-EVERYONE WANTS TO LIVE A HAPPY AND COMFORTABLE LIFE -ALAS MANY WISH, BUT HARDLY A FEW SUCCEED TO ACHIEVE IT -WHY IT IS SO, IS THE QUESTION -IN GENERAL, THE MORE ONE HAS THE MORE ONE WANTS, GREED MULTIPLIES -ON THE CONTRARY THOSE WHO ARE POOR -LIVE TOGETHER UNITED, IN LOVE AND MOSTLY IN PEACE. -THE FACT THEREFORE REMAINS, THE MORE CREATES CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS WHILE MEAGRE RESOURCES CREATE LOVE AND TOGETHERNESS -WHY SO, IT IS SIMPLY BECAUSE OF POOR MEANS AND UNDERSTANDING IF THEY ALL REMAIN UNITED, THEY WILL PROGRESS AND BETTER THEIR LOT WHILE DIVIDEDLY THEY WILL FALL AND WILL BE NO WHE, HAVE NO MEANS TO FALL BACK UPON -ONE MAY CALL DUE TO COMPULSION OF CIRCUMSTANCES -NO, I WILL SAY THAT TOTALLY A GOOD UNDERSTANDING OF LIVING TOGETHER UNITED, IN PEACE AND LOVE, AND AS SUCH MAKE ALL EFFORTS TO POOL THEIR RESOURCES AND PROGRESS AS BEST AS THEY CAN AND IF NOT MUCH, AT LEAST THEY DO ALL TO BETTER THE WELLBEING AND BRINGING UP OF THEIR CHILDREN. -FURTHER AS THEY REMAIN BUSY MOST OF THE TIME BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE, BROHERS AND SISTERS, ON RETURN HOME, THEY GET BUSY WITH THEIR KITCHEN AND HOUSEHOLD AFFAIRS THAN LOOK TO WHO IS DOING MORE OR WHO IS DOING LESS -ON THE OTHER HAND, THE RICH PRACTICALLY HAVE NOTHING TO DO, THERE ARE SERVANTS, MAIDS ETC. ARE LEFT WITH MOST OF THE TIME FREE, NOTHING TO DO, HENCE GET INTO JEALOUSIES, GREED AND FIGHTS. -THEN THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER TO LIVE HAPPILY IS DUE TO HARD WORK OR DUE TO DESTINY OR DUE TO UNDERSTANDING AND COOPERATION OR THROUGH LUCK. -TRUE LUCK MAY HELP, BUT IT IS UNKNOWN HENCE IT BETTER GOES IN UNDERSTANDING, BETTER PLANNING AND LIVING IN LOVE AND TOGETHERNESS, WHICH I WILL CALL AS MAN’S CREATION. -THEN HAPPINESS DOES NOT SIMPLY DEPEND ON THE MONETARY STATUS AND COMFORT BUT IT ALSO DEPENDS ON MANY MORE FACTORS LIKE WHETHER ONE HAS CHILDREN, ARE THESE WELL SETTLED, THERE ARE NO CONFLICTS AMONGST THEM AND/OR WITH THE PARENTS. WHICH AGAIN GENERALLY HAPPENS WHEN ONE HAS MORE TO LIVE COMFORTABLY, THE CONFLICTS THEY ENGAGE IN DEMANDING MORE AND MORE, ENGAGING IN COMPARISON ABOUT THE PROGRESS EACH ONE MAKES ETC. ETC. HAVING SAID ALL THIS ABOUT HOW ONE LIVES THE PRESENT AND HOW ONE IS TO ONE’S LIFE IN OLD AGE. THE BEST PART IS TO LIVE ON ONE’S OWN AS A COUPLE AND NOT TO BOTHER FOR CHILDREN NOR CREATE AMBITIONS ANY MORE. IF DONE SO, POSSIBLY ONE CAN LIVE A COMFORTABLE AND HAPPY LIFE AS A COUPLE. Conclusion: more creates problems, less creates miseries, then it is the understanding, cooperation, love and no comparison of mine and thine, all these help one to live a comfortable and happy life. BETTER PLAN AND FORESEE LEST YOU MAY FALL WITH NO RECOURSE AT ALL. THOSE WHO BELIEVE AND ACT UPON, DO ENSURE TO LIVE LIFE AS THEY PLAN AND WANT. ……………………………………………………………………………………………. By vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, Cost free marriage bureau, incepted since 2015: contacts Vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com