SADDEST IS THE DAY WHEN I LEARN THAT SUCH AND SUCH MY DEAREST FRIEND/RELATION HAS LEFT HIS/HER LIFE FOR EVER. DISSIPATING IS THE WHOLE DAY AND AT TIME MAKES ME FEEL THAT PERHAPS ONE DAY I WILL ALSO MEET THE SAME FATE. THEN COMES AN IDEA, IT IS A TRUE FACT AND IS UNAVOIDABLE AND IS TO HAPPEN ONE DAY OR THE OTHER. THEN THE IDEA COMES WHY TO DIE BEFORE DEATH AND ALSO COMES A FEELING THAT THERE ARE STILL SO MANY RESPONSIBIITIES LEFT TO BE ACCOMPLISHED. WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO MY FAMILY, CHILDREN AND WHO WILL TACKLE SUCH PROBLEMS. THEN COMES AN IDEA THAT WHEN I WAS RUNNING THROUGH 20S I SAW THAT SPAN OF LIFE WAS RANGING FROM 50 TO 55 MAXIMUM WHILE NOW IT HAS RISEN TO 80-85 IN GENERAL. THEN QUESTION ARISES IN MIND WHEN ONE IS DESTINED, IT IS SAID, THAT BEFORE BIRTH ONE'S LIFE IS DETERMINED, THEN I WONDER HOW IT IS THAT NOW LIFE EXISTENCE HAS CHANGED ALMOST TO 85 AND IN CERTAIN CASES BEYOND 100 YEARS AT THE SAME MOMENT I AM REMINDED THAT I HAD VOUCHED TO LIVE FOR 125 YEARS, THEN WHY TO ENTERTAIN SUCH IDEAS WHEN I AM ONLY 88. DEAR FRIENDS, IT IS NATURAL WHEN ONE LOSES ONE'S NEAR AND DEAR, IT IS VERY PAINFUL ANDIT KEEPS ONE SADDANED MINIMUM FOR A DAY AND THEN AGAIN, WE GET BUSY WITH OUR ROUTINES, GRADUALLY GRADULY WE KEEP THEM IN OUR MEMORY AND/OR IN PHOTOS, AND AS SUCH THE PAIN VANISHES EXCEPT WHEN HAPPIEST OCCASIONS ARE RECELLED AND PAIN IS RENEWED FOR A WHILE. MY DEAR FRIENDS, DEATH IS A PAINFUL ACT OF GOD AND THAT EVERYON GOES THROUGHIT SOONER OR LATER, AND IT IS UNAVOIDABLE FOR ALL AND EVERYONE, THEN THE QUESTION ARISES WHY TO DIE BEFORE DEATH REMAIN MOTIVATED ALWAYS ENERGISE YOUR BODY AND SPIRIT EVERY DAY REMAIN BUSY AS BEST AS YOU CAN REMAIN HAPPY ALWAYS, NEVER ALLOW ANGER AND/OR DISCOURAGING FEELINGS EVER OVERPOWER AND DESPITE SO MANY HITS CONTINUE MOVING IN LIFE LIKE THE RIVER CALMLY AND QUIETLY. CONCLUSION; LIFE IS TO LIVE AND ENJOY, BE HAPPY AND MAKE OTHERS HAPPY AS BEST AS YOU CAN. tks vasdevloond founder of marriage guidance new concept 9811943867 www marriageguidance.i www.facebook.com