WORRY NEVER WORRY NEVER, SEARCH FOR THE ANSWER, OF COURSE, BY ANALSING VARIOUS OPTIONS, NEVER DELAY DECISION AS OTHERWISE MANY A TIME THINGS GET WORST, UNCONTROLLABLE AND RESULT IN PILING UP WORRIES WITHOUT MANY A TIME WITH NO ANSWER. IF SUCH A SITUATON CONTINUES FOR A LONGER PERIOD, THE ISSUE WILL BECOME BIGGER AND BIGGER AND GRADUALLY POSSIBLY WILL COST THE HEALTH AND PERHAPS EVENTUALLY BRING LIFE TO AN END. .. QUESTION ARISES IF ALL THIS HAPPENS, THE PERSON CONCERNED IS NO MORE ALIVE AND THE PROBLEM IS LEFT FOR THE FAMILY TO FACE AND PUT AN END TO IT, RIGHT OR WRONG... IF THAT IS SO, THEN WHY IT NOT SETTLED WHEN THE ELDER/CONCERNED PERSON OF THE FAMILY WAS ALIVE. ... ADVICE: WHEN A PROBLEM BECOMES A WORRY, IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT ALL MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY WHO ARE APT TO REFLECT AND ADVISE, SIT TOGETHER, PUT FORWARD THEIR VIEWS , TAKE A DECISION AND ALL STAND UNITED TO TACKLE THE SITUATION AND AS SUCH EVEN IF THE PROBLEM IS NOT SETTLED, AT LEAST SURELY THE WORRY WILL GET DILUTED AND ALL ATTENTON WILL BE DIRECTED TOWARDS SOLVING THE PROBLEM THAN REMAINING BOGGED DOWN WITH WORRY. tks