BETWEEN FAMILY AND FRIENDSHIP WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT AND WHY? AT THE VERY OUTSET, I WILL SAY BOTH ARE IMPORTANT. FAMILY IS THE FOUNDATION WHILE FRIENDSHIP IS THE BONDAGE OF TOGETHERNESS TO CHAT FREELY WHATEVER ONE WISHES TO TALK, IT IS A PLATFORM OF RELAXATION , IT IS THE PLATFORM FOR DISCUSSION AND REACHING A DECISION AND CONCESUS OF VARIANT VIEWS. IT IS BOOSTER OF LIFE AND HAPPINESS. IT GENERATES FAITH OF SECRECY TO TALK OVER AND CONSULT ON TICKLISH AND VEXED ISSUS WITHOUT ANY FEAR OF EXPLOITATION OF SECRETS IN WHATSOEVER MANNER AND FORMS NEITHER FOR SELF INTERESTS NOR BY TEMPTATIONS. EQUALLY IMPORTANT IS THAT FRIENDSHIP COVERS WEAKNESSES OF EACH OTHER AND/OR WHOSOEVER IS AFFECTED BY ADVERSARIES RIGHTLY OR WRONGLY. FRIENDSHIP IS A PILLAR OF CONSOLIDATION OF SAME INTERESTS AND IS A CHALLENGE TO FACE OFF ALL ODDS AND ENJOY THE REWARDS TOGETHER. FAMILY ON THE OTHER HAND IS A CREATION, IT IS THE FOUNDATION AND SYMBOL OF HOMOGENETY OF INDIVIDUAL INTERESTS PUT TOGETHER FOR DEVELOPMENT AND PROGRESS TOGETHER. IT MAY DEVELOP FRICTIONS AT TIMES BUT ALL STAND TOGETHER AGAINST FOES AND ENEMIES IF EVER IT HAPPENS. IT IS THE INSTITUTION OF NATURAL LOVE, IT CREATES URGE AND ENTHUSIAMS TO REALISE PROGRESS OF THE FAMILY TOGETHER IRRESPCTIVE OF HOW MUCH HARDER EFFORTS EACH MEMBER OF THE FAMILY HAS TO PUT IN INDIVIDUALLY AND SEPARATELY, THE ONLY AND PRIMEMOST AIM OF THE FAMILY REMAINS HOW TO ACHIEVE PROGRESS OF THE FAMILY AND MOVE IT FORWARD TO BETTER IT IN ALMOST ALL SPHERES OF LIFE. IT IS THE CREATION AND REALISATION OF MINE AND THINE AND TO TAKE PRIDE DESPITE THE AMOUNT OF EFFORTS AND SACRIFICES INVOLVED AND ARE REQUIRED TO ACHIEVE ITS CHERISHED GOAL OF PROGRESS AND LOVE. FAMILY IS A THE UNION WHILE FRIENDSHIP IS A UNITY. FAMILY DESPITE DIVERGENCES REMAINS KNIT TOGETHER IN LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP WHILE FRIENDSHIP SUFFERS AND IS THROWN APART IN SELF INTERESTS, IN ADVERSITIES AND IMPORTANTLY AS RESPONSIBILITIES OF EACH MEMBER INCEASE FOR HIS/HEROWN FAMILY. IN CONCLUSION BOTH FAMILY AND FRIENDSHIP ARE IMPORTANT, EACH ONE SUPPLEMENTS THE OTHER BUT FRIENDSHIP CAN CONTINUE AND GROW IF ONE IS SATISFIED AND HAPPY IN ONE’S OWN FAMILY AND NOT VICE VERSA. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. Perceived and narrated by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau NGO for contact: vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.in www.facebook.com