-LIFE IS PAINFUL -ALMOST EVERYONE LIVES WORRIED AND PAINFUL LIFE WHILE 10% MAYBE LIVE IN HAPPINESS OR CELEBRATING ON HAPPY OCCASIONS -EVERYONE FACES WORRIES TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE, GET MARRIED TO A LOVING AND BEAUTIFUL WIFE VICE VERSA GET TO A COVETED JOB AND/OR GETTING INTO BUSINESS OF HIS/HER LIKING - HAVE CHIDREN TO BRING PROMINENCE TO HIS/HER FAMILY AND TO LIVE A HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL LIFE - ALAS IT NEVER HAPPENS, HENCE THE WORRIES TURN OUT MAJOR PART OF WORRIES WITH ALMOST EVERYONE - NOW QUESTION ARISES AS TO HOW TO OVERCOME SUCH WORRIES - MOST OF THE PERSONS SAY THAT WORRIES ARE PART OF LIFE WHEN WE LIVE IN THIS WORD WHICH MEANS THEY WILL REMAIN WORRIED ALL THE TIME AND SPEND HIS/HER LIFE IN RESPONSIBILITIES AND DUTIES AS WELL - IN ANSWER, I WILL SAY THAT IF ONE WISHES, THINKS ABOUT ANSWERS, GETS INTO ACTION FOR SOLUTIONS, ONE CAN REMAIN HAPPY MOST OF THE TIME RATHER THAN REMAINING WORRIED ALL THE TIME. - QUESTION ARISES HOW TO DO IT? - ANSWER TO MY MIND APPEARS TO BE 1. BE CONSCIOUS, DO WORRIES BRING IN GAIN OR LOSS AND QUICKLY ONE WILL REALISE THAT MOSTLY WORRIES BRING IN LOSS OF HAPPINESS AND RELATIONSHIPS. 2. BELIEVE EACH PROBLEM HAS AN ANSWER, HENCE NEVER PERTURBED BY WORRIES, LOOK INTO SEARCH FOR ANSWERS 3. TURN THIS THINKING AND EXERCISE INTO ATTITUDE 4. IF SOMEHOW THE ANSWERS THOUGHT OFF DO NOT BRING THE DESIRED HAPPINESS ANALYSE AS TO WHAT WENT WRONG WHAT WAS MISSED IN WORKING OUT THE ANSWERS, WHAT HAS BEEN MISSED ETC. WHAT WOULD HAVE BEEN THOUGHT OF DONE 5. AFTER EXERCISING SUCH PRACTICE OF ANALYSING AT EVERY STAGE, WILL TURN INTO AN ATTITUDE AND HABIT NOT TO GET WORRIED AND BE KEEN TO FIND ANSWER. 6. EXPERIENCE AND SUCCESS WILL BRING IN THE CONFIDENCE IN ONESELF, NEVER TO BE SHATTERED BY WORRIES AND INSTEAD ENGAGE ONESELF TO FIND ANSWERS, BELIEVING THAT THESE ARE THE ANSWERS WHICH GIVE SOLUTION AND BRIING IN THE DESIRED HAPPINESS. …………………………………………………………………………………………….. Envisioned by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau, operating since 2015, helps in giving contacts and guidance to the desiring espouses for marriage as to how to live a happy married life. Can be contacted through; 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.in, facebook. www. vasdevloond