HAPPINESS IS THE GOAL WHICH IS RARELY ACHIEVED AS LUST FOR POWER, EGO, MINE-THINE, SUPERIORITY COMPLEX ETC. STAND AS FORMIDABLE ROADBLOCS. LIFE NEEDS TO CREATE MOTTO IN LIFE WHAT ONE WANTS AND THEN TO MOVE ON WITH FULL CONVICTION. MOST OF THE TIME ONE FORGETS THE MOTTO AND QUITE OFTEN IS WAYLAID BY EGO, NON-FULFILMENT, WRONG DECISION ETC. MOTTO NEEDS TO BE WELL THOUGHT OVER, ONCE DECISION IS TAKEN, ONE NEEDS TO FOLLOW IT TO ACHIEVE BY ALL MEANS, BY PERHAPS SOME CORRECTIONS HERE AND THERE. IN MARRIAGE, THE MOTTO OF LIFE IS HAVE A SPOUSE WITH WHO COOPERATION AND ASSOCIATION ONE IS TO CREATE A HAPPY AND PROGRESSIVE FAMILY, BUT UNFORTUNATELY MANY FAIL BELIEVING THAT THEY DID A WRONG CHOICE, INSTEAD OF REALISING THE MOTTO OF MARRIAGE AND INSTEAD GET TO CURSING THE DESTINY, MAKING WRONG CHOICE, THAN LOOKING INTO CAUSES AND WORK ON CORRECTIONS, LIKEWISE WHEN HAPPINESS IS THE GOAL, ONE NEEDS TO REALISE AS TO WHAT ADVANTAGES IT BRINGS IN THE PERSON CONCERNED, ONE WILL FIND THAT IT KEEPS ONE IN PEACE, CREATES LOVE FOR HUMAN BEINGS, AND DOES ENABLE ONE TO REALISE THE NEED AS A SOCIAL BEING, TO LIVE IN LOVE AND HARMONY WITH OTHERS. ONCE SUCH A REALISATION IS BUILT UP, ALL FACTORS WHICH AFFECT THE MOTTO, WILL WITHER AWAY AND WILL INSTEAD ENSURE A HAPPIY AND HEALTHY LIFE. tks vasdevloond