TO LIVE ALONE, IS NOT AN EASY ONE

    -AKELAI REHNA KOYEE AIHSAN HAI NAHIN

    -AKELA JEEVAN TO BEETAYA JATA HAI

    -JAB TAK JAVANEE AATEE NAHIN < .....Read more

            VICES ARE THE WORST, THESE MUST BE ELEMINATED AT ALL COSTS

-TO START WITH, LET ME EXPLAIN THAT HABITS AND VICES ARE NOT THE

 SAME.

-HABITS RELATE TO GOOD OR BAD AS PER SOCIETY, FREIENDS RELATIONS,

 FAMILY ETC. WHILE VICES ARE INDIVI .....Read more

WE DECEIVE OURSELVES AND PRACTICALLY ALL THE TIME

REMAIN IN DECEPTION JUST TO CARE FOR THE SOCIETY TO

BE ADMIRED ALWAYS, WITH LEAST CONSIDERATION FOR

OURSELVES.

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WE DO ALL TO SHOW OFF TO OTHERS AS TO HOW MUCH RICH AND IMPORTANT WE ARE.

ADVANTAGES ARE;

1. WE ARE KNOWN IN SOCIETY, WELL RECEIVED AND WELL RESPECTED AND IF NEED ARIISES

    INFLUENCE AND CONTCTS ARE USED TO GET OUR WORK DONE.

DISADVANTAGES ARE MANY;Read more

                         MONOTONY

-MONOTONY IS THE RESULT OF OUR UNHAPPINESS

 AND FATIGUE WITH WHAT ONE IS DOING DAILY IN ROUTINE

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WHY WE GET ANGRY, WHAT ARE THE REASONS 1. DESPITE REPEATED REPRIMANDS, THE PERSON DOES NOT BEHAVE/WORKS AS WE WANT AND/OR IT IS DESIRED. 2. WE DO NOT AGREE TO THE VIEWPOINTS OF SOMEONE WHILE HE/SHE CONTINUES INSISTING ON THAT HE/SHE IS RIGHT BY INVOKING VARIOUS REASONS AND STICKING TO THOSE. 3. WHEN WE CALL A PERSON, HE/SHE DOES NOT BOTHER. 4, PAST AND SAME SUBJECT IS REPEATED AGAIN AND AGAIN 5. WE GET .....Read more

NEVER GET ANNOYED WITH ANYONE NOR BREAK RELATIONS WITH ANYONE WHY SUCH A THINKING AND ADVICE? WHEN SOMEONE DOES NOT DO WHAT WE ASK FOR, SOME IRRITATE US WITH THEIR OWN WAY OF THINKING AND WORKING, CHANGE NEVER, RATHER ARGUE THAT HE/SHE KNOWS BETTER WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO DO, SOME WITHOUT ANY FAULT OF OURS, BURST OUT ANGER OF OTHERS ON US SOON AS WE SAY OR OFFER SOME SUGGESTION ETC, SOMETIME ALSO WHEN ONE IS IN BA .....Read more

TRUST IS AN ESSENTIAL PART OF LIFE AS OTHERWISE ONE WILL JUST LIVE ALONE, TRUST NONE, MEET NONE, DOUBT EVERYONE AND BE SCEPTIC ALL THE TIME WHAT ONE TALKS, WHAT ONE DOES, HOW ONE BEHAVES ETC. ETC. IN REAL LIFE WE NEED TRUST AND USE IT IN ALL SPHERES OF LIFE, WHEN WE MARRY, WE TRUST AS HUSBAND AND WIFE, WE HAVE CHILDREN, WE TRUST THEM. WE ENGAGE EMPLOYEES, EVEN AT HIGHER LEVERL AS DIRECTORS, PARTNERS, ASSOCIATES, WE TRUST THEM, WE LEAVE IN MANY .....Read more

EVERYONE WHEN TAKES ANY DECISION, AS PER HIS/HER THINKING AND JUDGEMENT, THE DECISION TAKEN OR BEING TAKEN IS THE BEST ONE UNDER THE PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES AND BY ALL CALCULATIONS AND REFLEXIONS BUT PARADOXICALLY LATER ON AFTER SOME TIME THIS PARTICUAR DECISION PROVES WRONG. -It is a fact and is true also, decisions as taken by parents are criticized by their children many a time when the decision taken at a particular time by parents .....Read more

ALAS THIS WORLD WHICH WAS FULL OF LOVE HAS BECOME CALLOUS, UNSYMPETHETIC AND CRUEL PERHAPS -LOVE WHICH USED TO BE LIFE LONG HAS TURNED INTO FRAGILE AND UNTENABLE AND NOT TRUSTWORTHY PERHAPS -A STAGE HAS COME WHEREBY EVEN THE NEIGHBROURERS DO NOT WISH TO ACQUAINT MUCH OF EACH OTHER AND USUALLY SAY HELLO IN THE LIFTS AND/OR SOMEWHERE THEY CROSS BY -WHEN FOR CENTURIES WE HAVE BEEN PREACHED AND HAVE LIVED WITH LOVE, WHY HAS HAPPENED .....Read more

WIFE COMMANDS MORE THAN THE HUSBAND, THEN WHY DOES SHE GRUMBLE, IS THE QUESTION -PERHAPS SHE IS NOT CONSCIOUS OF THAT -PERHAPS SHE GETS BURDENED WITH WORK ESPECIALLY WHEN WORKING AND TAKING CARE OF HOUSEHOLD -PERHAPS RESPONSIBILITIES ARE NOT BEINGSHARED BY THE HUSBAND IN REPLY: -IF HUSBAND MAKES AN EFFORT TO EXPLAIN THAT HIS JOB IS EARNING, MAKE PROGRESS IN CAREER, AND BRING IN MORE MONEY FOR WELFARE OF THE FAMILY AND IN PARTI .....Read more

WHAT IS LIFE, WHAT IS ITS PURPOSE, HOW IT IS SPENT HOW IT ENDS AND HOW IT IS REMEMBERED PERHAPS FOR A SHORT PERIOD. WE COME WEAPING AND GO WEAPING I DO NOT KNOW WHY TO COME WEAPING, PERHAPS TO REMAIN IN MOTHER’S WOMB WAS BETTER THAN COMING OUT THEN QUESTION ARISES WHY WEAPING AT THE END OF LIFE, IT IS PERHAPS ONE DOES NOT WANT TO REACH AN END OF HIS/HER LIFE, PERHAPS THINKS THERE ARE MANY JOBS LEFT UNDONE,WHICH NEED HIM/HER TO .....Read more

HOW TO MAKE LIFE BETTER? -ALMOST EVERYONE ASPIRES TO ACHIEVE -PROGRESS -PROMINENCE -APPRECIATION -GOOD HEALTH -HAPPY FAMILY LIFE -CHILDREN ARE PROMISING AND ARE WELL SETTLED -STRUGGLE GOES ON PRATICALLY BY EVERYONE WHOLE OF ONE’S LIFE TO ACHIEVE THESE. -HOWEVER TO ACHIEVE THESE GOALS AND ASPIRATIONS FOLLOWING PARAMETERS ARE ESSENTIAL - INTELLIG .....Read more

LIFE IS A JOURNEY -IT CAN BE ROUGH -IT CAN BE SOFT -IT CAN BE STRAIGHT -IT CAN BE ROUNDABOUT -IT CAN BE A PUZZLE -HOW LIFE WILL TURN UP -MOSTLY IT IS SHARPENED BY EDUCATION, -ALSODEPENDS ON HOW MUCH BRIGHT ONE IS ALREADY -IN WHAT STANDARD AND IN HOW MANY MARKS ONE PASSES OUT IN VARIOUS EXAMS -ALL SUCH PARAMETERS GENERALLY DETERMINE THE FUTURE COURSE OF LIFE -BASED ON THIS, SOME SHAPE UP LIFE IN GETTING INTO CAREER .....Read more

SHOULD THE WORKERS BE COMPELLED TO WORK FROM OFFICE OR FROM HOME OR BYBRID -WORKING FROM HOME GIVES COMPANIES FINANCIAL ADVANTAGES AS ALSO TO CUT OFF SOME SOCIAL AID FACILITIES -BUT THERE ARE DISADVANTAGES TOO DUE TO -LACK OF CONCENTRATION -NO DISCUSSION AND NO GUIDANCE HOW TO SOLVE CERTAIN UNRESOLVED QUERIES -NO GROWTH AND ELEVATION OF KNOWLEDGE -NO MOTIVATION BY BEING ALWAYS IN THE SAME ENVIRONMENT -ALLOWS TO WORK SHABILY P .....Read more

THE LIFE LONG LASTING FRIEND FINALLY REMAINS THE WIFE AND NONE ELSE -IT IS SAID DOST DOST NAN RAHA, PYAR PYAR NAN RAHA ZINDGEE HAMAIN TERA ITEBAR NAN RAHA -DOSTON KEE DOSTEE MAIN KAHA GAYA HAI KEH VOH DOST JO SCHOOL AUR COLLEGE MAIN BANTAI HAIN -YA USS SAI BHEE PEHLAI KHEL KOOD MAIN BANTAI HAIN -VOH GENERALLY EVERLASTING DOST HOTAI HAIN -AUR ISS LIYAI UNHAI CHUM KEHTAI HAIN -LEKIN BAAD MAIN JO DOST BANTAI HAIN -AAM TAUR PAR .....Read more

LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE AND UNRELIABLE -LIFE IS A JOURNEY AND WE ALL ARE IN TRANSIT -SOME FALL, SOME ARE CRUSHED WHILE SOME MOVE ON AND MAKE PROGRESS - SOME FIGHT AND SOME LIVE IN LOVE - SOME REMAIN IN JEALOUSIES AND EGO - SOME LIVE IN THEIR SELF ESTEEM, SELF PROMINENCE AND TO CONTROL THE WORLD OVER - SOME WAGE INTO WAR, DESTROY ALL WORNDERS WHICH HUMAN BEINGS HAVE DEVELOPED SO FAR, WHAT FOR AND WHY - SIMPLY TO BE REMEMBERED .....Read more

WHAT A PATHETIC STORY OF HUSBAND AND WIFE AFTER SEPARATION -KYA HUA, ACHANAK KISSI BAAT PER HUSBAND AND WIFE KA JHAGRA HUA -ITNA ZIADA HUA KEH BEEVI HUSBAND KA GHAR CHHOR KAR APNAI MAN BAAP KAI GHAR MAIN CHALEE GAYEE -KAYEE MAHEENAI SHAYAD SAAL BHEE BEET GAI VO PHIR VAPAS NAHIN AYEE KABHEE -EK DIN KYA KHYAL AYA USSAI, KYON, KAISAI YEH PATA NAHIN -LEKIN ITNA PATA HAI ZAROOR KEH VOH APNAI PATEE KAI GHAR AA PAHUNCHEE -JAB DEK .....Read more

WORRIES OF MAN NEVER END, WHY IT IS SO AND WHAT ARE THE CAUSES? -THE BIGGEST CAUSES FOR WORRIES SEEM TO BE -HOPES, DREAMS, ILL-HEALTH, HANDICAPS, POVERTY, SECURING JOB AND SECURITY, PROMOTIONS AND AND PROGRESS THEREOF, MARRIAGE BUT NO CONFLICTS, TO HAVE CHILDREN OBEDIENT, RESPECTFUL AND TO EARN NAME AND GET WELL SETTLED, ENJOY THE LIFE IN TOGETHERNESS AND IN HAPPINESS TILL THE END, AND IF THE END COMES EVER, BETTER TO .....Read more

BRIDE TURNS OUT JEWEL IN IN IN-LAWS HOUSE -WHAT A WONDER, HOW IT HAPPENED, IT IS SURPRISING -WE HAVE NEVER HEARD ABOUT SUCH A SUCCESSFUL SITUATION -WHILE ON THE CONTRARY HAVE HEARD A LOT OF STORIES ABOUT THE CONFLICTS BETWEEN MOTHER IN-LAW AND THE DAUGHTER IN-LAW -HOW THIS GIRL SUCCEEDED, LET ME NARRATE A FEW INSTANCES AS TO HOW IT IS POSSIBLE AND HOW THIS GIRL NOT ONLY SUCCEEDED IN CREATING AMICABLE RELATIONSHIP BUT WORDERFUL .....Read more

MOTHER’S DIALOGUE AND ADVICE TO HER DAUGHTER BEFORE HER DAUGHTER’S MARRIAGE -IT IS NATURAL, EVERY GIRL PASSES THIS PHASE OF FEAR AND HAPPINESS -HAPPINESS IN THE SENSE THAT SHE IS GETTING MARRIED -WORRIED BECAUSE SHE WILL BE STEPPING INTO UNKNOWN AS TO HOW HER HUSBAND WOULD BEHAVE AFTER MARRIAGE HOW HER MOTHER IN-LAW AND REST OF THE MEMBERS -WHAT WILL BE THEIR WAY OF LIFE AND WHAT WILL BE THEIR ATTITUDES ETC. ETC. -BESIDES .....Read more

SEARCH FOR SOULMATE BY THE GIRL AND THE PARENTS -THE GIRL SOON FOUND HER SOULMATE -BOTH CAME TOGETHER TO GIRL’S HOUSE -PARENTS GOT INTO PLEASANTRY AND DISCUSSION TO KNOW ABOUT AND FAMILIARISE THEMSELVES ABOUT THE BOY’S BACKGROUND, SO ALSO OF HIS FAMILY AS WELL -AFTER SATISFYING HIS INITIAL CURIOSITY ABOUT THE BOY -FATHER DROVE TO BOY’S HOUSE ACCOMPANIED BY HIS DAUGHTER AND THE BOY -BESIDES ON WAY TO DROP, THE FATHER ENGAG .....Read more

PHOOL AUR KAANTAI -kYA HAI RITSTA INKA -ITNAI PYAR KA AUR HAI -ITNEE GAHRAEE MAIN BHEE -JAHAN AUR KOYEE MISAL AISI MILTEE HEE NAHIN -CHAHTA HAI AUR KARTA HAR PARKAR KEE KOSHISH PHOOL KO BARA HONAI MAIN USKEE SUGANDEE KO DIN BADIN BARHANAI MAIN HEE -KHYAL APNA KARTAI NAHEEN YEH KANTAI KABHEE -DAI DETAI HAIN SAAREE TAKAT PHOOL KO HEE -NAN SOCHTAI HAIN KABHEE -AUR NAN SOCH MAIN AATA HAI KABHEE -SOOKH JATAI HAIN YEH KANTAI .....Read more

Both are worst I think, both need reflexion why, what was the purpose of marriage and what will be the consequences if divorce happens. (2) Also should one continue with estranged relationship or better divorce? Both stages are the worst, can one mend and avoid, live with it or decide to break. Answer: I feel divorce one should think of o .....Read more