LIFE IS A ROUTINE, MORESO A MONOTONOUS ONE, QUESTION ARISES WHAT TO DO? 1. OUR DAY STARTS MOSTLY WHEN WE GET UP, WE TAKE TEA/COFFEE TAKE BATH, TAKE HURRIED BREAKFAST, AND RUSH TO OUR WORK OF ROUTINE, MAYBE IT IS WORKPLACE, IT IS BUSINESS, IT IS LEGAL OR SOME OTHER VOCATION 2. DAILY WE REMAIN BUSY IN THIS ROUTINE AND IF EVER FOR SOME REASON GET DELAYED, WE GET ANGRY AND RUSH TO OUR VOCATION AND WORKPLACE IN ANGER AND WITH CONCOTED EXCUSES AND AS A RESULT, TENSION STARTS. 3. TRAVEL, WORKING IN OUR WORKPLACE, GOES ON IN STRESS AND TENSION AND IT IS A DAILY ROUTINE. 4. WORST OF ALL IF SOMEONE IS IN IT ACTIVITIES, HIS/HER LIFE TURNS OUT NOT AS A ROUTINE BUT JUST LIKE A ROBOT, PRACTICALLY WITH NO LIFE, NO SMILE, AT ALL. 5. WHEN WE GET BACK TO HOUSE FULLY TIRED BY TENUOUS WORK IN THEWORKPLACE AND TENSION MOUNTED IN TRAVEL ETC.. 6. FINALLY WHEN WE REACH BACK HOME FULLY CONSUMED, AT TIMES OR IN ROUTINE TAKE SOME DRINK TO RELAX OR TAKE BATH TO REFESH OURSELVES AND THEN GET READY TO TAKE DINNER, BY SHARING AND PARTICIPATING IN HOUSEHOLD AFFAIRS. 7. IF WE ARE IN GOOD MOOD, OR FEEL IT IS ESSENTIAL TO TALK TO CHILDREN AND KNOW AS TO HOW THEY SPENT THEIR WHOLE DAY AND WHETHER ALL WENT WELL 8. SPEND SOME TIME AS HUSBAND AND WIFE TO SUM UP AS TO HOW EACH ONE HAS SPENT HIS/HER DAY AND ALSO ALL WENT WELL OR THERE HAVE BEEN SOME ISSUES. 9. SOON AFTER THIS WE GO TO SLEEP AND IN THE MORNING SAME ROUTE STARTS. ALL THIS ROUTINE QUITE OFTEN BESIDES BEING MONOTONOUS, BECOMES DISTURBING, DISGUSTING AND AT SOME TIME FEELING AND THINKING AS TO WHAT IS THE USE AND PURPOSE OF LIFE, WILL THE WHOLE LIFE PASS ON IN THIS ROUTINE, TENSIONS, DISCHARGING RESPONSIBILITES TOWARDS FAMILY, CHIDREN, PARENTS, RELATIONS ETC. THERE IS NO DOUBT SOCIETY AS A SOCIAL BEING AND TO INFUSE SOME JOY AND HAPPINESS HAS CREATED SOME NECESSARY FUNCTIONS TO MEET, CELEBRATE AND ENJOY TOGETHERNESS BY VARIOUS WAYS. IN THIS IN GENERAL CELEBRATIONS CONSIST IN MARRIAGE, GET TO VARIOUS GATHERINGS FOR PRAYERS AND ALSO TO EXCHANGE VIEWS, TO ASSEMBLE IN GAMES, BY GROUPING TO GET TO RESORTS, SIGHT SEEING ETC. ETC. IN THIS COURSE OF LIFE. JEALOUSIES, CONFLICT, CONFRONTATIONS, LEGAL ISSUES, RACING TO SEEK SUPREMACY, PROMINENCE ETC. KEEP US NOT ONLY BUSY BUT IN STRESS AND MANY A TIME DISTURBED AS WELL. ALL WHATEVER WE DO TURN OUT AS DAIY ROUTINE. DISGUSTING, TIRED AND CONSUMED, AND EVERY DAY DOING THE SAME JOBS/ACTIVITIES, AT TIMES WE ARE TIRED, CONSUMED AND FRUSTRATED, WE DO TEND TO THINK AND REFLECT IS THIS THE LIFE, IS THIS THE PURPOSE OF LIFE AND THIS IS HOW WE WILL GET TO OLD AGE AND REACH OUR END OF LIFE. ANSWER IN ORDER TO GET OVER ROUTINE AND MONOTONY, THE ONLY AND BEST ANSWER IS TO TAKE TO DIVERSION, DRIFT AND SHIFT AWAY FROM ROUTINE FOR A WHILE TO GEAR UP WHILE THINKING THAT FATIGUE OR DISGUST DO NOT ALLOW YOU TO WORK AND/OR CONCENTRATE IN WORK. THIS DIVERSION OF MIND CAN BE EXPLOITED BY VARIOUS MEANS AND ACTIVITIES: -BE CAREFUL AND FULLY CONSCIOUS TO COMPLETELY SHIFT AND/DRIFT FROM THE ROUTINE BY ALL MEANS, NOT TO HARBOUR EVEN AN IOTA OF THE ROUTINE, IMPORTANCE OR URGENY BELIEVING AND ASSUMING AS IF YOU ARE SICK AND ARE IN NO POSITION AT ALL TO THINK OF OR ATTEND TO THE ROUTINE. -CAN TAKE TO MORE OR LESS THE FOLLOWING ACTIVITIES: 1. ENJOY MUSIC, MANY PLAY GITAR 2. GET TO FRIENDS WHO ARE CHUMS WHERE YOU CAN TALK AND GOSSIP IN THE MANNER AS YOU HAD BEEN DOING SO IN YOUR CHILDHOOD AND GROWING AGE AS WELL. 3. GET TO THE PLACE OF PRAYER, IF YOU BELIEVE IN AND FEEL YOU COULD DRFT AWAY FROM THE ROUTINE 4. GET TO GYM, HOBBITES ETC. 5. GET TO MOVIES 6. STROLL AROUND IN MALLS, GET TO TEA, COFEE HOUSES ETC. 7. GET TO THEATRES TO ENJOY SOME VIVID ACTINGS 8. GET TO GAMES LIKE TENNIS, CRICKET, FOOTBALL ETC. BE IN THE GATHERING, LOOK AT THE COMBATING ATHELETS, AND TO ENJOY THEIR COMPETITION. 9. GET TO SOME SIGHT SEEING OF INTEREST WHICH YOU WANTED BUT HAD BEEN NEGLECTING 10.START WRITING ON SOME SUBJECT OF INTEREST, BUT DO ENSURE THAT YOU DO NOT GET TO READING, NEITHER YOU WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE NOR FORGET THE NEED AND IMPLICATIONS OF ROUTINES. THESE ARE SOME OF THE INSTANCES BUT THE FACT REMAINS THAT YOU DEVISE AND GET TO TO THOSE ACTIVITIES/ACTIONS WHICH HELP YOU COMPLETELY TO DIVEST FROM THE VERY THINKING OF ROUTINE, TIREDNESS, DISGUST ETC. AND IT IS THIS DIVERSION OF MIND WHICH WILL ENABLE YOU TO RELAX, FORGET THE ROUTINE AND GEAR UP FOR THE JOB TO DO. IT IS PERFECTLY IN THE SAME MANNER AS WE ADD SALT IN OUR VEGETABLES, ADD SUGAR TO TEA ETC OR TAKE SWEATS AT THE END OF THE MEALS ETC. TO ENABLE US TO ENJOY WHAT WE ARE EATING. AND RELISH IT IN TASTE. It is a reflexion by the founder of marriage bureau, titled Marriage Guidance New Concept, cost free social service, if interested, can contacts: vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com