LIFE CONSISTS OF 4 PILLARS 1. WIFE 2. CHILDREN 3. RELATIONS 4. FRIENDS -HOW TO MAKE A SELECTION OF A LIFE PARTNER IT IS ESSENTIAL TO FIND A PARTNER WHO SHALL COMPLEMENT ONE’S WEAKNESSES, HENCE TO ANALYSE ONE’S WEAKNESSES IS A VERY IMPORTANT STEP -IF EVEN THEN IT DOES NOT HAPPEN WHAT ONE HAD EXPECTED. IT IS SAID, IF YOU CAN’T MOULD OTHERS, BETTER MOULD YOURSELF WHICH IS THE BEST ANSWER AND THE PRACTICAL COURSE OF ACTION. . -2. CHILDREN - CHILDREN ARE THE STRENGTH OF THE FAMILY BUT ARE SOMETIME DESTROYERS AS WELL. AS CHILDREN ARE A NECESSITY, ONE NEVER SHOULD BE NEGATIVE, INSTEAD, ONE MUST TRY TO KNOW WHAT WENT WRONG AND HOW BEST IT COULD BE CORRECTED. IT IS WELL SAID IT IS BETTER TO BLAME ONESELF THAN PUT BLAME ON OTHERS. IT IS TRUE AS WELL AS WHEN ONE BLAMES ONESELF ONE IS ABLE TO ANALYSE WHAT WENT WRONG, AND HEREAFTER WORKS HARD TO CORRECT WHAT WENT WRONG, HOW, WHY AND WHAT COULD BE THE ANSWERS TO MAKE AMENDS. IT SHOULD NEVER BE FORGOTEEN, IF PARENTS ARE THE ROOTS, THE CHILDREN ARE THE FRUIT WHICH CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT BE SEPARATED AS OTHERWISE SOONER OR LATER BOTH WILL COLLAPSE AND GET UPROOTED. -3. RELATIONS RELATIONS ARE ESSENTIAL FOR SOCIALING TIME TO TIME AND AT FUNCTIONS NECESSARILY. RELATIONS ARE LIKE BRANCHES OF A TREE AND IF BRANCHES OF A TREE ARE CHOPPED OFF, WHAT THE TREE IS LEFT WITH, POSSIBLY NO ONE WILL CARE, NOT EVEN THE GARDNER, AND POSSIBLY IT WILL DRY UP AND FINISH OFF. LIKEWISE IF ONE DECIDES NOT TO KEEP ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE’S RELATIONS AND FOR ONE REASON OR OTHER REMAINS CUT OFF, IT IS BUT NATURAL WHENEVER THERE WILL BE SOME IMPORTANT FUNCTIONS, AND HOW SUCH A PERSON WILL FEEL ABOUT AND WILL MOSTLY FEEL DEPRESSED, BESIDES WHEN THERE WILL BE ANY IMPORTANT FUNCTION LIKE NARRIAGE OF HIS/HER OWN FAMILY, ILLNESS ETC. THEN POSSIBLY, NO ONE WILL TURN UP, HOW HARD, DESPARATE AND IN DEPRESSING CONDITION WILL BE SUCH A PERSON, FULL OF REGRETS AND REPENTANCE, IN THE WORST CONDITION NO LESS THAN THE TREE, BRANCHES OF WHICH GET CHOPPED OR CHOPPED OFF. AND IS STANDING ALONE AWAITING ITS END. HENCE RELATIONS ARE A MUST IF NOT KEPT CLOSE RELATIONSHIP, WORKING RELATIONS MUST AT ALL COSTS BESIDES ONE DOESN’T KNOW WHEN SOME UNSURROUNTABLE PROBLEM MAY CROP UP AND NEED AS SUCH ARISES, IT IS SAID, WHEN THERE IS POSSIBLY NONE TO COUNT ON, ANY OF THE RELATIONS WILL SURELY HAPPEN TO BE THERE TO ASSIST AND HELP IN THAT DIFFICULT TIME. 4. FRIENDS FRIENDS ARE OF VARIOUS TYPES 1. CHUMS WHO BECOME FRIENDS FROM CHILDHOOD AND CONTINUE LIFE LONG, SUCH FRIENDS ARE MOST ESSENTIAL AS THEIR COMPANY ALLOWS TO SAY AND EXPRESS WHATEVER ONE WANTS TO SAY AND IN THE MANNER ONE WANTS, NO ONE FEELS BAD ABOUT IT, RATHER EVERYONE ENJOYS, WHICH GENERALLY GOES INTO JOKES, PAST LIFE ETC. ETC. II. IN 2ND STAGE COMES IN SCHOOL, COLLEGE AND UNIVERSITY FRIENDS. THIS FRIENDSHIP GOES A LONG WAY. MOSTLY IN STATUS AND ALSO BEING A HELPING HAND TO EACH OTHER. III. FRIEDS OF THIS 3RD CATEGORY ARE FRIENDS OF COMMON INTERESTS AND THIS FRIENDSHIP MOSTLY GOES ON SO LONG AS THEIR COMMON INSTERESTS SUBSIST WITH EXCEPTION OF ONE OR TWO OF THEM, WHO BECOME REAL FRIENDS, TO CUT JOKES, MEET IN FUNCTIONS ETC. ……………………………………………………………………………………………… Narrated by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new Concept, cost free marriage bureau, to contact vasdevloond At 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.vasdevloond@ Marriageguidance.in www.facebook:vasdevloond