LIFE IS CONTINUOUS PROCESS OF HOPES, PROGRESS AND WORRIES. EVEN TILL LAST MOMENT ONE CONTINUES WITH HOPES AND REGRETS FOR MISTAKES AND FOR UNFINISHED WORK ETC. TO SAY THAT ONE HAS LEFT IN PEACE, TRUE IF ACCIDENTAL, HEART ATTACKED, BEING KILLED BY SOMEONE ETC. ETC. OTHERWISE ONE CONTINUES HARBOURING HOPES, REGRETS AND WORRIES FOR UNDONE ALL THE TIME , THEN WHAT COULD BE THE ANSWER? 1. ONE MUST DIVEST ONESELF OF THE MAXIMUM RESPONSIBILITIES AS ONE CAN MANAGE AND GET OVER. 2. MANAGE TO SETTLE CHILDREN RELATED ISSUES, CONFLICTS, ASSETS DISTRIBUTION ETC. ETC. 3. PREPARE AND GET ACCUSTOMED TO TAKE CARE OF ONESELF WITH LEAST, BETTER NO WORRIES, FOR CHILDREN, BUSINESS ETC. ETC. WHICH COULD HAPPEN BY CHANGE IN ATTTUDE, PASSING OFF RESPONSIBILITIES TO OTHERS, PARTICULARLY TO WIFE AND CHILDREN, INCLUDING FRIENDS AND EMPLOYEES. 4. MOST IMPORTANT,TO REMAIN BUSY WITH ACTIVITY OF ONE'S LIKING 5. OLD AGE BRINGS IN DIMINUTION OF STRENGTH, DEGNERATION OF BODY STARTS CREEPING IN, HENCE ESSENTIAL TO REDUCE HOPES, RELATIONSHIPS ETC. TO THE MINIMUM POSSIBLE, LEAST TO WORRY ABOUT. HENCE CHANGE OF ATTITUDE IS ESSENTIAL. 6. NEVER FEEL AFRAID OF DEATH, END IS NATURAL AND IS TO HAPPEN ONE DAY OR THE OTHER, ONE DOES ALL TO MOULD ONESELF WTH CHANGED CIRCUMSTANCES AND DOES ALL TO LIVE HAPPILY. THOSE WHO SUCCEED TO ACHIEVE ALL ABOVE CITED GOALS, I AM SURE THEY WILL LIVE THEIR LIFE NOT ONLY WORRILESS BUT HAPPILYT CAUSING NO BURDEN OR WORRY TO ANYONE. tks vasdevloond