IF SOMEONE IS ADMANANT AND DOESN'T LISTEN TO REASONING, THEN WHAT TO DO IS THE QUESTION; I THINK IN SUCH A SITUATION 1. NOT TO INSIST AND AS SUCJH NOT TO AGGRAVATE THE SITUATION 2. BETTER NOT TO ARGUE AND JUSTIFY YOUSELF, BETTER TO IGNORE, KEEP QUIET OR TAKE TO SOME OTHER TOPIC, DEPENDING ON THE MOOD OF THE PERSON WHO IS ADAMANT 3. REMAIN IN THE COMPANY AS OTHERWISE THE SITUATION WILL EXPLODE AND WILL TURN FOR THE WORST. 4. NEVER THINK OF RAKING UP THE SAME SUBJECT TO JUSTIFY YOURSELF, DESPITE THERE BEING QUIET MOMENTS, AS OTHERWISE ADAMANT PERSON WILL QUICKLY GET INTO ANGER AND AS SUCH PROBLEM WILL START. 5. IGNORE AND FORGET THE TOPIC AS IF NOTHING HAPPENED AND IT HAS NO SIGNIFANCE ANY MORE. 6. BE PATIENT, DO NOT GET ENTRAPPED OR INCITED THE INSISTANCE OF THE ADMANANT PERSON IN HIS/HER .......JUSTIFICATION. 7. NEVER NEVER GET INTO ANGER AND/OR CREATE AN IMPRESSION OF AVOIDANCE AS OTHERWISE ARGUMENTS AND ANGER WILL START IN JUSTIFICATION ETC. 8. BE TOLERANT AND KEEP YOUR POSTURE CALM AND QUIET AS IF NOTHING HAS HAPPENED. ......................................................................... views expressed by vasdev, founder of marriage guidance new concept to conact: 9811943867 vasdevloone@gmail.com