IT IS IMPOSSIBLE, TEMPORARILY IT MAY BE POSSIBLE BUT FOR ALL THE TIME AS CIRCUMSTNCES AND PERHAPS OTHERS OVERTAKE, IT IS PROGRESSIVE APPROACH BUT DEPRESSIVE AS WELL AS ALL THE TIME ONE REMAINS BUSY TO REMAIN PERFECT HOW AND IN WHAT MANNER AFTER HAVING REACHED THE SO-CALLED PERFECTION, TO GET OVER FURTHER ON PERFECTION LADDER BECOMES TERRIBLY HARDER IF NOT IMPOSSIBLE AND AS SUCH ONE GETS CUT OFF FROM SOCIAL LIFE AND ITS ENJOYMENT. THE QUESTION ARISES WHY, PERHAPS TO GAIN PROMINENCE AND TO BE REMEMBERED AND/OR TO REAP ECONOMIC GAINS DURING LIFE SPAN, IT IS ALSO POSSIBLE ONE HAS AMBITION, FOLLOWS IT UP AND FEELS HAPPY WITH BUT UNDOUBTEDLY REMAINS AND KEEPS ONESELF DEPRIVED OF WORDLY LIFE AND ITS ENJOYMENT. FURTHER SUCH A PERFECTION PERSON CANNOT CONGENIALLY WORK WITH OTHERS AS SUCH A PERSON BELIEVES IN PERFECTION AND BELIEVES THAT OTHERS MUST TURN PERFECT LIKE HIM/HER TO DO THE JOB PERFECTLY WITH ZERO FAULT WHICH MOSTLY DOES NOT HAPPEN, HENCE HIRING FIRING AND REMAINS UNHAPPY WITH HIS/HER COLLEAGUES GENERALLY AND TO CONTINUE REGRETTING AND GRUMBLING AL THE TIME TURN INTO HABIT OF THE SO-CALLED PERFECT MAN/WOMAN. SECLUSION, LONELESSNESS WORRIED, TENSED AND AT TIMES DEPRESSED BECOME VISISBLE CHARACTERISTIC OF THE SO-CALLED PERFECT MAN. ----------------------------------------- thought over and expressed by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage burau NGO, to contact vasdevloond at 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.i www.facebook.com I