WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED, HAD THERE BEEN NO SUFFERINGS AND ALL PROBLEMS WERE GETTING SETTLED BY THEMSELVES -WONDERFULLY IT WOULD HAVE BEEN A MIRACLE -IT IS TOTALLY IMPOSSIBLE TO IMAGINE, GIVEN OUR WEAKNESSES WHICH ARE BORN AND ACQUIRED ONES, LIKE EGO, JEALOUSIES, ENMITY, COMPARISON, COMPETITION, PICKING UP AND KEEPING TO ONESELF THE BEST, WHICH MEANS NOT ONLY AVOIDING OTHERS BUT KILLING THEM AS WELL SO THAT NONE DARES AFTERWARD TO AGITATE OR REVOLT. HUMANBEINGS’ ZEAL TO BECOME MONOPOLISTIC, TO DO ALL TO GET PROMINENCE AND BE THE SOLE TO COMMAND AND BEHAVE AS ONE WANTS. HAD THIS POWER BEEN GIVEN TO ALL, THEN THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN CONFLICTS, FIGHTS AND BATTLE FIELD. HENCE THIS SUPPOSITION HAS NO MEANING AND IT NEEDS TO BE ELIMINATED AND FORGOTTEN FOR ALL PURPOSES.. HAD IT BEEN GIVEN TO ONE PERSON, THEN SUFFERINGS OF THE REST WOULD HAVE GOTTEN INCREASED INSTEAD OF HAVING NO SUFFERINGS, NO WORRIES, NO PROBLEMS ETC. HAD THIS HAPPENED, PERHAPS, THE MAN HAVING THAT POWER WOULD COMPARE HIMSELF/HERSELF TO GOD, OR SO-CALLED GOD LIKE RAVANA ETC.. HENCE IT IS RIDICULOUS TO THINK THAT HUMANBEINGS WILL LIVE EVER WITHOUT SUFFERINGS, NO PROBLEMS AND NO ISSUES, NOT EVEN THE LEAST ONE. IT IS SAID THAT AT THE TIME OF EACH ONE’S BIRTH, HIS OR HER DESTINY IS WRITTEN DOWN, BASED ON HIS/HER PAST ACTIONS(KARMAS) AND WE HUMAN BEINGS ARE SENT BACK TO FACE THOSE SUFFERINGS AND DO WHATEVER WE CAN TO BETTER OUR FUTURE REBIRTH, WHICH MEANS WHENEVER WE WILL TAKE REBIRTH, WE WILL BE ACCOMPANIED BY LESS SUFFERINGS. HENCE TO THINK BY ANYONE AS A HUMAN BEING THAT HE/SHE WILL NOT HAVE WORRIES, PROBLEMS, SUFFERINGS IS IMPOSSIBLE, RATHER FUTILE. INSTEAD, IF ONE THINKS THAT SO LONG AS LIFE GOES ON, WORRIES AND SUFFERINGS WILL CONTINUE REPEATING, HE/SHE COULD LIVE COMPARATIVELY BETTER LIFE. HENCE THE ANSWER REMAINS THAT EACH AND EVERY HUMAN BEING WHO ASPIRES TO LIVE A BETTER LIFE HAS TO STRUGGLE, KEEP THE WORRIES AND PROBLEMS AS AND WHEN THESE HAPPEN, ONE SHALL NEED TO REMAIN CALM, THINK OVER VARIOUS SOLUTIONS, DECIDE ON THE ONE WHICH SEEMS TO BE THE BEST AND GET TO ACTION. PRACTICED AND WORKED IN THIS MANNER, THERE IS EVERY POSSIBILITY, THAT ONE COULD AVOID SUFFERINGS AND PROBLEMS THEREOF. HOWEVER THERE COULD HAPPEN SOME PROBLEMS WHICH COULD BE SERIOUS AND PERHAPS UNCONTROLLABLE, HOW TO GET OVER THESE, TURNS OUT TO BE A PROBLEM AND MANY A TIME UNAVOIDABLE ONES AS TO NOOT BEING AFFACTED BY THE CHAOTIC SUFFERINGS SLIGHTLY OR SERIOUSLY, QUESTION ARISES AS TO WHAT SHOULD BE DONE SO THAT SUCH CHAOTIC AND UNCONTROLLABLE SITUATIONS DO NOT CAUSE WORRIES AND SUFFERINGS. LET ONE MUST BEAR IN MIND AND UNDERSTAND FULLY THAT SUFFERINGS WHICH ARE CAUSED BY BAD HEALTH, MORE OR LESS GETTING HANDICAPPED, MEETING A SERIOUS ACCIDENT, DEATH OF SOME NEAR AND DEAR ONE, SUFFERING UNAFFORDABLE/UNBEARABLE LIKE LOSSES ETC. ETC. DO SHATTER THE PERSON CONCERNED, ONE LOSES FAITH IN LIFE AND ITS LIVING EXCEPT THE ONES WHO CONSOLE THEMSELVES BY ACCEPTING THEIR SUFFERINGS AS A DESTINY AND THE RESULT OF THEIR PAST ACTIONS (KARMAS). I FEEL EVEN IN SUCH EXTREME SITUATIONS, ONE MUST ACCEPT THE LIFE AS IT GOES ON, IT IS IRRESIBLE BUT WHAT LIES IN ONE’S HANDS, IS TO ACCEPT AND ADJUST WITH THE SITUATION AS QUICKLY AS ONE CAN AND AS SUCH ONE CAN TACKLE THE SUFFERINGS AND LIVE THE LIFE ONWARD, NORMAL, ABNORMAL. HAPPY, REGRETTING, IT ALL SHALL REMAIN HOW ONE THINS ABOUT AND MANAGES TO DEAL WITH THE FUTURE AS IT COMES ABOUT. Conclusion: the lesser the greed, better it is 2. Lesser the comparison, better will be the life to live on. 3. reflect well, consult and discuss well, if one believes so, sufferings in most of the cases could be avoided and if these happen at all, the suffering will not be so serious that it will not be bearable or controllable 4. Despite all precautions, sufferings even still happen, if one remains calm to search for the answers, one could avoid and get over the sufferings, in a better way than otherwise.. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. Envisioned by vasdevloond, founder of cost free marriage bureau, titled Marriage Guidance New Concept incepted since 2015. Vasdevloond’s contacts are: 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com