TO BE FATHER IS A PLEASURE BUT TO OWN RESPONSIBILITIES IS AWSOME AND FULL OF MISERIES 23-6-21


23 June 2021 10:12

TO BE FATHER IS A PLEASURE BUT TO OWN RESPONSIBILTIES IS AWSOME AND FULL OF MISERIES, PERHAPS REGRETS. -WHEN ONE GETS MARRIED BOTH HUSBAND, WIFE AND FAMILIES ON BOTH SIDES WISH TO HAVE A CHILD DO PRAYERS AND ALSO GET TO MEDICAL ADVICE ETC. ETC. -WHEN THE COUPLE GETS A CHILD EVERYONE IN BOTH THE FAMILIES AS WELL HUSBAND AND WIFE FEEL PLEASED, CELEBRATE BIRTHDAYS, ENJOY WITH THE CHILD AND WIFE GETS ELATED AND HONOURED. IN FAMILY AND OUTSIDE -ALAS THIS HAPPINESS DOES NOT CONTINUE FOR LONG -MANY RESPONSIBILITIES CREEP IN AND AS SUCH THE HUSBAND STARTS FEELING FRUSTRATED DUE TO -WORKLOAD AND PROBLEMS AT -WORKPLACE -OWNING MORE RESPONSIBILITIES AT HOUSE, NEGECT BY WIFE MORE OR LESS -ADDITIONAL EXPENSES START CREATING WORRIES -THESE ADDITIONAL RESPONSIBILITIES STILL REMAIN BEARABLE AND ACCEPTABLE -THE BIGGER PROBLEM STARTS IN FAMILY AND OUTSIDE WHEN THE FEELING AND URGE OF MINE AND THINE COMES UP. -DISCUSSIONS, VARIANT VIEWPOINTS CONFLICTS START EMERGING -THUS WHAT WAS THE HAPPINESS OF HAVING A CHILD, TURNS INTO WORRIES AND WORRIES AND AT TIMES NO END TO THESE. -NOT ONLY HUSBAND REMAINS DISTURBED, WORRIED BUT ALSO STARTS BEHAVING DIFFERENTLY LOVE TURNS INTO ALOOFNESS, AVOIDANCE, REGRETS, ANGER AND MANY A TIME INTO FIGHTS AS WELL. -THESE FIGHTS DO NOT JUST END UP IN HOUSE AND FAMILY -BUT ALSO AT TIMES WITH BROTHERS SISTERS, RELATIONS ETC. -END UP MANY A TIME IN LITIGATATIONS ETC. -LUCKY ARE THOSE WHO ARE APPRECIATED AND LOVED BY THEIR CHILDREN -BUT MOSTLY LIFE OF FATHER PASSES IN WORRIES FROM WORKING TIME TO RETIREMENT AND WORST OF ALL IN OLD AGE AS WELL -IN WORRIES, HELPLESSNESS MANY A TIME FATHER THINKS WHAT WAS THE USE OF HAVING A CHILD, OWN ALL RESPONSIBILITES AND DOING SACRIFICES OF ALL SORTS, WHAT FOR AND WHY, WOULD IT NOT HAVE BEEN BETTER NOT TO HAVE A CHILD AND ENJOY THE LIFE ON MY OWN AND FOR ME AS BEST AND AS HAPPILY AS IT COULD BE POSSIBLE. -LASTLY ALL THESE WORRIES BRING AN END TO THE FATHER'S LIFE AND AS SUCH ALL HAPPINESS IS LOST. -WHAT A WONDER ONE FATHER EXISTS NO MORE, HE IS REMEMBERED IN ALL SORTS OF RITUALS AS ALSO IN DIFFULTIES AND FINALLY IS REMEMBERED IN PHOTOS PERHAPS. CONCLUSION; IF CHILD BECOMES RELIEF AND SUPPORT TO FATHER, FATHER LIVES LIFE MARVELOUSLY AND IF NOT, HIS LIFE ENDS UP IN REGRETS FIGHTS, REVENGE ETC. ETC. HENCE TO SUM UP WITH NO DENIAL TO THE FACT THAT TO BECOME AND BE A FATHER BRINGS IN HAPPINESS BUT ENDS UP MOSTLY IN RESPONSIBILTIES AND WORRIES PROVIDED THESE ARE NOT WELL PLANNED AND MANAGED. ----------------------------------- written by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau NGO, to contact vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevkiibd@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.in www.facebook.com