WHAT A PARADOX, WHAT WE HAVE WE DO NOT APPRECIATE MUCH AND WHEN IT IS LOST OR HAS DISAPPEARED, WE RESPECT AND APPRECIATE. -HARDLY ONE IS SATISFIED WITH THE PRESENT -ONE GENERALLY BROODS ON THE PAST OR ASPIRS FOR THE FUTURE. -ON THE CONTRARY, THOSE WHO LIVE THE PRESENT, AND ENJOY IT LIVE THE REALLY COMPARATIVELY HAPPILY AND AS SUCH ENJOY THE WHAT IT IS MEANT FOR. -LIFE IS FULL OF PROBLEMS AND RESPONSIBILITIES, THESE CEASE ONLY WHEN EXISTS NO MORE -THEN HOW A PERSON SHOULD TACKLE THESE, ACCEPT THESE AS DESTINY OR THE RESULT OF PAST KARMA -NEEDN’T TO SAY MUCH, EACH PROBLEM HAS A SOLUTION AND ALL THOSE WHO MAKE AN EFFORT TO ANALYSE THE REASONS FOR THE PROBLEMS, AND WORK ON VARIOUS OPTIONS BASED ON THEIR EXPERIENCE, VISION AND ARE DETERMINED TO FIND A SOLUTION, DO DEFINITELY OVERCOME THE PROBLEM AND MOSTLY REMAIN GAINFUL. -HOW TO GET OVER THE PROBLEM IS VERY EASY, AFTER HAVING ANALYSED THE REASONS AND CAUSES OF THE PROBLEMS AS TO HOW THESE HAVE COME ABOUT AND HAVE HAPPENED, AND THEREAFTER CONCENTRATE ON FINDING THE SOLUTION THAN REMAINING TENSED AND SUFFERING FROM AND ALSO WITH THE PROBLEM -HENCE ONE NEEDS TO WORK ON VARIOUS OPTIONS, WHICH WILL GO BY SERIOUSLY STUDYING THE PROBLEM. WORKING ON VARIOUS OPTIONS, THEIR PROS AND CONS, BASED ON YOUR EXPERIENCE, VISION, LOGIC ETC. -AND WHEN YOU HAVE SIPHONED OUT ONE OR TWO OUT OF VARIOUS AND MANY OPTIONS, THEN GET TO READING CERTAIN NOTES AND EXPERIENCES EXPRESSED BY THE WRITERS AND ELDERS EARLIER, AND IF YOU HAVE SOME CONFIDANTS, DISCUSS WITH THEM, TAKE THEIR VIEWS FULLY CONCENTRATED, WITHOUT ANY INTERUPTION, AND BETTER IT WILL TO JOT DOWN ALL WHAT IS SAID AND EXPLAINED. IN CASE YOU HAVE SOME DOUBTS, PUT TO THE CONFIDANT CLEARLY AND PRECISELY TO GET CLARIFATION AND ELABORATION OF HIS/HER THOUGHT(S). -ESSENTIAL ONE NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND THAT PAST IS PAST, -IT IS GONE BYE, WHATEVER HAS HAPPENED GOOD OR BAD -WILL NEVER COME BACK AND IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN, -PERHAPS IN CERTAIN CASES PERHAPS ONE HAS GAINED ALSO -TO PROFIT IN FUTURE FROM THAT EXPERIENCE BUT WHAT -DOES IT MEAN, WILL IT BE USED FOR FUTURE OR FOR THE PRESENT -IF FOR THE PRESENT, THEN ONE MUST BE CONTENTED AND HAPPY WITH THE PRESENT IT IS, WHICH HAS BEEN CLEARLY STATED AND ELABORATED THAT IT IS ESSENTIAL, ONE MUST REMAIN WITH THE PRESENT AS ONE DOES NOT WHAT WILL HAPPEN THE IN THE FUTURE AND THAT PAST CANNOT BE BROUGHT BACK, HENCE CONCLUSION COMES ABOUT THAT THOSE WE HAVE LEARNT TO REMAIN CONTENTED AND HAPPY WITH THE PRESENT, WILL NEVER AND EVER BE HAPPY AS EACH DAY WILL OPEN UP PRESENT AND HOPE FOR THE FUTURE WILL CONTINUE, WHICH IS UNKNOWN AND EVEN IF KNOWN, ONE WHAT OUTWARD CIRCUMSTANCES WILL HAPPEN TO DESTROY ALL THOSE PLANNED OR HOPED FOR THE FUTURE, ONE DOES NOT KNOW NOR THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES ARE IN HIS/HER HAND.. INCIDENTLY, LET ME NOT FORGET TO SAY IN FRANKNESS, THAT WHEN SOMETHING IS LOST, THEN WE RECALL WHAT WERE THE GOOD POINTS WHICH I DID NOT CARE AND AS SUCH I AM SUFFERING AND REALISING THE LOSS. OFTEN IT HAPPENS IN CASE OF PARENTS, WHEN THEY ARE NO MORE WE ALL REMEMBER OUR PARENTS, IF NOT EARLY, SURELY WHEN WE ARE IN DIFFICULTIES, AND IN THE WORST, IF NOT THE FATHER, MOTHER EVERYONE REMEMBERS AND RECALLS HOW MUCH KIND AND GENEROUS SHE HAD BEEN HAD BEEN AND THAT IS HOW WE IN HARD CIRCUMSTANCES HEAR EVERONE SAYING ‘HAYAI MAAN’. Conclusion; essential to remain contented with the present, as every day present will unveil, and as for future is concerned it is a hope which may get realised or totally vanished and leave you in complete distress and shattered. HENCE PRESENT IS THE REAL LIFE, FACE IT, LIVE WITH IT, MANAGE IT TO WORK OUT BETTER, AND EVEN IF NOT, BE CONTENTED AND HAPPY AND IF IT IS THE WORST, LEARN TO GO ABOUT WITH IT IN QUIET AND CALM MANNER THAN GETTTING DISTRESSED AND CURSING ONE’S DESTINY WHOLE DAY LONG.. ……………………………………………………………………………………………. Narrated by vasdevloond founder of marriage guidance new concept Cost free marriage bureau NGO, to contact vasdevloond at 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.vasdevloond@marriageguidance.in www.facebook:vasdevloond