HANDBAND AND WIFE WHEN ONE PASSES AWAY WHAT A PATHETIC AND HORRIBLE SITUATION ARISES WHEN ONE OF THE TWO WHO HAVE BEEN LIVING WHOLE OF THEIR LIFE IN TOGETHERNESS AND ENJOYMENT, ONE OF THE TWO DISAPPEARS. IT IS SAID THAT LIFE AND DEATH ARE IN GOD’S HAND AND IT IS DETERMINED AND WRITTEN DOWN BEFORE BIRTH IT IS ALSO SAID THAT COUPLES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN I WONDER THEN WHY GOD DOES NOT DECIDE AND WRITE DOWN THE SPAN OF LIFE OF THE SO CALLED CREATED COUPLES TO DIE AT THE SAME TIME, AT THE SAME MOMENT AND TOGETHER. HOW HORRIBLE AND PATHETIC FOR THE ONE WHO IS LEFT BEHIND AFTER THE DEATH OF THE PARTNER WITH WHOM HE/SHE HAS LIVED WHOLE OF HIS/HER LIFE WE ALL CAN IMAGINE AND SYMPATHISE BUT THE REALITY OF PAIN AND LOSS ONLY THE ONE WHO IS LEFT BEHIND KNOWS AND IS COMPELLED TO BEAR WITH AND ADJUST IN LIFE. ALSO THAT ONE HAS TO ACCEPT IT AS ONE’S FATE TO SUFFER PERHAPS MORE THAN THE SUFFERINGS ONE HAS GONE THROUGH IN LIFE STRUGGLE, IN THIS GIVEN HELPLESSNESS THERE IS NO RECOURSE LEFT EXCEPT TO ACCEPT THE WILL AND WISH OF ALMIGHTY AND LIVE IN AS BEST AS ONE CAN, THOUGH MISERABLE IT IS, BUT ONE HAS NECESSARIY TO ADJUST WITH AND LIVE ON WITH IT. PERHAPS TO REMAIN BUSY AND OCCUPIED IN THE VOCATION OF ONE’S LIKING, DEVOTE TO WORSHIP, GET TO ENGAGE IN SOCIAL ACTIVITIES ETC. COULD BE THE BEST ANSWER AS LIVING ALONE AND DOING NOTHING, WILL BRING IN CURSE OF LIFE, REGETS, REPENTANCE, RECALL OF THE PAST, GOOD OR BAD, SINS OF SOME SORTS ETC.ETC. AND FINALLY LOSS OF LIFE IN MISERIES AND IN MISERABLE CONDITION. BEST ANSWER SHALL REMAIN BELIEVE IN THE DECISION OF THE CREATOR AND MOVE ON IN LIFE THE BUSIEST ONE LEAVING THE LEAST TO RECALL THE PAST, PERHAPS ON CERTAIN RITUTAL OCCASIONS.