO ARE DETERMINED AND CHANGE THEMSELVES BEFITTING THE SITUATIONS, MOSTLY SUCCEED AND FEEL HAPPY. -ZINDGEE HAI KYA -SAMAJH MAIN AATA NAHIN -KHELTAI THAI AUR KOODTAI HAI HUM -REHTAI THAI MASTEE MAIN HAR VAKAT HUM -NAN FIKIR THA NAN FAKA -BHOOK LAGTI THEE JAB MUJHAI -BHAGTAI AATA THA KHAN .....Read more

MOTHER IN-LAW IS ALL IN ALL IN THE HOUSE AND IS ALSO MOTHER OF HER SON, WHILE DAUGHTER IN-LAW IS A NEW ENTRANT IN THE SAME MANNER WHEN ONE JOINS IN SOME POST, HE/SHE HAS TO ADJUST WITH ALL COLLEAGUES AND IN PARTICULAR WITH THE BOSS, WHATEVER HIS NATURE MAY BE. LIKEWISE DAUGHTER IN-LAW NEEDS TO ADJUST WITH MOTHER IN-LAW WHATEVER HER NATURE AND BEHAVIOUR MAY BE AND SOON AFTER SHE HAS SHOWN HER PATIENCE AND WORTH, BEHAVIOUR OF MOTHER IN-LAW WILL CH .....Read more

LONG AWAIT GENERALLY ENDS UP IN LASTING HAPPINESS while easily got gives joy for a while and builds up dreams for the next. LONG AWAIT IS PIVOTED ON A SOLE OBJECT while easily got is a frittered one, comes and goes, noticed and many a time unnoticed as a routine and nothing exceptional to enjoy. LONG AWAIT NEEDS ENDLESS STRUGGLE AND PATIENCE while easily got is quick and insignificant. THEN SHOULD ONE MAKE A CHOICE FOR THE STRUGGLED HAPPINESS OR .....Read more

MOTHER-IN-LAW'S AND DAUGHTER-IN-LAW'S FEUDS.. WHY? Mother in law expects that 1. she will be praised and that she will be given more than matching gifts, especially wears and jewellery. 2. she is so much burdened with work as all males in the family and even daughters go to work and for all these she is to get up early and arrange breakfast and perhaps lunch for each one,so that everyone leaves at a specified time. This creates besides burd .....Read more

BELIEF NEEDS NO QUESTIONING. That is why those who are poor, illiterates, made or compelled to live in the conditions they are born, are the most followers of BELIEF and are exploited, if not, become the staunch followers and BELIEVERS IN DESTINY. Then weaknesses and fears, that is how the main attempt of the SO-CALLED PRIESTS are directed towards the women folk who in turn drag the menfolk, who to get influenced and follow such priests as PRONOU .....Read more

LOVE NOW HAS BECOME ELUSIVE, EVASIVE, INDECISIVE AND PERHAPS SUSPICIOUS. WHY SO: life span has increased, education has become the main source to seek a job and as such importance is being given to be well educated, well settled, be confident to live on one's own and to make decisions of his own. HENCE EDUCATION AND CAREER HAVE BECOME MOST IMPORTANT AND when to marry and with whom to marry have become less important. In pursuit of these objectiv .....Read more

DO ONE ACCEPT LIFE AS IT COMES ABOUT OR FIGHT IT OUT AND OVERPOWER IT. 1. Many believe and preach especially religious institutions that life should be accepted as it comes about to have PEACE in life and also plead that one is destined by one's karma and has to accept the decision of GOD. 2. I think and believe that it is passive way of thinking and not what we are meant for and are capable for. 3. One needs to be positive and fight with the s .....Read more

SHORTER ARE THE DAYS WHEN WE ARE HAPPY, LONGER ARE THE DAYS WHEN WE ARE UNHAPPY AND WORRIED. 2. Our mood also turns the days shorter or longer though some time urgency and burden of work help US to overcome the bad mood. 3. shorter are the days in enjoyment and celebration of success and longer are the days when one meets defeat and repeated ones. 4. family happy gatherings make the day shorter while feuds turn these to taxing and longer. .....Read more

EACH AND EVERYTHING IN EXCESS BREEDS CORRUPTION: it can relate to character, power, prominence, cruelty, makes one sole centred, dogmatic and arrogant. WHY SO? 1st it is due lust for power which means to enjoy, rule, dictate and leave none to disobey or challenge, In such a situation one assumes the powers knowingly or unknowingly of GOD and the moment this happens, downfall does happen. History is full of citations, Asa Ram, Ram Rahim are toda .....Read more

SHOULD WORRIES BE A PROBLEM? I am of the view NO, Worries are part of life, these come and go. BUT WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TO OVERCOME WORRIES: these are (1) to understand that worries are part of life (2) Change of Attitude: getting submerged in worries will worsen health and if health is lost, all is lost (3) to remain POSITIVE that nothing is static, time will heal up the situation, which will end up in consolation and hope (4) Be convinced that .....Read more

LIFE IS LONG OR SHORT , is a question which many answer in different ways. The poor and the believers are convinced that one's life is predetermined and that everyone will die on a particular day and in the circumstances determined by GOD, the educated and in modern society, many believe that life has nothing to do with predetermination and destiny, it all depends on its MAINTENANCE AND MEDICATION, which contains in exercise, taking care of food .....Read more

LET ME BE FRANK TO MY ASSOCIATES FRIENDS, READERS AND THOSE INTERESTED that whatever I write are just the guidelines of my experience, thought and vision and are necessarily fool proof for implementation. Circumstances in each family are different and as such views need to be referred and related to action in toto, modified, rectified or as a guiding force to take a decision. THE SUBJECT IN QUESTION AND ANSWER RELATES TO THE CHILDREN WHO WHEN GRO .....Read more

SHOULD PARENTS CONTINUE THEIR PREFERENCE FOR A SON OVER A DAUGHTER? Firstly, let me look to the reasons and spell these out (1) to keep the family heritage/continuity (2) can leave earnings like business to the son as he belongs to the same house and family while the daughter takes to different roots and builds up her own family with her husband, which is altogether different from parents family, maybe links remain till the time daughter is alive .....Read more

GOD.. How to define we believe he is Almighty,Omnipotent,Justice Giver and as such each religion has given Him different names We all must understand that calling by different names is man's creation to create divisions and upkeep their respective identities Thus I come to believe that God is one and had their been more, there would have been confusions and conflicts Then Question arises why do we believe there is God I believe none has ever seen .....Read more

DRAMATIC, DISTRESSING I FEEL WHEN I FIND THE BRIGHTEST COLLEAGUES, FRIENDS ETC. DID NOT SUCCEED IN LIFE. Maybe they succeeded in one and failed in other spheres of life. I am of the view that the brightest person has some supper intelligence, super capacity etc. to compete and excel. Then why it is so that such brightest persons remain mediocre in life. I think reasons could be many, for instance, 1. misfit in job 2. joining an organisation which .....Read more

SHOULD PARENTS DEPEND ON THEIR CHILDREN, ANSWER, I WILL SAY NO, LARGELY AS MUCH AS THEY ARE CONVINCED AND HAVE MEANS TOO. Parents do their best to see that their children are able to fulfill their dreams and turn out the best of the best and in return expect that their children will take care of them, which in many cases does not happen especially in this modern age wherein almost every child wants to have his/her freedom and live in the mann .....Read more

WEEPING AND LAUGHING, ARE THESE ESSENTIAL. Mostly one will say laughter is essential and not weaping. Why weaping happens while no one wishes rather prays that weeping should not happen. Nevertheless weaping happens when LOSS is so great that one cannot control emotions and/or sufferings. IN SUCH A SITUATION WEAPING IS ESSENTIAL AND IT IS HEALING as it is said when in anger, it is better to express as expression reduces the rigour of anger and su .....Read more

HAPPY WE FEEL WHEN WE SUCCEED AND DEPRESSED WE FEEL WHEN WE FAIL . Why so, it is because we are reservoir of hopes and dreams. If we do not have these, though alive, we will be dead like robots. HOPES AND DREAMS ARE THE LIFE-LINE AND IF WE WANT TO LIVE COMFORTABLY, hopes and dreams become the foundation on which we build up our resources and action. FEW SUCCEED, MANY LIVE WITH IT AND QUITE A LOT LIVE IN MISERIES, MOSTLY I THINK IT IS they remain .....Read more

SUCCESS IS PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENT AND HAPPINESS. It creates ambition to succeed in more and more and perhaps it never ends till the life and health can support him/her. Paradoxically, quite a few who are concerned and are related in some way or the other in which family becomes the most important, many feel jealous and to gain or no gain, would do their best to disparage him/her by finding fault or coiling some stories to affect his/her image and a .....Read more

I think it is essential at least in Indian system, to live after marriage till the end. It is essential as the wife and husband the longer they live together, their bondage, understanding of accommodation of each other, tolerance etc. grow stronger. Besides human mind is a screen, whatever happens life, it stores it and even after separation/divorce, past cannot and is not effected until and unless one get into relationship of someone coveted .....Read more

DECISION TAKING IS AN ART SUPPORTED BY KNOWLEDGE,, EXPERIENCE AND MOSTLY TO ASSESS ONESELF BY HIS/HER EXPERIENCE HOW MUCH SUCCESS AND PRAISES ONE HAS GENERATED BY HIS/HER DECISION. In natural urge, for success, progress, prominence, to enjoy love and peace in family, in relations, friends workplaces and at large in society, one feels it is essential to take decision. Alas many avoid this as each and every decision involves responsibility and lead .....Read more

MIND AND BRAIN. Mind wants to remain in peace while brain does not allow it. It is key to mind which is governed by emotions, expectations, done and not done, what we see and feel, our relations, our thinking, vision and dreams. We know life is to live, the happier we live, the better it is but alas it does not happen generally though there may be some exceptions. Hence it is said the lesser the expectations, the lesser brain gets feedback and as .....Read more

ESSENTIAL TO PLAN FOR OLD AGE TO AVOID REGRETS AND LIVE WISHFUL LIFE. OLD AGE IS FULL OF WORRIES which normally shouldn't as by that time one fulfills all one responsibilities, children get adult and live their life as they want, then why so', is a big question: I think (1) personal safety (2) personal maintenance if not planned and managed already (3) to deal with the children and assets allocation/distribution (4) deception by relations/frie .....Read more

TO REMAIN CHEERFUL AND HAPPY IS AN ART, WHILE OTHERS REQUIRE LEARNING, TO REMAIN CHEERFUL NEEDS ANALYSIS CONVICTION AND ACTION. ... THEN HOW TO DO IT. 1. try to analyse what disturbs you 2. jot down all causes and then prioritise them, putting the simplest one at the top, followed up by the rest to the extent they disturb you and putting these in graduation 3. on the first day take up the simplest one(s) with full conviction that you have to reac .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS A DECISION TO LIVE TOGETHER AND TIE TO COMMIT LOYALTY AND ADJUSTMENT WITH EACH OTHER. In the marriage ceremony, this tie EARLIER signified and allowed the groom to walk ahead to be followed by the bride but now AT PRESENT this tie has changed to half way, to start with, by the groom and half way by the bride followed by the groom. It means that groom is to lead but in EQUALITY. Tie though is tied very tight by the priest but in practi .....Read more

PERCEPTION OF MARRIAGE IS FAST CHANGING. Questions are being asked (1) why to marry and sacrifice our freedom what for (2) two individuals are brought up differently, develop different thoughts and ambitions, it is difficult if not impossible to think of their living together (3) one comes alone and goes off alone, then why not to enjoy life alone as best as one can (4) to spend whole life in struggling for the children, their uplift. career etc. .....Read more

DELHI NEEDS TO BE KEPT CLEARN. 4step GARBAGE; it is not shabby, health hazard, horrible to look at, pass by and worst to live nearby and/or stand by. Our adminstration whether state or corporations, have devised to construct garbage rooms on the pavements ignoring the fact as to how much these will affect the passersby, leaving open grounds where we see garbage of all sorts as food ground for pigs, cows, birds, mosquitos etc. and see these abando .....Read more

SECRET OF MARRIAGE; Consensus of differences is the sole and final answer to live a noble married life for themselves, parents and for children the most. PERCEPTION OF MARRIAGE IS FAST CHANGING. Questions are being asked (1) why to marry and sacrifice our freedom what for (2) two individuals are brought up differently, develop different thoughts and ambitions, it is difficult if not impossible to think of their living together (3) one comes al .....Read more

WISH TO EXPLORE, WAKE UP INSTINCTS, AND TO MAKE THE BEST USE OF THIS HOUSE-RIDDEN TIME, hereunder is my poetic narration: jo kehna chahta tha keh ne saka jo karna chahta tha kar ne paya jo chah wo ho ne saka sochne laga main karun to karun kya kuch ne samaj men aya mujhe sochta raha, sota raha jawab ne paya main ne thak gaya jab mein itna koi awaz ai band karo, karo sab band tum sun lo,samaj lo kan khol kar tum virus aya, aya virus ne .....Read more

LOVE is the result of emotions, which are inborn with birth, association and company let it grow, firstly with mother, later on with father, followed by love for brothers and sisters. In short as the association and contacts continue increasing, love continues spreading. Unfortunately HALT comes about due to our jealousies, possessiveness, illusions, expectations, failures, incapacities to face competition etc. etc. LOVE CONTINUES MOVING. It ini .....Read more

BORN APART, MADE TO LIVE TOGETHER, CREATE FAMILY AND ENJOY HEAVEN ON EARTH AS EXCLUSIVE LOVERS;... important message: I agree with you as it gives time to know each other and their respective compatibility but it has also its flaws. 100% equality does not exist neither in nature nor in human beings including animals.Each one is specified one's sphere, man as a protector and woman as beauty, hence the attraction and co-habitation. Here comes to u .....Read more

COULD FAILURE EVER BE ACCEPTED AS SUCCESS. In certain circumstances, I will say YES. WHEN.If one compares one's last performance with the present 2. looks to to reasons why failure happened, in what and where one was lacking, and decides to act upon 3. takes it positive, as a step to move forward. There are many examples wherein one finds that despite many failures, relentless efforts did bring in success. HENCE FAILURE, FIRSTLY IT SHOULD NOT HAP .....Read more

FAMILY PROBLEMS 3rd stop HONEY-MOON, CHARTER OF DEMANDS, DISCUSSIONS, CLARIFICATIONS AND COMMITMENTS; ...I feel after marriage the wife must remain in the house of the husband for a few days whereby she will be able to know how the family especially the mother-in-law behave, whether she is being liked criticised, how her husband is accommodating her and taking care of her with none so near except her husband, HONEYMOON as such will give an opport .....Read more

BEFORE I ATTEMPT FAMILY CONFLIFTS, IT IS ESSENTIAL TO START FROM THE COUPLE AS TO HOW THEY, BEFORE MARRIAGE, MAKE A GOO CHOICE. (1) each one needs to analyse one's qualities and defects and jot these down (b) to divide these defects into optional, adjustable and not changeable at all. (3) optional will get easily eliminated, adjustable will happen with a desired good choice, not changeable shall remain the focus in meeting the choicesin personal .....Read more

INTELLIGENT WE ARE OR NOT, WE BOAST AND CLAIM TO BE INTELLIGENT. If not, why do we not accept it as a fact? mostly not due to (1) seniority of age and position 2. ego to keep up authority 3. the crowd, area and type of people we live and deal with 4. presume to be well read and as such are intelligent. QUESTION ARISES 1. does intelligent mean well read and well educated 2. does it mean experience 3. does it mean percentage of success 4. does it m .....Read more

TO BE A PERFECT MAN OR BE CATEGORISED AS A PERFECT PERSON....... CONCLUSION; It is practically impossible for a normal person to be PERFECT but if one makes effort, one will surely be near the goal, maybe one may achieve it. It is said that PERFECT PERSONS like Lord Rama, Lord Krishna, Budha etc. were GODs Messéngers to correct the human beings on this earth and guide them how to live in harmony with others and to let the world move smoothly. No .....Read more

HOW TO BE A PERFECT PERSON OR BE CATEGORISED AS A PERFECT PERSON. 7th step: TODAY MY PLAN IS TO EXPLORE AND DISCUSS ON THE ... HAPPINESS, why it is essential, what are the factors which affect happiness and to overcome them to achieve happiness; 1. WHAT AFFECTS HAPPINESS: (a) anger, (b) jealousies vindictiveness (c) losses (d) failures (e) betrayals and deceptions of conjugal relationship, children, relations, friends etc. etc. (f) past recollect .....Read more

HOW TO TACKLE SITUATION WHEN ONE IS PUT OFF AN ORGANISATION: options (1): go into litigation (3) get int union (3) not to accept a job with less income than earned before. ANSWER I first two one should not opt for nor indulge in while for the 3rd it left to his/her choice. One must realise the longer the time one shall remain idle, the harder it shall become to get a job.Hence even if one gets lesser salary, one should go in for it as the longer .....Read more

WOMEN EMPOWERMENT WILL COME ABOUT THROUGH (1) girls get more and more educated (2) go to co-education schools which shall enable them to mix up and face each other as equals in studies, travels, behaviour (3) in this open society some incidents will happen, but girls shall move about in this open society, the fearless they will become (4) their dressing up must remain sober, congenial to work, move outside for shopping etc, while in socialising , .....Read more

IN CONTINUATION OF WHEN ONE IS OUT OF JOB besides that one must get into at the earliest even one is offered lesser salary and also whether to join a small organisation or a big organisation. ANSWER; it is left to the person, till the time one is not able to get a job, one must get into academic advancement by taking to certain refresher courses or take to skill development TO ENSURE WHEN ASKED FOR WHAT HE/SHE HAD BEEN DOING FOR SO LONG A TIME WI .....Read more

WHAT ACTION TO BE TAKEN IF ONE'S DAY PLANNING DOES'NT GO WELL? One must look to reasons and analyse. Reasons could extraneous not in one's control and/or these could be one could not cope with. For jobs under one's control could not be finished, one needs to know reasons whether jobs were planned over-capacity, or some of these were under evaluated or time was lost as lot time was wasted in travel, discussions and for lack of information etc. AS .....Read more

ANGER; IS IT ESSENTIAL TO REAP RESULTS? perhaps yes in rare case but in general IT IS MORE HARMFUL THAN GAIN. .... when someone is in younger age , when someone is helpless, when one is weak physically, mentally, financially etc. Thus one accepts under compulsion. in helplessness , in respect and in certain cases by realisation that by retaliation or replying back in anger will bring no good while the one who is in anger and is intending to pro .....Read more

ADULTHOOD: what does it mean, many do not know, fail to act, hence many face problems in life especially in marriage relationship. ANSWER. adulthood means that one is grown up enough to take decisions in life by oneself and to one's liking. HOWEVER it does not mean one may not take views of family, friends, relations etc of confidence, it is better but not obligatory. consultation is a choice but not an obligation. consultation needs to be taken .....Read more

HOW TO BE A PERFECT MAN. 3rd step etc. GOOD, LOVED AND APPRECIABLE THOUGHTS. 4: PERCEPTION, VISION AND GUIDE: It is essential that the person who wishes and/or is keen to transform oneself to be a perfect man, must love all human beings irrespective of caste, creed, gender, belief, religion etc and is ready to make all sacrifices to pronounce and spread his/her thoughts, perception, vision and be a guide to all those who do not believe or are bew .....Read more

VEXING PROBLEMS ARE TAXING, HEALTH BREAKERS AND VANISH ONLY WHEN LIFE ENDS UNLESS TAKEN QUICK ACTION TO FIND SOLUTION FOR THESE. Before these the extreme shapes, I think, it is necessary to analyse causes:1. we do not want to disclose keeping their confidentiality etc. etc. 2. not to annoy or displease other(s) 3. being afraid of repulsion, ridicules etc. 4. feel to be ignored 5. perhaps terming us as habitual 6. concluding that we are adamant et .....Read more

MALES ARE PROTECTORS OF FEMALES. we find it as a natural instinct, why so, it needs to be spelled out in reasons and to conclude whether it is true and will continue to be so. I think the reasons are 1. physical strength 2. social behaviour 3. we observe in husband and wife relationship 4. when there are two boys fighting for the same girl or someone wants to attack wife or girl- friend of a person, generally these are the males who fight while f .....Read more

SUCCESS HAS ALWAYS REASON TO SUCCEED. Most of us do not appreciate success of someone, especially the one known to us and/or related to us, why so, in general, we most of us feel jealous and invent reasons to disparage the success of a successful person, turn it into a talking point and enjoy with those who share and enjoy our ridicule. Why it is so, especially with those who fail or cannot reach that success, jealousies and to talk ill becomes c .....Read more

LIFE IS FULL OF PROBLEMS, RESPONSIBILITIES AND MISERIES, THEN HOW AND WHERE LIES THE POSSIBILITY TO REMAIN HAPPY, MOST OF THE PEOPLE REPLY IN THIS MANNER. True. If it is true,then question arises should we continue accepting life as it is in general or learn to fight against and swim over it. It is better to get over and learn to reach a stage when such routines do not bother us. We need to realise that it is part of life, so long as we live, w .....Read more

OLD IS GOLD is gone bye, nothing to learn except to listen sermons about past glories, experiences, perception, religious beliefs, manners and mode or respect etc., IS THE GENERAL THINKING OF PRESENT GENERATION ABOUT THE OLD PERSONS, PARENTS ARE NO EXCEPTION. To a great extent it is true also as old persons we do not remain in touch with the present, especially now when technological developments are immense, innumerable and are on increase every .....Read more

WORDS MUST BE SUPPORTED BY ACTION, OTHERWISE THESE ARE LIES....Since lies have become more gainful, most of us employ all means to TURN LIES INTO TRUTH. We consciously and unconsciously bother about lies, what ultimate harm these will inflict to us as also to others, we do not feel ashamed or afraid of telling lies and advancing all sorts of arguments to prove that we are talking truth. As such we continue in our behaviour, belief and do all to p .....Read more

ONE CAN SOLVE ALMOST ALL PROBLEMS if one is determined to find answer and solve these. The process is very simple to realise that we are the problem creator and ultimately it is we who are solve the problems. If one understands this fact, then why to create problems. However it is true some time problems crop up unexpected and in circumstances unknown as also by some known and unknown persons. In order to get over such situations and find answer, .....Read more

DIALOGUE BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN IS BECOMING NON-EXISTANT. Why so? Answers perhaps lie in the facts.. YOUNGSTERS are mostly busy in cells,laptops, chatting with friends etc. while parents especially when both are working, come stressed due to work, travel, relationships, financial and household responsibilities, hardly find time to be free to be with children, listen to their whole day odds and/or narrations of their liking, they perhaps fe .....Read more

WOMAN IS MAGNETIC WHILE MAN IS STEEL. As magentic attracts steel however hard and strong it may be, likewise WIFE IS MAGNETIC, SHE ATTRACTS MAN HOWSOEVER STRONG HE IS, SHE IS WITTY ENOUGH TO KEEP THE MAN ATTACHED AND CLUBBED TOGETHER IN THE SAME MANNER AS MAGNETIC DOES NOT ALLOW THE STEEL TO DRIFT AWAY, LIKEWISE WOMAN BECAUSE OF HER CHARM, LOVE AND WITTY FACULTIES OF OBSERVATION AND TO MOULD HERSELF DOES NOT ALLOW THE MAN TO DRIFT AWAY HOWSOEVER .....Read more

RECIPICE OF SUCCESS LIES IN SELF APPRAISAL OF EVERYDAY WORK AND ARMING UP FOR UNDONES AND THOSE AIMED AT FOR THE DAY. success is achieved by setting goals measuring success every day, looking at other's achievements, making more efforts, check up one's energies, take to learning if necessary, be convinced and determined, never be daunted by failures if ever, remain mad and always dedicated to the goal, one day success will touch your feet and .....Read more

IS WEALTH EVERYTHING IN LIFE, PERHAPS NOT. It is said and generally it is a fact the more the wealth, the more the problems.Question arises then why to have wealth. Wealth is an essential part of life, it is a means of livelihood and without it one lives in miseries, curses fate, weeps without recourse, gets dis-heartened, wants to die but can't dare, sees all around people living, enjoying and benefiting from comforts which he has't. HENCE WEALT .....Read more

LIES AND TRUTH. lies are most prominent which by influence, resources and practice get most of jobs done, unnoticed or ignored that these are lies. In legal system, lies are turned to apparent truth by arguments, examples, loopholes, lack of evidence and to some extent by influence. Lies are quickly rewarded while truth takes longer to prove and be accepted. Lies gather friends all around while truth gets a few, perhaps none. Lies give momentary .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS A UNION AND NOT A UNITY. Unity means to combine together to fulfill a purpose while keeping their identities in tact while UNION means ONE AND ONE ALONE keeping no individual identity. HENCE MARRIAGE IS A UNION OF TWO INDIVIDUALS WHO COMMIT TO BE ONE PHYSICALLY, SOCIALLY, IN THOUGHTS, IN COMMITMENTS, IN PROGRESS, IN LIFE AND IN SOUL which means complete understanding, pinch to one is automatically felt by the other, both think alike, .....Read more

PARENTS FACE LOT OF PROBLEMS WITH CHILDREN WHICH THEY DO NOT LIKE, QUESTION ARISES HOW PARENTS SHOULD BEHAVE. I feel parent must not get into conflict with children despite the causes like dictating their own terms, fighting with each other, disapproving parents actions, accusing of favouritsm and partiality etc. etc. i have firm views and belief that conflict with children will not bring in any benefit and instead will destroy relationship whate .....Read more

HOW BOSS IS TO DEAL WITH AN EMPLOYEE WHO COMES LATE DAILY? 2nd step: 1. must study his/her reports 2. must observe daily when he/she comes to office 3. observe when he/she comes, does he/she concentrate on work or engages in meeting colleagues, chatting and disturbing them 4.does he/shes goes late to finish up his/her entrusted work 5. boss needs to call the person coming late daily only when he/she is fully prepared with the information and back .....Read more

HOW TO DEAL AS A BOSS WITH AN EMPLOYEE WHO COMES LATE DAILY AND HAS BEEN TOLERATED BY THE PREVIOUS BOSS. Answer. 1. priority should given to see the work involved and what responsibilities have been entrusted to you. 2. introduce yourself to all those who will be working under you including the one who comes late 3. do not criticise anyone in his/her narration of his/her job, for or against any colleague, instead concentrate to listen and when he .....Read more

THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF OFFICIALS IN AN ORGANISATION - GOOD THINKERS, GOOD WRITERS AND ARE PRECISE IN EXPRESSION WHILE THERE ARE OTHERS WHO ARE GOOD SPEAKERS. Generally good speakers are well acclaimed and the good writers lag behind and after the meet in gatherings and meetings come back distressed, grumbling and criticising as they were every well prepared with the subject but could not speak well to communicate and at times faltered. NOW QUESTI .....Read more

LOVE IS RECEDING, I THINK SO. In agrarian society, love was the deepest maybe due to joint family system which was necessary as many hands were required to cultivate. But in this industrial stage, where almost everyone is consumed by travel, office working, problems and urgency of work therein etc. etc. On return at home one is so tired that one finds hardly any time to share pleasantries and to spend some time with children. In reality each one .....Read more

Life needs to learn to fight against all odds which will surely stand against howsoever one may try to avoid, unforeseen circumstances will always happen. To mould oneself to tide over each and every situation needs conviction, spirit to fight, understand, analyze the situation and then to employ means when and how shall depend on the situation and one's wit to strike. Those who learn, practice it and employ this formula become successful in life .....Read more

LOVE BEGETS LOVE, it is said so. It is true in the sense that one must learn to love irrespective of the fact one may get it back or not. When one expects something in return for the good done, if not paid back, one feels bad about it and some time retorts and does not love any more to enable the other person to realise that any or every good needs to be paid back. In the lightest sense, one may opt to ignore the other person. I WILL SAY HERE LIE .....Read more

HOW TO DEAL WITH A PERSON WHO DOES NOT OBEY ORDERS, CRITICISES BOSSES, TRIES TO VITIATE ATMOSPHERE. Answer. I think such a person must be called, listen to his/her grievances, analyse the genuineness, guide him/her and do your best to persuade him/her to obey the boss and the orders 2. if despite this 1st action, he/she persists in his/her behaviour and action, then chargesheet becomes necessary which serves as a warning of the consequences. 3. i .....Read more

Marriage of children is a big problem of the parents. Parents are keen that their children should get married while children shy away and avoid ,and mostly they have their likes else where which they donot want to disclose their parents. Parents need to be broad minded and ask their children overtly and tell their children to bring their like to the house to galvanise the relationship.Parents need to be conciliatory rather than opposing. Such a .....Read more

HOW TO MAKE LIFE A HAPPIER ONE. 1most important is to have enough means and resources to live and enjoy. 2 success in life to achieve one's aims and objects 3 to lead a successful married life in family 4 to be surrounded by well wishers and to have a good company ,5 to be satisfied at work and getting successive promotions 6 to be admired in work amongst colleagues, bosses in discussions, observations, performance etc etc 6 to put in least effor .....Read more

WIFE IS THE ETERNAL LOVE WHILE CHILDREN ARE THE OFFSHOOTS, SECONDARY LOVE IN SUCCESSION. It does not mean that children are not important, to think as such, will be deceiving oneself. TO BE CONSCIOUS THAT CHILDREN ARE OUR PRODUCT AND LOVE, I think and believe that one must remain always conscious that without children there is no life, they are the repository of love and remain our endless goal to make them happy and prosperous and dole them out .....Read more

LISTENING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN REPLYING; why so, answer: 1. listening relieves the other person as to how much he/she feels burdened with the idea and is keen to convey at the earliest 2. until properly and fully listened, one can't give a proper reply 3. howsoever one may be busy, it is essential to take time to listen lest it turns into drastic behaviour and action 4. listening needs one to forget his/her problems temporarily and concentrate .....Read more

GOOD OR BAD LIFE GOES ON. whether to spend in conflicts, jealousies, regrets and in retaliations etc. remains ONE'S CHOICE. Very few realise this fact and succeed while many get involved in all these vices, live their life and some day or other they disappear for ever. At this moment all conflicts, fights etc. and their causes good or bad also disappear. When that is the fact, then why get into all these conflicts and spending the life in unhappi .....Read more

BRIBE BENEFITS BOTH GIVER AND TAKER what stops it I think are (1) one's conscience (2) belief and conviction that bribe is criminal act of him/her which will result in bad habits, will victimise the giver, will make the taker answerable to God, possibly will set bad example for one's children, as such, such persons concentrate on working hard and put in all their energies to develop their skills, knowledge, academic qualifications, prepare for va .....Read more

COERCION VS EXPLANATION AND PERSUASION which is better. Administration, political sets and some nations resort to coercion, hardest punitive measures to make a person realise as also force others to realise as to what will be the consequences of anything wrong done against social and administrative rules to be obeyed and implemented. In Middle East we find that even hands are cut off in public gathering to show to the gathering the consequences o .....Read more

STRESS IS THE BIGGEST ENEMY OF MAN;in follow up: HOW TO AVOID: These in general could consist of (1) cafe. alcohol, nicotine etc. (2) to avoid sleeplessness, one should do physical exercise (3) take to some relaxation activities which could consist in games, reading, books of one's choice, be in company of likable friends to enjoy and feel free to jokes gossips etc. see TV etc/ etc. (4) plan one's work, prioritise and take up problems one by one .....Read more

WOMAN IS STRONGER THAN MAN IF SHE WISHES SO , remains determined and relentless to win over the man. This paradox many may not agree but it is a fact. Though man is strong physically but woman is gifted with the arts of observation, love, wit, and to articulate as softly and in as sweet behaviour and action as her spouse is missing and is wishing for. HOW TO BEHAVE, THE ANSWER LIES IN; 1. never hurt the ego of the man 2. accept that man is the ki .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS FARCE; SOLUTIONS..step 13: PRESIDENT AND GOVERNORS TO BE PUBLIC SERVANT IN REALITY AND AS SUCH MUST NOT HAVE ALLEGIANCE TO ANY PARTY. THEN QUESTION ARISES WHETHER PRESIDENT MUST BE ELECTED AS AT PRESENT BY THE MAJORITY PARTY OR BY PUBLIC BY VOTING. If President is elected by the public,but he/she belongs to a party, he/she remains inclined or dependent on that majority party as his/her policies have got to be voted and implemented th .....Read more

IS IT ESSENTIAL TO HAVE CHILDREN. In agrarian society, it was a must to have more and more hands to do the job and be a force against adversaries. In this industrial age, each one finds his/her vocation, employment etc. as such that need as it existed in agrarian society exists no more. It necessitate and transformed to have 2 or maximum 3 children so that parents in their busy life could not look after many and also could not afford for better e .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS A FARCE, SOLUTIONS 9TH STEP; UPSC selects IAS, IPS, IRS, Medical cadres, who are governed and posted by the Central Government. It is good system but the problem comes as their postings and confidential reports are let to the choice of the ministers. As such cadre officers are dependent for their promotions and lucurious postings.Thus they get inclined to obey orders of the minsters and the Central Government whether legally. consti .....Read more

SHOULD THERE BE COURT MARRIAGE WITH A FEW FRIENDS OR CELEBRATION WITH POMP AND SHOW. In India we celebrate marriage in great pomp and show wherein besides relations, we invite all friends, known and unknown personalities and also the neighbours. I think it is a GOOD CUSTOM. One celebrate marriage as best as one can afford and shouldn't indulge in debts to show off to others. MARRIAGE IS A ONE TIME OCCASION TO BE REMEMBERED THROUGHOUT ONE'S LIFE A .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS A FARCE. SOLUTIONS 7th step. TO FLOURISH DEMOCRACY, OPPOSITION IS ESSENTIAL AND SINCE IT IS ESSENTIAL, IT NEEDS TO BE ENCOURAGED BY THE GOVERNING PARTY, ATTENTIVELY LISTEN TO THEIR VIEWS AND IMPLEMENT THOSE IN THE INTEREST OF THE PEOPLE AS A WHOLE. IT IS ALSO ESSENTIAL FOR THE OPPOSITION TO SUPPORT ALL THAT IS PROJECTED BY THE GOVERNING PARTY IF THEY FIND THESE ARE IN THE INTEREST OF THE PEOPLE. HENCE PEOPLE INTERESTS MUST BE KEPT AS .....Read more

ON WOMEN: what a wonderful narration which is reproduced hereunder: "women need to be romanced. Women are like electric ovens, they take a long time and then a lot time to cool down. Men are like gas stoves, phoom they are on fire and phoom they are off. Women need love to get sex, men go from sex to love"written by ALLAN PEASE 1. There is no doubt woman needs to be loved, loved alone and none else 2. she needs to be appreciated in toto as she i .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS A FARCE; SOLUTIONS. 7th step; 3 organisations like ED, FBI and Election Commission, though constitutionally are independent, but in actual functioning are not so. These must work like JUDICIARY, where though approval from the central government is essential, but still choice of the judiciary is accepted except where there are some serious points, which perhaps judiciary was not aware or ignored. The above 3 organisations must work in .....Read more

ADULT what does it mean: In my view when one can 1.take decisions on his/her own 2. owns responsibilitities 3. does his/her own earning 4. is capable to distinguish between good and bad 5. discusses, understands and decides on what he/she feels is right 6. learns to face and/or shape life to his/her efforts and liking 7. learns parenthood and decides on his/her course of action 8. believes and stands committed to that he/she has learnt wh .....Read more

DOES PUNISHING SOMEONE, CORRECTS HIM/HER. I will say rarely and seldom. If someone is convinced of the punishment, he/she will not comply and repeat it again and again. We are seeing the cases of rape, thefts etc. such cases are on the increase despite rigorous laws.We are finding law breakers are on the increase despite that challans are made, penalties are paid directly or through court. I believe such punitive measures perhaps have some correc .....Read more

SOLUTIONS TO ALMOST ALL PROBLEMS (1) if you wish your wife to love your parent, you must learn to love her parents first,show great gesture. (2)Present o where lie all planning,action and execution, of all activities on earth, we are the creator of our luxuries and destroyer of our peace. God has given us resultant from our actions.(3) love is reciprocal, one sided could be coercion and destruction of the sufferer in repentance. (4) we being .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS A FARCE; SOLUTIONS; 6th step. Each and every party whether national and the state ones offer feebies make loud promises before election to lure the voters WITHOUT KEEPING IN VIEW HOW THE FUNDS WOULD BE RAISED. Thus after winning election either they fail to fulfill their commitments or put the exchequer at their end in DEBTS AND DEBTS and/or resort to increase taxes of all sorts and mostly resort to taxing the rich ones more and more .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS FARCE; SOLUTIONS .. 5th step;Parties fight elections on MANIFESTOS, as such it must be made mandatory that in election rallies etc. they discuss their manifestos/promises/commitments and what progress they have made. Personal and past acrimonies/accusations must be totally prohibited and any leader who indulges in such behaviour, must be debarred from fighting election. This could perhaps be done by the Election Commission or by Parl .....Read more

MIND AND MOOD - follow-up: Mood is spontaneous which changes into good or bad through environments, situations, relationships, conversations, the very sight/appearance etc. Its formation gets quicker and is quickly reflected on the face while the effect of MIND is a gradual process. It is a combination of all elements which affect the MOOD, accumulated effects of detests and dislikings or likings which happen through love, emotions, good relation .....Read more

THE RECIPE FOR SUCCESS, I THINK, IS FIRST AND FOREMOST IMPORTANT... BELIEVE IN YOUR SELF. METHOD; see and observe in yourself what are your inherent qualities, judge them well, take some time to experience these, discern and sort out which ones are most prominent, try and experience these for some time more, then single out one or two which you think are your asset (which we may call an aptitude), build up your conviction and believe that these a .....Read more

SHOULD ONE CURSE MISERIES OF LIFE which are many or make efforts to overcome these? My answer will be that howsoever rich or poor one may be, miseries and problems continue throughout life until death. Some miseries start with the birth itself like having been born in slums,some happen due to national and natural upheavals, some turn out as stigma throughout life like OBCs, castes, religions, beliefs etc. Many in low caste categories have risen i .....Read more

OLD AGE IS THE RECALL AND REMINDER TO ALL THOSE GETTING OLD (1) to put an end to embitions (2) resolve all issues before these get too late (3) ensure that all the children remain emotionally attached, love each other and extend a helping hand if ever need arises by any of them (4) leave an autobiography of one's experience, narrating explicitly and plainly one's achievements, mistakes and failures of life without defending oneself why, how, got .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS A FARCE, SOLUTIONS 3rd step: Only 2 party system must be introduced to avoid mess of turncoats, independents, regional parties etc. which not only generate hung results but weaken the national parties by their regional and self interests. National parties need to be strengthen to represent the voice of the country as a whole and for this Lok Sabha and Rajya Subha exist where representatives from all over in the country get elected to .....Read more

OLD AGE IS A BLISS ORA CURSE. Many will say that it is a curse which we see every day and observe so BUT I WILL SAY IT IS A BLISS as by the time old age comes in, one generally has completed all his/he responsibilities to earn to feed his/her family, educate and settle down his/her children. HENCE THIS IS THE TIME WHEN ONE IS FREE AND HAS FULL FREEDOM to do what one could not do during his/her young and middle age. Unfortunately most of the old a .....Read more

DOWRY - my note is quite exhaustive to mitigate if not eliminate the curse of dowry. It is ritual in certain communities and in some it remains in expectations. MICRO UNIT , GIRLS WORKING AND AWARENESS OF PARENTS ESPECIALLY MOTHERS-IN-LAW THAT THEY NEED MORE THEIR CHILDREN AND DAUGHTERS IN-LAW EQUALLY IF NOT MORE WHILE ENLIGHTENED MOTHERS IN-LAW CARE MORE FOR THE DAUGHTERS IN-LAW IN FULL REALISATION THAT SHE IS THE ULTIMATE OWNER AND BUILDER OF T .....Read more

HOW COULD FEUDS IN FAMILIES, COUPLES REGARDING DOWRY, ASSETS ETC. COULD BE AVOIDED; I think, after great deliberations, what I am suggesting hereunder will go a long way to reduce the above evils and surely help to live a happier married life. LOVE MARRIAGE IS THE BEST, MUST BE CELEBRATED IN CEREMONIOUS MANNER AS IN ARRANGED MARRIAGE(children are to persuade the parents about their decision and consent to celebrate the marriage as ceremoniously .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS A FARCE, 2ND SOLUTION; If after election, 2 parties emerge with highest elected representatives i.e. one more than the 2nd one and the rest remain less, then RE-ELECTION BE HELD BETWEEN THESE 2 PARTIES. As such the total votes will get divided between the 2 parties and accordingly will emerge one governing and the other opposition party. as such views of the people will be fully expressed and represented. 2. since, I feel, the partie .....Read more

HOW TO REMAIN HAPPY AND HEALTHY? we keep in front the image of GOD, our parents or Guru(s) we believe in. I think the easiest way is to KEEP YOUR SOUL IN FRONT OF YOU, SEE AND CHECK IT EVERY DAY AS TO HOW IT IS SHAPING. If you feel your soul seems to be in good shape and seems to be flourishing, BE SURE THAT YOUR THINKING AND ACTIONS ARE GOOD, CONTINUE WITH THOSE and if you feel that YOUR SOUL IS STRESSED AND IS SQUEEZING, become conscious of thi .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS A FARCE, SOLUTIONS THEREOF. First and foremost seems to be at present is the problem of TURNCOATS, BUYING AND SELLING OF ELECTED REPRESENTATIVES. IN SOLUTION I would suggest that the very principle of democracy is DEMOCRACY IS OF THE PEOPLE AND FOR THE PEOPLE. As such it becomes incumbent that PEOPLE SHOULD HAVE LEGAL RIGHT TO CALL BACK THE REPRESENTATIVE IF HE/SHE DOES NOT WORK FOR THE PROMISES AND OBJECTIVES FOR WHICH HE/SHE WAS EL .....Read more

DEMOCRACY IS A FARCE AND IT NEEDS CORRECTIONS. There is no doubt that democracy is the best institution which gives say to the people to express and elect their representative each to highlight the problems of their constituency and do his/her best to redress those grievances. Unfortunately it has turned into money power, influence, coercion, fear to be victimised, false promises, all types of promises are given at the time of election, and when .....Read more

GOOD AND BAD. What is good and what is bad I think is related to (1) rules and regulations obedience (2) how we are brought up and what our parents believed and taught us as good or bad (3) school/college teaching (4) reading and writing (5) environments and circumstances (6) change of status and progress (6) one's conscience, deliberation and decision (7) observation and experience of certain happenings and incidents (8) social and economic comp .....Read more

WOULD THE BOY AFTER MARRIAGE LIKE TO LIVE WITH IN-LAWS. Generally not, exceptionally perhaps. Why he does not want to live with in-laws in their house is the question. I think he does not want to be dictated by them, does not want to live in the manner they live, he does not want that his movement and choice of work is controlled. Further why he should leave his job. When the boy does not want to leave his job and does not want to adjust to the e .....Read more

NEVER TO FIGHT WITH WIFE WHATEVER THE SITUATIONS MAY BE. Generally it so happens that because of ego, not getting soulmate as expected, expectations about behaviour, manners etc, relations with his family etc. all such situations happen when boy is in young age,especially soon after marriage, these get reducing and/or settled as the age advances and understanding between husband and wife starts growing. In old age especially after retirement, man .....Read more

if you do not have leadership qualities do accept to assist the leader,which consist in memorising names, information well all the time, good communicator, having vision and foresight, not necessarily what one says is to remain true to that, must observe what the group or the public wants, at what moment, how to articulate and communicative in the manner the public understands and is hit by its feelings to clap instantaneously and emotionally. Fo .....Read more

IS LIFE LUCK, DESTINY, MAN'S MAKING, DREAMS, HOPES, REGRETS, ACTIONS, ENVIRONMENTS, OPPORTUNITIES, VISION, INBORN CAPACITY, INBORN HANDICAPS, HANDICAPS DEVELOPED DURING LIFE TIME, MISMATCH MARRIED LIFE, WRONG CHOICE OF JOB, LOSSES DUE TO OVER-AMBITIONS AND/OR WRONG CALCULATIONS AND/OR MISREADING THE CHANGES LIKELY TO COME ABOUT, RITUALS, SOCIETY, POLITICAL CLIMATE IN THE COUNTRY AND OUTSIDE ETC. ETC. We observe some are born what is called with g .....Read more

NEVER NEGLECT HEALTH, IT IS PRECIOUS ASSET IF NOT IN YOUNG AGE, ONE DOES REALISE ITS IMPORTANCE IN OLD AGE. NEVER OVERLOOK ITS NECESSITY AND IMPORTANCE AS OTHERWISE THERE WILL BE ALL REGRETS WITH NO RETURN PERHAPS. ESSENTIAL TO KNOW AND REMEMBER THAT THE HEALTHIER YOU ARE, THE MORE AND BETTER YOU CAN WORK AS ALSO ENJOY RELATIONSHIPS IN FAMILY AND OUTSIDE. tks .....Read more

2ND PART TO STRESS: Mostly anything not completed within time or as projected does create stress. I would like such persons to reason out whether getting into stress has or is bringing them comfort, is the incomplete job is getting completed, is it keeping them in good posture, if not at all, then why to take stress.Leave it as it is, seek some more time to complete it and if not warranted, then look to the reasons why it so happened and as such .....Read more

WHY PEOPLE GET STRESSED, reasons in general being 1. fear about result 2. getting late 3. circumstances/events unveiling unexpected 4. work burden or inability to do the work and/or finish the work in time 5. coming across someone who is hated 6. loss of all sorts 7. family feuds 8. children not caring and/or not giving due respect 9. wife in anger all the time 10. strained relations between in-laws and his/her own family and with him/her 10. exp .....Read more

POOR REMAINS POOR IN GENERAL WHOLE OF HIS/HER LIFE AND DIES POOR AND IN MISERIES. Is it due to his past karma(actions), as it is said, or it is society creation to keep poor as poor for whatever reasons, needless to express my own views as my sole purpose is how to improve their lot. I feel and I am convinced the POOR IS RESOURCEFUL, IS WITTED, GENIUS AND IS INGENUOUS TO FIND AND EXPLOIT ALL HIS QUALITIES AND HARD WORK TO SURVIVE. I wonder how it .....Read more

ORGANISATIONS IS IMPORTANT OR AN INDIVIDUAL; I have discussed that in detail but still I find this subject needs to be answered with some more arguments and clarifications. IT IS POSSIBLE SOMEONE IS ADAMANAT, does not listen to reasons, keeps up jealousies and wants to show up his/her prominence, persuasions, reasons and consequences, have not changed his/her action and behaviour. It is possible that the opponents are exciting him/her, giving big .....Read more

LOVE INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL WHICH IS IMPORTANT. Internal is just kept to oneself, it is not expressed while external employs all means to love but fails as there is no SINCERITY. Internal love without expression and/or external overtures, remains to oneself and in general lasts till the life ends while in case of external love, many will shy away and never meet him/her again and perhaps it may get so much publicised, that one may not find anyone t .....Read more

ORGANISATION IS IMPORTANT OR AN INDIVIDUAL. Both are important but when it comes to make a choice, I will say individual is important as it is individuals that organisation is made of. Organisation is important to keep up discipline as whatever has been achieved, will get washed away. THEN WHAT IS THE ANSWER: I think if individuals are not tackled timely and rightly, they take to revolt and damage the organisation the most. REVOLT COSTS A LOT TO .....Read more

SON ALMOST EACH FAMILY WANTS TO HAVE, MOSTLY THE FIRST CHOICE AND IF THEY WANT TO HAVE A 2ND CHILD, MOSTLY GIRL IS PREFERRED TO BALANCE THE FAMILY AND STRENGTHEN FAMILY BONDAGE.Many especially upper middle class, rich and elite resort to premedical check up and opt for abortion in fear of having a girl. Thus the male and female ratio will continue increasing and I think possibly is the cause of assaults, molestation, rape etc. on women. WHEN SUCH .....Read more

TO REMAIN HAPPY ONE MUST DIVEST HIS RESPONSIBILITIES, FUNDS AND ASSETS IF DESIRED NEED TO BE GIVEN TO ONE'S WIFE. If this is done, one can be free from responsibilities and worries attached to these. Unfortunately many husbands do not do it in fear that hereafter they will have to depend for everything on their wives and thus lose their authority, in thinking that man is a man, he exercises his authority by power, strength, assets and belongings .....Read more

CAN AN ENEMY BECOME A FRIEND EVER, AND IF POSSIBLE, HOW. It is a big question for which many will reply it is impossible while I believe it is possible, if not a friend, at working/neighbourly relations are possible. It is possible 1. one needs to shun ego 2. needs to reflect what were the reasons which took relationship to turning enemies 3. did I retaliate, abused, threatened etc. 4. am I talking ill of him/her to his contacts/ relations etc. .....Read more

IN MARRIAGE PROCESS, KUNDLI IS STANDING A HURDLE LIKE A SNAKE CREATING FEAR IN MOST OF THE HINDU FAMILIES OVERRIDING THE CHOICE OF THE BOY/GIRL. All are fearful of the future and it is difficult to break this belief. All know well know that even if kundlis are matched, still there are conflicts and divorces. But matching of kundlis for many families is a PRECAUTION even if not the solution. As a result of this, many spouses who love each other a .....Read more

EVERYONE WANTS TO GET TO HAVEN, HOW AND WHEN REMAINS A BIG PROBLEM, CENTURIES ARE GONE BY, NO ONE CAN CLAIM WITH CONFIDENCE THAT HE/SHE HAS SEEN HAVEN, ENJOYED IT, PERHAPS SEEN GOD AND CAME BACK ON EARTH, WHY DID HE/SHE RETURN, PERHAPS DUE TO BAD DEEDS AND AS SUCH ONE IS PUNISHED OR HAS BEEN SENT BACK TO PREACH AND GET THIS WORLD RID OF ALL VICES.IT IS A QUESTION VERY DIFFICULT TO ANSWER BUT ONE THING IS SURE, HOPE AND BELIEF WHICH HAVE ALWAYS BE .....Read more

WOMAN IS A TREASURE OF GIFTS, CALLED GOD GIVEN GIFTS. she is all love, takes care of the man she marries, from love to care for his well being, gets to temples to pray for his good health and progress provides him all comforts from what he prefers to eat and what he enjoys the most, in stress manages to listen discuss and suggest answers, cools him and persuades him to take to right course of action, turns out to be adviser and well wisher all th .....Read more

ADULTHOOD -2- SUPPLEMENT; Adult is one who: 1. takes decisions by himself/herself based on one's own views. 2. owns responsibilities himself/herself 3. does his/her own earning 4. is capable to distinguish between good or bad 5. discusses, understands and decides on what is right and what is wrong. 6. learns to face and change life to his/her own choice. 7. decides about marriage by his/her liking, when,where and with whom to marry, con .....Read more

ADULTHOOD AND WHAT DOES IT MEAN; 1. when it starts: it starts when one goes to college, gets to job etc. Age also is an accepted fact, physique and constitution of a person develop to maturity. Desires to get associated in the company of opposite gender ignites. One develops one's own views, habits and manners unhindered as one wants. Develops confidence to move on one's own and express oneself almost equal to elders in equality almost. THEN WHAT .....Read more

WHAT FORCES OPPOSITE GENDERS TO MARRY; People talk of LOVE, it is one of the factors but not the prime-most and as such I spell out the reasons in priority; 1st if SEX, 2nd is TO HAVE ONE'S OWN FAMILY, 3rd comes LOVE, 4th goes in TO AVOID LONELINESS and 5th consists in CARING-SHARING, UNDERSTANDING AND CONTRIBUTING MAXIMUM FOR UPLIFT AND HAPPINESS OF EACH OTHER. .....Read more

CORRUPTION is not only of stealing money by taking advantage of the rules, but it also relates to feelings, attitude, manners behaviour, running away from commitments, deceiving oneself against one's feelings and sentiments and to remain arrogant imbued with power and prestige, to hurt others without any fault or guilt, pronouncing oneself as honest by tolerating corruption by others working with and along, changing political allegiance in disreg .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS A PIOUS INSTITUTION, IT NEEDS TO BE RESPECTED AND RETAINED BUT CERTAINLY WITH CORRECTIONS AS THE PRESENT DEMANDS TODAY, WE MUST NEED TO REMEMBER THAT CHANGE IS ESSENTIAL, IF IT IS FOR GOOD, THE BEST AND IF DRIFTS TOWARDS THE BAD, ALL EFFORTS MUST BE DIRECTED TO DISCARD IT. So is the case with the marriage institution which was laudable for generations, is crumbling due to faults developed in its working and also due to ignoring the ne .....Read more

THE DAY SHINES IF ONE SHINES. If one is happy, everything around one will be shining and encouraging and one is in bad shape, everything will look dark and gloomy, as if all is lost, except cursing oneself, one's fate, regrets and revenges nothing else will look as an answer. If one gets up in the morning and feels that one is tired, the whole day will go by in tiresome mood and nothing positive will happen, and if one thinks, one is fit and heal .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS ALSO SETTING ANOTHER TREND, which contains in the belief that when everything changes as one feels fed up with the same in routine, whether it is in eating, wear, living in palaces still one likes to go to resorts, see the world around etc. then why to STICK TO ONE MAN OR ONE WOMAN. It is not that this trend is predominant in developed countries, it is so so in developing countries as well. I think primarily status, position and power .....Read more

LIFE IS A DRAMA. we enjoy drama but not the life. Drama is momentary and is visual excitement while life needs visual+internal excitement. Internal excitement is influenced by our thoughts, actions, dreams, fulfillment, achievements, expectations, failures etc. All these affect our mind and take our life to enjoy or regret and perhaps weep and cry. HOW TO SHAPE LIFE depends on our thinking, expectations, behaviour, environments, association, our .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS A PIOUS INSTITUTION CREATED BY SOCIETY TO BRING ABOUT SOCIAL COHESION AND PROGRESS. Alas it is fast deteriorating and it is not being well taken care of as to how to avoid its downfall and how to strengthen it. There are many reasons for the downfall, for example, family conflicts, miss-match of companions as husband and wife, flagrant expectations, stress of work, insecurity of job, preference to self-independence - no interference e .....Read more

WHY THE PARENTS LOVE AND CARE MORE FOR THE WEAKER CHILD THAN THE HARD WORKING ONE: (1) parents want to push up the weaker one to rise to the situation and perform like his/her brother/sister (2) parents believe that the hard working child is managing his/her goal himself/herself and as such it is the weaker one who needs the help and guidance (3) parents feel if the weaker one does not come up to the desired situation, he/she will be left behind .....Read more

WIFE IS CONSTRUCTOR AND DESTROYER OF THE FAMILY, WHY SO. The reasons I think are that when the girl leaves her house, parents and friends, her sole aim is to BUILD UP HER OWN FAMILY, HER OWN HOUSE AND ACCEPT HER HUSBAND AN IDEAL ONE, WITH ALL QUALITIES AND NO DEFECTS AT ALL, AND IF THESE ARE, THESE ARE OF NO IMPORTANCE AND NEED TO BE IGNORED FOR THE SAKE OF LIVING A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE, THIS IS THE PURPOSE FOR WHICH SHE DECIDES TO LEAVE ALL. It is .....Read more

God 2nd chapter.. God called the same man and asked him have you enjoyed the world I have created?The man replied I have enjoyed all the luxuries you created and more than that what man has created even up-to enjoyment with women folk world over. In this further boasted that You must be aware that You who is called Omnipresent and Almighty that man has created wonders of which perhaps You are not aware. Man had created aeroplanes, missiles, atom .....Read more

TO FIGHT WITH CHILDREN IS A CRIME, UNFORGETTABLE AND UNPARDONABLE. Conflicts with wife and even fights do quite often result in reconciliation but it is not so with the children. Soon as children become adult, earn their own living and get into liking, love affair etc. form their own views and opinions, the parents need to be conscious and considerate, which unfortunately in most cases does not happen mainly parents assume that the children are s .....Read more

ELDER SON IS DEPRIVED OF HIS EFFORTS AND CONTRIBUTION EXTRA, COMPARED TO REST OF THE MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY, I had put in an answer, in my write-up and I do not know how many benefited from my thought process nor did I receive any comments. Though law permits all children whether sons or daughters are to be given equal share, but still I believe the elder son certainly and surely contributes a lot by services, owning monetary expenses and owning r .....Read more

GOD.. How to define we believe he is Almighty,Omnipotent,Justice Giver and as such each religion has given Him different names We all must understand that calling by different names is man's creation to create divisions and upkeep their respective identities Thus I come to believe that God is one and had their been more, there would have been confusions and conflicts Then Question arises why do we believe there is God I believe none has ever seen .....Read more

FAMILY is the bondage, family is love, family is progress, family is fulfillment of parents's aspirations and also fulfillment of mine and then and also all efforts put in including deprivation of their own comforts. CAUTION; FAMILY IS BUILT WITH UNITY,RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING AND APPRECIATING THE EFFORTS OF EACH OTHER TO LIVE IN HARMONY, LOVE AND UNION OF ALL MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY. advice; KEEP UP THIS NOBLE GOAL ALWAYS IN FRONT OF YOU AND PUT IN .....Read more

MOOD AND ENVIRONMENT: I think MOOD IS MORE IMPORTANT as if mood is bad, even the best of best environments like being at resorts, travelling to places of wonder, being surrounded by nears and dears, do not help. BUT THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT ENVIRONMENTS DO PLAY A MAJOR ROLE TO CHANGE THE MOOD. If someone is in bad mood and continues to be in the same environments the bad mood will get into worse while good environments will help to soften the mood, .....Read more

LIFE IS LIKE MACHINE. As we have to grease and maintain machines, likewise it is essential that we grease and maintain our body to live longer, most probably a happy life. GREASING means what we eat, what we inhale etc. and MAINTAIN means that we have to do exercise,, meditation, yoga etc. to keep ourselves hale and hearty. HOWEVER IN CONTRAST TO MACHINES, LIFE IS FULL OF EMOTIONS which create liking, love etc. while emotions also breed disliking .....Read more

PROGRESS AND WHAT DOES IT MEAN: 13th lesson EXCEPTIONAL HAPPENINGS AND OPPORTUNITIES Exceptional circumstances and opportunities happen with almost everyone. It depends on individual when and how he/she recognises these. Many even though know that opportunities are at but fail still to seize and take advantage because of fear, responsibilities,their inabilities to harness and reap advantage out of these, while some rush with opportunities, but .....Read more

SILENCE: It is good perhaps for those who do not want to involve in discussion, criticism and taking sides while there are others who think time is a big healer and problems thus will get solved by themselves anyway. Dr Manmohan Singh became a victim of this. Modi is mum as his allegiance is with RSS while facts need answers, much against his instincts,faith and conviction. Hence we hear his roars alike a tiger when he in the outside world but .....Read more

CONGRESS IS IN CHAOS. LOST KARNATKA, LIKELY TO LOSE MAHARASHTRA. AMAZING 1. seniors ones are unable to take decision for the last 3 months about the President if so how one can trust they will be able to run and govern if ever came to power in the central government. 2. 2nd it is Rahaul's childish behaviour and then to insist that none from Gandhi family will participate or take to Presidentship. Once he as resigned, I think he should not pass th .....Read more

Shortest are the days in love hardest are the days in conflict. One prays to God to prolong days and night as much as one wishes and in hardest time one wants and prays for the end at the earliest possible God says I have sent you in this world to live and enjoy and to recount your experience on return to ME, perhaps GOD may decide to send such persons back to complete their journey and on return admire wonders God has created. Tks .....Read more

PRESENT IS LIFE,FUTURE IS HOPE, STRUGGLE AND PROGRESS. We need to learn to live with the present, make the best use of it, live contented and happily, must also know that despair and dissatisfaction multiply day by day and end up in making life unlivable. We are also to learn to realise that tomorrow will also become present, hence present is the only time which enables us to live as we want, happily or miserably. THUS FUTURE IS PROGRESS WHILE P .....Read more

GOD HAS GIVEN US BRAIN AND MIND IT DEPENDS ON EACH INDIVIDUAL HOW HE/SHE USES THESE.Any of these in excess is no good perhaps for a few but not in general. Excess dependence on brain will direct one to more and more excesses , bad, unruly and indulge one in cruel actions like dacoities, thefts, killings and what not, while excess of mind and conscience will force a person to leave this material life and get more and more involved in religious pre .....Read more

CAN BLACK TURN INTO WHITE, mostly it is said that it can shine but can never turn white. True but in life it is not so. Life gets DARK when one loses all hopes, does not want to live any more, while it becomes WHITE AND BRIGHTENS if one gears up, pulls up from the gloom, takes to association of successful persons, get close to who are well wishers, inspire and motivate him/her, reflect on causes as to why he/she is in such a state of affairs, whe .....Read more

intelligence is about learning, understanding and how logically to address various situations.How it is to be used depends on each individual. God has given us two gifts brain and mind. Brain generally runs after materialism and personal gains while mind directs towards doing good deeds and do service to others as best as one can, which in short means giving, while brain directs towards snatching and usurping. Some people argue that as per our d .....Read more

AFTER MRRIAGE CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS WHY reasons are many besides what I have cited before. These are gender bias, non acceptance of qualities of each other and to exert supremacy, both families conflicts non commitment of promises, non communication, no participation in household affairs, intolerable habits, impotent, avoiding discussions and decisions, non acceptance of wife family their attitude and behaviour, job choice clashes etc. etc. ANSWER .....Read more

IS LOVE RECIPROCAL OR ONE SIDED. Generally it is reciprocal, it is expected so and practiced. But belief I think is one sided, we love blindly and in full faith that some day love will shower on us and we will get what we have believed in and have been wanting for, while reciprocal could be tolerated for some time but not for all the time. I think wife is the only one who is ever ready to give love , always looks to the pleasure of the husband an .....Read more

SHOULD PARENTS DEPEND ON THEIR CHILDREN, ANSWER, I WILL SAY NO, LARGELY AS MUCH AS THEY ARE CONVINCED AND HAVE MEANS TOO. Parents do their best to see that their children are able to fulfill their dreams and turn out the best of the best and in return expect that their children will take care of them, which in many cases does not happen especially in this modern age wherein almost every child wants to have his/her freedom and live in the manner h .....Read more

HOW TO FACE A STUBBORN PERSON. It is very difficult as he/she is like a hard nut to crack, but when one strikes hard, it breaks. Same could be the case with a stubborn person. To deal with such a person, it is essential to know why he/she is like that and what are his/her weaknesses. Principally such a person feels that whatever he/she says/does is right and is unquestionable. His/her requirement is that there is no CONTRADICTION. Hence it is imp .....Read more

MARRIAGE IS SOOTHING AND COOLING FACTOR AGAINST ANGER which is also subjected to 1. self consciousness that anger does no good, rather instead harms self 2. why not to substitute again by other means of listening, understanding etc. which cause anger 3. change environments which seem to provoke one to anger 4. non-tolerance to opposition 5. finding no answer to the problem except to get into anger etc. etc. MARRIAGE BECOMES THE COOLING FACTOR al .....Read more

PROGRESS WHAT DOES IT MEAN; 11th lesson; The greater one expands his horizon, the more knowledge one acquires, more ambitious one becomes and learns to work hard, compete and to excel others of acquaintance as also the ones imagined. ALAS everyone can't increase his/her horizon which depends on one's means to travel, see the world around, do sight seeing and meet people with different cultures, their mode of life etc. If one can't travel one can .....Read more

AFTER MARRIAGE, CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS WHY; 4th reason:(a) LACK OF PRIOR GUIDANCE BY PARENTS (b) how and under conditions both the husband and wife were brought up, maybe there were conflicts and fights in the parents, the habits and conduct of the child were ignored and tolerated by family of either or both husband and wife, (c) lot of difference between the status of 2 families (d) hopes and expectations variant with each other etc. etc. (e) have .....Read more

ESSENTIAL TO SCRUTINISE DOLES PUBLICISED BY VARIOUS STATES/PARTIES BEFORE AND DURING ELECTIONS AND/OR AT ELECTION TIME. ALAS, AFTER GETTING ELECTED AND GETTING INTO POWER, TO FILL UP EMPTY TREASURY BOXES, THEY RESORT TO MORE AND MORE TAXES TO EXPLOIT THE MASSES KNOWING WELL THAT THE PUBLIC IN THEIR STATE ETC. CAN'T DO ANYTHING. IT IS PITY BUT IT IS TRICK OF DEMOCRACY WHICH ENABLES THE ELECTION MONGERS TO MAKE MORE AND MORE PROMISES, TO GET ELECTE .....Read more

EACH NEWLY BORN CHILD HAS WINGS, IS NOT SURPRISING. It is a fact. As the child starts growing, the wings he/she was born with, continue growing, some get strengthened while in some case these remain dormant and finally die natural death. THE WINGS GET TO GROW due to (1) in-born aptitude and qualities, (2) grow up by parents care and guidance (3) studies shape these up (4) society and environments encourage to mold these up (5) comparison with .....Read more

INTELLIGENCE IS NO GOOD IF NOT DEVELOPED INTO WISDOM which develops when one faces many problems and gives answers to those, the more the ticklish and taxing situations are tackled, the more wisdom develops and encourages to take decisions concerning small and big situations. Soon after wisdom is achieved, VISION IS IMPORTANT, which many fail to develop as it involves elaborate studies of how the situations are shaping up in the neighbourhood, in .....Read more

THE POORER ONE IS, THE HARDER HE/SHE WORKS. Why so. It is a compulsion as the one is born, needs to survive and to survive, to fill one's belly and to have a shelter get essential and as one grows, one feels the urge to get married. In contrast, the poorer one is, the more children one has, why so as he/she has no outings except to live and enjoy with each other. IN CONTRAST, THE RICHER ONE IS, THE LESSER ONE FEELS THE URGE TO WORK. Why so, as on .....Read more

RELIGION WAS CREATED TO UNIFY THE PEOPLE TO LIVE TOGETHER IN PEACE, LOVE AND CELEBRATIONS ALIKE. Alas religion has got into many forms and names and as such CONFLICTS EMERGED AMONGST THEM TO GROW THEIR RESPECTIVE NUMBERS WITH THEIR RESPECTIVE BELIEFS, IN MANY CASES DEPRECATING AND DEMOLISHING OTHER RELIGIONS. History is full of conflicts and wars fought on the basis of religion. Despite all this Christianity and Muslim religions remain predomin .....Read more

LOVE AWAITED; Trees and plants await love of rain, howsoever watering we may do, rain makes a difference, it seems, with rain all trees and plants dance in joy to forget the onslaught of the heat of the sun in summer. Likewise children especially when small await mother to take them into her lap, kiss them and shower love on them. It happens with children whose mothers are working mothers, estranged mothers and at times separated by time and circ .....Read more

CHANCES COME TO EVERYONE IN LIFE, few grab it, quite a few fail to analyse the importance of chance, many decide not take it as each chance is fraught with risk, compulsion not to lose the present one for the uncertain one and/or compelled by family compulsions. ALL THESE FACTORS ARE TRUE in the circumstances one lives in BUT I WILL SAY MANY DO NOT TRUST THEMSELVES AND THEIR CAPACITIES and thus do not feel inclined to take risk in the new chance .....Read more

ONE NATION AND ONE ELECTION; I agree to ONE NATION in diversity of religions and beliefs, to live in peace and accept constitution as bible, quran etc. Religion is congregation of same thoughts and customs of living which helps the believers of same religion to practice religion and live in peace. Further if one religion has the right to live in peace in his/her religion, others have also have also the same right to live in peace. HENCE COHESION .....Read more

GARDENER IS THE LIFE OF THE FLOWER, LIKEWISE HUSBAND IS THE LIFE OF THE WIFE. How and in what manner? Gardner imagines which type of flower he should sow, at which soil and in which area. Likewise husband also imagines to marry, looks up for the best mate, family members and the status they all hold. This effort I have put into write-up HOW TO SELECT A PARTNER. As the gardener selects the seed, likewise the husband also looks up as to who could b .....Read more

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Love awaited; Trees and plants await love of rain, howsoever watering we may do, rain makes a difference, it seems, with rain all trees and pl .....Read more

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I feel after marriage the wife must remain in the house of the husband for a few days whereby she will be able to know how the family especially the mother-in-law behave, whether she is being liked criticized, how her husband is accommodating her and taking care of her with none so near except her husband, HONEYMOON as such will give an opportunity for ap .....Read more

Conclusion; It is practically impossible for a normal person to be PERFECT but if one makes effort, one will surely be near the goal, maybe one may achieve it. It is said that perfect persons like Lord Rama, Lord Krishna, Budha etc. were GODs Messengers to correct the human beings on this earth and guide them how to live in harmony with others an .....Read more

Both are worst I think, both need reflexion why, what was the purpose of marriage and what will be the consequences if divorce happens. (2) Also should one continue with estranged relationship or better divorce? Both stages are the worst, can one mend and avoid, live with it or decide to break. Answer: I feel divorce one should think of o .....Read more

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As life goes on, one develops maturity. Likewise marriage guidance new concept has become almost mature enough to provide the desiring aspirants matches of their choice and is also trying to get over the janampatri problem which is essential part of relationship with many aspirants and their families and whereyby the relationship is not tied despite that fact that boy and girl approve each other and so do the families.Therefore in order to avoid .....Read more

  STRESS what it means: It means your faculties get strained due to

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