LIFE HAS GONE A DRASTIC CHANGE, FOR GOOD OR BAD I DO NOT KNOW. HOWEVER I LIVED IN A GENERATION WHEN THESE SAYINGS WERE IMPORTANT, WHY SO,I DO NOTKNOW EXACTLY BUT I DO FEEL, HONESTY AND PROMISES WERE MOST IMPORTANT AND HARDLY ONE DARED TO BREAK THESE AS THE ENTIRE SOCIETY/VILLAGE COULD GO AGAINST THE DEFAULTER/LIAR AND ALSO OUTCAST HIM/HER SOCIALLY. WHATEVER I REMEMBER I WOULD LIKE TO NARRATE TO YOU ALL; 1. COMMITMENT WAS ATTACHED TO PAGRI(TURBAN) SAYING THAT PAGRI UTTAR JAYAIGI(TURBAN WILL BE REMOVED) WHICH MEANT THAT ONE WILL NOT BE ALLOWED TO WEAR PAGRI AGAIN, WHICH WAS A NECESSITY AGAINST HEAT AND OHER MULTIPLE USES, MORESO PAGRI WAS A SOCIAL SYMBOL. WHERE THE PAGRI IS GONE, WHY I DO NOT KNOW, HEAT IS THE SAME EVEN HOTTER THAN BEFORE. 2. IF CAT CROSSES YOUR WAY ENROUTE, GET BACK HOME TAKE SOME REST AND THEN MOVE ON, CROSSING OF CAT ENROUTE WAS TAKEN AS A BAD OMEN. WHY SO, I DO NOT KNOW WHILE I SEE THAT NOW IT CARRIES NO SIGNIFICANCE EVEN IF THE CAT IS KILLED UNDER OUR CAR WHILE DRIVING, WE DO NOT BOTHER, ALAS THIS INNOCEBT KILLING TODAY HAS NO MEANING, NO PITY AT ALL. 3. SAYING WENT ON THAT NEVER GET BACK AND BEHIND A HORSE OTHERWISE YOU WILL BE KICKED OFF, DO NOT BE FRIENDLY NEITHER WITH THE POLICEMAN OR WITH A LAWYER. MAYBE IT WAS TRUE AS HARDLY THERE WERE LEGAL CASES OR NEED OF THE POLICEMAN. WHAT A DRASTIC CHANGE IT HAS GONE IN NOW, CONFLICT, FIGHTS AND JEALOUSIES HAVE GROWN SO MUCH, THAT MOSTLY WE NEED TO RESORT TO LEGAL FIGHTS AND AS SUCH NEED THE SERVICES OF THE LAWYER AND THERE IS NO ESCAPE OTHERWISE, SAME IS THE CASE WITH THE POLICEMAN, YOU WILL BE HARRASSED THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE TO BREAK THE RELATIONSHIP AND DO NOT DOLE OUT THE BENEFITS YOU MADE THE POLICEMAN USED TO. HENCE IT HAS BECOME ESSENTIAL TO KEEP CONTACT WITH THE AREA POLICEMAN TO PROTECT AND HELP YOU AGAINST COMPLAINTS, VULGARISM, FIGHTS ETC AND MOST IMPORTANT FOR LODGING FIR ETC. THERE ARE MANY OTHER SAYINGS WHICH I WILL BE NARRATING HEREAFTER, BUT THE FACT REMAINS THAT HAPPIER WERE THE DAYS WHEN LOVE AND COMMITMENT WERE PRIMEMOST AND HARDLY THERE WERE CASES OF THEFT AND DECOITIES WHILE NOW IT IS SAID THAT THERE ARE MORE LAWYERS AND MORE THE POLICEMEN, SAID TO BE OUR PROTECTORS AND JUSTICE GIVERS, WHICH HAPPENS RARELY, ALAS EXCEPT THEM, THERE IS NO CHOICE AT ALL. .......................................................................... narrated by vasdevloond founder of marriage guidance, cost free marriage bureau NGO, to contact vasdevloond a 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com wwemarriageguidance.in www.facebook.com