MARRIAGE IS A MUST. Many feel why to lose their freedom by living alone in the manner they want, they are not to be questioned by any one, no submission, no tolerance, no subjugation, no conflicts, threats etc. In the present age no one wants to lose one's freedom, there is no tolerance, discussion as a winner remains the aim of boy and girl, it is further aggravated as in marriage boy and girl come from different background with different attitudes, with great hopes and illusions, added to that come in conflicts between the two families regarding status, dealings, non-fulfillment of expectations turn out the cause of frictions and non-acceptance of each other etc . etc. Further inheritance of the girl and even earlier expectations of the boy and his family remain the chronic problems. Worst of all, if the relationship between the boy and the girl do not go well and shape up in divorce, it is a cumbersome and expensive affair. KEEPING ALL THESE FACTORS IN VIEW and the keenness to progress in career, to have residence of one's own and self-transport are the compelling factors to postpone or avoid marriage.THE FACTS AND EXPERIENCE OF LIFE SHOWS THAT THOSE WHO DECIDE NOT TO MARRY PASS THEIR YOUNG LIFE COMPARATIVELY IN ENJOYMENT AND MERRY GO LUCKY MANNER, BUT WHEN THE OLD AGE SETS IN, THEN ONE REGRETS AND IT GETS TOO LATE. THUS OLD AGE IS SPENT IN REGRETS, DEPRESSION, INSECURITY AND NONE TO TALK AND NARRATE ONE'S MISERIES ETC. ETC. LESSON: one need not forget that man is a social being, nature has created man and woman to live in inter-dependence, have children, take up responsibilities, work hard to achieve progress and as such provide the maximum comfort to the children as one can and in a way expect children to fulfill their dreams of what they could not achieve. Besides love and dependence on children which mostly happens how best the parents have participated in the growth and development of their children. Even if the parents decide to live alone and not to depend on their children, still hope in MINE AND THINE EXISTS TILL THE END, which is unavoidable, hence the children are unbreakable part of family, to dole out to own children and none else remains everlasting wish of the parents. MY ADVICE IS, NEVER BE AFRAID OF RESPONSIBILITIES, LIFE IS FULL OF THESE IN WORK AND IN ALL SPHERES OF LIFE, HENCE ONE MUST UNDERSTAND THAT MARRIAGE IS ESSENTIAL PART OF LIFE, ONE MUST OWN AND GET INTO THIS CYCLE OF LIFE, NEVER MISS A CHANCE TO GET MARRIED WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG AS OTHERWISE AS LIFE ADVANCES,ONE IS BOUND TO REPENT FOR ONE'S MISTAKE AND AS THE OLD AGE SET IN, WHICH GENERALLY BECOMES UNBEARABLE ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE GETS ILL, HARDLY CAN WALK ETC. ONE PRAYS FOR THE END TO BE RELIEVED OF DAY-TO-DAY MISERIES . tksMARRIAGE IS A MUST. Many feel why to lose their freedom by living alone in the manner they want, they are not to be questioned by any one, no submission, no tolerance, no subjugation, no conflicts, threats etc. In the present age no one wants to lose one's freedom, there is no tolerance, discussion as a winner remains the aim of boy and girl, it is further aggravated as in marriage boy and girl come from different background with different attitudes, with great hopes and illusions, added to that come in conflicts between the two families regarding status, dealings, non-fulfillment of expectations turn out the cause of frictions and non-acceptance of each other etc . etc. Further inheritance of the girl and even earlier expectations of the boy and his family remain the chronic problems. Worst of all, if the relationship between the boy and the girl do not go well and shape up in divorce, it is a cumbersome and expensive affair. KEEPING ALL THESE FACTORS IN VIEW and the keenness to progress in career, to have residence of one's own and self-transport are the compelling factors to postpone or avoid marriage.THE FACTS AND EXPERIENCE OF LIFE SHOWS THAT THOSE WHO DECIDE NOT TO MARRY PASS THEIR YOUNG LIFE COMPARATIVELY IN ENJOYMENT AND MERRY GO LUCKY MANNER, BUT WHEN THE OLD AGE SETS IN, THEN ONE REGRETS AND IT GETS TOO LATE. THUS OLD AGE IS SPENT IN REGRETS, DEPRESSION, INSECURITY AND NONE TO TALK AND NARRATE ONE'S MISERIES ETC. ETC. LESSON: one need not forget that man is a social being, nature has created man and woman to live in inter-dependence, have children, take up responsibilities, work hard to achieve progress and as such provide the maximum comfort to the children as one can and in a way expect children to fulfill their dreams of what they could not achieve. Besides love and dependence on children which mostly happens how best the parents have participated in the growth and development of their children. Even if the parents decide to live alone and not to depend on their children, still hope in MINE AND THINE EXISTS TILL THE END, which is unavoidable, hence the children are unbreakable part of family, to dole out to own children and none else remains everlasting wish of the parents. MY ADVICE IS, NEVER BE AFRAID OF RESPONSIBILITIES, LIFE IS FULL OF THESE IN WORK AND IN ALL SPHERES OF LIFE, HENCE ONE MUST UNDERSTAND THAT MARRIAGE IS ESSENTIAL PART OF LIFE, ONE MUST OWN AND GET INTO THIS CYCLE OF LIFE, NEVER MISS A CHANCE TO GET MARRIED WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG AS OTHERWISE AS LIFE ADVANCES,ONE IS BOUND TO REPENT FOR ONE'S MISTAKE AND AS THE OLD AGE SET IN, WHICH GENERALLY BECOMES UNBEARABLE ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE GETS ILL, HARDLY CAN WALK ETC. ONE PRAYS FOR THE END TO BE RELIEVED OF DAY-TO-DAY MISERIES . tksMARRIAGE IS A MUST. Many feel why to lose their freedom by living alone in the manner they want, they are not to be questioned by any one, no submission, no tolerance, no subjugation, no conflicts, threats etc. In the present age no one wants to lose one's freedom, there is no tolerance, discussion as a winner remains the aim of boy and girl, it is further aggravated as in marriage boy and girl come from different background with different attitudes, with great hopes and illusions, added to that come in conflicts between the two families regarding status, dealings, non-fulfillment of expectations turn out the cause of frictions and non-acceptance of each other etc . etc. Further inheritance of the girl and even earlier expectations of the boy and his family remain the chronic problems. Worst of all, if the relationship between the boy and the girl do not go well and shape up in divorce, it is a cumbersome and expensive affair. KEEPING ALL THESE FACTORS IN VIEW and the keenness to progress in career, to have residence of one's own and self-transport are the compelling factors to postpone or avoid marriage.THE FACTS AND EXPERIENCE OF LIFE SHOWS THAT THOSE WHO DECIDE NOT TO MARRY PASS THEIR YOUNG LIFE COMPARATIVELY IN ENJOYMENT AND MERRY GO LUCKY MANNER, BUT WHEN THE OLD AGE SETS IN, THEN ONE REGRETS AND IT GETS TOO LATE. THUS OLD AGE IS SPENT IN REGRETS, DEPRESSION, INSECURITY AND NONE TO TALK AND NARRATE ONE'S MISERIES ETC. ETC. LESSON: one need not forget that man is a social being, nature has created man and woman to live in inter-dependence, have children, take up responsibilities, work hard to achieve progress and as such provide the maximum comfort to the children as one can and in a way expect children to fulfill their dreams of what they could not achieve. Besides love and dependence on children which mostly happens how best the parents have participated in the growth and development of their children. Even if the parents decide to live alone and not to depend on their children, still hope in MINE AND THINE EXISTS TILL THE END, which is unavoidable, hence the children are unbreakable part of family, to dole out to own children and none else remains everlasting wish of the parents. MY ADVICE IS, NEVER BE AFRAID OF RESPONSIBILITIES, LIFE IS FULL OF THESE IN WORK AND IN ALL SPHERES OF LIFE, HENCE ONE MUST UNDERSTAND THAT MARRIAGE IS ESSENTIAL PART OF LIFE, ONE MUST OWN AND GET INTO THIS CYCLE OF LIFE, NEVER MISS A CHANCE TO GET MARRIED WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG AS OTHERWISE AS LIFE ADVANCES,ONE IS BOUND TO REPENT FOR ONE'S MISTAKE AND AS THE OLD AGE SET IN, WHICH GENERALLY BECOMES UNBEARABLE ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE GETS ILL, HARDLY CAN WALK ETC. ONE PRAYS FOR THE END TO BE RELIEVED OF DAY-TO-DAY MISERIES . tks