DO THE CHILDREN LOVE MOTHER MORE THAN THE FATHER OR EQUAL 12-1-21


12 January 2021 03:16

DO CHILDREN LOVE MOTHER MORE THAN THE FATHER OR EQUAL. I WAS WONDERING WHETHER THE CHILDREN LOVE MOTHER MORE OR THE FATHER OR EQUALLY. THOUGH IT IS A DIFFICULT QUESTION BUT STILL I WOULD LIKE TO PUT SOME VIEWS. 1. I THINK CHILDREN DO PICK AND CHOOSE AND AS PER THEIR REQUIREMENT THEY ADDRESS MOTHER OR THE FATHER. 2. CHILDREN HAVE EASY ACCESS TO MOTHER AND CAN SAY ANY AND EVERYTHING TO MOTHER AND FEEL FREE TO DEMAND, BE UNHAPPY, ANNOYED AND AT TIMES REFUSE AS WELL WHILE WITH FATHER IT IS NOT POSSIBLE AND WITH FATHER, CHILDREN NEED TO THINK WHAT AND WHEN TO TALK '3. AS FATHER'S BEHAVIOUR IS RESTRICTIVE, AND DESPITE DIALOGUING WITH THE CHILDREN, STILL WITH FATHER SOME SORT OF FEAR DOES REMAIN WHICH IS COMPLETELY ABSENT IN CASE OF BEHAVING WITH MOTHER. 3. TO GET SOME DEMAND ACCEPTED BY FATHER, IN ORDER TO AVOID ALL SORTS OF QUESTIONING, CHILDREN PREFER TO GET THEIR MESSAGE PASSED THROUGH MOTHER. 4. HOWEVER IT DEPENDS ON VARIOUS TYPES OF SUBJECTS WHICH CHILDREN WOULD LIKE TO CONSULT THEIR FATHER, GENERALLY ABOUT THEIR CAREER. 5. REGARDING THEIR LIKING FOR A GIRL AND VICE VERSA, CHILDREN FIND IT EASY AND CONVENIENT TO TALK TO MOTHER AND ON THE CONTRARY FEEL AFRAID TO TALK AND EVEN LET FATHER KNOW ABOUT IT. 6. FATHER IS MORE EXACTING WHILE MOTHER IS EMOTIONAL. 6. FATHER IF GETS ANNOYED AND ANGRY, IT TAKES LOT OF TIME TO RECONCILE WHILE MOTHER RECONCILES NOT ONLY EASILY BUT ALSO TENDS TO FORGET AND PARDON. 7. FATHER TENDS TO TEACH DISCIPLINE TO THE CHILDREN WHILE MOTHER ASSISTS BUT HARDLY ENFORCES. 8. CHILDREN REMEMBER MOTHER FOR ANY ISSUE AND ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY FIND THEMSELVES IN DIFFICULTIES AND A LOT WHEN THEY FIND MOTHER NO MORE, WHILE FATHER IS REMEMBERED WHEN CHILDREN FIND SOME DIFFULCTIES IN BUSINESS, PAST EXPERIENCES NARRATED TO OR OBSERVED BY THE CHILDREN AND/OR TO SEEK SOME ADVICE WHICH THE CHILDREN FIND ESSENTIAL TO ASK. 9. FATHER IS CONSERVATIVE WHILE MOTHER IS VERY LIBERAL. 10. CONTROLLING POWER IN ALL CRUCIAL MATTERS REMAINS WITH THE FATHER AND IT IS GENALLY DEVOLVES ON HIM TO SETTLE SUCH ISSUES,LISTEN TO ARGUMENTS, DISCRIMINBATION, PARTIALITY, ANNOYANCE ETC. WHILE MOTHER PLAYS THE ROLE AS CONCILIATORY BETWEEN THE HUSBAND AND THE CHILDREN. 9. BETWEEN THE HUSBAND AND WIFE, IF THE WIFE ASSUMES STRONGER ROLE, THERE IS TENDENCY THAT CHILDREN'S UPBRINGING AND FORMATION WILL BE LACKING AND WANTING, I THINK, TO A GREAT EXTENT. AFTER HAVING MADE THE ABOVE ANALYSIS, NOW COMING TO THE QUESTION WHETHER CHILDREN LOVE MOTHER OR THE FATHER OR BOTH. MY ANSWER TO THIS WILL BE THAT CHILDREN LOVE FATHER AND MOTHER BOTH EQUALLY BUT DEAL WITH FATHER RESTRICTIVELY WHILE WITH MOTHER IN ANY MANNER AND AT ANY TIME. FURTHER IF THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE PARENTS IS CONGENIAL, HARMONIOUS, THE LOVE OF THE CHILDREN WILL BE MOSTLY EQUAL AND IF THE RELATIONSHIP AMONGST THE PARENTS DOESN'T GO WELL, THERE IS TENDENCY THAT CHILDREN WILL EXTEND MORE LOVE TO MOTHER. FURTHER NATURE DICTATES THAT HUMAN BEINGS LOVE THE OPPOSITES MORE AND IT IS GENERALLY REFLECTED IN RELATIONSHIP OF FATHER'S LOVE FOR DAGHTER AND VICE VERSA AND MOTHER FOR SONS AND VICE VERSA. IN CONCLUSION ROLE OF HUSBAND AND WIFE IS ESSENTIAL TO EMBRACE LOVE FOR CHILDREN AND FROM CHILDREN WHEN HUSBAND AND WIFE SUPPORT EACH OTHER IN THEIR BEHAVIOUR WITH THE CHILDREN, THE CHILDREN WILL TEND TO LOVE BOTH EQUALLY. tks ................................................................. narrated by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau NGO , to contact vasdevloond 9811943867, vasdevloond@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.in www.facebook.com