RELATIONSHIP OF HUSBAND AND WIFE IS VERY WELL COMPARABLE TO CRICKET MATCH. IN THE CRICKET MATCH THERE IS FRONT RUNNER WHOSE AIM IS TO MAKE THE GOAL AND WIN THE MATCH. LIKEWISE AIM OF THE HUSBAND, WIFE AND THE CHIDREN REMAINS TO ACHIEVE PROGRESS, SUGGESS AND ENJOY HAPPINESS, WHEN THE TEAM WINS THE MATCH THE ENTIRE TEAM FEELS HAPPY AND ENJOYS THE WIN LIKEWISE HUSBAND, WIFE AND CHILDREN WHEN AS A TEAM ACHIEVE SUCCESS, FAMILY PROGRESSES, EVERYONE IN THE HOUSE FEELS HAPPY, ALL TOGETHER CELEBRATE AND ENJOY THE HAPPINESS. IN THE CRICKET TEAM, EVERYONE SUPPORTS THE FRONT RUNNER IN THE SAME MANNER IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT HUBAND PLAYS THE ROLE OF FRONT RUNNER AND IN THE RUN OF LIFE, WIFE AND CHILDREN SUPPORT THE HUSBAND/FATHER AS A FRONT RUNNER, IMAGE BUILDER OF THE HOUSE IN AND OUTSIDE IN THE PUBLIC AT LARGE. IN THE MATCH PLAYING , EACH ONE REMAINS DEDICATED TO WIN THE MATCH AND NONE TALKS ABOUT WHAT ARE THE WEAKNESSES OR FAULTS OF THE FRONT RUNNER AND INSTEAD EVERYONE NOT ONLY IGNORES THE WEAKNESSES, FAULTS ETC. RATHER CONCENTRATE ON WINNING THE GOAL AND EACH ONE SUPPORTS EACH OTHER AS A TEAM AND DO ALL TO PASS ON THE BALL TO THE FRONT RUNNER AS BEST AND AS SAFE THAT HE CAN EASILY MAKE THE GOAL LIKEWISE THE WIFE AND CHILDREN ARE REQUIRED TO SUPPORT HUSBAND/FATHER AS A FRONT RUNNER AND DO ALL TO FACILITATE HIS WORK TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS, BRING IN PROMINENCE AND HAPPINESS FOR THE HOUSE. NEVERTHELESS IF THE MATCH IS WON EACH ONE ENJOYS,THEY TALK ABOUT WHO DID THE BEST, WHO COULD NOT MAKE IT, TALK ABOUT IN A VERY CONGENIAL MANNER RATHER THAN FINDING FAULT IN ANY MANNER, THIS WAY OF DISCUSSION HELPS THEM TO ANYLYSE HOW SOME CHANCES THEY MISSED, WHY AND WHAT COULD BE DONE AND THUS THIS ANALYSIS HELPS THE TEAM TO WORKING IN UNISON, OVERCOME THE WEAKNESSES AND PREPARE FOR THE NEXT WIN. LIKEWISE AFTER SUCCESS IS ACHIEVED FOR A SET GOAL WORKED OUT BY THE FAMILY, IT BECOMES IMPERATIVE THAT INSTEAD OF CRITICISING ABOUT WHAT AND HOW IN SOME MANNER SOMETHING WENT WRONG, WHO FAILED TO SUPPORT AS WAS DESIRED, THE ENTIRE FAMILY AS A TEAM CONCENTRATES ON THE SUCCESS AND ANALYSES FROM TIME TO TIME WHAT WENT WRONG AND HOW THOSE PITFALLS IN FUTURE COULD BE AVOIDED. CONCLUSION THE FAMILIES WHERE WIFE ACCEPTS HER HUSBAND AS THE FRONT RUNNER AND CHILDREN AS SUCH SUPPORT THEIR FATHER, SUCH FAMILIES UNDOUBTEDLY MAKE SUCCESS IN LIFE AND ENJOY THE LIFE IN HAPPINESS, ALL IN TOGETHERNESS, WHILE UNFORTUNATELY THOSE WHO STICK TO FIND FAULT, LIVE THEIR LIFE MISERABLY. HENCE IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT WIFE ACCEPTS HUSBAND AND CHILDREN ACCEPT THEIR FATHER AS THE PERSON WHO IS TO SET THE GOAL, OF COURSE IN CONSULTATION WITH ALL TO DO ALL THE PLANNING, AND ALL ALLOW HIM TO MOVE ABOUT AS THE IMAGE OF THE HOUSE IN PUBLIC UNFETTERED AND UNDAUTED IN ANY MANNER, WITH FULL FORCE, TO STAND TO HIS COMMITMENT TO BRING TO THE HOUSE SUCCESS,PROMINENCE AND HAPPINESS . NEEDLESS AND NEVER TO FORGET THAT T ALL MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY CONSULT, DISCUSS AND CONCLUDE ABOUT THEIR GOAL AND THEREAFTER NOT ONLY ALLOW THE HUSBAND/FATHER TO MOVE ON FULLY MOTIVATED BUT SUPPORT HIM IN ALL MANNERS TO WIN THE SUCCESS. ALSO NOT TO FORGET, IT IS RIGHTLY SAID UNITED WE WIN, BY FIGHTING WE FALL. ............................................................................ written by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau NGO, to contact vasdevloond at 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.in www.facebook.com