HOW TO BETTER ONE’S LOT AND NOT TO REPEAT MISTAKES/ACTIONS WHICH CAUSED LOSS,PAIN, SETBACK ETC. -FIRST OF ALL IT IS ESSENTIAL TO ANALYSE AS TO WHAT WENT WRONG -CERTAINLY GET INTO DEPTH OF THE LOSS, PAIN SETBACK, AS TO HOW IT HAPPENED, WHY IT HAPPENED, WHAT WERE THE CAUSES -BE SURE NOT AND NEVER TO HURLE BLAME ON OTHERS AS IT WILL NOT BRING YOU THE SOLUTION, EXCEPT STRESS, STRAIN AND PERHAPS TAKING WRONG DECISION AND AS SUCH AGGRAVATING THE SITUATION. -HENCE SUCH A PROCESS IS CALLED “INTROSPECTION” WHICH MEANS THAT YOU ARE NOT AVOIDING THE RESPONSIBILITIES AND INSTEAD ARE SERIOUS AND DETERMINED TO CHECK, REFLECT AS TO HOW AND WHY SUCH A SUFFERENCE HAS HAPPENED DESPITE MY ALL PRUDENCE AND CARE. -ONCE ANALYTICAL STUDY HAS BEEN DONE, AND CAUSES ARE KNOWN, THEN IT IS ESSENTIAL TO WORK ON ACTION WHICH COULD BEST BE TERMED AS ‘TRANSFORMATION; -WHICH MEANS THAT I NEED TO CHANGE MY ATTITUDE, BEHAVIOUR, SYSTEMS, ACTION, WAY OF THINKING, SYSTEMS AND PROCEDURES, HOW TO EMPLOY, DEAL BEHAVE, SUPERVISE AND IF NECESSARY TO TAKE ACTION -IN CAUSES FOR LOSS, PAIN, PERHAPS FOLLOWING COULD BE THE FACTORS WHICH WERE NEITHER TAKEN CARE NOR REFLECTED: - EMBITTEMENT OF FAMILY RELATIONS – NO COMMUNICATION NO CARING NOR LISTENING EITHER ETC. -GOT BUSY AND EMBROILED WITH SOME OTHER ISSUES AND NEGLECTED THE PRESENT, WHICH CAUSED THIS DAMAGE -NEGLECTED WORKING OF THE ORGANISATION, AFFECTED BY COMPETITION, UNIONISM, SABOTAGE, DISSATISFACTION ETC. -NEGLECTED AND AVOIDED TO TAKE TO SERIOUSNESS ABOUT CIRUMSTANCES FROM OUTSIDE WORLD WHICH WERE LIKELY TO AFFECT THE BUSINESS, RELATED AND UNRELATED MATTERS. -EGO, POWER, SELF ASSUMED CONFIDENCE IN ACTIONS AND DECISIONS TAKEN. -THERE COULD BE MANY MORE REASONS AS WELL -BUT IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT CAUSES NEED TO BE DISCERNED ANSWERS EXPLORED, AND DECISION GETS ESSENTIAL TO EFFECT CHANGES BASED ON THE DECISION TAKEN -IN BEHAVIOUR IT COUL BE CALLED TRANSFORMATION -IN BUSINESS IT COULD ALSO MEAN TRANSFORMATION IN ATTITUDE, BEHAVIOUR, ACTIONS WELL REFLECTED AND WELL DELIBERATED TO EFFECT CHANGES IN SYSTEMS AND BEHAVIOUR OF SELF AND THOSE WORKING IN THE ORGANISATION.. ………………………………………………………………………………….. Written by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau, to contact vasdevloond at 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.vasdevloond@marriageguidance.in www.facebook: vasdevloond