HOPE AND LIFE GO TOGETHER WHEN BORN, HOPE EMERGES,WHEN ONE DIES, HOPE VANISHES. HOPE IS CREATION OF ALL WHAT WE ARE ENJOYING IN THIS WORLD, SOME TIME HOPE VANISHES WHEN ONE IS ALIVE AND THIS HAPPENS WHEN ONE SUFFERS SO MUCH THAT ONE HOPES NOTHING AND PRAYS INSTEAD FOR END OF ONE'S LIFE. .... HENCE UNDOUBTEDLY LIFE IS HOPE AND HOPE IS LIFE. HOPE IS LIFE. ONE GETS MARRIED, BUILDS HOPE TO HAVE CHILDREN, WORKS DAY AND NIGHT, MAKE ALL SORTS OF SACRIFICES IN HOPE THAT THEIR CHILDREN WILL NOT ONLY FULFILL THIS UNACCOMPLISHED DREAMS BUT WILL ALSO BRING PROMINENCE TO FEEL PROUD AND ALSO LIVE IN HOPE THAT THEIR CHILDREN WILL BE THE RESPITE, RESOURCES AND HELP IN THEIR OLD AGE..... ALAS IN THE CHANGED WORLD, IT IS NOT HAPPENING, WHICH IS CREATING THE FEEL AS WHY TO HAVE CHILLDREN AND ALSO IF TO HAVE CHILDREN, WHAT FOR, ONE CAN'T COUNT ON THEM ON OLD AGE, THEY HAVE THEIR OWN PROBLEMS OF THEIR OWN FAMILIES, INSECURITY IN JOBS AND INSECURITY OF MARRIED LIFE. .. SOCIAL SECURITY OF THE STATE AND INSURANCES HAVE COME INTO BEING, WHICH ARE NO DOUBT AN ASSISTANCE TO LIVE BUT IN NO MANNER ARE SECURITY FOR OLD AGE AND TO REPLACE MINE-THINE AND BE PRESENT AT THE END OF THEIR LIFE IF NOT BEFORE. ... WONDER I AND COME TO BELIEVE THAT LIKE ANIMALS, PARENTS WILL TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN SUBJECT IF THEY MARRY WHICH ALSO WILL BE A RARE PHENOMENON, TO STAND ON THEIR OWN AND THEN TO FORGET THEM AND TO SPEND THEIR OLD AGE IN WHATEVER MANNER IT COMES ABOUT, GOOD OR BAD, IN HAPPINESS OR IN REGRETS. ADDED THAT AS MARRIAGES ARE GETTING SHORT LIVED, PERHAPS SINGLES WILL BECOME CURRENT, RECOUNTING THEIR PAST STORIES TO EACH OTHER, REGRETTING WHY IT HAPPENED AND WHY I COULD NOT TOLERATE AND BEAR WITH, AND AT LAST AWAIT EVERY DAY END OF LIFE, HEARING EVERY DAY THIS RELATION OR FRIEND IS GONE AND PERHAPS FEELING DEAD DESPITE BEING ALIVE. .. PATHATIC FUTURE, ALAS NO CHOICE, IT WILL HAPPEN IN ANY CASE. tks vasdevloond@gmail.com founder marriage guidance new concept, cost free social organisation NGO