CHANGE AND TRANSFORMATION ARE ESSENTIAL LIVE NORMAL AND HAPPIER LIFE 21-3-21


21 March 2021 03:56

CHANGE AND TRANSFORMATION ARE ESSENTIAL TO LIVE A NORMAL AND HAPPIER LIFE WITH PRUDENCE. OF COURSE.. I BEEN DEFEATED AND SOMEONE STRONGER HAS TAKEN OVER MY PLACE, WAS AT THAT TIME FAMILY UNITY AND NOW THERE ARE FRICTIONS AND FIGHTS, IS THAT IT WAS INITIAL LOVE IN MARRIAGE AND THAT NOW THAT LOVE HAS CHANGED INTO ARGUMENTS AND TUG OF WAR AS TO WHO IS TO RULE IN THE HOUSE AND HOW THE FAMILY IS TO BE RUN AND DECISIONS TAKEN, WHY IT IS SO, HAVE THE CIRCUMSTANCES CHANGED OR MY THINKING HAS CHANGED TO AVOID CONFLICTS AND BE PRUDENT TO ACCEPT AND ADJUST, WAS I HAPPY WHEN I WAS POWERFUL AND/OR I AM HAPPY NOW IN RESILIENCE AND ACCEPTANCE, DO I ACCEPT ALL THESE CHANGES WILLINGLY OR UNDER COMPULSION, IS IT WISDOM AND EXPERIENCE OR IT A NATURAL PROCESS OF LIFE WHICH MEANS WHEN ONE IS PHYSICALLY STRONG AND IS HOLDING POWER OF ALL SORTS FINANCIAL, GOVERNANCE, GROUPS, COERCIION ETC. AND NOW ACCEPTANCE IS THERE AS THAT STRENGTH IS LOST AND THAT POWER HAS BEEN TAKEN AWAY BY MY COMPETITOTS AND/OR BY CHILDREN ETC. ETC., DO I BELIEVE THAT CHANGE IS A NATURAL PHENOMENON AND IT HAPPENS WHETHER WANTED OR NOT, THEN I DO COME TO BELIEVE THAT WITH THE PASSAGE OF TIME, I AM ALSO REQUIRED TO CHANGE, DO I ALSO BELIEVE THAT AS RIVER GOES ON MOVING FORWARD AND NEVER MOVES BACKWARD , LIKEWISE WHATEVER HAPPENED GOOD OR BAD, IS NEVER TO COME BACK, IT IS GONE FOR EVER AND NOW I NEED TO MOVE WITH THE PRESENT, IN FAMILY WHEN I GOT MARRIED, ALL WAS BEING DONE AND RULEED AS I WANTED, AND NOW I ACCEPT AS I AM TOLD OR DICTATED, I WAS A CONTROL AND FEAR FOR THE CHILDREN, AND NOW I AM AFRAID OF MY CHILDREN LEST RETALIATION HAPPENS AND/OR I MAY LOSE THEM AND RELATIONSHIP FOR EVER, SO ON AND SO FORTH. IN CONCLUSION, THE MOMNT ONE REALISES THAT ALL HAPPENS IN YOUTH NEITHER IN CHILDHOOD NOR IN OLD AGE. EACH AND EVERYTHING BLOOMS AND SHINES AT SOME TIME AND DURING SOME TIME, AND DOES STARTS FADING SLOWLY SLOWLY AND A STAGE COMES WHEN ONE DISAPPEARS OR LIES DOWN MORE OR LIKE A ROTTEN AND DRIED LEAF, LEFT OVER TO BE CRUSHED BY NATURE AND ALSO BY ALL PASSERSBY, SO IS THE FACT OF EACH AND EVERY HUMAN BEING, AND AS SUCH THE SOONER ONE REALISES THIS FACT, THE NORMAL AND PROBABLY HAPPIER LIFE ONE CAN LEAD AND WHAT IS CALLED LIVE WITH THE PRESENT, RECALLING THE PAST IS CRUEL, DEALING WITH THE PRESENT IS STRUGGLE AND DREAMING FOR THE FUTURE, IS BENEFICIAL FROM CHILDHOOD TO YOUTHFULNESS AND IN OLD AGE DREAMING IS FUTILE, FULL OF REPENTANCE AND REGRETS. CONCLUSION; MOVE WITH THE TIME AND LEARN TO LIVE AND ENJOY IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES IN WHATEVER FORM AND MANNER THESE UNVEIL. ........................................................................... narrated by vasdevloond founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau NGO, to contact vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.in www. facebook.com