WHEN THE CHILD IS BORN, WE FEEL HAPPY, WHEN HE/SHE IS GROWING, WE OWN RESPONSIBILITIES WHEN HE/SHE CARVES HIS/HER CAREER, WE LIVE IN HOPE AND WHEN HE/SHE MARRIES AND SETTLES DOWN IN HIS/HER OWN FAMILY, WE LONG TO MEET THEM AND SPEND A FEW DAYS TO ENJOY WITH THEIR FAMILY AND GRAND CHIDREN, AND SOON AFTER WE REACH OUR OLD AGE, WE REMAIN MORE IN HOPES THAN REALITIES, MORE IN REGRETS THAN HAPPINESS, MORE IN THE PAST THAN IN THE PRESENT, RECALL OUR HAPPY OCCASIONS AND CELEBRATIONS AND NOW LIVE OUR LIFE IN INCAPACITIES, AND IN TALKING, DISCUSSION AND IN CRITICISM AFTER ALL WHAT WE HAVE GAINED BY ALL THESE TIRELESS EFFORTS AND SACRIFICES, WHY AND WHAT FOR, WHAT WE HAVE GAINED FINALLY, BETTER PERHAPS IT WOULD HAVE BEEN, HAD WE DECIDED TO LIVE OUR LIFE IN COMFORTS AND ENJOYMENT AS WE LIKED, WITHOUT ANY RESPONSIBILITY FOR OTHERS NOR EVEN FOR CHILDREN AS WE WOULD HAVE DECIDED NOT TO EAR CHILDREN IF WE KNEW SUCH A MISERABLE AND PATHETIC LIFE WE HAVE TO LIVE IN OUR OLD AGE. -SHOULD THEN ONE HAVE CHILDREN AND WHAT FOR; IN ANSWER, IT SEEMS DESPITE ALL DIFFICULTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES, SACRIFICE AND DEPRIVING ONESELF OF LIVING A COMFORTABLE PERHAPS LUXURIOUS LIFE, STILL ONE WANTS TO HAVE CHILDREN FOR REASONS AS UNDER: 1. FEMALES HAVE AN URGE TO HAVE A CHILD 2. SHE FEELS SECURE WHEN SHE HAS A CHILD 3. SHE IS ACCLAIMED IN FAMILY, LOVED AND RESPECTED COMPARATIVELY MORE 4. POSSESSIVENESS IS URGE OF THE FEMALE, SHE DOES ALL TO BRING UP THE CHILD DESPITE UNEASINESS AT NIGHT 5. CHILD CREATES HER DREAMS AND SHE DOES ALL TO REALISE HER DREAMS FROM HER CHILDHOOD. 6. NO WONDER TO ENJOY LOVE, ACCOMPLISHMENT OF HER DREAMS, INCONVENCE AND PRIVATION WITH HER HUSBAND, TAKING ALL CARE AND DEPRIVING HERSELF OF CERTAIN FOODS, TO REMAIN CAREFUL AND NOT TO DO ANY HARD WORK ETC. SHE ACCEPTS AND SUFFERS FROM ALL TYPES OF DIFFICULTIES WITHOUT GRUMBLING AND WITHOUT HURLING ANY SORT OF ACCUSATIONS, SUFFERS ALL ALONE AND DOES ALL TO PROTECT THE CHILD DURING HER PREGNANCY AND MORESO AFTER CHILD’S BIRTH. ALAS, WHEN SOLE AND SHARED RESPONSIBILITIES AND SACRIFICES OF ALL TYPES ARE ACCEPTED, OWNED AND DISCHARGED BY PARENTS, WHEN THE CHILD OR CHILDREN DO NOT BOTHER FOR THEIR PARENTS, REGRET, REPENTANCE AND EVEN RETALIATION MOUNT ON THEM TO THINK AS TO WHAT WAS THE USE OF THEIR HAVING CHILDREN. BESIDES SUFFERING ALL OUR LIFE, EVEN IN OLD AGE WE TOO HAVETO SUFFER AND SUFFER MISERABLY. THEY FEEL THAT BY REASONS AND ARGUMENTS, IT WAS A BLUNDER WHICH WE WILL COMMIT NEVER AS AND WHEN THEY WERE REBORN EVER. THEN THERE ARE THOSE WHO DO NOT MARRY AT ALL AND PREFER TO LIVE LIFE ALONE WITHOUT ANY BONDAGE, ABANDONING AND SACRIFICING THEIR FREEDOM AND INDIVIDUALITY, BE SUBSERVIENT, DEPENDANT, RESPONSIBLE AND EVEN ANSWERABLE FROM TIMETO TIME, THEY BELIEVE AND ARGUE THAT OUR LIFE IS UNCERTAIN, WE DO NOT KNOW WHEN DEATH WILL COME ABOUT, THEN WHY NOT AND IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT WE LIVE ALONE, OWN NO RESPONSIBILITIES, WHATEVER WE EARN, WE SPEND ON OUR OWN COMFORTS AND IN THE MANNER WE WANT, WE ARE ALSO AT OUR OWN WITH WHOM TO LIVE TEMPORARILY AND LEAVE HIM/HER ANY MOMENT IF WE ARE COAXED OR DISTURBED IN ANY MANNER. FURTHER INSTEAD OF BEING BOUND AND RESTRICTED TO ONE WHETHER WE LIKE OR NOT, UNDER THE COMPULSION OF SOCIETY AND MORESO UNDER THE PRESSURE OF PARENTS, WE CONTINUE BEARING ALL SORTS RESPONSIBITIES, ABSUSES AND SUFFER OUR WHOLE LIFE, WHAT FOR, WERE WE BORN TO LIVE WHOLE LIFE IN MISERIES AND IN SUFFERANCE AND WERE NEVER DESTINED TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE, IN THE MANNER WE WANT, WITHOUT BEING ANSWERABLE TO ANYONE. LET IT NOT BE FORGOTTEN THAT LIFE IS SHORT, IF WE ARE BORN AND LIVE ON THIS EARTH, THEN IT IS ESSENTIAL WE ENJOY OUR LIFE AND LIVE AS HAPPILY AS WE CAN, WITHOUT ANY BURDEN AND WITHOUT ANY RESPONSIBILITY. BEFORE IT IS ARGUED, WHO IS RIGHT AND WHO IS WRONG, DESPITE ALL RESPONSIBILITIES AND SUFFERANCES THERE ARE MANY COUPLES WHO LIVE A COMFORTABLE AND ENJOYABLE HAPPY COUPLE LIFE. THEY FULFILL NOT ONLY THEIR POSSESSIVENES, BUT ENJOY LOVE WITH AND FROM THEIR CHILDREN, REALISE THEIR DREAMS THROUGH THEIR CHILDREN, TRY TO LIVE A CORDIAL AND SHARING LIFE IN ORDER THAT CHILDREN DO NOT GET DISTURBED IN THEIR STUDIES, CAREER AND LEARN ALL TYPES OF MORALS AS WHEN THESE CHILDREN WILL GET MARRIED, THEY WILL DEFINITELY TAKE CUE FROM US AND WILL MANAGE TO LIVE A GENIAL AND HAPPY LIFE AS A FAMILY AS ALSO AS A COUPLE. SUCH PARENTS PREPARE FOR THEIR OLD AGE ON THEIR OWN AND MANAGE TO KEEP THE BEST RELATIONS WITH THEIR SONS AND DAUGHTERS AND ALSO WITH THEIR FAMILIES, AS SUCH THEY ENJOY THEIR LIFE IN RELATIONSHIP AS ALSO ALONE ON THEIR OWN WITHOUT ANY BURDEN TO ANYONE. IT IS GENERALLY SAID THERE IS NO GAIN WITHOUT SOME LOSS, THERE IS NOT ONLY DAY OR NIGHT, BOTH GO TOGETHER AND ENJOY THEIR TIME IN PEACE AND TOLERANCE. LIKEWISE SOME MAY THINK THAT CHILDREN ARE A BURDEN, NOT TO DEPEND ON THEM AT ALL, MNAGE OUR OWN AFFAIRS OURSELVES, IN MARRIAGE THERE ARE MANY ISSUES, MANY DIVORCES ARE TAKING, LEAVING BEHIND ALL SORT OF ACCUSATIONS AND TO LIVE LIFE IN PITIABLE CONDITION AND MORESO UNCERTAINTIES NOT KNOWING IF REMARRIED, WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO US AFTERWARD, ADJUSTMENT, COERCION, COMMANDING AND EMPLOYING ALL SORTS OF MEANS TO FORCE SUBMISSION. HENCE AS A RESULT THEREOF, IT IS BETTER NOT TO MARRY AND NOT REPENT EITHER. IN REALITY IT IS NOT CORRECT TO THINK LIKE THIS AND THAT NOT TO MARRY, IT IS JUST A DECEPTION IN IGNORANCE MOST PROBABLY, THE FACT REMAINS MAN IS A SOCIAL BEING, HE/SHE NEEDS THE COMPANY OF OTHRS WHICH ENFORCES TOLERANCE AND ADJUSTMENT, SO HAPPENS BY WORKING IN OFFICE WHEREIN UNDERSTANDING AND ADJUSTMENT BECOME ESSENTIAL TO PERFORM CORRECTLY AND IN CORDIALITY, WHY SO, BECAUSE ONE NEEDS SOME INCOME TO LIVE BY AND AS SUCH ACCEPTANCE AND ADJUST BECOME ESSENTIAL TO LOSE SOME LIBERTY AND SO- CALLED INDIVIDULITY AS WELL. AS SUCH SAME IS THE SITUATION IN AND AFTER MARRIAGE WHICH REQUIRES ADJUSTMENT, CARING AND SHARING TO LIVE A CORDIAL AND WORKING RELATIONSHIP. 2. FURTHER IT IS THE URGE OF ALL HUMAN BEINGS TO LIVE IN AND ENJOY AS MUCH COMFORT AS POSSIBLE AND FOR WHICH ONE CONTINUES STRUGGLING WHOLE OF ONE’S LIFE 3. WHEN EXCESS HAPPENS, ONE NEEDS TO LEAVE IT TO SOMEONE, NEITHER CAN CARRY WITH HIM/HER WHEN DYING NOR WOULD LIKE TO LEAVE IT TO THE GOVERNMENT, HIS/HER URGE REMAINS TO LEAVE IT TO SOMEONE OF HIS OWN BY ALL MEANS, HENCE STANDS THE NECESSITY TO HAVE CHILDREN. TO HAVE CHILDREN IS NOT TOTALLY BAD, WHAT GENERALLY IS REQUIRED FOR THE UPBRINGING OF THE CHILDREN, PARENTS UNDER PRESSURE OF WORK, NEGLECT THE CARE AND UPBRINGING OF THEIR CHILDREN WHICH CONSIST IN 1. TO SPEND SOME TIME WITH THE CHILDREN 2. ASK FROM THEM THEIR DAY’S ISSUES WHICH COULD BE IN STUDIES, WITH TEACHERS, WITH COLLEAGUES ETC. ETC. 3. ESEENTIAL FOR PARENTS ESPECIALLY FOR FATHER TO GIVE ANSWER AND GUIDE THEM ABOUT THEIR FURTHER COURSE OF ACTION. 4. NEXT DAY TO EVALUATE. DO CORRECTIONS IF NEEDED, INFUSE CONFIDENCE IN THE CHILDREN THAT THEIR FATHER IS THERE TO TALK TO AND GET SOLUTION TO THEIR PROBLEMS, WORRY PERHAPS. 5. ESSENTIAL IS ALSO THAT MOTHER OR FATHER DOES NECESSARILY ATTEND THE STUDENTS AND TEACHERS MEET TO LISTEN IN GENERAL AND IN PARTICULAR ABOUT HIS/HER CHILDREN AND TAKE TEACHER’S ADVICE THEREFOR 6. ENSURE THAT PARENTS LIVE IN HARMONY AND IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER AS ALSO IN CARING AND SHARING OF EACH ONE’S DUTIRES AND RESPONSIBILITIES WHICH WILL SET AN EXAMPLE FOR THE CHILDREN TO LOVE EACH OTHER AND SHARE EACH OTHER’S BURDEN IN LOVE AND IN TOGETHERNES. PARENTS AS IT IS SAID ARE THE FOUNDATION OF THEIR CHILDREN, THE TIME, CARE, PARENTS OWN BEHAVIOUR, ACCOMMODATING, TOLERATING EACH OTHER AND IF NECESSARY TO MOULD ONESELF RATHER THAN EXPECT OR IMPOSE ON THE OTHER WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE OR BEHAVED, DO ALL THESE NOT ONLY INFLUENE BUT SHAPES THE PERSONALITY OF THE CHILD. IN NUTSHELL IF PARENTS DO ALL WHAT IS STATED ABOVE AND MORE IF THEY LIKE AND FIND DESIRABE, IT IS BUT EVIDENT THAT SUCH PARENTS WILL ENJOY LOVE, CARE AND HAPPINESS FROM AND WITH THEIR CHILDREN WHOLE OF THEIR LIFE, INCLUDING THEIR OLD AGE AS WELL. Conclusion: it is good and necessary to have children, what is essential is that parents exhibit love to their children, solve their day to day issues, remain available as and when needed, ensure accommodation and acceptance as each one is et.etc. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. 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