LIFE PASSES MOSTLY IN REGRETS, UNHAPPINESS, STRUGGLES, FAILURES, HARDLY IN HAPPINESS PERHAPS ON FEW OCCASIONS AND THAT TOO TEMPORARILY AND FOR A SHORTER TIME. WHY SO IS THE QUESTION TO TACKLE, ANSWER AND FIND SOLUTIONS TO REVERSE, HAPPINESS MORE, PROBLEMS AND REGRETS FEW, FEW ONLY, NONE, PERHAPS IMPOSSIBLE. LET ME 1STLY NARRATE THE MAJOR OCCASIONS OF HAPPINESS WHICH HAPPEN AS UNDER 1. STANDING 1ST IN EXAMS, RACES ETC. 2. GETTING TO STUDIES ETC. IN FOREIGN AND/OR IN BEST KNOWN SCHOOLS, COLLEGES, UNIVERSIVITIES 3. 1ST JOB, 1ST DAY ENTRANCE TO BUSINESS, PASSING AND TOPPING SOME CAREER EXAMS LIKE IAS, IPS ETC. 4. MARRIAGE 5. 1ST CHILD, IN INDIAN FAMILIES ASPIRATIONS GENERALLY THE SON. 6. PROMOTIONS, DEPUTATIONS, IN JOB, PROGRESS AND PROFITS IN BUSINESS, COMPETITION, RECOGNITION AND APPRECIATION IN PERFORMANCE ETC. 7. CHILDREN’S EXCEPTIONAL PERFORMANCE AND BRINGING PRIDE FOR PARENTS TO FEEL HAPPY AND TO NARRATE TO IN FAMILY, FRIENDS, RELATIONS ETC. 8. HAPPIEST RELATIONS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE IN ALL RESPECTS OF UNDERSTANDING, ACCEPTING AND APPRECIATING THE QUALITIES OF EACH OTHER AS EACH ONE IS, MOVE ON IN LIFE AS ONE IN DISCUSSIONS, DECISION TAKING, AND TO TACKLE ALL SITUATIONS IN WHATEVER SHAPE THESE COME ABOUT, IN TOGETHERNESS AND IN UNITY THAN IN UNION. 9. TIME TO TIME OCCASIONS OF FESTIVALS, MARRIAGES, BIRTH DAYS CELEBRATIONS, VACATIONS, TRAVELS ETC. ETC. 10.NEEDLESS TO NARRATE QUITE MANY OCCASIONAL AND MOMENTARY SITUATIONS AND HAPPENINGS. ON THE CONTRARY, INSTANCES OF UNHAPPINESS, REGRETS, ETC. ARE MANY AND INNUMBERABLE, LIFE IS FULL AND AT TIMES TO FEEL AS TO WHAT IS THE USE OF LIVING IN SUCH A MISERABLE AND HELPLESS SITUATION. ANYWAY SOME OF THE MAJOR ONES NEED TO BE CITED IN COMPARISON TO HAPPINESS. 1. FAILURES IN EXAMS, RACES, COMPETITION, EXPECTATIONS. 2. FAVOURITISM AND NEPOTISM IN SELECTIONS, PROMOTIONS ETC. 3. LOSS OF BUSINESS, JOB, BANKRUPTCY OR WINDING UP OF BUSINESS WHEREIN ONE IS WORKING. 4. FAILURE IN LOVE AND MARRIAGE 5. STRUGGLE, CRITICISM, FAVOURTISM AND JEALOUSIES IN FAMILY AND AMONGST THE CHILDREN. 6. BEWITCHED BY FRIENDS, RELATIONS, ACQUAINTANCES ETC. 7. BREAK OF RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE, RESULTING IN DIVORCE, LITIGATIONS ETC. 8. CHILDREN NOT BEHAVING AS ASPIRED, GOING ASTRAY CONSIDERED TO BE IN BAD COMPANY, THEIR ASSOCIATION AND GETTING IN RELATIONSHIP OF BOY AND GIRL AND/OR EVEN LEADING TO MARRIAGE IN UNWANTED FAMILIES AND/OR COMMUNITIES ETC. ETC. 9. ACCIDENTS AND DEATHS ESPECIALLY OF CHILD, WIFE OR HUSBAND. 10.FAILURE IN EXAMS, CAREER, BUSINESS, COMPETITION ETC. 11.BEING CHEATED AND LOSS OF TRUST 12.BACKBITING, CREATING ILL-WILL, MISINTERPRETATION AND/OR MISREPRESENTATION OF FACTS 13.ATTITUDE OF NEGATIVITY 14.HABIT TO RECALL THE PAST AND NEVER TO FORGET 15.REPENT AND CURSE ONE’S DESTINY 16.TO DEVELOP SOME DISEASES UNBEARABLE AND INCURABLE ONES 17. DEPENDANT ON OTHERS TO MOVE ABOUT, LIVELIHOOD, HELP ETC. 18. FAMILY FEUDS IN RELATIONSHIP, ALLOCATION AND SHARING OF ASSETS, PARENTS FAVOURING ONE AND OTHERS WHILE NEGLECTING ONE OR OTHERS. 19. COMPARISON IN BROTHERS AND SISTERS, COLLEAGUES, KNOWN AND UNKNOWN. 20. NON-FULFILLMENT OF DREAMS, EXPECTATIONS, ASPIRATIONS ETC. 21. DIEHARD IN CERTAIN HABITS, ATTITUDES, MANNERS, THINKING AND UNABLE TO OVERCOME DESPITE MANY STRUGGLES AND WISHING FOR. 22.MANY AND MANY MORE, BUT MORE OR LESS, SALIENT CAUSES HAVE BEEN CITED ABOVE. AS TO WHAT ARE THE SOLUTIONS TO AVOID AND/OR FORGET THE PAST AND MISERIES, I WILL BE TACKLING IN THE NEXT WRITE-UP. ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………. Envisioned by vasdevloond, founder of cost free marriage bureau, titled Marriage Guidance New Concept, to contact vasdevloond at 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.vasdevloond@marriageguidance.in www.facebook:vasdevloond